
I really want to join, is it worth it? http://www.nymasons.org/




Posted by everevolvingepithet
Just watch for the secret handshake/message/sign, when you least expect it!😛



Posted by rockyroadicecream
You're not even old enough yet...?
You also need references from at least one other Mason, so if you don't have that, you're SOL.
Like RNAP said, it's not like you can just go sign up and do it...

Posted by everevolvingepithetPosted by KingOfAriesPosted by everevolvingepithet
Just watch for the secret handshake/message/sign, when you least expect it!😛
what do you mean?
I was being somewhat tongue-in-cheek, but here's a variety of them.
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Posted by KingOfAriesPosted by rockyroadicecream
You're not even old enough yet...?
You also need references from at least one other Mason, so if you don't have that, you're SOL.
Like RNAP said, it's not like you can just go sign up and do it...
yes thats right you can either get a reference from a brother or 3 random people who know you.click to expand

Posted by cowpuncher
I'm related to several Mason's, there are a lot of myths out there about them that are BS. They are a great philanthropic organisation that donates a LOT of money to charity... often to small causes that fall through the cracks. They *always* do so anonymously, though it is of course well known that they are deeply involved with Shriner's Hospitals for Children (Who will score BIGTIME if I ever do make my Billions someday).
I know for a fact, all you have to do to start the process of joining the Masons is to contact a Mason and ask to join. They do not solicit membership, they believe it is better to wait until somebody asks to join. Then you will apply for membership and they will guide you through it.
The true purpose of the Freemasons is "To make good men into better men". It is a good organisation, doing good works, made up of men who seek to improve themselves. I do plan to join someday myself. 🙂
Contact the local lodge. I think you will find them to be very friendly and welcoming. Good luck!


Posted by truecap
Do it!!!! It is a wonderful organization! They will NEVER ask or invite you to join. To be one, ask one! They want to make sure you want to be a part of them. They will give you a petition and you will have to find some masons in that lodge to sign off on you. Its a process, but it is VERY worthwhile.
Like Cowpuncher said, there are a lot of myths, 99% FALSE! Those are made up by people who have NO idea what they are talking about.
They do a lot of charitable good and are an amazing organization!
PM me if you want. I know quite a bit.

Posted by cowpuncher
NO they aren't always collecting money off of you. However if one of your brother masons at the lodge dies, and say... leaves behind a widow and a couple kids, they will be approached at some point by one of the lodge members, gently asked if they are doing okay and if they need any help. In that case, I do believe the guys all try to pony up whatever cash they can, and it would probably be looked upon poorly if a guy refused... but $ 50 is all you had, I don't think anybody would complain about that from what I know. They don't expect you to be a money tree that can be shaken. Chances are the only money you will be giving them is your regular dues, which are low.
Oh, likewise, if YOU kick off and take a dirt nap, and leave a wife and kids behind, your brother masons will be coming by and making sure YOUR wife and kids aren't going to go hungry. Food for thought. Yes, it is mutually beneficial.

Posted by cowpuncher
There are a lot of very general, generic things you will know just by being the son, daughter, wife, or sibling of a Mason and asking simple questions. You don't get to know any of the 'secret' info, but it's fine for your family to know very general things like that Masonry does a lot of anonymous charity, Brother Masons are supposed to help one another when one is in need or (in the event of a Mason's death) make sure his family does not go hungry, etc.


Posted by rockyroadicecream
It looks like you're looking to get into it for all the wrong reasons.
"HUR I WANT TO BE CONSIDERED SPESHUL."

