Question for arian's

Hello Arian peps.

I'm curious about one thing about you.

Do you use your mind when making impulsive moves against people? Do you think about what will come afterwards? (cosequences)(Or you do not care the results and you are potential troublemakers 😄) Or do you limit on things that you only know what outcome will be? (means experienced).

Looking forward for your answears in order to help me to figure this out. Ty.

Hi Ty!

Female Arian here at your service 😉 Great questions - I will answer the best that I can but let me warn you...I will be using my mind for this - hope you don't mind.

Funny, when I was little ....my nickname was "trouble" I never could figure that one out but that is okay, I was having fun doing whatever I was doing and fun is what we are about!

I can only speak for myself here..but, I do not use my mind when making impulsive moves unless I have been cornered or are being "played" with and if we are being "played" with - yep...becareful we can smell it a mile away. We cherish honesty, truth and realness...peeps can be whatever they choose to be and I am not one to judge nor do I care to...be what you want to be but with the respect that you are enjoying your life and you are happy.

We are impulsive creatures because we trust our instincts...we live in the moment. Do we think about what will come afterwards? Depends. If I have a choice to make and most of us do on a daily basis...I do think about what MY consequences might be which helps me to make the best choice for ME. Now, I am not responsible for how others react to my choices, their reaction is about them - I have no way of knowing how someone else will react...that is a guessing game - if I react to what I THINK their response might be...then I will not be following my truth and MY truth is very important to me which in turn will benefit the other person.

There have been many times that someone will ask me to tell them the truth and when I do....whoa buddy....they are hurt! So now when someone asks me that question I say to them, "do you want me to tell what will make you feel good or the truth?"

So, is an Aries giving you a challenge? What sign are you?

One thing that I do know forsure is....we are genuine peeps and do not have intentions of ever purposely hurting someone...we just want everyone to get along and for this world to be a happy place....if it were up to me I would make it manditory that everyone eat a "happy meal" once a day 😉

Also, remember...behaviour has more to do with other things than just a sun sign...we really are very lovable creatures who want to be loved like anyone else.

Best wishes my friend 🙂

Very interesting answears in your post.

Still, I have some more questions from your post above.

I'm pretty sure that every choise that you will do, is best for you in the first place, but how do you sure(!) that "your" truth is best choise for others as well? Why I am asking this is because, you tell that you want everything best for everyone. You know, not every desition you made may be best for others, right?

Thanks for further posts.

Oh I'm Pisces.

Hi Pisces Ty....

How do I know if my truth is the best choice for others as well? That is a good question. I don't suppose that I will know what the best choice for the others is....I have no clue to what they are thinking - therefore, I can only make the best choice from my point of refrence. You are absolutely correct in saying that the choices that I make may not be the best for others but....as I said before....I don't know what is best for others - I only know what is best for me. Does that make sense? If not, let me know.

You Pisces are wonderful soulful and feeling friends!

Great Point.

I will answear your questions in my way 🙂, i hope you will not be offended..

You Arian's are probably the last group that will quit from defending your point in any conversation or physical activity (most of you?). If I'm right, then you will defend your thoughs to the point of absurd, just to show that you will never change your mind or point even if it becomes illogical (perhaps you like to show yourself this way, isnt it? 😄). The thing that you didnt realise is that sometimes it is better to quit "defending" for your own sake. You tend to bring things on fire carelessly, which also makes people become unfriendly towards you, kills your own chance and most of all, makes your way among people harder for you. I'm not mentioning here others interests yet 😄. I just want to know, why you are so straightheaded?

Best wishes.

Why dont you post your answear?

No offense taken here Ty - quite a few judgements ya got going on there regarding the Arien species huh?

Defend my thoughts to your "perception" of absurdity - okay.

I personally do not have the desire to defend who I am -

You ask, "I just want to know, why are you so staightheaded?" are you specifically referring to me or the Aries as a whole?

