LibraJackson
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Posted by LibraJacksonThe last part maybe correct lol, I have these too. But I would also find it a little difficult living "in limbo" I am very black and white, and this for me would be living in the grey area-but this is a recent thing for me since i reached 30's. How old are you both? Are you working/studying etc? Keep on with your life doing with your own thing and try not to focus on him too much-I know easier said than done...
Heyy so for all of you who have been following my stories, Thank you!
Your feedback has helped me genuinely.
Long Story short, My Aries man is now living in NY. He messages me every day and it's mostly him telling me how he's settling in and what he's up to. I'm also visiting him in December for a week. So it's lovely really that he's keeping in touch more than I expected because we were going out, we were just dating for almost a year knowing he would move away so we both didn't commit.
I packed his bags and helped him look for a place to rent in NY when I'm living in Ireland. He's been so lovely and thankful for all I've done. BUT This is how I feel. I tell him I miss him. he said he missed me too.
he's texting me more than normal. He's sending me pictures and he's getting excited about me coming to visit him.
I love him, I really do but sometimes I feel like he's not interested somehow. I'm always paranoid that I'm bothering him and letting him live in the new city. Also if he likes me that much, why is it so hard for him to say I miss you too first sometimes or just end it altogether if he's not interested.
Or maybe I'm just moody and confused. What do you think?
It seems that this went as i expected...and that's a good thing 😉
But tbh with you...lol..i don't really understand your *paranoia* about him not being *interested in you somehow* lol
Well i do fully understand your position and the situation...this will be a very hard thing for you if you want to follow it through...and it's not easy at all to be in your position...but it's alo what @LibraLovesHim said..."how old are both of you ?"
Because the thing with LDR is that it requires alot of maturity from both in order not to fall into Paranoia...
But let's get back to him and the not interested thing hehe ^^
Why is that you think that ?...
Wold you rather prefer having him reduce the number of messages, but instead say "I love you and i miss you so much ?"...lol....you know what i wold say to that ?...total bullshit....lies...it's all about actions 🙂
If he increased the number of things he is *doing for you*...it's because he is thinking more about you....if he is thinking about you...it's because he either likes you or he hates you...but you are not indiferent...and on your specific case...he obviously Likes you ofc ^^
Let me give you an example on how i see all of this *things* about people expecting *big words* from other people ^^
Let's say you were with 4 guys in the last 10 years....to all of them you said "I Love you"...to 3 of them you even wrote poems and stuff like that ^^
And now imagine i was the 5th...and you wold also say that you loved *me* and also wrote the poems...lol...tell me...what makes me diferent from the others ?... after all, you did to them the same things you are *doing* to *me*...Why are you not with them if you Loved *them so much* ?..( i know life is complicated lol this is just an example)...Did you really Loved them at the end of the day ?...If so how come you already forgoten them and why ?...Why are you doing to me the same things you did to them?...Am i even Unique to you ?....etc, etc...
So...here is the most important question.....What the fuck is Love after all ?... ^^
Love lies on the perception of the individual itself....so expectations is the *real killer* sometimes...and since we are talking about Aries here.....Love is something Extremly Unique and diferent from everything else...Love does not follow Logic or Patterns...Love is the most illogical thing that us humans *have*...a good way to see if you are in Love is...if nothing makes sense at all haha xD (don't take this literally ofc hehe)
Look at his actions...he really likes you...don't push him with the *big words* and expressions thing lool...this things comes with time...try to chill...and hey, if you want to send him a message...just do it,..but understand that in your current situation he might not reply imediatly...it might take time because he is on a new place doing new things...but it doesn't mean at all that he doesn't like you...that is something that for sure it doesn't mean ^^
Take care and again....chill ! lol
But tbh with you...lol..i don't really understand your *paranoia* about him not being *interested in you somehow* lol
Well i do fully understand your position and the situation...this will be a very hard thing for you if you want to follow it through...and it's not easy at all to be in your position...but it's alo what @LibraLovesHim said..."how old are both of you ?"
Because the thing with LDR is that it requires alot of maturity from both in order not to fall into Paranoia...
But let's get back to him and the not interested thing hehe ^^
Why is that you think that ?...
