sex

do you guys feel that relationships with aries are mostly sex based? or has anyone experienced a more emotional or mentally based relationship with an aries? sex seems to be their main interest and concern.

As an aries woman, I feel that I have a high sex drive. It does play a major role in any relationship that we are in---if the sex stops we will prob be out of the door. It is a sense of connection with us...you have to have our minds and of course our body---without that there is no us!
Hey we will ALWAYS MAKE IT WORTH YOUR TIME

ok thats what i figured. this aries man i was casually seeing told me recently if i had trusted him enough to have unprotected sex with him we would probably be dating right now. it was such a big deal to him that i wouldn't let myself go in the sexual department.

Aries always feel as though the "SEX" seals the deal. That's not all that we are about, but it is just as important as conversation. I would not go as far as to have unprotected sex with him...no yet...but it prob means that he wants some type of comment or to feel like you just a dedicated and faithful as he is. Now don't get it twisted, if we get boared or feel like it will not be worth it or that the feeling is just not mutual--we will burn you and leave you hanging.
My advise...never let an aries do what is out of the norm for you unless you know he is in it for the long haul.
We always leap before we look and never think about the consequenses. We like to live in the moment and not think about tomorrow..we will deal with that when it gets here ..good, bad and ugly.

yep....no SEX, no ARIES!

we've already known each other for a year. for that entire year he has been trying to get me to have unprotected sex with him but we were never in a committed relationship so i didn't feel comfortable doing it. now he is saying if i had just trusted him and given into the unprotected sex we would be in a relationship by now. so now i'm considering just going for it. i have known him a long enough time and i do trust him. he can just be inconsistent and too much to handle at times.. like pushy and demanding (like most aries are!) i guess i'm just worried about doing it and having him be like 'ok thanks i got what i wanted, bye.' are aries capable of such cruel behavior?

We can be, no we ARE demanding, and aggressive...that's just who we are, but we are caring and considerate...you might not ever see it, but we really are! If he has been around for a year I would say that you are well in the game...not a home plate yet...but in the game. We are very possessive and jelous and don't like to share what is ours once we have marked our territory, we love very HARD. Why don't yall go together and take an AIDS test. After that go straight to lunch and then rock his world!!! Suprise him with some krazy wild stuff..be creative, we love that stuff. Show him that side of you he has never seen before..that's like a "THANK YOU BABY" in Aries bedroom talk..ha

Aries ex is trying to practice abstinence. To further his sex-spiritual evolution. It was smooth sailing while he was in isolation meditating and tripping out. But now that he's back in civilization, its going to be hard. Hes a musician and all around kickass, so ladies lurve him. He pretty much devoured me when we last saw eachother. I would say sex seals the deal for him. He wants consistent mind-blowing sexual chemistry.

Posted by Kylee_is_an_Aries
I don't think sex is necessarily our MAIN concern (but I may be speaking purely for myself). I can easily adjust my sex drive to match anybody's.

Conclusion: I will adjust my sex drive to match yours.

This! Exactly how I am feeling 🙂

Having unprotected sex is not an Aries douchebag request thing, its a general douchebag request. Having concern about protected sex is your deal, not related to astrology, unless this is your 5th year dating.

Aries for sure think sex is an important component to life, and in general wish their partner to be active in all arenas of life, but can settle if the others are more than satisfactory and their level of maturity in areas of life.

I for one have found myself putting up with less than stellar sex, or having to play the leader in the bed, but meh I guess I have grown to appreciate other parts of the relationship too.

I do expect openness as far as bed matters, so communication can help a lot in my understanding of expecting sex or not and when in the relationship.

Posted by k-mart
sex is a huge part with aries 😉 aries eat,drink,breathe and have sex.

haha very true

Hi Saggie,
Yes sex is very important to us but the right time to have unpro-sx is when YOU feel comfortable about it. Do not let this bozo talk you into anything stupid. He may say he is an Aries, but I suspect he is from that 13th sign Jerk with a Butthole moon.
A real Aries loves great sex where nobody gets sick or dies because then you can't have sex and we HATE that.
If it's not on, it's not on.

Sex with Aries is the best,as the old saying goes "Try it, You'll like it!!!!!" LOL

Posted by amethyst2002

Posted by lovelygirl89
we love sex but generally we dont like the person just for sex there could b alot of reasons for liking someone but sex with that same person just becomes a part of life, like eating and drinking, we seem to take the whole sex part really seriously and kinda bond with the person through sex so yea sex is important to an aries, quite important actually

No shit. My stupid fwb just backed out, AGAIN. I'm annoyed with that, alone. I didn't know guys could be the equivalent of a cock tease. He thinks I'm upset and reading into shit. In reality, I'm just annoyed because I'm tired of being led to believe I'm gonna have a semi consistent source of sex, only for it to be pulled out from under me.

Aries sex drive does not like. I am not pleased. Not. Fair. *pouts*

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HAHAHAHAHA Amethyst you go girl! LMAO

CG: Sex with Aries is the best,as the old saying goes "Try it, You'll like it!!!!!" LOL

thanks CG - We do our best!

Sex isn't everything with an Aries, but it is very important it's like they bond that way with their partner. I can understand because I have Venus in Aries and I love to bond that way with my Aries guy.

Posted by saggie1123
do you guys feel that relationships with aries are mostly sex based? or has anyone experienced a more emotional or mentally based relationship with an aries? sex seems to be their main interest and concern.

LMFAO!!! If you get this vibe from an Aries you are a fuckbuddy. Sex is important to me but it is not the "vein of my existence" in a relationship....

You want to get knocked-up or an std? NEVER have unprotected sex unless you are in a committed relationship and on birth control. Yeah we love sex but we don't want unwanted babies or std's. Loving sex doesn't mean to be irresponsible about it and a guy who would pressure you about it while you are not even committed is bad news.

Posted by CancerianGoddess
Sex with Aries is the best,as the old saying goes "Try it, You'll like it!!!!!" LOL

I SECOND THAT!!!! I GIVE MY ALL ON NOTHING AT ALL!

Any man, no matter the sign, if they're :genuinely: into you, they're more concerned about gettin you in the committed relationship zone first.



I SAY HE'S A DICK AND 1/2----SEND HIM HOME TO HIS MAMMA 😉

haha thanks for the feedback everyone. you guys are awesome!

sweet! sex! my favorite thing in the world 😉

Its a very mental,and emotional based relationship. Aries wear their heart on their sleeve. When they are in a relationship,making love to their partner helps them feel closer and loved. And most the time in bed, its all about you, they are total pleasers. Grrrrrrrrrreat sex! I Admit, i miss the hot steamy sex with my e-aries. He was veryyyy giving.

e-aries = EX-Areies

Posted by saggie1123
do you guys feel that relationships with aries are mostly sex based? or has anyone experienced a more emotional or mentally based relationship with an aries? sex seems to be their main interest and concern.

lol! how dare you belittle us saggie1123

Posted by saggie1123
do you guys feel that relationships with aries are mostly sex based? or has anyone experienced a more emotional or mentally based relationship with an aries? sex seems to be their main interest and concern.

That all depends on whether or not an Aries kisses you while you are having sex.

he kisses me and its never rough hardcore dirty sex. its usually sweet

I guess I just don't understand your complaint.

everything around our relationship is based around sex. i feel that is our only connection and i feel i need more.