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Correction: my original question not next question in "Having said that brings me to the point of my next question"
Posted by Dragalutzi
Why are you people so obsessed with sex?
Jeez.... Who died and made you forum moderator— And 'you people' as in who? The entire human population— Perhaps because it's an actual human need... Like breathing and eating.... And if we go without any of our primary human needs for long enough, our health will start to deteriorate. This includes mental wellbeing. Which sex forms a large part of.
And this is the first post about sex I've seen in the Aries board... Are you one of those judgemental people who pretend not to enjoy sex only to make those who do enjoy it feel shit about themselves?
It's a natural human function... And it's awesome! I'll speak about it if I want to speak about it and if you have a problem with it then don't read the thread! I don't have to justify anything to you.
I'm asking a question that actually does have validity in my life and just because you don't understand that doesn't make me or anyone else who wants to speak about sex wrong.
Because... I'm tired of constantly having to defend myself against judgmental prudes. That's not the first comment that's ever been thrown my way about my unapologetic enjoyment of sex. If people are going to be up in my face about it then I'm going to tell it like it is. It's effective.
Posted by DazedScorp
Effective? Not really...
You can't really change anyones opinion of you here. You just learn to go with the flow of things. Learn to embrace your inner slut.
I've embraced it. I'm comfortable with my sexuality. It's the rest of the world who seems to have a problem with me voicing any concerns I have about sex. And it's hardly obsession... It's the first post I've written about it anyway. If I cared what people's opinions of me were, I wouldn't have posted it. But just because I don't care doesn't mean I'm going to keep quiet when someone is trying to make me accountable for everyone else on dxp also posting about sex. There was no reason to hit anyone with that 'you people' question. It's so derogatory!
I'm sorry for being snappy but I'm not sorry about the message I was putting forth.
I guess this answers the question on why nobody has posted about sex in our board before... Cuz you get crucified if you do! Seriously... I'm already feeling sensitive about the topic as it is and that kind of remark just adds to my frustration. I'm a human being and I enjoy sex. All I want is to find someone cool to hang with and have fun with and everything is all good until sex has happened. Then suddenly, they're all like "I thought I could do the sex only thing, but I can't" or "I don't think I can keep my walls up and not get my emotions involved and it makes me scared" and so on and so on and so on. You understand each individuals situation and that it's them and not me.... but when the fourth guy in a row tells you that, you start to wonder why the fuck this keeps happening.
So you think.... Well... Let me ask the other Aries girls what kind of reactions they get. Maybe it's just us and not me who is taking flak like this. Then you get slapped with stupid, judgmental questions about an apparent obsession with sex (which hits the sore spot even more and makes you feel like even more of a freak) when all you want is to try and come to terms with guys running away all the time and get some insight from other people...
Can you understand where I'm coming from here??
So you think.... Well... Let me ask the other Aries girls what kind of reactions they get. Maybe it's just us and not me who is taking flak like this. Then you get slapped with stupid, judgmental questions about an apparent obsession with sex (which hits the sore spot even more and makes you feel like even more of a freak) when all you want is to try and come to terms with guys running away all the time and get some insight from other people...
Can you understand where I'm coming from here??
Trust me... I'm constantly having to give myself that lecture over and over again! Most of the people I know don't share my point of view on sex and although I try to keep my business hidden from the people in my environment because they are so judgemental when it comes to sex. I hear them all condemning people around them for how they conduct their sexual affairs and it starts to affect my thought pattern too until I say hang on a minute.... And give myself that lecture. Then I feel fine again and think fuckallyall! I'm not going to feel guilty for liking sex and wanting sex without the drama of relationships and emotions.
As for your acid joke comment: next time you should try using the 'acid joke' font... This font clearly misled the tone! :p
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As for your acid joke comment: next time you should try using the 'acid joke' font... This font clearly misled the tone! :p
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Now that you mention it, I don't recall a lot of full on discussion of sex here in the Wooly Realm. I don't know why that would be.