Posted by KingOfAriesPosted by truecap
Do it!!!! It is a wonderful organization! They will NEVER ask or invite you to join. To be one, ask one! They want to make sure you want to be a part of them. They will give you a petition and you will have to find some masons in that lodge to sign off on you. Its a process, but it is VERY worthwhile.
Like Cowpuncher said, there are a lot of myths, 99% FALSE! Those are made up by people who have NO idea what they are talking about.
They do a lot of charitable good and are an amazing organization!
PM me if you want. I know quite a bit.
how can u know a lot youre a female they DO NOT ALLOW FEMALES in the clubclick to expand

Posted by KingOfAriesPosted by cowpuncher
There are a lot of very general, generic things you will know just by being the son, daughter, wife, or sibling of a Mason and asking simple questions. You don't get to know any of the 'secret' info, but it's fine for your family to know very general things like that Masonry does a lot of anonymous charity, Brother Masons are supposed to help one another when one is in need or (in the event of a Mason's death) make sure his family does not go hungry, etc.
why is charity anonymousclick to expand

Posted by KingOfAriesPosted by cowpuncher
NO they aren't always collecting money off of you. However if one of your brother masons at the lodge dies, and say... leaves behind a widow and a couple kids, they will be approached at some point by one of the lodge members, gently asked if they are doing okay and if they need any help. In that case, I do believe the guys all try to pony up whatever cash they can, and it would probably be looked upon poorly if a guy refused... but $ 50 is all you had, I don't think anybody would complain about that from what I know. They don't expect you to be a money tree that can be shaken. Chances are the only money you will be giving them is your regular dues, which are low.
Oh, likewise, if YOU kick off and take a dirt nap, and leave a wife and kids behind, your brother masons will be coming by and making sure YOUR wife and kids aren't going to go hungry. Food for thought. Yes, it is mutually beneficial.
what are the fees how much, the rummors do not scare me they are the reason i want to join, i have a feeling that there is more to what you both are saying because i checked their library all they have is weirdest books check urself follow the ling i posted on page 1. I just want to know whether it is an elite club that gives u some sort of authority, say, or benefits you in any way, if they accept every john from idaho im not interested, i like unique elite exclusive thingsclick to expand


Posted by KingOfAries
1. I am special.
2. My reasons are not wrong, since they are my reasons they are always right.click to expand


Posted by cowpuncher
Honestly, if you're looking to the Masons as something to join to seek power and authority, I think you're going to be disappointed, even if you manage to actually join.
I know, and am related to, a whole bunch of Masons. Thus far, none of them has turned out to be the Super Secret Grand Poobah of the area, or a mob boss, or a mighty wizard, or a bigwig in the "New World Order" and so forth.
What you won't find are the marching orders from the 7th level grand high wizard for the date that the New World Order takes over the earth and you ride bug-like Aliens into battle in servitude to your Martian masters. No, not so much. Leave that to all of the "authors" with some "New book of explosive revelations!" full of unverifiable BS.

Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by KingOfAries
1. I am special.
Special ed.
2. My reasons are not wrong, since they are my reasons they are always right.
Really? Aren't you the self proclaimed pre med student who can't even grasp the basic concepts of biology?
Whatever the case, if this works out for you, yay. You're just coming off very arrogant and naive, as usual. From what's been pointed out about this organization, it sounds like you're getting into it for the wrong reasons. You want the status, not to help the cause. Good luck getting accepted. If I can see this bs from a mile away via text, I'm sure they'll be able to see it asap.click to expand

Posted by truecap
Why don't you contact a local mason and talk to him? He could answer any and all of your questions.
This site may help:
http://www.masonic-lodges.com/index.html<BR>
Most of those books published are done so by people who have no idea what they are talking about. There is a lot of theory by people who don't have a clue. The secrecy becomes an issue with some. College fraternities have secret words and handshakes and they don't get questioned about that.
If you are not into it for the anonymous works and becoming a better person, and you don't really care about other people or the brotherhood, then it sounds like you're not cut out for the masons.

Posted by KingOfAries
2. No im not a self proclaimed pre med student, i am a pre med student, that hasnt once mentioned anything about biology by the way, but okay



Posted by truecap
There are some very powerful people that are masons. Whether its because they are masons or achieved that power on their own, is unknown. Like I said, as a collective whole, it is a very influential organization.
Many men join for business contacts - brothers will do business with brothers. They trust each other. It can be as simple as in a small town which store you buy your hardware at or as complicated as high ranking politics.
You will never get your answers until you become one. And, then there are levels of degrees.
But, what you have said so far, it doesn't seem like you are the type they would want in their organization. On your comments, it doesn't seem to me you have the right stuff and are of the right quality of person to be one. Just sayin'.


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