Miss her today saw her at library, i call her over

i call her over i ask what she was doing her today she said studying and i said ok then i said bye bye. she look at me like what is going on really confused look
but i wnat to contact her now.

what should i do.

i think she misses me thats why she came by but it could all be in my head 😢

Not much to go on right there. If she looked confused, she was confused though. Maybe you could give us and her a more full explanation about what is going on, and clear it up with everyone.

I do not know if you posted any of this stuff other places. Here is the deal though, neither her nor I are going to go looking for this info.

Aries has fairly ok instincts so if you have something to say and you are not saying it, then you'll prob get the 😕 look

Anyways, looks like you have gone in your head instead of acting, good luck with that.

you people always take shit so personal can you remove your self from your ego and just try to understand me and put something that will help me out

did you get that from a list of wikipedia as Aries characteristics?

So let's see,

- you post a new thread expecting people to remember your life history?
- they don't, then they must be dense in the head?
- throw out some more words, ordering 'you people' to put aside your rudeness, hang onto your every non-punctuating scattered gist and give you the solution to your problems, while getting ticked off at a cartoon?

Your display falls into the characteristics you applied to 'you people', yes or no?

you and you pontuation and scatter gist: always worrying about the little details lol so cute yet so annoying.
anyways look did you understand what wrote? Yes you did.

Posted by geminiinlove
specially when i recognize them as being one that most of you hold onto for dear life like your ego.

Doesn't logic follow that you shouldn't need help and should be able to recognise the solution you need to deal with said sign?

All BS aside, dude, you are shooting off at the mouth, laughing away at BS you drop, thinking you could do not wrong or harm with people online that have no idea who you are, so makes me wonder if you do this same in the real world.

I am not a flag carrier for any zodiac, my sun, moon, whatever, I input what is logical, not what I twist to make me appear great or the people of my sun sign appear great.
I am struggling to take your comments seriously cos frankly, it's so jumbled up that it's hard to read it.

But as you keep harping on and on about wanting some input, my 2cents from the gist of what I can make out from what you are jumbling together around:
- Some actions are needed to ensure you both know where you stand in reality, not tiptoeing around each other & wondering what the other is thinking, then expecting virtual people to read you an 8-ball.
- Sitting here wondering, huffing and puffing at the wrong targets, doesn't really display your burgeoning intelligence.
- If you are possessive and controlling when in a relationship, then accept face the fact, let your future partners know, they take it or leave it, fock them. Currently, you are faking being a different person
- Then find ways to use the controlling tendencies productively or find out why you are that way, that will help you better understand yourself. You understand yourself, become comfortable with yourself, the confidence to go after what you need, will come.
- If you are only possessive with this girl, then she may not be right after all is she doesn't bring out your best qualities? Or it's a trust issue?
- Changing yourself to get this girl where you want her seems to be what you are currently doing, instead of changing yourself to make you better, is this really being honest with her or yourself? Change for wrong reasons, it will only be temporary and you will reverse to comfort zone sooner or later
- Instead of thinking you know so much about other signs, reflect on yourself instead

Zen is out, Peace!
ps: if you are gonna PM me, make it useful please, no silly questions, or I drag the 22-inch wide tool from the arse of

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ps: if you are gonna PM me, make it useful please, no silly questions, or I drag the 22-inch wide tool from the arse of the last Gem dude that chased me in circles trying to convince me how different he could be for me and shove it up yours.

^ yea, ram and twins combo can be pweety speshul...

Don't know where this gem gets the energy from bouncing around posts, PMs, etc, instead of applying it to grabbing the said ram by the horns

YOU call her over. YOU ask her why she's there. Then you tell her "bye bye?"




Huh? Did you do that ^^^^^^^ after the last week of pouring your heart out about how you fucked up and how you want to win her back?


::: shakes head :::

its complicated


there are lot of feelings involved here. i wrote a post about all this last week.
i decided to let go of her. since she is confused at the moment. i dont know what else to do.
this post was jus to help me deal i was angry cause i was emotional about seeing her again.
Gemini like to take it out on other people when they are angry.


How the hell am i supposed to win her back, when all she does is avoid me.
besides i was talking to a Libra friend of mind and she said best thing to do with aries is just ignore there ass until they miss you so much they have no choice but to call you or contact you. granted my areis has never done that with me. but thats cause i always cave and last time i cut her off after she broke up with her boyfriend she never bother contacting me. although i think it was cause i was acting like a dush on aim, i dont really know.

there is a lot more to this i guess then what i am telling right now most of is based on how i feel.