Of course, I also have a very high sex drive. That was one of the reasons I was with my scorp for so long, she was able to keep up, most of the time.
I also see lots of folks places like here on DXP bragging/exaggerating their sexual exploits/activities. Then I read formal studies where people having sex 2-3 times a week is the norm. It seems to me that there is a lot more talk than action. I am going to hazard a guess that it is the directness of your approach to sex, and your sexual drive that simply intimidates, and then exhausts, many, many of the more relaxed kind.
I expect I will get blasted for this opinion, but so be it.
I also have to admit that for a long time my total sexual experience was with my scorp. No cheating for this Ram, you see. As such, I really can't say much more. A lot more field study would be in order, but alas, for some of us, those fields are quite barren.....
(Like my New Year lyrical look?)
Of course, I also have a very high sex drive. That was one of the reasons I was with my scorp for so long, she was able to keep up, most of the time.
I also see lots of folks places like here on DXP bragging/exaggerating their sexual exploits/activities. Then I read formal studies where people having sex 2-3 times a week is the norm. It seems to me that there is a lot more talk than action. I am going to hazard a guess that it is the directness of your approach to sex, and your sexual drive that simply intimidates, and then exhausts, many, many of the more relaxed kind.
I expect I will get blasted for this opinion, but so be it.
I also have to admit that for a long time my total sexual experience was with my scorp. No cheating for this Ram, you see. As such, I really can't say much more. A lot more field study would be in order, but alas, for some of us, those fields are quite barren.....
(Like my New Year lyrical look?)
Posted by MzSagittarius
The Saggi board is either drama and sex or completely boring.
The reason a majority of Sags are so open to discuss our sex lives/fantasies is because, well, we're archers! We're blunt, loud, horny, drunks! We enjoy talking about sex for arousal and good laughs...
If the fellow Arians don't approve of you sex topics, bring yo ass over to the Sag board! 😉
or cupcakes. we should talk about cupcakes more..
Posted by DMVPosted by MzSagittarius
The Saggi board is either drama and sex or completely boring.
The reason a majority of Sags are so open to discuss our sex lives/fantasies is because, well, we're archers! We're blunt, loud, horny, drunks! We enjoy talking about sex for arousal and good laughs...
If the fellow Arians don't approve of you sex topics, bring yo ass over to the Sag board! 😉
or cupcakes. we should talk about cupcakes more..click to expand
I love cupcakes!!!!
Posted by dofacc
I am going to hazard a guess that it is the directness of your approach to sex, and your sexual drive that simply intimidates, and then exhausts, many, many of the more relaxed kind.
So basically... I'm choosing the wrong guys right? I need to start choosing guys who can handle the heat and the stamina? But you dont really know until ur in the sack what their deal is... Because like you said: a lot of people know how to talk the talk, but it's a different story when they have to walk the talk. The Taurus from the other night's attempt to talk 'like a boss' when he met me was -- in hindsight -- clearly a cover up for 'I'm actually a girl trapped in a man's body' in bed. I think most girls aren't as demanding when it comes to sex and he'd probably get away with still 'being the boss' in bed with them. But when i gave him the opportunity to show me who was 'boss' in bed. It became clear that the things he had been saying were just like a mask of braveness and that I had no choice but to be boss if I wanted to even get laid! And by demanding I don't mean domineering... It's just... If I feel like I need it to be harder or faster, I will let him know. And if I feel like it's time to change positions, I will let him know and give an indication of what to do next.
I always take things at face value and assume people are being as straight forward with me as i am with them, instead they try and get you (and themselves) to believe the hype they're spewing out to you and then afterwards realize what a handful I am (this is the point where they look like a deer in the head lights). I'm confident enough in my sexuality that I don't need to hype myself up to them.
This is why I think it would be wise to go by signs from now.... Fire signs have definitely come up strongest in heat and stamina and 'boss' departments. With them, it's always been about fun before and there is usually no 'hyping' involved if I think about it. It's more of a 'we've had so much fun together tonight... Let's go home and have some more!'. The focus has always been on fun with them. And that's what I'm after!
