Friends with benefits manifestation

Dear Life,



It's me again... using DXP to put out to the universe what I want to attract for myself right now.

I would like a male friend with benefits.... Preferably an air or fire sign... Gorgeous to look at, nice body and awesome fun to be around. I'd like to see him two to four times a month, and I want for us to have amazing sexual chemistry and really have an epic and fun time together. I'd like us both to have mutual respect and understanding with each other.

I want to be able to see him, start our visits off by enjoying a few drinks first, maybe eat together and connect with conversation before we hop on the train to pleasure town with each other.

And then, after we've had our fun, I want us both to go and do what we each need to do in our lives to ensure we are happy... and give each other the space and freedom to still belong to ourselves.

I want us to get along as friends really easily too,and I want to like the person he is. I want someone who is reliable and available and willing to show up for me.

Please let him be mentally, emotionally and spiritually balanced and stable.

Please let him be really funny, because I like to laugh.

Please let him have a REALLY nice penis and fantastic sex skills.

Please make sure he knows how to treat a woman with respect.

Please let him be a spotaneous and adventurous and generous lover.

With thanks and gratitude in advance,

xx

Put that on POF or Craigslist.

Problem solved

Posted by Sssupes
Put that on POF or Craigslist.

Problem solved

I'm in South Africa... what's POF??Craigslist is also not a big deal here...

Posted by Instantkarma
An Aries sun,Leo moon and a Scorp rising!!! I can do Leo moon 😄

Since @Fragrance has been ignoring me.....

Oh...aren't you sweet...to my Leo moon at least 🙂

I have Pisces venus and mars... it softens all the other aspects.

Posted by Instantkarma

Posted by lotuslily

Posted by Instantkarma
An Aries sun,Leo moon and a Scorp rising!!! I can do Leo moon 😄

Since @Fragrance has been ignoring me.....

Oh...aren't you sweet...to my Leo moon at least 🙂

I have Pisces venus and mars... it softens all the other aspects.

You must be new... I'm kinda new too 😄

But I love Aries Suns 😢

I don't do well with Pisces Mars. 😢

Scorpio anything makes me go cray cray. Jk

I like them as friends.

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Scorpio anything makes me nuts too... i was bummed when i found out what my rising sign was. i was like yay for everything else (except the pisces stuff... but ive learned to love my softer squishy fish parts) and like NOOOOOOO for the scorp rising! haha

Anyway...it's a nice sentiment but i need to manifest this in the flesh in reality... i am kind of over long distance connections that never amount to anything. But thanks for saying something sweet to perk me up 🙂 I appreciate it

Posted by lotuslily

Posted by Sssupes
Put that on POF or Craigslist.

Problem solved

I'm in South Africa... what's POF??Craigslist is also not a big deal here...

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Neither one of those options will work for you. I'm sorry!

Plenty of Fish

Posted by Admiral

That was a great song... Thanks Admiral! I don't feel like I'm asking for the perfect person... although the idea of a 'bad good guy' turns me on... I feel like I'm not going to just accept less than what I want for myself as it shows life that I compromise and will just take what I get because I don't know my self worth.

I haven't asked for anything unreasonable or anything I haven't had a few times before. It's completely doable and highly likely that I will get what I want. I'm not asking someone to sign over their independence or sovereignty. I'm not asking for love or emotional commitment either. I don't want that. I'm asking them for nothing but their bodies, some connection, and their time.

I'm just asking to be done right a few times a month and have fun while doing it.

I'm not going to accept a diluted version of what I desire for myself.

Posted by Sssupes

Posted by lotuslily

Posted by Sssupes
Put that on POF or Craigslist.

Problem solved

I'm in South Africa... what's POF??Craigslist is also not a big deal here...

Neither one of those options will work for you. I'm sorry!

Plenty of Fish

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Look at our sun, moon & asc... we're the same age too... We seem very compatible... sexually at least. I wonder if we'd connect if we had to meet in real life.... pity about living on opposite sides of the world. I've even had a hankering for texan accent... and we both have super hero's as our pics... haha. I had a super girl one on yesterday and changed it to wonder woman last night.

