Libra girl/ aries male---advice please

I have known my aries male for a long time. We both agree that there has always been a connection between us from day 1 of becoming friends. Just recently we have started to become intimate. The other night he said he worries about us falling in love with each other and asks what I think. I said theres a big chance that could happen. He responds with that he thinks it is already happening. He says he is already to the point that he misses me when I am not with him. He doesn't always act like this though? Any advice? Anything I need to know to keep him interested and wanting more?

First Aries I have ever been interested in. He can sometimes be hard to read. He sure does have a way he looks at me too! When I walk in the room he instantly smiles. Being friends he likes to pick on me a lot. He thinks its funny when i am mad. Says I get fiesty! Anything I need to know about this sign so I don't crowd him or chase him off?

Thanks! Do they tend to be very independant? He's funny. Sometimes when we are away from each other we text like crazy. Then other times he barely responds. Definitely different

you answered your own question...don't crowd him and you won't chase him off.

i'm starting to come to the conclusion that where aries men are maddening, they're not actually hard to read. i think with fire signs you can sometimes internalize their selfishness. if he becomes distant, is it because you did this, said that? he used to call everyday, why is he now calling once a week? the answer is, who knows? right now, you probably won't know but one thing you can be 99.9% sure of, it doesn't have a damn thing to do with you. if you didn't do anything, you probably didn't so stop trying to read him/figure out what's going on because when he wants you to know, he'll let you know 😛

i think if anything, you might trigger an aries into action. you could've been having a conversation about the joys of knitting. he disappears for a month and comes back with a sweater that he made. now during that month you were flippin' out. but i think if you can keep your cool during their momentary episodes of selfishness, you'll both be just fine.

momentary episodes of selfishness! Knowing him for 10 yrs that is him to a T. Whats funny is we both agree that we should've been together a long time ago. Honestly I think when i was younger I wouldn't have been as patient with him as I think I can be now. He makes plans last minute and so on etc. etc.

Whats the big deal about pink?

YES, WE HAVE BEEN FRIENDS FOR TEN YEARS. JUST RECENTLY DID WE START IT UP AS SOMETHING MORE THAN FRIENDS. BUT LIKE I SAID WE BOTH ADMIT WE HAVE ALWAYS HAD A CONNECTION. JUST RECENTLY THOUGH HE MADE HIS MOVE ON ME. WE WERE AT A FRIENDS HOUSE FOR A CHRISTMAS PARTY AND HE SAID HE WOULD WALK ME OUT AND ONCE OUT OF SIGHT FROM EVERYONE WE WORK WITH HE LAID ONE ON ME. EVER SINCE THEN WE HAVE BEEN SPENDING ACTUAL TIME ALONE TOGETHER MAYBE ONCE OR TWICE A WEEK. SO I GUESS ITS NOT A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP IT IS POSSIBLY THE START OF A NEW ONE. HE TOLD ME A WEEK AGO THAT HE THINKS HE IS FALLING IN LOVE WITH ME.

SO IS IT A TYPICAL CHARACTERISTIC OF AN ARIES MALE TO ACT THIS WAY? SO LOVING ONE WEEK AND THEN THE NEXT NOT AS LOVING AND THEN LOVING AGAIN. THE LAST WEEK HE HAS BEEN DIFFERENT AND NOW HE IS BACK TO BEING HIS PLAYFUL TEASING SELF. HE LOVES TO PICK ON ME AND LOVES TO SO HOW MAD HE CAN GET ME BECAUSE HE SAYS HE LIKES IT WHEN I GET ALL FIESTY. I DON'T KNOW.

OH YEAH HE LIKES TO GET ME FIRED UP. WELL I GUESS I WILL JUST HAVE TO WAIT AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS WITH THIS ONE. THE FRIENDSHIP I KNOW WE WILL ALWAYS HAVE BUT AFTER HAVING HIM AS A LOVER NOW TOO.....MAN! HOPEFULLY WE WILL END UP WITH BOTH!

why are you shouting lol