how to handle run in with ex virgo??

i am in love with a virgo. we broke up 4 months ago. Its too much to explain right now, but when we were breaking up, i told him, that we can go on all we want, but we will see each other, and those feelings will still be there, we can't pretend the feelings away. well, we live in a very small town. I have seen him 3 times. once at his moms house where he totally avoided any eye contact, looking at floor as he walked by. 2nd time i was walking out of store, he was in parking lot and he put head down and his arm ocross steering wheel, as to advoid me and last time, he was driving past my house and i happen to be out side, he was facing me through his window, but again, cranked his head so far to avoid seeing me. IDK why he can't look at me. I know that there will come a time that we will be face to face, I am soo scared, i am affraid i will break if i have to look at him in the eyes. it is so painful still. i really try hard to move on, i just don't know what to do, how to do it or even what i want to do when i do run in to him. i don't understand why it is that he cant even look at me. any ideas??

This is my life! It's very difficult.. We live in a small town too.. The worst is seeing him.. I've gotten stronger and realize our timing is/was wrong but we still love each other! Your right you can't deny the feelings.. I just about die when he looks at me when we see each other...he looks so sad.. I'm not sure why yours won't look at you.. That would make me a little suspicious but I bet we are older than you so it could be a maturity thing?!?! Just be yourself, if he ignores then oh well.. You'll pique his interest more if you act strong and abit aloof of him! Good luck, I've been dealing with this since March.. It's horrible, I find myself looking for him everywhere I go yet hoping I don't see him or I'll be so sad_??__??_

I feel the same way.. I mean, I know it will happen, and i would like to think that i be strong and allof, but deep down, i am afraid, if i look him in the eye, i will fall apart. geez, these damn virgo/aries things are horrible. i think we are such opposites, and once we let are guards down, wew see how much we really need someone who cares like that. I guess =, that i sthe only thing I can think of, I really loved being cared for the way he did. I never knew I needed it until him, and he gave me such support and care and concern that I never knew before.. Time heals all wounds?? I live a block away from him, so its hard. i need to move!