falling for another Sagg

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by scorpdiva on Tuesday, January 22, 2013 and has 26 replies.

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I would have never thought in a million years after this last break up that I would meet another sagg men romantically, first the conversation was great, we had our first official date overt the weekend and it was great and today he sends me flowers at wrk. it's that scorp Venus, this one may be the right sagg for me.

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I really do :-) , the hard part about moving on from my old sagg was no other men compared to him in my eyes but now I met another Sagg so he has some real competition now.

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Posted by scorpdiva

Posted by DMV
just make sure you arent stuck between 2 men. 🙂

that is my goal, we will see...
I am just ready to settle down and the men who really wants that is who I want..

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I do have a question SD and don't take thus wrong but his can you truly see which one is right if your attention is divided? They may compete for you but it could be just another case of making a dash fir the finish line and getting the trophy.

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Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by scorpdiva

Posted by DMV
just make sure you arent stuck between 2 men. 🙂

that is my goal, we will see...
I am just ready to settle down and the men who really wants that is who I want..

I do have a question SD and don't take thus wrong but his can you truly see which one is right if your attention is divided? They may compete for you but it could be just another case of making a dash fir the finish line and getting the trophy.

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Beautiful soul74 I see your point, it is hard for me to focus when I am trying to date two men, the other sagg who has a venus in sagg just seems like he doesn't want a healthy relationship. We would have been dating for what would have been three years and it seem like we constantly bump head, he is a good person but maybe just not made for me really I probably need to change my number so he can't contact me and I can move on but I feel like that would be mean. This new guy, it is just the begining, but he feels more passionate to me and like he can understand how I react to certain things, it's funny cause we were talking on our date and I told him there are things that I could change about me and that may be why it didn't work with the other sagg. He told me No, you shouldn't have to change, a person should love you for you, I just feel like he may understand me a little better because of our placements however I don't want to based it all on astrology.

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I can't imagine a Sag with Taurus moon.

Diva... I sure was surprised reading your post tonight. Never thought that you would leave Sag man. I mean the original.

In my experience... not all Sags are same in terms of chemistry... although i pretty much liked ALLL Saggie men. One way or another that is. The one with Venus in Sag.. weird.. yes I understand what you mean when you say he doesn't like a healthy relationship. Healthy to him means someone he believes he can marry

BUT

he doesn't know he can never do that.

The Moon in Taurus has to be experienced. I'm Moon in Taurus.. yes intense... not particularly property conscious.. but when I love, all is about him. Then again.. close but I like my freedom more and I don't like my Oxygen squeezed out and I definitely would hope not to be squeezing away HIS oxygen.

Well, Sagittarius man is exciting and most of all, he is amazingly fun. I am sure you will enjoy his company, sweet girlfriend.

Best wishes 🙂

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LOL Mz Sag

I think I'd almost like the idea of a sticky Sag, but that would be indulgent keeping on pushing him away and he keeping on sticking back.

😄

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Posted by FUM
I can't imagine a Sag with Taurus moon.

Diva... I sure was surprised reading your post tonight. Never thought that you would leave Sag man. I mean the original.

In my experience... not all Sags are same in terms of chemistry... although i pretty much liked ALLL Saggie men. One way or another that is. The one with Venus in Sag.. weird.. yes I understand what you mean when you say he doesn't like a healthy relationship. Healthy to him means someone he believes he can marry

BUT

he doesn't know he can never do that.

The Moon in Taurus has to be experienced. I'm Moon in Taurus.. yes intense... not particularly property conscious.. but when I love, all is about him. Then again.. close but I like my freedom more and I don't like my Oxygen squeezed out and I definitely would hope not to be squeezing away HIS oxygen.

Well, Sagittarius man is exciting and most of all, he is amazingly fun. I am sure you will enjoy his company, sweet girlfriend.

Best wishes 🙂

Hi Fum, like yourself and this sagg I have a taurus moon and indeed when in love it's all about him however I enjoy my freedom and alone time a lot. this guy seems to be the same he is very attentive but yet is giving me plently of space, we will see how it works out since we will be having our second date soon either tomorrow or next weekend.

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Posted by scorpdiva

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by scorpdiva

Posted by DMV
just make sure you arent stuck between 2 men. 🙂

that is my goal, we will see...
I am just ready to settle down and the men who really wants that is who I want..

I do have a question SD and don't take thus wrong but his can you truly see which one is right if your attention is divided? They may compete for you but it could be just another case of making a dash fir the finish line and getting the trophy.

Beautiful soul74 I see your point, it is hard for me to focus when I am trying to date two men, the other sagg who has a venus in sagg just seems like he doesn't want a healthy relationship. We would have been dating for what would have been three years and it seem like we constantly bump head, he is a good person but maybe just not made for me really I probably need to change my number so he can't contact me and I can move on but I feel like that would be mean. This new guy, it is just the begining, but he feels more passionate to me and like he can understand how I react to certain things, it's funny cause we were talking on our date and I told him there are things that I could change about me and that may be why it didn't work with the other sagg. He told me No, you shouldn't have to change, a person should love you for you, I just feel like he may understand me a little better because of our placements however I don't want to based it all on astrology.

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Understood. It may be best that you cut off all ties with the old Sag lest it clouds your judgement a little. I agree with some of what your new Sag says as I don't complain about behavior of others...normally lol. It seems a disagreement alway arises at some point usually because of over thinking or misunderstanding. As for changing, I let people be who they are and grow and change own their own. If they're not right for me, I keep it at the friendship level and I don't deviate or lead on. I'll also cut off any feelings. It may sound cruel, but I feel its best to do that do that you can maintain a healthy friendship. But of course, that does get tricky.

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Good luck SD! Just make sure he doesn't do underhanded crap to lock you down. My daughter's dad is a Sag sun/ Scorp Venus. Mofo was determined to lock me down by hook or by crook. More so by crook 😛

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I am so late for the up date, I had finals and a long paper to write so my attention was else where, last night me and the sagg had our third date. Everything is going good so far he is very open, and always happy like I would expect the typical sagg to be, it's funny cause last night he asked me how long does it take me to open up? He stated that he is a police officer therefore part of his job is to read people but he can't read me. He normally knows how a women feels about him but with me, I have a poker face and he can not read me, I tried to explain that is just how I am, it takes me a while to open up but once I know you I begin to open up.

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Posted by Mebs
Good luck SD! Just make sure he doesn't do underhanded crap to lock you down. My daughter's dad is a Sag sun/ Scorp Venus. Mofo was determined to lock me down by hook or by crook. More so by crook 😛

umm, I will have to watch this one 🙂