Wold you rather prefer having him reduce the number of messages, but instead say "I love you and i miss you so much ?"...lol....you know what i wold say to that ?...total bullshit....lies...it's all about actions 🙂
If he increased the number of things he is *doing for you*...it's because he is thinking more about you....if he is thinking about you...it's because he either likes you or he hates you...but you are not indiferent...and on your specific case...he obviously Likes you ofc ^^
Let me give you an example on how i see all of this *things* about people expecting *big words* from other people ^^
Let's say you were with 4 guys in the last 10 years....to all of them you said "I Love you"...to 3 of them you even wrote poems and stuff like that ^^
And now imagine i was the 5th...and you wold also say that you loved *me* and also wrote the poems...lol...tell me...what makes me diferent from the others ?... after all, you did to them the same things you are *doing* to *me*...Why are you not with them if you Loved *them so much* ?..( i know life is complicated lol this is just an example)...Did you really Loved them at the end of the day ?...If so how come you already forgoten them and why ?...Why are you doing to me the same things you did to them?...Am i even Unique to you ?....etc, etc...
So...here is the most important question.....What the fuck is Love after all ?... ^^
Love lies on the perception of the individual itself....so expectations is the *real killer* sometimes...and since we are talking about Aries here.....Love is something Extremly Unique and diferent from everything else...Love does not follow Logic or Patterns...Love is the most illogical thing that us humans *have*...a good way to see if you are in Love is...if nothing makes sense at all haha xD (don't take this literally ofc hehe)
Look at his actions...he really likes you...don't push him with the *big words* and expressions thing lool...this things comes with time...try to chill...and hey, if you want to send him a message...just do it,..but understand that in your current situation he might not reply imediatly...it might take time because he is on a new place doing new things...but it doesn't mean at all that he doesn't like you...that is something that for sure it doesn't mean ^^
Take care and again....chill ! lol
Posted by LibraLovesHimPosted by LibraJacksonThe last part maybe correct lol, I have these too. But I would also find it a little difficult living "in limbo" I am very black and white, and this for me would be living in the grey area-but this is a recent thing for me since i reached 30's. How old are you both? Are you working/studying etc? Keep on with your life doing with your own thing and try not to focus on him too much-I know easier said than done...
Heyy so for all of you who have been following my stories, Thank you!
Your feedback has helped me genuinely.
Long Story short, My Aries man is now living in NY. He messages me every day and it's mostly him telling me how he's settling in and what he's up to. I'm also visiting him in December for a week. So it's lovely really that he's keeping in touch more than I expected because we were going out, we were just dating for almost a year knowing he would move away so we both didn't commit.
I packed his bags and helped him look for a place to rent in NY when I'm living in Ireland. He's been so lovely and thankful for all I've done. BUT This is how I feel. I tell him I miss him. he said he missed me too.
he's texting me more than normal. He's sending me pictures and he's getting excited about me coming to visit him.
I love him, I really do but sometimes I feel like he's not interested somehow. I'm always paranoid that I'm bothering him and letting him live in the new city. Also if he likes me that much, why is it so hard for him to say I miss you too first sometimes or just end it altogether if he's not interested.
Or maybe I'm just moody and confused. What do you think?
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We are both in mid 20's yeah you're right. I feel like I need to let him go in away and do my own thing too. If it meant to be, he'll make it not so grey and white haha
I hope your trip in New work with the family went well, fill me in the news ? 🙂
Why to be paranoid if he is basically like a husband on the business trip...telling you all he does, pictures and stuff...
Even some husbands don't do that!
Even some husbands don't do that!
Posted by IamTheRamOhh how I miss your advice hahahaha if you were living near me I would buy your a beer !
It seems that this went as i expected...and that's a good thing 😉
But tbh with you...lol..i don't really understand your *paranoia* about him not being *interested in you somehow* lol
Well i do fully understand your position and the situation...this will be a very hard thing for you if you want to follow it through...and it's not easy at all to be in your position...but it's alo what @LibraLovesHim said..."how old are both of you ?"
Because the thing with LDR is that it requires alot of maturity from both in order not to fall into Paranoia...
But let's get back to him and the not interested thing hehe ^^
Why is that you think that ?...
Wold you rather prefer having him reduce the number of messages, but instead say "I love you and i miss you so much ?"...lol....you know what i wold say to that ?...total bullshit....lies...it's all about actions 🙂
If he increased the number of things he is *doing for you*...it's because he is thinking more about you....if he is thinking about you...it's because he either likes you or he hates you...but you are not indiferent...and on your specific case...he obviously Likes you ofc ^^
Let me give you an example on how i see all of this *things* about people expecting *big words* from other people ^^
Let's say you were with 4 guys in the last 10 years....to all of them you said "I Love you"...to 3 of them you even wrote poems and stuff like that ^^
And now imagine i was the 5th...and you wold also say that you loved *me* and also wrote the poems...lol...tell me...what makes me diferent from the others ?... after all, you did to them the same things you are *doing* to *me*...Why are you not with them if you Loved *them so much* ?..( i know life is complicated lol this is just an example)...Did you really Loved them at the end of the day ?...If so how come you already forgoten them and why ?...Why are you doing to me the same things you did to them?...Am i even Unique to you ?....etc, etc...
