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Understanding Aries Reactions in Relationship Conflicts
Aries men may react strongly when they feel misunderstood or accused. Apologies can help, but patience is key. Clear communication and giving them space often improve the situation. Reflect on your approach to avoid misunderstandings in future interactions.
Lmao!!
You have to relax more geez.. let's hope he isn't pissed off.
How long did he not talk to you, for you to go off on him for?
Bless his lil heart.
Again, why I like fire signs
Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Lmao!!You have to relax more geez.. let's hope he isn't pissed off.
How long did he not talk to you, for you to go off on him for?
Like 24 hrs but it was more of the fact that he was online but couldn't respond to me. It's cool. Though tbh if he calls he calls if not on to the next one. It is what it is. I was furious lol. Omg I had never. Been so upset
I feel like is was wasting my time and I don't like that. AT ALL, I'm not cool with that. So I told him and got this back.
At this point he probaly isn't going to respond I don't care.
Posted by HarleyTwinFlame
Lmao!!You have to relax more geez.. let's hope he isn't pissed off.
How long did he not talk to you, for you to go off on him for?
Like 24 hrs but it was more of the fact that he was online but couldn't respond to me. It's cool. Though tbh if he calls he calls if not on to the next one. It is what it is. I was furious lol. Omg I had never. Been so upset
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Hmm..24 hrs is kinda weird.. but give him a chance to explain himself if he calls.
Maybe he just needed sometime alone.
24 hours that's it?
His response of "sorry" seems genuine. He didn't want to hurt your feelings, Time is never wasted. It is spent learning. I doubt he will be pissed if you apologized, but maybe in the future calm down a bit. Everyone isn't out to get you or waste your time.
Posted by spur
24 hours that's it?His response of "sorry" seems genuine. He didn't want to hurt your feelings, Time is never wasted. It is spent learning. I doubt he will be pissed if you apologized, but maybe in the future calm down a bit. Everyone isn't out to get you or waste your time.
Well.. hopefully. He does.
Leo and their yearning for attention from the one they love. I've had a love/hate relationship with it.
Posted by Libramiss
Lol at "babyboo" awww. 😄His message does seem genuine. Aries men take their work seriously and he did apologize and explained he was busy with work.
He doesn't seem upset and you apologized also so it's probably all good. 😄
Lol. Well he hasn't responded to any of my messages so I don't know if he's just THAT busy or he blocked my number or what. But I've stepped off. So at this point it is what it is I'm not going to beg anyone.
Posted by Libramiss
Lol at "babyboo" awww. 😄His message does seem genuine. Aries men take their work seriously and he did apologize and explained he was busy with work.
He doesn't seem upset and you apologized also so it's probably all good. 😄
Lol. Well he hasn't responded to any of my messages so I don't know if he's just THAT busy or he blocked my number or what. But I've stepped off. So at this point it is what it is I'm not going to beg anyone.
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I feel like if he read this post he'd be like, "Dude, WTF? I WAS WORKING." In any case this relationship doesn't show signs of long term stability so I'd probably come up with as many images of him ignoring you as your imagination can muster so you have the strength to end it sooner than later.
Posted by Libramiss
Lol at "babyboo" awww. 😄His message does seem genuine. Aries men take their work seriously and he did apologize and explained he was busy with work.
He doesn't seem upset and you apologized also so it's probably all good. 😄
Lol. Well he hasn't responded to any of my messages so I don't know if he's just THAT busy or he blocked my number or what. But I've stepped off. So at this point it is what it is I'm not going to beg anyone.
I feel like if he read this post he'd be like, "Dude, WTF? I WAS WORKING." In any case this relationship doesn't show signs of long term stability so I'd probably come up with as many images of him ignoring you as your imagination can muster so you have the strength to end it sooner than later.
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Not too busy to be online though. I've said all I had to say he responded but I'm done talking once I'm done I'm done. I'm giving allll this effort with nothing to return once you've fallen back on your word one too many times I am doneeee. Lol. I didn't respond. Idgaf
Where's the pic you was gonna post?
Posted by Libramiss
Lol at "babyboo" awww. 😄His message does seem genuine. Aries men take their work seriously and he did apologize and explained he was busy with work.
He doesn't seem upset and you apologized also so it's probably all good. 😄
Lol. Well he hasn't responded to any of my messages so I don't know if he's just THAT busy or he blocked my number or what. But I've stepped off. So at this point it is what it is I'm not going to beg anyone.
I feel like if he read this post he'd be like, "Dude, WTF? I WAS WORKING." In any case this relationship doesn't show signs of long term stability so I'd probably come up with as many images of him ignoring you as your imagination can muster so you have the strength to end it sooner than later.
Not too busy to be online though. I've said all I had to say he responded but I'm done talking once I'm done I'm done. I'm giving allll this effort with nothing to return once you've fallen back on your word one too many times I am doneeee. Lol. I didn't respond. Idgaf
So... What if he's online?
Don't chase guys.. Especially not aries...They live for that stuff.
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I can see that not me. I'm done.
Posted by Ssuperman
Where's the pic you was gonna post?
