Interested in Aries guy

Didn't think it was possible, but I'm now interested in an aries guy. For those who don't know I am a sag and love the fact that he is so straightforward. Loving the fact that we enjoy so much of the same things too. Found out we're even in the same major. It's scary how much we're alike.

Sooo how do I keep this interest going to the point where it develops into something more? Something stable and fun... love maybe?

My sister said when he was waiting to meet me today (we were going to all eat dinner together as a group) he looked really nervous. Which is funny because when I got there he acted confident with me. Love that confidence about you guys 🙂 I'm assuming the nervousness is a good sign tho 😛

Let him take the lead and be your natural fun loving Saggie self. Sags. in my life don't have to try and keep my interest we usually just click.

Have you guys gone out on a date alone without friends?

Posted by Love366
Let him take the lead and be your natural fun loving Saggie self. Sags. in my life don't have to try and keep my interest we usually just click.

Have you guys gone out on a date alone without friends?

Not an official date, but we studied together at the college restaurant. It was just us talking, with the occasional friends popping in to say hi to us, so we had a lot of alone time to talk.

Yes, some Aries guys do get nervous around girls they like but I don't think they want you to know that they're nervous so they'll try anything to hide it. My Aries ex was completely silent at first. He avoided direct eye contact with me but would bluntly stare at me from the side when he thought I wasn't paying attention. He would become very fidgety as soon as I looked at him and he would often sort of eavesdrop on my conversations with my friends. He always sat really close to me in class even though all his buddies sat someplace else. This went on for like 4 months. He did eventually talk to me but it took him 4 months to be able to do it which I thought was endearing. I think he wanted to simply observe me first (making sure I wasn't a b**ch I guess lol). He had the same birthday as me. April 9. I don't have that much experience with guys since he's the only one I've ever been with so not sure if this behavior is common for all men or just Aries...
I think shy Aries are pretty rare but I dunno. I guess I'm one of them.

Posted by happykitsune
Sooo how do I keep this interest going to the point where it develops into something more? Something stable and fun... love maybe?

1.Don't be easy. Don't be vulgar. Whatever you do, don't throw yourself on him. That's a turnoff for any men.
2.Always look cute & classy. Smell nice.
3.Be honest about your feelings. Communicate in a straightforward way. Don't play games with him. That'll just tick him off.
4.Be caring and attentive.

That's all I got. Sorry lol

Posted by loner
Yes, some Aries guys do get nervous around girls they like but I don't think they want you to know that they're nervous so they'll try anything to hide it. My Aries ex was completely silent at first. He avoided direct eye contact with me but would bluntly stare at me from the side when he thought I wasn't paying attention. He would become very fidgety as soon as I looked at him and he would often sort of eavesdrop on my conversations with my friends. He always sat really close to me in class even though all his buddies sat someplace else. This went on for like 4 months. He did eventually talk to me but it took him 4 months to be able to do it which I thought was endearing. I think he wanted to simply observe me first (making sure I wasn't a b**ch I guess lol). He had the same birthday as me. April 9. I don't have that much experience with guys since he's the only one I've ever been with so not sure if this behavior is common for all men or just Aries...
I think shy Aries are pretty rare but I dunno. I guess I'm one of them.

Haha aww that's cute 🙂 I think this one is partially shy, but it looks like he's worked through it a lot in his life so he goes for it after his initial nervousness. The second time we ever talked he mostly talked to my sister and barely looked at me, like he was nervous. No real eye contact like with your aries ex. I think the nervousness is cute, it makes them human, just as long as they can come up from it and act confident in the end. Now that I think of it this aries sat really close to me when we had dinner...which is interesting because generally guys I've liked in the past try not to be too close to me unless we are in fact dating. It was actually very flattering.

I'm curious, what was your aries ex's chart? I still haven't pulled up this ones chart yet, but he seems fairly mellow... very little aggression, doesn't rush through things, sticks to projects, which is strange for an aries, from what I've read at least.

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Posted by happykitsune
Sooo how do I keep this interest going to the point where it develops into something more? Something stable and fun... love maybe?

