oDD behavior

Ok so I'm going to make this short and simple.

Dated an Aries guy for 5 months long distance.
Just came home to see him last week.
Seen him only once.
It has been a week since I seen him and spoke to him.
I texted him twice, both times he left me with non-chalant responces or that he was busy and would call me back (which never happened).
I have not spoke to him on the phone nor seen him.
We made plans, he never came through with them.

What is going on!? I am actually very hurt by this because I do not know what is going on and I feel as if he pushes me to the side ((especially when his friends are involved)). I thought being home would be better- but I guess it is worst.

I was just going to call him and ask him what the hell is up.

suggestions please...

I responded on the Virgo board to this .. but, I wanted to add .. you're probably going to have to play for his attention. I know it sucks to have to do that, but, he's an Aries afterall and they need a lot of chasing.

It's funny because when it comes to capturing a partner, the Aries wants to be the chaser, while you play coy .. yet, once he's captured you, then the Ram wants you to then play chase for his continued attention. It's like he's saying he's yours, so what are you going to do to keep him .. how much do you adore him, is it enough to go to any end to draw him to you? He will ignore and pretend his friends are more interesting and all the while, he's waiting for you to fight for his attention, from his friends to you.

Anyway .. that's just how I see it. I hope you figure it out cause I know you really care for him. 🙂

Yes I noticed this P-A, I think that is what he is trying to do, to see "how much i want him".

Thanks P-A you always give some of the best advice!

p-angel,

ditto you always have such great advices...you pretty much described the two rams i'm beginning to see...i'm very impressed at how accurate your description is :o

thank you!

Ahhh...it's been too long! Good to see ya still spreading your wisdom P-A. How are ya? Take care!!

Hey truth, how's it going?

FE, VwalL .. just trying to help 🙂

i too am seeing an aries and it seems he is just that way he chased after me for a long time ,i even deleted his phone number so i wouldnt phone him but now (he has got me) i still have to act cool if i chase after him too much he plays his little games ,not answering the phone ,not turning up ,trying to make me jealous etc. just to make me mad but if i stop phoning him he chases back after me again,you have to be a strong person to survive an aries play him at his own game but dont act too cool for too long also keep praising him ,loving him adoring him ,also stand up to him tell him your fed up of being let down .and keep him interested.know what i mean

stand up to him and tell him you fed up?
ouch!
only if you are ready for a fight, we will defend our position till we drop dead, so if we think you are wrong for confronting us like that look out!
we dont like to talk about our feelings or be forced to tell how we feel about you
my virgo friend is doing this to me all the time.....i cant take it no more...she is taking the wind out of my sails by drilling me about this crap