So...here is the most important question.....What the fuck is Love after all ?... ^^
Love lies on the perception of the individual itself....so expectations is the *real killer* sometimes...and since we are talking about Aries here.....Love is something Extremly Unique and diferent from everything else...Love does not follow Logic or Patterns...Love is the most illogical thing that us humans *have*...a good way to see if you are in Love is...if nothing makes sense at all haha xD (don't take this literally ofc hehe)
Look at his actions...he really likes you...don't push him with the *big words* and expressions thing lool...this things comes with time...try to chill...and hey, if you want to send him a message...just do it,..but understand that in your current situation he might not reply imediatly...it might take time because he is on a new place doing new things...but it doesn't mean at all that he doesn't like you...that is something that for sure it doesn't mean ^^
Take care and again....chill ! lol
Yeah I'm going to go witht the flow. I have been thinking that too like I know he cares because he's never the type to say much but he doesn't alot and his actions are obvious.
But as usual I get into this womenly bubble mode haha because I like him so much.
Thanks again and hey if you and @LibraLovesHim ever in Dublin, I'll be your tour guide !!
Posted by GemitatiHe's not my boyfriend. It's a bit grey between us but I am overthinking this 😢 hhaha
Why to be paranoid if he is basically like a husband on the business trip...telling you all he does, pictures and stuff...
Even some husbands don't do that!
Posted by LibraJacksonWait! He is not? Apparently he thinks he is! LolPosted by GemitatiHe's not my boyfriend. It's a bit grey between us but I am overthinking this 😢 hhaha
Why to be paranoid if he is basically like a husband on the business trip...telling you all he does, pictures and stuff...
Even some husbands don't do that!click to expand
Posted by LibraJacksonHaha Sure ! i will hold on to that ! Specially the beer thing....and not just 1 ofc... 😆Posted by IamTheRamOhh how I miss your advice hahahaha if you were living near me I would buy your a beer !
It seems that this went as i expected...and that's a good thing 😉
But tbh with you...lol..i don't really understand your *paranoia* about him not being *interested in you somehow* lol
Well i do fully understand your position and the situation...this will be a very hard thing for you if you want to follow it through...and it's not easy at all to be in your position...but it's alo what @LibraLovesHim said..."how old are both of you ?"
Because the thing with LDR is that it requires alot of maturity from both in order not to fall into Paranoia...
But let's get back to him and the not interested thing hehe ^^
Why is that you think that ?...
Wold you rather prefer having him reduce the number of messages, but instead say "I love you and i miss you so much ?"...lol....you know what i wold say to that ?...total bullshit....lies...it's all about actions 🙂
If he increased the number of things he is *doing for you*...it's because he is thinking more about you....if he is thinking about you...it's because he either likes you or he hates you...but you are not indiferent...and on your specific case...he obviously Likes you ofc ^^
Let me give you an example on how i see all of this *things* about people expecting *big words* from other people ^^
Let's say you were with 4 guys in the last 10 years....to all of them you said "I Love you"...to 3 of them you even wrote poems and stuff like that ^^
And now imagine i was the 5th...and you wold also say that you loved *me* and also wrote the poems...lol...tell me...what makes me diferent from the others ?... after all, you did to them the same things you are *doing* to *me*...Why are you not with them if you Loved *them so much* ?..( i know life is complicated lol this is just an example)...Did you really Loved them at the end of the day ?...If so how come you already forgoten them and why ?...Why are you doing to me the same things you did to them?...Am i even Unique to you ?....etc, etc...
So...here is the most important question.....What the fuck is Love after all ?... ^^
Love lies on the perception of the individual itself....so expectations is the *real killer* sometimes...and since we are talking about Aries here.....Love is something Extremly Unique and diferent from everything else...Love does not follow Logic or Patterns...Love is the most illogical thing that us humans *have*...a good way to see if you are in Love is...if nothing makes sense at all haha xD (don't take this literally ofc hehe)
Look at his actions...he really likes you...don't push him with the *big words* and expressions thing lool...this things comes with time...try to chill...and hey, if you want to send him a message...just do it,..but understand that in your current situation he might not reply imediatly...it might take time because he is on a new place doing new things...but it doesn't mean at all that he doesn't like you...that is something that for sure it doesn't mean ^^
Take care and again....chill ! lol
Yeah I'm going to go witht the flow. I have been thinking that too like I know he cares because he's never the type to say much but he doesn't alot and his actions are obvious.