The only thing I have to worry about hearing from them a few days after is 'I've actually been seeing someone on-and-off for a while now and right now it's back on so, sorry, but if that changes again, you'll be the first one I call..." It really pisses me off when they pull s
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Shit like that... I feel like kicking them in the balls! But at least I had a good time in bed with them!
Shit like that... I feel like kicking them in the balls! But at least I had a good time in bed with them!
Yeah, I would have to say you are pretty much on the same wavelength as I am. At least you seem to be thinking what I am trying to say.
Over the last two years I have gone through some truly deep live changes. I have also done a lot of thinking, and reforming my view of myself. One of the conclusions I have come to in the process of redefining myself, and my life, is that I have lived my life at what can only be described as a maniac pace. I am on the —wrong?? side of 55, and I keep running over people who are indeed less than half my age. Huh, no wonder people had so much trouble with me when I was 30 years younger.
A second conclusion I have come to is that people want reliability, not actual honesty. Talking the talk is what is expected, actually doing what you say you are going to do, well not so much. As I have mentioned at other times, I was married to the same person for 30 years, and never cheated. I said I wasn't going to, and I didn't. Lots of people swear that they aren't going to cheat, but then do so. Cheating is in fact the expectation for many, many people. So, when I come along and actually do what I said I was going to do, I did not meet that expectation. Indeed, I set a standard of honesty! They wanted reliability, because that allows them to say one thing, and do something completely different. This makes me na??ve, because I don't lie and expect to get away with it. It also makes me totally unreliable.
Over the last two years I have gone through some truly deep live changes. I have also done a lot of thinking, and reforming my view of myself. One of the conclusions I have come to in the process of redefining myself, and my life, is that I have lived my life at what can only be described as a maniac pace. I am on the —wrong?? side of 55, and I keep running over people who are indeed less than half my age. Huh, no wonder people had so much trouble with me when I was 30 years younger.
A second conclusion I have come to is that people want reliability, not actual honesty. Talking the talk is what is expected, actually doing what you say you are going to do, well not so much. As I have mentioned at other times, I was married to the same person for 30 years, and never cheated. I said I wasn't going to, and I didn't. Lots of people swear that they aren't going to cheat, but then do so. Cheating is in fact the expectation for many, many people. So, when I come along and actually do what I said I was going to do, I did not meet that expectation. Indeed, I set a standard of honesty! They wanted reliability, because that allows them to say one thing, and do something completely different. This makes me na??ve, because I don't lie and expect to get away with it. It also makes me totally unreliable.
One of my favorite self-quotes is —There is nothing like personal integrity to hold you back!?? The expectation is that you will lie, and this makes you reliable. When you have the personal integrity to do what you say you are going to do, to actually be honest, you are scary as hell, because other people may come to expect this sort of behavior from everyone. This is where you come in. You say, I am going to fuck your brains out 3-4 times in the next 3-4 hours, and you do so. This is far too much for —reliable?? guys to handle. You are being honest, not reliable.
So, there you have it, and it is quite a barrage, isn't it. Live your life honesty, rather than reliably. You will burn through lots and lots of reliable people in your life. You have to be honest to yourself though, because you will destroy yourself if you don't.
Got all that?
So, there you have it, and it is quite a barrage, isn't it. Live your life honesty, rather than reliably. You will burn through lots and lots of reliable people in your life. You have to be honest to yourself though, because you will destroy yourself if you don't.
Got all that?
I guess I have always assumed that if you are an Aries then you obviously rock in the cradle...like an unwritten Ram Rule.
Have a great 2012 everyone!
Have a great 2012 everyone!
Posted by tryandguessPosted by DMVPosted by MzSagittarius
The Saggi board is either drama and sex or completely boring.
The reason a majority of Sags are so open to discuss our sex lives/fantasies is because, well, we're archers! We're blunt, loud, horny, drunks! We enjoy talking about sex for arousal and good laughs...