About the spelling.

i don't worry about the little things in life specially spelling. i usually like to type fast and yea some words get missed spelled there are lots of errors and i agree it sounds stupid sometimes. but if i went back and checked my spelling i would have to interrupt how i am feeling and check. i can barely type when i feel upset about something cause i am just trying to get the words out. Frankly its just the way i deal.

But since i have been receiving so many complaints from you people. i will try to at least pay attention to the spelling

i need help not criticism

Posted by geminiinlove

Gemini like to take it out on other people when they are angry.

Yes, I realize that. We all realize that, and if we don't, we soon will as soon as we relate with a Gemini. Perhaps this is the reason why she avoids you.

You say ridiculous things such as ...

Posted by geminiinlove

... best thing to do with aries is just ignore there ass until they miss you so much they have no choice but to call you or contact you ...

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Because that ^^^ is ignoring that you are at fault for projecting feelings onto her. I would avoid you also if you took feelings out on me that are your responsibility to sort out, because they are your feelings, not mine.

And this is what you are doing, this is why she decided to step away from you. The reason why you are controlling and possessive, the reason why all people are like this .... is because you aren't taking responsibility of your own feelings and attempting to lay the responsibility onto her to take it for you.

You are having emotions in which you aren't trying to sort out ... this is why people in here are getting pissed off at you.

Aries people are probably the purest off all the signs in terms of intent. There is no motive to them. Yes, they can be assholes and bitches sometimes, but, these are just reactions, and never calculated actions. You need to realize the difference.

You just yap away about how you feel, and yet say nothing about how you are going to deal with these feelings yourself. You certainly can't do what was said in here ..... to call her to you, only so you can push her away when she comes.

And you can't excuse that by saying you're mad ... deal with your fucking issues, man.

Posted by geminiinlove
i need help not criticism

I understand that. But, then you call her to you, only so you can push her away.


And to say you are mad isn't a valid excuse ..... this leaves you wide open for criticism because you aren't facing the real issue here.


Which is your unwillingness to deal with your own feelings.


Nobody can help you, if you aren't willing to accept your own feelings, dude.

Posted by geminiinlove

But since i have been receiving so many complaints from you people.

Can you clarify what you mean by "you people" ??


Who are the "you people" that you are referring to?

Are you referring to the people in whom you are asking to help you?

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Posted by geminiinlove

But since i have been receiving so many complaints from you people.

Can you clarify what you mean by "you people" ?? Aries girls


Who are the "you people" that you are referring to? Aries girls

Are you referring to the people in whom you are asking to help you?

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Yes

i know the way that sounds, i guess i could just say Aries girls if that you prefer.

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Posted by geminiinlove
i need help not criticism

I understand that. But, then you call her to you, only so you can push her away.


And to say you are mad isn't a valid excuse ..... this leaves you wide open for criticism because you aren't facing the real issue here.


Which is your unwillingness to deal with your own feelings.


Nobody can help you, if you aren't willing to accept your own feelings, dude.

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what do you mean the unwillingness to deal with my feelings? i deal with my feelings i love her and i get angry, happy, sad all at once. its just how i am. i have never had a problem dealing with my feelings. i feel angry you know it if i feel happy you can tell if i am sad you know it. ok so yes i am trying to avoid her and project something, i tried being open and honest with her she just pushed me away and went on her own little world. so i have nothing else i can do but ignore her. unless you suggest something that will actually work for me and her? i just found this page like last week but me and her have been doing this for the past 2 years.

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Posted by geminiinlove

Gemini like to take it out on other people when they are angry.

Yes, I realize that. We all realize that, and if we don't, we soon will as soon as we relate with a Gemini. Perhaps this is the reason why she avoids you.

You say ridiculous things such as ...

Posted by geminiinlove

... best thing to do with aries is just ignore there ass until they miss you so much they have no choice but to call you or contact you ...

Because that ^^^ is ignoring that you are at fault for projecting feelings onto her. I would avoid you also if you took feelings out on me that are your responsibility to sort out, because they are your feelings, not mine.

