Saggi women: you guys and your guy friends

Hey saggi girls! Just wanted some food for regarding your thoughts on your guy friends.

So here's my situation. I'm a libra guy that has been friends with this sag chick since high school, (we are now 24). I asked her out once we became friends in my college freshman year while we were still in our "party hard" stage, and she rejected me. But I got along well with the rejection and had my history with different girls, but stayed friends with her; just didn't really talk to her as much. But recently, I started to text her and we would talk to each other, and it was like we were JUST starting to get to know each other on a deeper level even though I've known her for the longest time. We've been seeing each other more often and just hanging out together more in general. I've always felt a connection with this girl, but I'm just so confused to how she feels about me. Does she just see me as a good friend? Or is it possible that she COULD develop feelings for me through our friendship? Anyways this post is getting a little too long! Going to cut it off here and hope you guys give me some of your feedback!

Sincerely,

Libradomus (hopelessly infatuated with a sag chick!) hahaha

even with my secretive moon in scorpio, when i like someone i become a hunter and go after them. maybe she has a venus in scorpio and is slow to reveal.

Thanks for the reply and feedback!(to be honest that was actually the very post I've ever made on a message board in my whole life!) I HAVE been lurking this place for a while in hopes of someone being in the same situation as me but yeah, I just need some third party opinions ya know? I don't know anything about her Venus or anything. Just know that she's a first decan sag(Nov 28 is her bday).

I just always had a big fat crush on her. I'm completely fine with being a close friend to her as I really enjoy her company, but I would more than love it if she could possibly end up liking me through our friendship once we get to know each other more personally. 🙂

Anymore feedback guys? It'd be much appreciated! 🙂

hahahahah I was trying to think of any kind of excuse possible to get a reply in my favor for some reason, but yeah I guess you're right. Bittersweet, but I don't mind just being close friends 🙂 she's a beautiful person and we always click well together. So that's all that matters I guess haha.

Thanks Ligeia! Yeah, well it's just that we've recently been hanging out more often just us two. We enjoy each other's company and I never really got to know her until this year. That's probably why I got all psyched up about the situation haha. But yeah, I'm glad she enjoys my company. I never ever ever thought that we would become close friends. She happens to be the only Sag girl I know in my group of friends, and all this hype about libra sag relationships being awesome just always struck a bell with me 😛

we recently started hanging out pretty much weekly. and no she doesn't bring up any guys because she's in that "single life" phase. she got out of a long term relationship about a year ago.

as for awkward sexual tension if there was any I wouldn't have been able to notice it HAHA! although I do feel like she flirts with me here and there but it seems harmless ya know? no real meaning behind it just flirting lol. the last time we hung out was for Christmas. we exchanged presents for the first time, and watched the lakers game with her at her place. and yes, we were high during the whole day. HAHA

So how do you interpret this situation professor? sensei? is she just getting more comfy in her skin around me and actually considering me a good friend now?

ok thanks for the tips. i would've lead myself down to a trail of awkward sexual tension if it wasnt for you 😉

What's ironic is you two have actually built a good foundation for something long term.

I never fall a friend usually. Friendship for ( most sags) its a very serious thing and try to be all definition of the word. Turning it into a romance isn't something I would do but we are all different.

this is why i don't like having close guy friends. It's like they either want sex or a relationship from you at some point. How is that being a real friend? when your hiding intentions?

ya not for me.

Posted by beautifulsoul74
What's ironic is you two have actually built a good foundation for something long term.

Longterm friendship you mean? Don't get my hopes up brah! And as for the other opinion up there, I do have feelings for her but I'm not going to cross any lines, nor do I have any intentions of doing so. I like being friends with her 🙂

Libradomus try to find out her placements. Use astrology.com to input her date and year of birth. The time is also needed but you can still get an idea without it.

I'm a shy Sag. If I'm friends with a guy, but feeling him, I play a lot and touch a lot. If he flirts, I flirt back to let him know it's ok.

Sag89 made me think of something that happened last week. I've been friends with this guy for about 7 years. I'm pretty chummy. Cool, but no flirting or touching. I don't even kiss him on the cheek as a greeting. Anyway, last week I was waiting for him in my car. He comes over to the driver's side opens up the door starts playing with me which threw me off. Then he hugs me and kisses then bites my neck. I pushed him off. I've avoided him since then and now I question wether we really had a friendship at all. I feel like he was lurking this whole time lol.

So check out her placements and see what you find out. But be careful about making a move with no indications from her.

Posted by Sag89
this is why i don't like having close guy friends. It's like they either want sex or a relationship from you at some point. How is that being a real friend? when your hiding intentions?

ya not for me.

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Posted by Mebs
Libradomus try to find out her placements. Use astrology.com to input her date and year of birth. The time is also needed but you can still get an idea without it.

I'm a shy Sag. If I'm friends with a guy, but feeling him, I play a lot and touch a lot. If he flirts, I flirt back to let him know it's ok.

Sag89 made me think of something that happened last week. I've been friends with this guy for about 7 years. I'm pretty chummy. Cool, but no flirting or touching. I don't even kiss him on the cheek as a greeting. Anyway, last week I was waiting for him in my car. He comes over to the driver's side opens up the door starts playing with me which threw me off. Then he hugs me and kisses then bites my neck. I pushed him off. I've avoided him since then and now I question wether we really had a friendship at all. I feel like he was lurking this whole time lol.

So check out her placements and see what you find out. But be careful about making a move with no indications from her.

MEBS!!!!! happy holidays!

Dude! It's not even the norm between me and my friends to kiss each others' cheeks anyways! And I'm way too shy to make moves like that! I only reciprocate feelings if I actually know the girl likes me back. And it looks like from all of your experiences with guy friends, 99.9% of them have actually had a crush on you and actually made a move on you. I'm sorry to hear that you guys lost "friends", and because of the outcome, this has lead me to learn to NOT do that if i decide to stay friends with her. Honest to god i really am fine with just being friends 🙂

platonic friends are a rare find 🙂

*waving* Hey DMV!!

Idk I'm a sadge I change my mind a lot I've been in love with an Aquarius man since I was 16 n he's asked me out twice n I said no both times stupid huh? Lol but that how we r we dint like wasting time. So u really gotta catch our eye from the beginning but remember if ur too good of a friend we won't want to lose u so we won't date u n also if she flirts with u n talks to u every day non stop u have a really good chance but I'm tellin u now don't ask her out until ur sure n trust me u will noe she likes u because she will tell u

Be patient lil libra I'm engaged to one shell c how special n great u guys are 🙂 don't bring ur hopes down

Thanks for the feedback ezzyway 🙂 if she ends up liking me then I accept with arms wide open heh. I'll just be patient with her but that doesn't mean I'm gonna pause my life for her lol