Hope this helps....🙂

Heh, still some offence has been taken isnt it?

"Are you specifically referring to me or the Aries as a whole?"

As a whole. But if you have such tendency too, please explain the reason for this motto.

Nah, still no offense taken - I just answered your question to the best of my ability - you may however choose to perceive it anyway you desire.

Regarding the "motto"...well, that is all it is, a motto - nothing more and nothing less.(IMO) It becomes what it is when we make a choice to perceive it as such - you or anyone giving meaning to the words according to your individual perception.

I hope that you are having a great day today...thanks for writing and asking your questions.

Freebird freeing it today😉

Great, great!

Now we are much closer to the goal. Keep it up! 😄

What if.....I stop you on your particular behaviour, and logically prove you that this particular behaviour is incorrect.....would that change your mind? Or you will follow your instincts?

Gotta trust MY instincts on this one kiddo - and why do you want to know?

Interesting.

You prefer your instincts instead of your logical appoarch. Why you prefer instincts for logic? Because this is not your conclusion and because someone else telling that to you? That why?

My my my - Ty, you sure are one curious person...why so many questions?

No, that is not why....I trust my instincts because they are mine...I know what I know - don't know how I know it but I do and then again, I don't really know anything at all!

Now I bet you are really confused.

My third eye works well for me too! 😉

So you are in control of your instincts. Cool.

*under control

I haven't got anything in addition from other Arian people that hides around...Wazzaup people! Come out and play 🙂

I have to say that now I know why Arian people make most challange for me. Because they act mostly on instincts rather than logical minds. But, I still need more people opinions....

When I face situations in real life, my motto is to be sure about things first both instinctively and logically, then act. That takes alot of power and times to figure out, but be sure that making 1 shot and 1 hit is far better than making 7 shots and 1 hit.

Sometimes I'm not doing anything if I'm not sure. It may be looking like passivity, but it is not. It is matter of precuation.

Of course I can act as you said above "guessing game". Nothing really stops me to do that. My hands arent tied down, my leg is still with me, I can do whatever guessing game gives me. Thats very easy, shot and see what happens. Cool.

But soon or later, I figured out that letting instincts command over person is not always brings to "wanted" situations. I would mostly say that it will bring to "unexpected" situations and some of them are "unwanted". That compromises the point of being in control of yourself. I'm not conservative person, but also I wont falling to flow the wind of life 🙂

I'm not telling that you all do 7 shots and 1 hit. Of course most of you have life experience and you most likely you will manage situations with pre-earned experiences. But when it comes to something new, it is really really good to stop and think...

I hope I gave some insight.

Of course you gave some insight Ty and very good insight as well. You can only do what you know best and be happy with that.

I have found that when one does not know what to do - do nothing. In time, at the right moment, you will know what to do and then you will take the correction action for you in that moment.

If there is doubt, that means don't do it. If there is peace in your decision, then do it because ultimately we desire peace and that my friend is the correct road/path to take. If the path has a heart, stay on - if not, get off.

Expect the unexpected...expect the best and that is what you shall receive. My best wishes to you Ty for experiencing the best moments for YOU!

Freebird -

hey, where are the other Aries out there? Come out and play guys!

ooops...correction was meant to be "correct"

We have same desition mechanisms. What the hell is different now between Aries and Pisces then?

thoughts

Hello Ty

As an arian, i guess it's true to a great extent. Part of the impulsiveness is a part of the arian character, but seeing as how we're talking signs here i think it depends also on the year you were born in. For example, i'm an ox and I'm quite picky and particularly cautious about giving my heart away to anyone and find it very hard to trust sometimes. I've jumped into things and friendships in the past a little bit fast admittedly, but experience i think hardens an arian and can make oxes in particular quite unforgiving and slow to open if they have been hurt in the past.

I think each indiviual is different because of the sign and time they're born in really, which is cool.

I'm Rooster.