If the fellow Arians don't approve of you sex topics, bring yo ass over to the Sag board! 😉
or cupcakes. we should talk about cupcakes more..
I love cupcakes!!!!click to expand
ok. I guessed. the cupcakes gave it away, didn't they😉
I've never got a bad review of my skills and I do like giving pleasure a lot... My main problem is that I can't find anyone man enough for me to be pleased these days! That damned Leo has me Firmly under his paw... I wish I could just stick to him but there'll be times where we don't speak to each other for three months and we dont want boundaries on ourselves so don't put boundaries on each other. It's what makes it 'work'. But in between... Finding guys to fill his shoes while he's not around is a mission. Its not like they don't try... It's just: he does me right and I'm only left appreciating his skills and manliness every time. He's ruined my sex life! Haha...
Posted by Dragalutzi
how old are you lily? you fascinate me. 😛
Haha... Can I take that as a compliment Drag?? I'm 32 right now. Why are you fascinated?
@ blue: I already apologized for snapping and am over it. Advice noted though... Thank-you 🙂
@ drag: I'd be happy to tell you the longer version if ur really interested for your studies, but the short version goes like this:
Basically, we live in an age where we don't need to get married or have kids. I don't want either. I dont even want to be in a relationship. So I guess that takes the emotion part out of sex for me as well as the replication perspective. I guess all that's left from sex when you strip it down piece by piece is my human need for it.
I think the need to replicate is born from a fear of becoming nothingness/never existed and being forgotten after you die. If you have kids.... You are bound to be remembered for a little longer, but it is what it is at the end of the day. 76 billion people have been born and died on this planet so far and how many have lived on through making history or standing out from the rest of civilization?
My soul is here to learn, not to add to the over population problem of the planet. It would be nice to see a little me running around, but the planet needs help more than I need a kid. If I really want a kid one day, I will adopt and give a life that is already on this planet a home and some love. Other than that: I'm quite comfortable with my portion of the bloodline ending at me and slipping away into non existence after I die. Life is hard sometimes and I wouldn't actually wish the pain and disappointment that comes with it on my worst enemy let alone my beloved children! There is also a lot of disillusion floating around this world and too much of what we live in is not the truth. I've had a great life so far and am very lucky to be living the life I am! There are some people who really suffer through life with the cards they get dealt and how it plays out! The only way to protect them from that is to not have them!
I'd be happy to explain how i reached this perspective of life further in an email if you want.
@ drag: I'd be happy to tell you the longer version if ur really interested for your studies, but the short version goes like this:
Basically, we live in an age where we don't need to get married or have kids. I don't want either. I dont even want to be in a relationship. So I guess that takes the emotion part out of sex for me as well as the replication perspective. I guess all that's left from sex when you strip it down piece by piece is my human need for it.
I think the need to replicate is born from a fear of becoming nothingness/never existed and being forgotten after you die. If you have kids.... You are bound to be remembered for a little longer, but it is what it is at the end of the day. 76 billion people have been born and died on this planet so far and how many have lived on through making history or standing out from the rest of civilization?
My soul is here to learn, not to add to the over population problem of the planet. It would be nice to see a little me running around, but the planet needs help more than I need a kid. If I really want a kid one day, I will adopt and give a life that is already on this planet a home and some love. Other than that: I'm quite comfortable with my portion of the bloodline ending at me and slipping away into non existence after I die. Life is hard sometimes and I wouldn't actually wish the pain and disappointment that comes with it on my worst enemy let alone my beloved children! There is also a lot of disillusion floating around this world and too much of what we live in is not the truth. I've had a great life so far and am very lucky to be living the life I am! There are some people who really suffer through life with the cards they get dealt and how it plays out! The only way to protect them from that is to not have them!
I'd be happy to explain how i reached this perspective of life further in an email if you want.
At this point in humanity's existence and the state the planet is in, replication has become irresponsible.
