HELP!. what is this aries male thinking?

Help i dont no what to do .. i am 18 like him but i am a pices female & weve been bestfriends sonce like 12 ive had a crush on him evrr since.. we went out about the age 13 but i dont count that a relationship do to the knowledge i know now.. well let me get to thr chase now like about 6 years later i finally tell him i have a crush on him (i no very late but i still told him ) anywaiis although i fail and dont do really well with rejection & i wasnt even 100% sure if he liked me back i still told hom .. Little do u know he does and that made me so happy 🙂.. weve been tlkin ever since .. well i mostly write & text him 1st and he replies with no problems .. spmetimes late but i understand hes busy and aries is alwais doing something so that doesnt bother me . He told me recently hes been thinking about me and i told him the same .. But yet because he saids i always "blowed" him off he says me & him will never hang out again .. i dont get itt— IF HE LIKES ME AND TELLS ME HE MISSES WHY WOULD KEEP SAYING THAT... i try to keep kool but its really bugging me .. all those times he wanted to hang out i couldnt or it never worked out some how and he still blames it on me .. How can i make him change his mind .. he is so confusing and i hate the fact that hes so upfront about things bcuz he says it so harshly ..but i brush it off and prentend like its nothing ..bcuz i no thats part of his character and he cant change who he is .. plus reading horoscopes about aries made calm down a bit because now when he acts a certain way it wont smack me in the face and i wont end up taking it personal like alwais do but idk wat to do .. do i keep texting him..should i stop? Hes giving me mix signals witch i no its normal from an aries but i just cant read him .. 3daiis ago we talked till like 6am laughing and having a great convo all night .. i havent texted him 2dai at all bcuz all i read is that he should be doin the chasing .. was that a good idea? how long should i wait .. ? Should i confront him on his missleading signals? Pleasee help any answer i would appriciate it .i really did grow to love this person i can see us go far .. 😭 Hes my childhood crush that means alot to me that money cnt every buy ..

why do u need to know what hes thinking cant u just play along and get him to ask u out jeez

Get your emotions together. Aries... not so good with intense emotions. They like space freedom. It takes a while for them to figure out they want to commit and then who they really want to commit to. Forget he exist for awhile and just do yo thing. Aries are attracted to and like independence in a person simply because that personality trait poses a challenge and at the same time doesn't make them feel like they have to be committed even if they choose to be. I repeat. They don't like clingy.

You are 18 why do you want so much to be the right kinda girl for him? Focus on you hun. The right guy will love you for you and all you have to offer in a relationship. You may look at him a year from now and wonder why you had a crush on him in the first place.

If he's 18 like you are, what he's thinking about is sex. The end.

Also, get him to buy you a dictionary for Christmas. Your post was incredibly painful to read. This is a website, not texting. Retardese not allowed.

@kingofaries its kinda hard to get him to do that when everytime i mention us to meet up and hang out he rejects me and tells me nope i told u we will never hang out :/ .. i personalitly think he's bluffing but its hard to tell when i know he's a very blunt person and nearly lies about anything

@virgoddes1 .. Thnks for the advice & i will gadly follow ..i feel like i need some type of guidence when it comes to these things .. my friends are there but some how i feel as if deep down they will never understand .. i know what u mean about how years later ill problably look back & think the total opposite but i have thought of that before & how would the future be like for me & any guy in my life.. & i tend to do this alot ! I Dream of what may happen or could and there sometimes negative or positive but what ever the outcome it is i see it as im still young i rather go with my feelings now and hope for the best weather its a lesson learn or not . I know i cant control my present to make a chain reaction to my future when it comes to Love but i would atleast try & make it somewhat relate to my pices fairytale lol.. but i am working and doing my thing .. & in school ..but i would atleast like to share it with someone special & i choose him weather we end up together or not :/ .. he hasnt texted me on his own tho .. i didnt text him at all last night .. i followed ur advice 🙂 i just hope For the best in whatever outcome it is :/

@rocky i know sex is on his mind but lets face it isnt it on everyones mind once u actually learn about it . . I in the other hand ,Is gadly to say im still a virgin ,witch he well knows ..we talked about sex before ,i am still curious and he has experience about it but yet he still tells me to do so when im ready .. witch i will .. so i dont think sex is on his mind when it comes to me .. Now on to your second comment! Looks like my writing really bothered u ? Lol .. Like u said its the internet ! We can write how we please just like we can speak how we feel freely ..& if u read it and kinda understood it doesnt that make u a retard that read a retarded persons writing? Lol & if it really is a situation for u .. why wont you buy it for me 🙂 .. maybe it will take out the pressure off your back .. christmas is only months away i would email you my address if u like 🙂

Honey, of course you would say that at 18. Written communication is a bit more important than you think. But if you want to embrace looking like an ignorant fool, go for it. Most of society is doing it and it's depressing as hell.

But thanks for writing a bit clearer in your replies. Makes it easier to read wtf you're saying. Kinda hard to give advice when someone is writing like shit.



Sex is always on their mind, sweetcheeks. Don't think otherwise.

@rocky of course im writing clearly now that i'm on a laptop & not on a touched phone but thanks for not being as rude as before because lets face it that 2cd comment wasn't necessary -.- ..like wtf? .. But anyway i know sex is basically what they live for not saying i would be the one to change his mind about that cause i cant !..But All i wanted was advice on what i should do with this aries i really like that's about it ..

Mixed signals = stringing you along = you are a back up as a potential fuck buddy. If he really wanted you for a relationship, he wouldn't be jerking you around.

Learn this now because guys are fucking trolls well into their early to mid 20s.

OP if he is telling you he will not hang out with you please believe him. Let him show you that he cares or want anything with you. Right now he doesn't want to hang out with you so like others said leave him alone and let him show you he is into you.