Sag

Fellow Aries, questions on Sags! How was:

Friendship with one?
Ever dated one?
Conflict?
Sexual interaction?
Changes you would make?

I was in a serious relationship with one for 3 1/2 years, at first it was ok, but we mostly just argued A LOT.
We rarely got along, we had different ideals about life, and what to do when we were gonna go out, etc...

Also he was super flirty, NEVER talked about anything in his head. He wouldn't tell me about anything that bothered him until it became too much and by then it was too late. He made the decisions about us, and didn't let me in. He lived in his head pretty much, which was unfair to our relationship.

Sex was super awesome, I really felt it every time, but I think it was because we were in love, so that might be it.

Had a friendship with a female Sag. It started out to where you would think she hated me... demon eyes from across the room and stuff. How can a stranger hate you? Then out of nowhere, this stranger starts to want to hang out with me, tries to strum up conversation, etc. She and I got so close, I was starting to feel as though she might want something more— We liked to dirty dance together and sing together. She moved away. She was cute as a baby doll. We looked alike too...hahaha.

I dated a Sag male ten years younger than me. He looked like Seann William Scott and acted like the characters he often plays. We were on top of the clouds with it - extremely spiritual, sexual, electric relationship in a totally good way Venus (me) Conjunct Mars (him) in Aqua. We were so electric together though, we were dangerous... highly risky and extremely imaginative and all consuming. We would and had plans to do anything.

We believed in the same causes and were both very altruistic. But, he didn't care for how I distributed my contributions. He would argue that my way was not as good as his way of being charitable. Small example, complaining/discussing that I tipped too much and didn't tithe enough. He thought I was extravagant. Arguing with me about who and how much I give to. I was in a better position in life (dah, ten years his senior) and he had a problem accepting this as a fact in the grand scheme of things. We had Venus and Moon Capricorn(him) conjunct Ascendant (me).

It all started going down hill when he saw me fight another female....LMAO, it was self - defense! I felt a change so, I ended it. He wrote me a beautiful letter.

The deciding factor was also Moon Conjunct Neptune in the Composite - I did not like that, although I was debating the "issue," when I saw it spelt out in the Composite... I was like oh, shit no!

Mine:

Friendship always ended with sex or us wanting sex. The only expectation is like my big brother. We have been friends for 20 years and I am not attracted at all nor he to me. I do want to slap him silly at times though.

I dated two, they were both short lived for me but fun (if you don't last a year you are short lived imo)

Changes I would make would be none. It made me who I am today.

So from what I gather here interactions with Sags are usually great sexually and may or may not have a communication hump to get over.

Ive had two female sag friends never had a sag guy friend or lover. I still talk to one of them but have known them both over ten years. I don't speak to one of them anymore because she was a selfish bitch to me and my other friends. It's a long story but it over now. We have great memories tho I knew her all throughout hs and stayed tight with her after. I even moved to the neighborhood I'm in now to be closer to her, yet she swears I'm selfish. Granted we both are but she had an issue with harboring issues and blowing up at the wrong time, I appreciate the direct approach. She also didn't know how to have a discussion or even a argument without going too far. I believe there's a way you speak to someone you care about if want to continue the relationship, you don't cross that imaginary line. Once you cross it I can't go back.

Posted by bkbella86
Ive had two female sag friends never had a sag guy friend or lover. I still talk to one of them but have known them both over ten years. I don't speak to one of them anymore because she was a selfish bitch to me and my other friends. It's a long story but it over now. We have great memories tho I knew her all throughout hs and stayed tight with her after. I even moved to the neighborhood I'm in now to be closer to her, yet she swears I'm selfish. Granted we both are but she had an issue with harboring issues and blowing up at the wrong time, I appreciate the direct approach. She also didn't know how to have a discussion or even a argument without going too far. I believe there's a way you speak to someone you care about if want to continue the relationship, you don't cross that imaginary line. Once you cross it I can't go back.

I think our relationships with other fire women are russian roulette at times. I had this same situation but it was another Aries with Sag placements. I concur with the imaginary line.