And the insecurity begins

Everything going realities well with the sag cop man. Lots of attention which I adore, of course. Asking to see me often. Today he got a little snippet when I joked that we should just have a brother-sister friendship. It stemmed from his comment about me being so teasing with him. I told him it was just a joke and asked if his upset reaction was him being serious. He denied it. But scorp venus tells me otherwise. I let it drop cus why force someone to come out of the emotional closet, as it were.

Hours later, he takes an hour to reply to a last text. So my cancer venus/mars turns on it's insecurity flashing light. My scorp moon's not far behind telling me to start ignoring his future communication. Telling me his aries moon is gonna flake out on me anyway. The man has done nothing but send me songs, compliments, invitations....

walls, walls, everywhere are my walls.

For a leo, I've got way too much water in me. Lord help me to not read shit that isn't there and self sabotage.

OMG!!! HE TOOK A HOUR TO TEXT YOU BACK!!!

Sag men are easy to talk to. Only one thing left to do...sit down with him and open up. That goes a very long way with us. Lets us know you card and that you trust us. Just explain it to him and you'll be golden. Best wishes!

you should quit texting i think. this isn't the first time there's been a misunderstanding caused by texting....it happens so easily.

to be honest though it sounds like 6 of one and half a dozen of the other with you two....you're similar in terms of being over sensitive (which i know you admit to).

i know my experience with the psycho sag was extreme but in every conversation with him, he would analyse everything that came out of my mouth and take offence at the slightest thing...often in a really horrible sneering way. *shudders*

while you're still getting to know him i think you should keep the banter to the telephone and face to face and leave the texting for the practical things like the details of your meeting or for just saying 'hi' randomly.

i would also be a little bit cautious about all the songs and pics he sends ahead of your next meeting cos it's all really new still and so there's a danger of building things up too much only to find out you have a shit time when you meet up. not saying that's gonna happen but personally i wouldn't indulge his flirting too much. don't let him get over-excited cos it's you who will feel the pressure of that as you get closer to the date.

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OMG!!! HE TOOK A HOUR TO TEXT YOU BACK!!!

I know...right?? I mean, like, how redic!! 😛

Posted by beautifulsoul74
Sag men are easy to talk to. Only one thing left to do...sit down with him and open up. That goes a very long way with us. Lets us know you card and that you trust us. Just explain it to him and you'll be golden. Best wishes!

You're so sweet 🙂

He is pretty easy to talk to and definitely open. Much more than I. He brought up the topic of the "fragile" male ego and said he feels his is particularly fragile. Unless he is full of shit, Id say that's pretty open of him. I believe it too cus he's made comments that kinda indicate his insecurity with certain physical features.

OMG...we are both insecure?? Cool...a bonding connection 😉

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you should quit texting i think. this isn't the first time there's been a misunderstanding caused by texting....it happens so easily.

to be honest though it sounds like 6 of one and half a dozen of the other with you two....you're similar in terms of being over sensitive (which i know you admit to).

i know my experience with the psycho sag was extreme but in every conversation with him, he would analyse everything that came out of my mouth and take offence at the slightest thing...often in a really horrible sneering way. *shudders*

while you're still getting to know him i think you should keep the banter to the telephone and face to face and leave the texting for the practical things like the details of your meeting or for just saying 'hi' randomly.

i would also be a little bit cautious about all the songs and pics he sends ahead of your next meeting cos it's all really new still and so there's a danger of building things up too much only to find out you have a shit time when you meet up. not saying that's gonna happen but personally i wouldn't indulge his flirting too much. don't let him get over-excited cos it's you who will feel the pressure of that as you get closer to the date.

NO MORE SONGS—?

But....then I wouldn't get to enjoy this......he says I rock him "harder than some downtown band" 😛

yeah. i'm sorry hun but if that's his taste in music...NO MORE SONGS!!! as for the 'you rock me harder' malarky...that would creep me out more than the song lol!

you told me before he had michael buble playing in his car? WHO LIKES MICKY BUBBLE ANYWAY!!!—!!!

and he's a cop! *makes sign of cross*

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Sag men are easy to talk to. Only one thing left to do...sit down with him and open up. That goes a very long way with us. Lets us know you card and that you trust us. Just explain it to him and you'll be golden. Best wishes!

You're so sweet 🙂

He is pretty easy to talk to and definitely open. Much more than I. He brought up the topic of the "fragile" male ego and said he feels his is particularly fragile. Unless he is full of shit, Id say that's pretty open of him. I believe it too cus he's made comments that kinda indicate his insecurity with certain physical features.

OMG...we are both insecure?? Cool...a bonding connection 😉

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This is gonna sound like a load, but oh well....I've managed to take my ego out of the equation most of the time. It pops up but I don't have much of one. This give me a great sense of peace. I don't worry about expectations or demands. I just simply live by the heart. Truthfully, it makes you powerful. Your head is clear and focus and you can pick up on energies and vibes.

I say this to help you to open up. Take that risk. It's ok to be insecure about somethings. Just don't dwell on it. I do remember those days when my ego was fragile lol.

Wot chooooo got against Micky Bubble pants? He's smexy. 😉

yeah, this dude is from Indiana. He likes country music. The tell passionate stories. And yeah, I rock him hard.....😛

Seriously - dump the phone. Honestly, I regularly take days to respond to texts, if ever 🙂

And quit sabotaging 😉

I've been sitting on my hands, figuratively, all day resisting the urge to "reach out and touch" someone. I've just now painted my nails, so Im safe for an least an hour.

My scorpy moon is "feeling" a strong vibe akin to his scorpy venus that we are in an invisible pissing match of "who's gonna call who first". It's the first day in 2 weeks we havent communicated.

Aw hell, I'm such a weenie :p

But at least my nails look hawt!

Actually, I did reach out first. *shakes fist*.

I sent a text with a flirty something about kissing his neck 😛 We spoke later. Poor guy is dying right now, his beloved Notre dame is down 21-0 in the biggest college football game of the year. I'm feeling kinda bad cus I was razzing him about them before the game. He takes his ND very passionately.

I do see, Aqua, that the friend joke was taken to heart. That's kinda why I reached out first today, thinking he may be sore. He has been very good to me, I have to say.