Lesbian relationship please help

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Hey all. I’m an Aries woman and I’m falling in love with an Aquarius woman. I always go for super emotional signs like Scorpios and cancers but for the life of me there’s just SOMETHING about this chick!!! Anyway. She’s actually very sensitive and had her heart broke by her ex wife who’s a Leo. Her ex wife actually started dating the Aquarius girls best male friend. So naturally that crushed her and she tells me she’ll never love again.

In the same breath, although she’s super cautious we still can’t stay away from each other. I know it’s gonna take a long time for her to trust people again so right now I’m just focusing on that. Does anyone have any advice or input? I know that this is gonna take a lot of patience but she’s so worth it.
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Posted by LaPetiteEtoile

Better to let her finish grieving before you put the moves on her.

She might feel taken advantage of.

If you get along well that’s great but it’s easy enough as an air sign to come up with reasons a relationship isn’t right.

Stay in her peripheral and be friends but she needs to be over it before she’ll take anything seriously.

Thank you so much. I’m definitely extremely patient and want to be there for her as her friend in any way I can first. She is an amazing kisser. But I’ll let her control the relationship and take it as fast or slow as she’d like
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Posted by ClassyAquarius

That may be very long road. Aquarius people sometimes take years to forgot someone. You can stick around but be prepared that it doesn't have to end as you want or plan. Be cautious about what she's doing and don't ignore red flags.


Thank you! It breaks my heart seeing how much pain she’s in but I love making her laugh and we get along super well. She’s a great kisser and I’m a great listener. She’s got a heart of gold and I don’t mind waiting years for this once in a lifetime girl.
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What happened with the male Leo coworker you were in love with a few months ago?

I was never in love with him. I thought I liked him but that lasted like a week and honestly I was probably just bored cause I hadn’t gotten any action in a while. He was a mistake nothing more . I like this girl. And I’ll do whatever I can just to linger in her life
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What happened with the male Leo coworker you were in love with a few months ago?

I was never in love with him. I thought I liked him but that lasted like a week and honestly I was probably just bored cause I hadn’t gotten any action in a while. He was a mistake nothing more . I like this girl. And I’ll do whatever I can just to linger in her life
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Do you tend to fall quickly into lust/like/love?

Maybe its a good thing she's still processing her breakup. It'll force you to pump the breaks, really get to know her, and then decide if its the right one for you.
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What happened with the male Leo coworker you were in love with a few months ago?

I was never in love with him. I thought I liked him but that lasted like a week and honestly I was probably just bored cause I hadn’t gotten any action in a while. He was a mistake nothing more . I like this girl. And I’ll do whatever I can just to linger in her life

Do you tend to fall quickly into lust/like/love?

Maybe its a good thing she's still processing her breakup. It'll force you to pump the breaks, really get to know her, and then decide if its the right one for you.
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I absolutely fall for people quickly, without a doubt. But there’s something special about this girl. And it’s so much more than just trying to prove to her that she can love again, I wanna show her a love like she’s never experienced before. I have no problem being her friend first. I enjoy every moment of talking to her.
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Better to let her finish grieving before you put the moves on her.

She might feel taken advantage of.

If you get along well that’s great but it’s easy enough as an air sign to come up with reasons a relationship isn’t right.

Stay in her peripheral and be friends but she needs to be over it before she’ll take anything seriously.

Thank you so much. I’m definitely extremely patient and want to be there for her as her friend in any way I can first. She is an amazing kisser. But I’ll let her control the relationship and take it as fast or slow as she’d like

If you are already kissing her you’ve gone too far..

My guess is she will run with it while she’s lonely for comfort but she’ll talk herself into the “rebound” narrative and will drop you once she’s over it.

Just my guess.
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She kissed me, actually(: I’m very cautious of boundaries and this is about so much more than just sex for me. I dont usually initiate the conversation either. I know how important freedom is to Aquarian’s despite ever having dated one. I have a tremendous amount of respect for this girl.
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What happened with the male Leo coworker you were in love with a few months ago?

I was never in love with him. I thought I liked him but that lasted like a week and honestly I was probably just bored cause I hadn’t gotten any action in a while. He was a mistake nothing more . I like this girl. And I’ll do whatever I can just to linger in her life
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In less than a month you'll be saying the exact same thing about this Aqua girl.
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Being an Aries myself, I now the best way to get me to do something is to tell me not to do it.

And I’m hoping this is true here, people shouldn’t tell you to forget this Aqua, you should know what your heart says and go for it, do not listen to negative people.

I would definitely say Aries people are not patient, this is true. This however is not really the question here, Aries like a challenge, and if taking time to get to know someone is actually the challenge, then this is what an Aries will do.

Be careful that you don’t have white knight syndrome, fairly common with Aries, they like to rescue and protect people. Make sure you are doing this for the right reasons. It is definitely time for you to forget her past, is it really something to do with you? Don’t let it to be anything to do with you.

Aquas take time to open up anyway, and they will do it when the person is a friend, you will know when she does, and at that point.. you will not let her down. So hopefully you know it is what you want.

Let her decide if she’s ready or not, whenever she feels like it, be her best friend, the enjoyment is the journey anyway and no point rushing it. No expectation either way, as should be the case in all relationships anyway, right?