And this is what you are doing, this is why she decided to step away from you. The reason why you are controlling and possessive, the reason why all people are like this .... is because you aren't taking responsibility of your own feelings and attempting to lay the responsibility onto her to take it for you.

You are having emotions in which you aren't trying to sort out ... this is why people in here are getting pissed off at you.

Aries people are probably the purest off all the signs in terms of intent. There is no motive to them. Yes, they can be assholes and bitches sometimes, but, these are just reactions, and never calculated actions. You need to realize the difference.

You just yap away about how you feel, and yet say nothing about how you are going to deal with these feelings yourself. You certainly can't do what was said in here ..... to call her to you, only so you can push her away when she comes.

And you can't excuse that by saying you're mad ... deal with your fucking issues, man.

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i dont take out my feeling on her i never have when ever we are around each other we just lost in our selfs and 3 hours can go by in mins
this has never happend to me before and as we grew closer it effected me a lot and her too. i became obsessive about her possessive and controlling and at the same time she wanted to have her own space. because of it . in past 6 months i have been going threw a lot of changes emotionally and spiritually. and so did she accept she found Christianity or an extreme ver

How i deal with my feelings

i use meditation and i know where all my feelings come from this is what has allow me to change in past 6 months going from suffering to not suffering.
i have looked deep with in my subconscious and i have come a long way, i may still have some more to deal with but i am progressing nicely i think. yes i have days that really bad and i lack some courage sometimes to talk to her and be the way we used to be.
but she is always fucking with me too. i understand she doesn't do it intentionally but she still fucks with my head.
to me i am straight up dude always very forward is the one thing you can count on with me.
i am so good at it you dont even have to hear me talk you just know how i feel by looking at my face.
you will never be confused but this also gets me trouble as she doesnt really handle her feelings she just bottles them in.
and cant handle talking about deep emotional things with me.
she just runs away from her feelings cause she is afraid of getting hurt.

ImpressMe

thank you for your commet i appreciate it.

zenalchemy

i am not sure if you have read any of my other post but i dont know how to grab her by the horns.
she is trying to change her self she used to be this butterfly wonderful and always opened and nice.
then whenever i get too close and she remembers the old me she runs. but now she is confused.
and to top it all off, she joined a church group that is a extreem version of Christianity. she said she wants to grow and that i hold her back.
cause when ever she is with me she goes back to being a dreamer and looses who she is trying to be. and she has to start over from scratch.
its like she is trying to be mature in someway but and that i guess i just influence her in her too much by letting her forget everything and focus only on her dream world.
one time she mentioned something about telling about her true self to me. then i kinda blew by telling how i feel about her church group.
i think she is lying to her self. but i maybe wrong.

yea the church thing is only making things worst but she found a something she can believe in i guess i am hoping is just phase she is going through.
but she is totally devoted to it. i have accepted that she wants to be that person. but i am trying to just move on but my love for her will never die. if i just give up on her.
i will just end up being unhappy. i know she loves me. so i decided to give her time. its just dealing with her when i see her that is hard for me. because i dont really know if should be my self and talk to her and tell her how much i love her or should i just ignore her neither seem to be working at the moment. i dont want to be rude to her.
i just want her to be happy and i can accept it if she doesnt want me anymore. but i know she loves me and will never get over me. so i think i still have a chance with her.
i am truly a good person and want to help her grow not get in her way. so ignore or not ignore. i guess i can only love her from a far for now. i just wished i knew how to make her understand that i have changed.

So GIL, I must commend you on the punctuating, much appreciated.

How the hell am i supposed to win her back, when all she does is avoid me.
besides i was talking to a Libra friend of mind and she said best thing to do with aries is just ignore there ass until they miss you so much they have no choice but to call you or contact you.

ImpressMe

what do you mean throw myself on this one?

Posted by geminiinlove
ImpressMe

what do you mean throw myself on this one?

Exhibits A, B, C, D, E....

ZEN: Anyways, looks like you have gone in your head instead of acting

DOFACC: Not much to go on right there. If she looked confused, she was confused though. Maybe you could give us and her a more full explanation about what is going on, and clear it up with everyone.

ZEN: Some actions are needed to ensure you both know where you stand in reality ...AND lots more stuff to this effect

AME: Why don't you think about your actions, because it amazes me that you're not understanding why she was confused.