I often joke with my friends when they see me with a baby and say 'aaawe, that really suits you' and tell them I have sex organs, not reproductive organs :p
I often joke with my friends when they see me with a baby and say 'aaawe, that really suits you' and tell them I have sex organs, not reproductive organs :p
I think im quite aware of social conditioning and making sure i live my life and not the life society has dreamt for me. I found this now and it explains my outlook on life a bit better:
http://everydaywonderland.com/articles/becoming-free-of-your-parents-and-social-conditioning
http://everydaywonderland.com/articles/becoming-free-of-your-parents-and-social-conditioning
^Youre such a retard^
Posted by ilybPosted by lotuslilyPosted by dofacc
I am going to hazard a guess that it is the directness of your approach to sex, and your sexual drive that simply intimidates, and then exhausts, many, many of the more relaxed kind.
So basically... I'm choosing the wrong guys right? I need to start choosing guys who can handle the heat and the stamina? s
hmm sounds interesting.. hope you can handle a cappy and i hope you would say they are not too freaky for an ariesclick to expand
Haha... Been there, done that! My ex bf is a cap.... I suggested using toys and he cried. Literally. Cried!
Posted by aquaj
Sex? Not having nearly enough of it. My pothead boyfriend finds Playstation more amusing. He doesn't even masturbate anymore. I think he might have low T. Should I take him to the doctor? FML.
Poor woman... I feel for you! You must have the female version of blue balls!
Dont mind him dude 🙂 He's a waste of time.
Welcome back btw!
Welcome back btw!
Posted by ilybPosted by lotuslilyPosted by ilybPosted by lotuslilyPosted by dofacc
I am going to hazard a guess that it is the directness of your approach to sex, and your sexual drive that simply intimidates, and then exhausts, many, many of the more relaxed kind.
So basically... I'm choosing the wrong guys right? I need to start choosing guys who can handle the heat and the stamina? s
hmm sounds interesting.. hope you can handle a cappy and i hope you would say they are not too freaky for an aries
Haha... Been there, done that! My ex bf is a cap.... I suggested using toys and he cried. Literally. Cried!
i dont think anyone who has had sex with a cappy would believe you and what you have said. i see too much hate. have you been hurt by your ex?click to expand
Everyone hurts when a relationship ends dude.... But there are no bad vibes between my ex and I. In fact I spent Christmas with him and it was fabulous! Just what the doctor ordered... So no hate there. Only an understanding that although we love each other to bits, a friendship would probably be a better bet than a relationship with each other.
As for his reaction to me wanting to bring out some toys at playtime: he said it made him feel like he wasn't enough for me. He could take the pace, but he couldn't handle the heat.
And as for your 8-hour endurance: you clearly haven't bedded an Aries yet 😉 we're dynamite! Designed to blow your mind and your load! Hahahahahaha!!!!
Posted by impresswhoPosted by aquaj
Sex? Not having nearly enough of it. My pothead boyfriend finds Playstation more amusing. He doesn't even masturbate anymore. I think he might have low T. Should I take him to the doctor? FML.
LOL, you be the doctor and give him some sexual healing. Men are visual so put on some heals panties and no bra...bend over in front of him while he is playing the game. I think he should get the point, 😛.click to expand
Whooooooooohooooooooo!!! You naughty, naughty girl!! Hahaha.... Love your style impress!
Then when ur bent over, give him a cheeky smile and say "play this, Mr!"
Posted by impresswho
oh yea, and don't forget to wink. 😉
Wait for it... Wait for it..... Yeah..... Here it comes....... BOOOOOOMMMMM!!!!!!!! Hahahaha
"I guess I have always assumed that if you are an Aries then you obviously rock in the cradle...like an unwritten Ram Rule."
Have a great 2012 everyone!
@RNAP I thought is was essentially genetic. Of course Aries are great!!!