1.Don't be easy. Don't be vulgar. Whatever you do, don't throw yourself on him. That's a turnoff for any men.
2.Always look cute & classy. Smell nice.
3.Be honest about your feelings. Communicate in a straightforward way. Don't play games with him. That'll just tick him off.
4.Be caring and attentive.

That's all I got. Sorry lol

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I can do all of that 🙂 Seem fairly basic. We've already shared with each other about what happened in our past "party" life and what we're looking at towards the future with grad schools and such. It's nice being able to say mostly what I want (without being tasteless or rude of course) and not feel like I'm being judged or that we're not on the same page 😄

His birthday was April 9, 1992 (same as mine).
Sun Aries 20.11
Moon Cancer 11.57
Mercury Pisces 28.45
Venus Aries 3.05
Mars Pisces 9.51
Jupiter Virgo 5.18 R
Saturn Aquarius 16.37
Uranus Capricorn 17.57
Neptune Capricorn 18.56
Pluto Scorpio 22.26 R
Lilith Aquarius 8.54
Asc node Capricorn 3.49


He was really reserved and quiet but extremely caring. Treated me like a queen. We met when we were 15 and were together until his death in December of 2010. He hid from me the fact that he was in a gang the entire time we were together. I have no idea if this type of secretive behavior is typical of Aries males but be careful just in case. Your guy might hide certain information about himself from you just like my ex did. People say Aries are bad at lying and hiding things but no they are fully capable of leading double lives. My ex was proof of that. I'm not trying to scare you. I'm just saying that what you see may not be what you get with some Aries (contrary to the popular belief that Aries are simple, honest and without masks).

Posted by loner
His birthday was April 9, 1992 (same as mine).
Sun Aries 20.11
Moon Cancer 11.57
Mercury Pisces 28.45
Venus Aries 3.05
Mars Pisces 9.51
Jupiter Virgo 5.18 R
Saturn Aquarius 16.37
Uranus Capricorn 17.57
Neptune Capricorn 18.56
Pluto Scorpio 22.26 R
Lilith Aquarius 8.54
Asc node Capricorn 3.49


He was really reserved and quiet but extremely caring. Treated me like a queen. We met when we were 15 and were together until his death in December of 2010. He hid from me the fact that he was in a gang the entire time we were together. I have no idea if this type of secretive behavior is typical of Aries males but be careful just in case. Your guy might hide certain information about himself from you just like my ex did. People say Aries are bad at lying and hiding things but no they are fully capable of leading double lives. My ex was proof of that. I'm not trying to scare you. I'm just saying that what you see may not be what you get with some Aries (contrary to the popular belief that Aries are simple, honest and without masks).

I'm sorry for your loss 😢 He sounds like he was a great guy.

Well, I broke down and pulled up this scorps chart, tho I'm not too sure it's completely right.

Sun Aries 15.38
Moon Scorpio 18.21
Mercury Aries 0.31
Venus Gemini 1.27
Mars Capricorn 28.52
Jupiter Taurus 6.07
Saturn Capricorn 2.32
Uranus Capricorn 1.03 R
Neptune Capricorn 10.12
Pluto Scorpio 11.54 R
Lilith Leo 25.37
Asc node Pisces 23.10

Looks like him and I have the same moon and it's interesting his mars is cap and my venus is in cap. Don't know if I like that gem in venus tho >.>

Sounds promising, happykitsune! Keep us updated! 🙂

Yarg! I knew I had done his chart wrong. I was looking at the placement thinking it really didn't look like him and then I remembered I have a picture of his drivers license on my phone... don't ask lol. So here is the real chart.