How can I post the second one??
Posted by Ssuperman
Where's the pic you was gonna post?How can I post the second one??
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Never saw the 1st one
Posted by Libramiss
Lol at "babyboo" awww. 😄His message does seem genuine. Aries men take their work seriously and he did apologize and explained he was busy with work.
He doesn't seem upset and you apologized also so it's probably all good. 😄
Lol. Well he hasn't responded to any of my messages so I don't know if he's just THAT busy or he blocked my number or what. But I've stepped off. So at this point it is what it is I'm not going to beg anyone.
I feel like if he read this post he'd be like, "Dude, WTF? I WAS WORKING." In any case this relationship doesn't show signs of long term stability so I'd probably come up with as many images of him ignoring you as your imagination can muster so you have the strength to end it sooner than later.
Not too busy to be online though. I've said all I had to say he responded but I'm done talking once I'm done I'm done. I'm giving allll this effort with nothing to return once you've fallen back on your word one too many times I am doneeee. Lol. I didn't respond. Idgaf
So... What if he's online?
Don't chase guys.. Especially not aries...They live for that stuff.
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Thats not completely true. At some point if the person doesn't seem interested. I stop chasing. So if they really are. They must step up. Other wise I won't out of respect. Strange what the other posters are saying too. If I don't like a woman, or don't really see a connection. I just tell them that. If I do I will chase, but if she doesn't seem interested as per above I just won't bother her. I also don't understand where the Aries chasing reputation comes from. I can count the women on one hand that I have actually chased. My personal motto is: "brute force is pointless" or "Love is passive" you can't force someone to like you. So in general chasing is kind of stupid. A little is okay, but you gotta have self respect and that applies to both male and female. So men shouldn't chase either.
Honestly I think the OP is the one being childish. Aries are independent. If you're looking to be overly possessive than an Aries is probably not right for you. Like if you expect him to tell you whats going every hour on the hour. He will just find that really annoying. If you can't give him space it is probably best for you personally to find someone that is more compatible for you.
Posted by Libramiss
Lol at "babyboo" awww. 😄His message does seem genuine. Aries men take their work seriously and he did apologize and explained he was busy with work.
He doesn't seem upset and you apologized also so it's probably all good. 😄
Lol. Well he hasn't responded to any of my messages so I don't know if he's just THAT busy or he blocked my number or what. But I've stepped off. So at this point it is what it is I'm not going to beg anyone.
I feel like if he read this post he'd be like, "Dude, WTF? I WAS WORKING." In any case this relationship doesn't show signs of long term stability so I'd probably come up with as many images of him ignoring you as your imagination can muster so you have the strength to end it sooner than later.
Not too busy to be online though. I've said all I had to say he responded but I'm done talking once I'm done I'm done. I'm giving allll this effort with nothing to return once you've fallen back on your word one too many times I am doneeee. Lol. I didn't respond. Idgaf
So... What if he's online?
Don't chase guys.. Especially not aries...They live for that stuff.
Thats not completely true. At some point if the person doesn't seem interested. I stop chasing. So if they really are. They must step up.
Um. Obviously.
That's not the case here with the OP.
She's interested and she's doing the chasing.
1+1= something's wrong
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Maybe he is angry and needs to cool off. It might seem like they disappear or are busy, but really he might not want to get angry at her, and may come back. Who knows. If a person gives up that easy though it's probably for the best anyway.
Posted by Libramiss
Lol at "babyboo" awww. 😄His message does seem genuine. Aries men take their work seriously and he did apologize and explained he was busy with work.
He doesn't seem upset and you apologized also so it's probably all good. 😄
Lol. Well he hasn't responded to any of my messages so I don't know if he's just THAT busy or he blocked my number or what. But I've stepped off. So at this point it is what it is I'm not going to beg anyone.
I feel like if he read this post he'd be like, "Dude, WTF? I WAS WORKING." In any case this relationship doesn't show signs of long term stability so I'd probably come up with as many images of him ignoring you as your imagination can muster so you have the strength to end it sooner than later.
Not too busy to be online though. I've said all I had to say he responded but I'm done talking once I'm done I'm done. I'm giving allll this effort with nothing to return once you've fallen back on your word one too many times I am doneeee. Lol. I didn't respond. Idgaf
So... What if he's online?
Don't chase guys.. Especially not aries...They live for that stuff.
Thats not completely true. At some point if the person doesn't seem interested. I stop chasing. So if they really are. They must step up.
Um. Obviously.
That's not the case here with the OP.
She's interested and she's doing the chasing.
1+1= something's wrong
Maybe he is angry and needs to cool off. It might seem like they disappear or are busy, but really he might not want to get angry at her, and may come back. Who knows. If a person gives up that easy though it's probably for the best anyway.
He probably sees her as clingy and demanding. If he likes her and she gives him space he might come around but if this shocked him and it made him realize she's too clingy for him I doubt he would chase her. 😛
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Yup, I am an Aries so I agree. I don't mind if a woman chases a bit I like that sometimes, but being too dependent on me will scare me away for sure. I know that is only because we are aware of how independent we are and we just know it will not work out in that case. It would not be a healthy relationship for either.