"I think im quite aware of social conditioning and making sure i live my life and not the life society has dreamt for me. I found this now and it explains my outlook on life a bit better:"
@LotusLily I am unaware of the equivalent of misogynist in reference to males. Please enlighten me if you can (point being, I see your point).
"My bestfriend who's an Aries can drive a guy mad with desire in 2 hrs or less. It's just something Aries chicks do well."
@Pecheresse Why does she hold back? Two hours, I mean really, that is like a life time to an Aries!!!
@dofacc: you are hilarious! I love your humour.... I did look up the word for someone who hates men... But only because I'm a writer and enjoy increasing my vocabulary. (I love men.... I don't love relationships!), but to quench your light hearted curiosity:
Misandry is the hatred of men.
Misandry is the hatred of men.
Pls excuse any grammatical or punctuational errors in my posts today! I went and did my board sports today and took quite a few hard falls and have a massive headache at the moment and my brain is not functioning properly. I imagine it's all the brain cells I killed hitting my head on the water at high speed all day! (even with a helmet on!)
Posted by ilybPosted by aries415
Six years later separated again met my Cappy, then divorced. Cappy has the potential to be the best ever, he has the perfect size and works it when he has had enough rest he rocks the sheets, and we will do it 2-3 times but he doesn't last long enough sometimes.
i think you are talking bull shit here and you are contradicting yourself. all cappys have alot of stamina and cappys are the only sign who have stamina and i dont think there is anyone who can last even half of what a cappy ca do. i am a cappy my self and i can go for 8 hours of non stop sexclick to expand
My Cappy has more umph... when he gets enough rest. He is 45 turning 46 in a couple of days and a workaholic, so after humping me a few times, then squeals...lol he falls asleep and most times while his penis is still inside of me. Just curious does this happen to other women often or men do you do this a lot.
Hot damn!!!!! Had a seriously steamy make out sesh with a very hot scorp who was clearly packed to the brim with Mars! Good lord! I don't remember the last time I encountered such intense, urgent passion! I didn't get to go all the way with him though. Super bummed about that!
Remember how I was bitchIng about not beIng able to find me a strong man who would show me who's "boss"...—?
He was it! It was so good to finally feel the strength and fire coming from this man.
Anyway.... steamy daydreams aside: ummmmm..... I don't think I'd believe ur cap either if he said he'd never masturbated. A) if he said it never did it for him.... He would have had to have tried it to get to that conclusion innit— And he's a male! They can't go a day without touching their little guys! Kinda reminds me of the kind of people who are conditioned into thinking sex is shameful by their parents and maybe did it but never admitted it to anyone. He couldnt have been having regukar sex from age 10!!! Everyone hits a drought at some point or another.... And if they dont sort themselves out, their bodies will make sure it gets that release..... Like through dreams! I also have orgasms in my dreams! I love those! They're the kind that i wake up from the afterness throbbing and try my hardest to get back to sleep..... Hahaha)
maybe his other wives played the shame game on him too.
Hectic man....
Remember how I was bitchIng about not beIng able to find me a strong man who would show me who's "boss"...—?
He was it! It was so good to finally feel the strength and fire coming from this man.
Anyway.... steamy daydreams aside: ummmmm..... I don't think I'd believe ur cap either if he said he'd never masturbated. A) if he said it never did it for him.... He would have had to have tried it to get to that conclusion innit— And he's a male! They can't go a day without touching their little guys! Kinda reminds me of the kind of people who are conditioned into thinking sex is shameful by their parents and maybe did it but never admitted it to anyone. He couldnt have been having regukar sex from age 10!!! Everyone hits a drought at some point or another.... And if they dont sort themselves out, their bodies will make sure it gets that release..... Like through dreams! I also have orgasms in my dreams! I love those! They're the kind that i wake up from the afterness throbbing and try my hardest to get back to sleep..... Hahaha)
maybe his other wives played the shame game on him too.
Hectic man....
