I don't wanna be an Aries anymore.

I've always been very proud about my star sign Aries. As a child a was full of energy and surrounded by friends that loved me. I was smily, friendly, loyal and creative. But now I'm a young woman I really can't deal anymore with my impulsivity and all the bad traits of my strong personality. I'm 21 and I am in a relationship with an aquarius guy, who is always so controlled and reserved, he always said the right thing at the right moment and he's so so polite. I am the opposite. I am such a jealous person, I can't control myself and especially if I am a bit drunk I always said or do something embaraccing. I also get very angry sometimes that I need to explode and make dramas, while him even when angry he's so controlled and calm. I look so immature next to him. I'm trying to getting better but this is just my nature. I'm an impatient hot-tempered girl but I wish I wasn't. Does anyone have the same issue? if so, how do you deal with it?

Your handle reminds me of this:

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Posted by pao_pao_1
I've always been very proud about my star sign Aries. As a child a was full of energy and surrounded by friends that loved me. I was smily, friendly, loyal and creative. But now I'm a young woman I really can't deal anymore with my impulsivity and all the bad traits of my strong personality. I'm 21 and I am in a relationship with an aquarius guy, who is always so controlled and reserved, he always said the right thing at the right moment and he's so so polite. I am the opposite. I am such a jealous person, I can't control myself and especially if I am a bit drunk I always said or do something embaraccing. I also get very angry sometimes that I need to explode and make dramas, while him even when angry he's so controlled and calm. I look so immature next to him. I'm trying to getting better but this is just my nature. I'm an impatient hot-tempered girl but I wish I wasn't. Does anyone have the same issue? if so, how do you deal with it?

Stop comparing yourself with an Aquarius. He probably likes you because of your basic traits as an Aries (unless he's criticised you for it).

You're 21 - you have DECADES of maturity to work towards.

Just your nature? Well then you have your work cut out for you. Stop making excuses for misbehaviour.

How did I deal with it? Time and experience.

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This was good... knowing and accepting how you normally act and change it. Do not allow your emotions to get carried away. I can say that I have dated alot of Aqua's and they are not all angle so don't think he is Gods gift to the world. He has his faults to I am sure...

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It's called growing up. It takes time.

are you happy with him ? maybe he's too cold for you and that makes you feel angry ..maybe he brings the worst instead of the best out of you .. is he giving you enough attention ? I know aries acts angry when they feel neglected .. you might start to love yourself more if you were in a better relationship ?

Posted by pao_pao_1
I've always been very proud about my star sign Aries. As a child a was full of energy and surrounded by friends that loved me. I was smily, friendly, loyal and creative. But now I'm a young woman I really can't deal anymore with my impulsivity and all the bad traits of my strong personality. I'm 21 and I am in a relationship with an aquarius guy, who is always so controlled and reserved, he always said the right thing at the right moment and he's so so polite. I am the opposite. I am such a jealous person, I can't control myself and especially if I am a bit drunk I always said or do something embaraccing. I also get very angry sometimes that I need to explode and make dramas, while him even when angry he's so controlled and calm. I look so immature next to him. I'm trying to getting better but this is just my nature. I'm an impatient hot-tempered girl but I wish I wasn't. Does anyone have the same issue? if so, how do you deal with it?

Youre like the realest Aries ever.

Posted by 2Moon
you know what I like about this post? is that you can admit and say that you can be very immature and act like a kid sometimes.
thats amazing! ( and very attractive to me! ... lol ).
( I hate people who can't admit that. they are immature on a whole another level )





I think that it means that you are ready to change.. right?
admitting our flaws, there is nothing wrong with that. to me, it means that you want to change-evolve.( I was going to say: you are ready to change. )
but that's not true. no one can be really "ready" to change....

The journey is long if you want to evolve. good luck to you!

I agree. Very attractive

dont ever feel like that! aries is the first sign, our hardest worker, our leader

Posted by pao_pao_1
I've always been very proud about my star sign Aries. As a child a was full of energy and surrounded by friends that loved me. I was smily, friendly, loyal and creative. But now I'm a young woman I really can't deal anymore with my impulsivity and all the bad traits of my strong personality. I'm 21 and I am in a relationship with an aquarius guy, who is always so controlled and reserved, he always said the right thing at the right moment and he's so so polite. I am the opposite. I am such a jealous person, I can't control myself and especially if I am a bit drunk I always said or do something embaraccing. I also get very angry sometimes that I need to explode and make dramas, while him even when angry he's so controlled and calm. I look so immature next to him. I'm trying to getting better but this is just my nature. I'm an impatient hot-tempered girl but I wish I wasn't. Does anyone have the same issue? if so, how do you deal with it?

meeeeeeee *raises hand*
Yes I know what exactly you are saying I am suffering daily thanks to my aries sun and mercury. Well I am in a relationship with Mr. Cap and yeah he is really in control of his emotions He knows what to say and HOW to say it as opposed to me I hate my bluntness my temper my impulsiveness. Its been three years with him and feel like a shame for being like this no matter how much I try I can't control my anger and end up throwing tantrums. I too wish I wasn't like this 😢

ridiculous

My Aries girls in the house I love your blunt, bold and wild ways in small doses though.Lol .You can't change who are,some people wanna be like you. Cos beneath that fiery nature There's a very sweet personality.

Love
Scorpio girl