I feel like I too easily put people on pedestals....

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Bluezaold
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Can fellow Aries relate to this? Like, I noticed that I tend to easily trust people I want to be in close relationship with even though I haven't even made sure they feel the same way and I unconsciously started to put them on pedestals. This even scared some of them and they ran away. 😢

Maybe it's because we are born to be a knight that wants to be the hero, rather than constantly being treated like king like Leos want?
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Completely, we are the knights, we want to save the princess and have the romance like from a movie. We believe in the best, within people, we never judge or discriminate, but in relationships we are punished for it. We open are heart too easily. But better to have an open heart and get hurt than a closed one which never takes chances.

With time it will be different, I get so frigin excited when I’m meeting my love, but then so frigin upset and almost suicidal when she says she already has plans. And you won’t be able to commit till you are older anyway. I feel like it’s who Aries are at the core, live it, true to yourself, our greatest weakness is also our greatest strength. Our passion, our determination, our decisiveness, and when we find a partner receptive of these things, it all makes sense and they appreciate us. But I’m not gonna lie, it will be difficult with most people.
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Posted by Bluezaold
Can fellow Aries relate to this? Like, I noticed that I tend to easily trust people I want to be in close relationship with even though I haven't even made sure they feel the same way and I unconsciously started to put them on pedestals. This even scared some of them and they ran away. 😢

Maybe it's because we are born to be a knight that wants to be the hero, rather than constantly being treated like king like Leos want?


Sometimes but learning to slooooow down and make sure that person is worth it to even put on a pedestal
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Bluezaold
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Posted by AriesJo
Completely, we are the knights, we want to save the princess and have the romance like from a movie. We believe in the best, within people, we never judge or discriminate, but in relationships we are punished for it. We open are heart too easily. But better to have an open heart and get hurt than a closed one which never takes chances.

With time it will be different, I get so frigin excited when I’m meeting my love, but then so frigin upset and almost suicidal when she says she already has plans. And you won’t be able to commit till you are older anyway. I feel like it’s who Aries are at the core, live it, true to yourself, our greatest weakness is also our greatest strength. Our passion, our determination, our decisiveness, and when we find a partner receptive of these things, it all makes sense and they appreciate us. But I’m not gonna lie, it will be difficult with most people.
Yes. It also always hurts me when it turns out some of my friends didn't really think of me as close as I do think they are. We're too easily accepting, and that's what supposed to be our strength but most of the time it backfires.