Why are people like you allowed to date?
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Why are people like you allowed to date?
Stfu.
Posted by Libramiss
Lol at "babyboo" awww. 😄His message does seem genuine. Aries men take their work seriously and he did apologize and explained he was busy with work.
He doesn't seem upset and you apologized also so it's probably all good. 😄
Lol. Well he hasn't responded to any of my messages so I don't know if he's just THAT busy or he blocked my number or what. But I've stepped off. So at this point it is what it is I'm not going to beg anyone.
I feel like if he read this post he'd be like, "Dude, WTF? I WAS WORKING." In any case this relationship doesn't show signs of long term stability so I'd probably come up with as many images of him ignoring you as your imagination can muster so you have the strength to end it sooner than later.
Not too busy to be online though. I've said all I had to say he responded but I'm done talking once I'm done I'm done. I'm giving allll this effort with nothing to return once you've fallen back on your word one too many times I am doneeee. Lol. I didn't respond. Idgaf
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What does he do for work? It's very possible that he was online for work purposes. You need to chill the f out.
Posted by BuffaloBills28
Have sex with someone else, record it, send it to him, and let him think about all the fun stuff he could've had if only he would've texted back. I don't know.. If I was a female, that's the type of sh11t I'd do.
So he can post it on every porn site online. Your face plastered all over the web while countless men jack off to it...ummm no thanks.
Posted by BuffaloBills28
Have sex with someone else, record it, send it to him, and let him think about all the fun stuff he could've had if only he would've texted back. I don't know.. If I was a female, that's the type of sh11t I'd do.So he can post it on every porn site online. Your face plastered all over the web while countless men jack off to it...ummm no thanks.
Very true. At least you'd be sexy enough for one to jack off to? That's not all that bad.
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If dudes I've never met are jacking off to my body and face then I better get paid.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Why are people like you allowed to date?Stfu.
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No, you trashy cunt.
WAY too often, this website is inundated with women like you, who come in, proving what batshit crazy assholes you can be when it comes to dating.
"Here's my story, wah wah, look at how fucking insane I am. WHY IS HE SO TERRIBLE?? WHY IS HE ACTING LIKE THIS?? POOOOOR MEE. SOMEONE HALP ME SO!"
You clearly have some fucking issues going on. You should NOT be dating. You're emotionally immature as fuck, act like that psycho bitch that feeds the stereotype, yet expect people to feel sorry for you and give you advice when you're every bit in the wrong too and making things worse with your behavior.
Nevermind you were just in the Cap forum the week before this post, going on about some dude you attempted a fwb with and were all caught up on him. Now it's this dude and you're going postal because of your own insecurities?
Stop dating, and while you're at it, maybe consider sterilization. We don't need more people like this in the world. Kthx.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Why are people like you allowed to date?Stfu.
No, you trashy cunt.
WAY too often, this website is inundated with women like you, who come in, proving what batshit crazy assholes you can be when it comes to dating.
"Here's my story, wah wah, look at how fucking insane I am. WHY IS HE SO TERRIBLE?? WHY IS HE ACTING LIKE THIS?? POOOOOR MEE. SOMEONE HALP ME SO!"
You clearly have some fucking issues going on. You should NOT be dating. You're emotionally immature as fuck, act like that psycho bitch that feeds the stereotype, yet expect people to feel sorry for you and give you advice when you're every bit in the wrong too and making things worse with your behavior.
Nevermind you were just in the Cap forum the week before this post, going on about some dude you attempted a fwb with and were all caught up on him. Now it's this dude and you're going postal because of your own insecurities?
Stop dating, and while you're at it, maybe consider sterilization. We don't need more people like this in the world. Kthx.
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LMAO! Thanks for the heads up, rocky.
/exits thread
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Why are people like you allowed to date?Stfu.
No, you trashy cunt.
WAY too often, this website is inundated with women like you, who come in, proving what batshit crazy assholes you can be when it comes to dating.
"Here's my story, wah wah, look at how fucking insane I am. WHY IS HE SO TERRIBLE?? WHY IS HE ACTING LIKE THIS?? POOOOOR MEE. SOMEONE HALP ME SO!"
You clearly have some fucking issues going on. You should NOT be dating. You're emotionally immature as fuck, act like that psycho bitch that feeds the stereotype, yet expect people to feel sorry for you and give you advice when you're every bit in the wrong too and making things worse with your behavior.
Nevermind you were just in the Cap forum the week before this post, going on about some dude you attempted a fwb with and were all caught up on him. Now it's this dude and you're going postal because of your own insecurities?
Stop dating, and while you're at it, maybe consider sterilization. We don't need more people like this in the world. Kthx.
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K. It's not that deep get out your feelings, bitch
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This Aries man wasn't responding and I'm so used to having my time wasted and being ignored so I flipped out on him and told him what was the point of us talking and I don't like having my time wasted and he sent the picture I'm going to attach. I told him how I'm sorry and I didn't get any message. And how I feel like a douche and hope I didn't piss him off