Posted by Admiral

virgo men songwriters are so awesome. lol

reminds me of this:

Posted by lotuslily

Posted by Instantkarma
An Aries sun,Leo moon and a Scorp rising!!! I can do Leo moon 😄

Since @Fragrance has been ignoring me.....

Oh...aren't you sweet...to my Leo moon at least 🙂

I have Pisces venus and mars... it softens all the other aspects.

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you need a virgo man.

that's what subconsciously this is all about. lol

Posted by Vixen2
And to add to your post:

" and please don't invariably make me fall in love with him due to asking for him/ our "fwb" to have all these amazing qualities that are usually reserved for romantic partners. And please don't let me post on dxp 3 months after meeting said requested fwb how I couldn't handle the arrangement."

I was born for arrangements like this. And I'll post what I want, when I want.

Amazing Qualities? I didn't ask for him to be supportive, or loyal, kind, loving, or anything else one would want from someone specifically in a romantic relationship. I said I wanted space and freedom to be have my own life, completely independant from him. I'm not interested in a relationship. I'm super selfish.

I asked for him to be respectful, reliable, and understanding... those qualities should be standard traits of all humans.... but they're not... so I've just asked to be treated with respect, like me and every other person on the planet is entitled to be.

Thanks for your concern though. I appreciate the sentiment.

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Posted by lotuslily

Posted by Instantkarma
An Aries sun,Leo moon and a Scorp rising!!! I can do Leo moon 😄

Since @Fragrance has been ignoring me.....

Oh...aren't you sweet...to my Leo moon at least 🙂

I have Pisces venus and mars... it softens all the other aspects.

you need a virgo man.

that's what subconsciously this is all about. lol

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Subconsciously how So?

I haven't had good experiences in bed with Virgo guys... earth and fire are not a good mix for passion and excitement. They have really traditional sex.... I want epic sex. They make great friends though...

Posted by AriesLove
I don't see why you need all those requirements.

Beggars can't be choosers

Wow!

Just. Wow

Posted by TauroMale22
this way works for you? i like to meditate to achieve these things it took a few weeks to manifest though.

how long does it usually take for you?

At first it took a while... but these days I'm manifesting at lightning pace... i feel like a MAGICIAN! Haha

The trick is to consider clearly what you want for yourself... write it down... because that's energy you're investing in it and that's needed, and then put it out 'there' for life to bring it to you through the path of least resistance. That's why i use Internet forums to post my orders with the universe. What better way to clearly have a vision of what you want for yourself, energise it by typing it out, and put it out there.... to the world wide Web!!

It's worked for me every time I've done it. I used to have a fetish for leo guys and i would post on here saying when i was ready for the next leo to come into my life... It wouldn't be long and one would arrive.

Give it a go and let me know when it arrives 😉

Posted by Instantkarma
An Aries sun,Leo moon and a Scorp rising!!! I can do Leo moon 😄

Since @Fragrance has been ignoring me.....

Darlin'... I don't play that game. You need a big, sturdy hug from an Aries Sun, come here 😄

Posted by Instantkarma
You must be new... I'm kinda new too 😄

Oh, she's far from new.

She has quite the history here, tbh... *cough*

I actually missed Lotuslilly. I thought of you after seeing so many sad and/or frustrated relationship threads. You are refreshing and I love your zest for life.



I conducted myself in a similar fashion when single. When I met my husband, I thought he was going to be my first one night stand. At the time, I had a FWB I said goodbye to and told him I met my husband.

This is exactly what i want! Yesssssss. Try okcupid dude.

Posted by VenusAquarius
I actually missed Lotuslilly. I thought of you after seeing so many sad and/or frustrated relationship threads. You are refreshing and I love your zest for life.



I conducted myself in a similar fashion when single. When I met my husband, I thought he was going to be my first one night stand. At the time, I had a FWB I said goodbye to and told him I met my husband.

How does that HAPPEN?