IMPRESS: this Gem. needs to let go and throw himself on the Aries

P-ANG: You just yap away about how you feel, and yet say nothing about how you are going to deal with these feelings yourself.

lol

Anyways Skankoids, back to Gemini boy's dilemma ...

GIL, you are collecting loads of data, hypothesis, etc, but it is not reflecting as being used to do anything. Also, the reason I laughed at you consulting your Libra friend is that Libra and Gemini are Air signs, so the approach will be exactly the same. You have gone to validate your theories collected so far. Hereby completely missing the point, ignoring what everyone keeps pointing out to you time and time again, you still want to remain in your comfort zone.

- Air needs to move in a controlled manner otherwise it blows around everywhere, scattered and is completely useless (i.e. If you have a heavy influence of Air in your chart that makes you think a lot, then if you do nothing to 'realise' those thoughts and make them real, they are absolutely useless). Fire on the other hand needs to burn in a controlled manner or it will cause a lot of damage to things around it (i.e. people with heavy influence of fire need to stop and 'think' every now and then to ensure the fire is burning without negative effects).

^ do you now understand why Fire and Air signs compliment each other? If they are both mature and in good place in life, it is a never ending party. It doesn't mean that anyone is any more intelligent or any more egotistical (all humans are intelligent with ego, how these qualities are displayed is what makes us very different).

It is now time to let go (i.e. trust your instincts that you have enough data) and move, how you move, I don't know...

--- I am thinking start planning what to say to her? That way, you fill your mind with potential words and sentences, then if you meet her again, you actually blurt out something that is coherent?

--- become her friend to learn more about her while learning more about you? It is easy to date an Aries-type person if you are already a friend, the trust will be there. This is what I mean by grabbing her by the horns, if she has decided to do more thinking about her life, then chill but be there otherwise you are not consistent, causing more confusion to the situation.

The thing with about giving girls distance is that another guy who —acts?? will step in and throw your game out, while you are busy planning.

As far as I know, Gem boys I have know can come across as controlling when dating, they always wanna know where the person they are dating is & what they are doing, especially if they are really into the person. It's cute but rein it in a little 😛
Had this Gem dude steamroll me so badly once he tried to make contact at least every 20mins??_ unless it was bed time, talk about being a weirdo

Between me and you, I wouldn't discuss the religion thing, as I'm with you on that side. I don't believe in anything, I pay my taxes, so that's got to be my religion! Twisted logic, but I avoid a prison sentence by paying so 😛
Just kidding, I just cant do anything that forces me to think down a certain line.

However, note that if she lets you in fully, the religion thing will become an issue ultimately, you cannot change her views neither can she change your views so just leave it, nod and say 'yes dear' and smile 🙂

Don't worry, Geminilove. Zenalchemy is a slut. You don't have to take what she said seriously.

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Posted by ARIES77
In all honesty and not trying to be critical; I've read your post dealing with this Aries, once again as an Aries if you relate to her the things you relate here I can see how she may have a problem and most of what Don said is correct, we do what we want when we want and if we Love someone we take that person into full consideration the same as we like in return, no one rules us because everything is a choice for us only we can choose things, no one can manipulate us into making choices or having their way unless we choose it, we know more than we tend to let on and can easily see through people and read them.

This is what most people don't realize. However, we are criticized for it. All we ask is for people to respect our individuality and to love us. Stop trying to change an Aries, because it will never happen. It just won't.

It's sexy to have a woman who can think and do things for herself whether another person feels or thinks it's right or wrong. Even if they believe it's good or bad. Aries just needs support. We would like it if someone supports us. Wipe our tears when we cry. Hold our hand when we are scared. Be there for us when things are good and bad. Be our refuge when the world gets to heavy on our shoulders.

My goodness.

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BACK OFF MY GIRL

Thanks Impressme

well i dont think it is the pussy thing, although i will have to say it was incredible.

ok os i read all of te post, i guess everyone seems to be saying to make a move.
so i guess i will. i will write her a letter i guess telling how and feel about her and how much i love her.

lol come on

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Posted by ImpressMe
^^^^^LOL, the pussy got you all delusional. 😉

She is all yours hon.

LOL 🙂

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rotfl

ROTTFFLLOZ!

Hi everyone, thank you for all your advise, i just wanted to tell you guys that after not talking to her for about a month now.
she has contacted me and wants to get back together so it is all good.
thank you for all your support. :-)