Sun Aries 15.24
Moon Aries 2.01
Mercury Aries 16.05
Venus Aries 15.27
Mars Gemini 15.12
Jupiter Gemini 4.15
Saturn Capricorn 13.40
Uranus Capricorn 5.19
Neptune Capricorn 12.22
Pluto Scorpio 14.35 R
Lilith Libra 6.17
Asc node Pisces 4.18


Sheesh, 4 times aries. My leo ex was an aries moon and man was he a handful. My bff is also an venus in aries. She's very caring, but I always felt like she rushed things in her relationships, which resulted in the end of them.
I'm liking all that cap tho.. it really explains who he is

Posted by loner
His birthday was April 9, 1992 (same as mine).
Sun Aries 20.11
Moon Cancer 11.57
Mercury Pisces 28.45
Venus Aries 3.05
Mars Pisces 9.51
Jupiter Virgo 5.18 R
Saturn Aquarius 16.37
Uranus Capricorn 17.57
Neptune Capricorn 18.56
Pluto Scorpio 22.26 R
Lilith Aquarius 8.54
Asc node Capricorn 3.49


He was really reserved and quiet but extremely caring. Treated me like a queen. We met when we were 15 and were together until his death in December of 2010. He hid from me the fact that he was in a gang the entire time we were together. I have no idea if this type of secretive behavior is typical of Aries males but be careful just in case. Your guy might hide certain information about himself from you just like my ex did. People say Aries are bad at lying and hiding things but no they are fully capable of leading double lives. My ex was proof of that. I'm not trying to scare you. I'm just saying that what you see may not be what you get with some Aries (contrary to the popular belief that Aries are simple, honest and without masks).

It was probably his Merc in Pisces that made him secretive. There are things that I will tell no one and I am taking it to the grave, I can be open but certain things i just dont talk about ever.

Update:

I asked him to hang with our group at a bonfire tonight, then we all went to watch a movie on campus together. He's quite the gentleman, opening doors, listening, finding the trash for me. It was sweet 🙂

He asked me to go to a coffee house with him to watch his friend play with a band. I'm still debating if I want to go or not since it'll last till 11pm and I plan on going back home that night, which is 45 mins away. Hmmm decisions decisions.

Posted by loner
His birthday was April 9, 1992
He was really reserved and quiet but extremely caring. Treated me like a queen. We met when we were 15 and were together until his death in December of 2010. He hid from me the fact that he was in a gang the entire time we were together. I have no idea if this type of secretive behavior is typical of Aries males but be careful just in case. Your guy might hide certain information about himself from you just like my ex did. People say Aries are bad at lying and hiding things but no they are fully capable of leading double lives. My ex was proof of that. I'm not trying to scare you. I'm just saying that what you see may not be what you get with some Aries (contrary to the popular belief that Aries are simple, honest and without masks).

you know... I am April 15 1992 and I sometimes find myself shy as hell, I dont know if its my chart or the way I was brought up, but I used to have a friend who was also april 15 but 1991 he was shy-ish too, then my ex best friend he was April 1 1992, he wasnt really shy in a group but when it was one on one he was quite shy.. about secrets, well there are things I do not talk about, most of the time its because i am being careful and dont want people to know my business, and what i am not telling them is generally a good thing, I just dont open my cards at once.. I do however have few, one would call "dark" secrets, but they are more of perverted type, some of them i will never talk to anyone, about even my future wife. He knew he could have lost you if he told you, and sucks you couldnt pick up on it, but from the way you described him he was pretty good at hiding it, basically as I am, we dont leave holes in the story, and if we do, at least me, I make sure I am 10 steps away from it.

Anyways move on, get yourself another aries

Posted by bluemoon9043834
Kits,

What happened to the Scorpio guy?

If I see something isn't working I don't stick around. I went through a cycle with the leo that I could see myself about to fall into with scorpio. We're still friends, but he doesn't want what I want and I'm ready to move on to someone who is straightforward. Scorpio was at one point, but after him not seeing us together things got very muddled. So in order to honor my respect and his I am no longer going "there".

Aries shows an obvious interest in me and he is everything the scorpio was, and more. He's just right I need right now as I find in different stages of my life I've sought after different types of guys as I've grown.

Only thing is...I'm terribly shy with this guy when we first talk...then when we start talking I'm probably the loudest I've ever been. And he's the first guy I didn't dive in head first with (in the physical or sexual sense), which is weird considering he's an aries.