But as usual I get into this womenly bubble mode haha because I like him so much.
Thanks again and hey if you and @LibraLovesHim ever in Dublin, I'll be your tour guide !!
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Yeah, i know 🙂
You Women really Love those sweet words *things* from time to time hehe ^^
But you have to understand that us men are diferent...and hey...isn't it better if he actually takes more time to actualy say it...but when he does...it carries all of the meaning of that word into it ? hehe
Chill !!! ^^
Posted by Gemitatilolol indeed !Posted by LibraJacksonWait! He is not? Apparently he thinks he is! LolPosted by GemitatiHe's not my boyfriend. It's a bit grey between us but I am overthinking this 😢 hhaha
Why to be paranoid if he is basically like a husband on the business trip...telling you all he does, pictures and stuff...
Even some husbands don't do that!click to expand
The *poor guy* is trying so hard to show her that he cares and is *allways* thinking about her...and she is here thinking if he does it or not just because of *a word* hehe
If it was me and she told me that...i wold be like..."wait, what ?..i just need to say a word first ?!?..ohh...ok...i didn't knew that..." haha 😆
"I'm always paranoid that I'm bothering him and letting him live in the new city."
This resonate with me.
I used to get this feeling that I was bothering my Aries too, and he used to say that I wasn't ever.
I think now I feel that it may be when he is feeling insecure of how I feel or in too deep and pulls back a bit...?
Maybe IamtheRam can explain it better?
He is probably missing you a lot...
This resonate with me.
I used to get this feeling that I was bothering my Aries too, and he used to say that I wasn't ever.
I think now I feel that it may be when he is feeling insecure of how I feel or in too deep and pulls back a bit...?
Maybe IamtheRam can explain it better?
He is probably missing you a lot...
Posted by LibraJacksonEverything will work out as it should be, I dont think Aries are prone to letting a good thing get away 😉 and remember they like the chase. At least you have a trip out to see him to look forward to! Im having a great time thank you. Wonderful to meet the family and the place that moulded him into the great guy he is 🙂Posted by LibraLovesHimPosted by LibraJacksonThe last part maybe correct lol, I have these too. But I would also find it a little difficult living "in limbo" I am very black and white, and this for me would be living in the grey area-but this is a recent thing for me since i reached 30's. How old are you both? Are you working/studying etc? Keep on with your life doing with your own thing and try not to focus on him too much-I know easier said than done...
Heyy so for all of you who have been following my stories, Thank you!
Your feedback has helped me genuinely.
Long Story short, My Aries man is now living in NY. He messages me every day and it's mostly him telling me how he's settling in and what he's up to. I'm also visiting him in December for a week. So it's lovely really that he's keeping in touch more than I expected because we were going out, we were just dating for almost a year knowing he would move away so we both didn't commit.
I packed his bags and helped him look for a place to rent in NY when I'm living in Ireland. He's been so lovely and thankful for all I've done. BUT This is how I feel. I tell him I miss him. he said he missed me too.
he's texting me more than normal. He's sending me pictures and he's getting excited about me coming to visit him.
I love him, I really do but sometimes I feel like he's not interested somehow. I'm always paranoid that I'm bothering him and letting him live in the new city. Also if he likes me that much, why is it so hard for him to say I miss you too first sometimes or just end it altogether if he's not interested.
Or maybe I'm just moody and confused. What do you think?
We are both in mid 20's yeah you're right. I feel like I need to let him go in away and do my own thing too. If it meant to be, he'll make it not so grey and white haha
I hope your trip in New work with the family went well, fill me in the news ? 🙂
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Keep us updated also.
Posted by IamTheRamYep! Ignore me. Call me a bitch...that'll show love! 😂Posted by Gemitatilolol indeed !Posted by LibraJacksonWait! He is not? Apparently he thinks he is! LolPosted by GemitatiHe's not my boyfriend. It's a bit grey between us but I am overthinking this 😢 hhaha
Why to be paranoid if he is basically like a husband on the business trip...telling you all he does, pictures and stuff...
Even some husbands don't do that!
The *poor guy* is trying so hard to show her that he cares and is *allways* thinking about her...and she is here thinking if he does it or not just because of *a word* hehe
If it was me and she told me that...i wold be like..."wait, what ?..i just need to say a word first ?!?..ohh...ok...i didn't knew that..." haha 😆click to expand
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