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Posted by happykitsune

If I see something isn't working I don't stick around. I went through a cycle with the leo that I could see myself about to fall into with scorpio. We're still friends, but he doesn't want what I want and I'm ready to move on to someone who is straightforward. Scorpio was at one point, but after him not seeing us together things got very muddled. So in order to honor my respect and his I am no longer going "there".

Aries shows an obvious interest in me and he is everything the scorpio was, and more. He's just right I need right now as I find in different stages of my life I've sought after different types of guys as I've grown.

Only thing is...I'm terribly shy with this guy when we first talk...then when we start talking I'm probably the loudest I've ever been. And he's the first guy I didn't dive in head first with (in the physical or sexual sense), which is weird considering he's an aries.

Does the Scorpio guy know this?

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Know what? He's the one who wanted to be just friend in the first place. If he comes around for some reason asking me why I'm suddenly talking to another guy I'll tell him my intentions. But him and I have no agreement to not date others. I'm going off of what him and I talked about last so what I do in my spare time is my business and not his. He's not my father. He shouldn't be concerned with what I do with my life, and, as it stands, he doesn't seem to be concerned in the slightest.

Going to enjoy my time with aries. You guys are a hoot. We were seriously laughing most of the end of the night. The connection is awesome. A lot like I had with scorpio, but there aren't things left unsaid so I'm not left wondering what he's thinking. Such a breath of fresh air. I'm not much for aries guys, but I guess I just had to find the right one to appreciate them 🙂

wow...i don't think i've EVER seen a nervous aries man, lol!!

Posted by bluemoon9043834
Fair enough... I would just run it by the Scorpio guy, so he is aware and why. Scorpio men are the kings of curtain calls and he will be back in your life, whether you want that or not.... I would just run it by him again and put it to him the way you said it here. If you and the Aries guy progress, the Aries guy and Scorpio will fight each other and it will be the Aries guy who wins because his heart is on the line. Just looking at it from all angles...

Good luck with the Aries... 🙂

If he tries to get back in with me I will. Not about to short change the aries or give scorpio false hope. Interestingly enough Scorp text me tonight asking about the bow I'd ordered since I had told him about it and asked him about his a week or so ago. I was with aries so I didn't get back to him till way later tonight.

And thanks. Things are going slow and steady so all is well 🙂

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
wow...i don't think i've EVER seen a nervous aries man, lol!!

Yeah no joke. My sister has known him longer than I have and she said he just wasn't himself. He was actually quiet for once haha

I will admit I am shy around him when we first hang out, but by the end of the night we're both talking to each other like best friends.

from what i've heard, sag/aries is a nice combo happy! i would only say to watch for the stop/start routine they sometimes get into with new relationships. it took over two years for me to officially 'hook' my ex husband and it was a very emotionally draining experience. should've seen it as a sign of things to come but aries men.....there's something about them...when their focus is on you, it's on you 100% and you feel like the only woman in the world but after a while, they get lazy with that and it seems to switch to the woman being made to feel the LUCKIEST woman in the world to have a ram in their lives. imo, they are the ultimate alpha male 😛 (never again for me though, lol)

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
from what i've heard, sag/aries is a nice combo happy! i would only say to watch for the stop/start routine they sometimes get into with new relationships. it took over two years for me to officially 'hook' my ex husband and it was a very emotionally draining experience. should've seen it as a sign of things to come but aries men.....there's something about them...when their focus is on you, it's on you 100% and you feel like the only woman in the world but after a while, they get lazy with that and it seems to switch to the woman being made to feel the LUCKIEST woman in the world to have a ram in their lives. imo, they are the ultimate alpha male 😛 (never again for me though, lol)

Thanks, I will keep this in mind. He seemed to last fairly long with his last gf, but she was pressuring him too soon about certain things so that fell a part. No clue if he kept the focus on her up until that point. It seemed like he treated he very well tho.

As a sag I do love the attention on me, but I also try to give as much as I get as well with the attention.