HOT TOPIC: SEX im like omg i should take a look, i open it its an aries chick, typical
Holy crap! My sex drive has crashed and burned! It's completely disappeared! It's horrible! I feel naked! I don't even feel like sexting my Leo and i ALWAYS want to do that! It's been like three weeks since I even missed anyone nevermind got laid and even sorting myself out is just not something I want to do lately! I don't think I've ever been less horny! I don't like it one little bit! I want my libido back! NOW!!!
It's like going from living life in high definition 4d awesomeness with surround sound, to silent black and white shitness!
Anyone else not feeling like a sex beast lately?
It's like going from living life in high definition 4d awesomeness with surround sound, to silent black and white shitness!
Anyone else not feeling like a sex beast lately?
*kissed not missed
Posted by ilybPosted by aries415Posted by ilybPosted by aries415
Six years later separated again met my Cappy, then divorced. Cappy has the potential to be the best ever, he has the perfect size and works it when he has had enough rest he rocks the sheets, and we will do it 2-3 times but he doesn't last long enough sometimes.
i think you are talking bull shit here and you are contradicting yourself. all cappys have alot of stamina and cappys are the only sign who have stamina and i dont think there is anyone who can last even half of what a cappy ca do. i am a cappy my self and i can go for 8 hours of non stop sex
My Cappy has more umph... when he gets enough rest. He is 45 turning 46 in a couple of days and a workaholic, so after humping me a few times, then squeals...lol he falls asleep and most times while his penis is still inside of me. Just curious does this happen to other women often or men do you do this a lot.
he falls asleep cos he lasts for a very long time and he probably gets tired. it has happened to me but not often, i mean i can put my penis in the evening and take it out of your pussy in the morning and i would still not come, and i do get tired...no one would fall asleep if they would have 10-15 mins of sexclick to expand
Well that is exactly how long it lasts 10-15... And shorter..lol depends how rested he is and how often we did it already. I've never been with a man that lasts all night... that is a myth in my world and I wouldn't want to have sex past 30 minutes it can start to hurt. I can say that he has the body of a twenty year old I am jealous...lol all lean muscles! Men his age are nowhere in shape as he is. In fact he is in more shape than I am and I am younger 😢 ..lol
Posted by ilyb
by the way i know an aries woman who was my girl friend and since she had me she has been with three other cappy men cos she would let go of them and they all do fuck more then one hour per session
My Cappy may be older than you, he is 46, so he may have lost some stamina, but regardless he is still the bomb and then hopefully it is me that excites him so much :-)
Posted by aPiscesPrincessPosted by lotuslily
I also have orgasms in my dreams! I love those! They're the kind that i wake up from the afterness throbbing and try my hardest to get back to sleep..... Hahaha)
lol Nice subject! I'm Aries rising, so I'll chime in ;P
I do that too though, I love those orgasmic dreams. I need to cum at least 3 times in a row (better yet at least 5) to feel it's enough.click to expand
Ha ha! STRAIGHT UP SISTA! I get SO greedy with orgasms! I NEED to average about 5 a sesh before I feel anywhere near satisfied! The first one might take a little while to get to but after that I average the next ones in less than a minute after each other. And I've trained myself how to make them last longer.... so I end up with between 30 to 40 seconds worth of monumental earth moving epicness!
I've spoken to my girl friends about this and they think i'm abnormal! Apparently one is enough for them. They kinda look at me like dumbstruck as to how I can be so sexually charged up and orgasm obsessed!
YAAAAAYYYYY!!!!!!! My libido is back!!!! Woke up feeling like I could mount a pole this morning!!!!! AND HARD!!!!! hahaha.....
Now, where dem dudes at—? *looks around scouting the land*
Now, where dem dudes at—? *looks around scouting the land*
Random funniness: My bestie is a Scorp and she feints during her orgasms..... lol! Anyone else do that??
Posted by lotuslily
Random funniness: My bestie is a Scorp and she feints during her orgasms..... lol! Anyone else do that??
I heard of some people doing that. I know I tear up sometimes...like I cry..but because it feels so good.
I have heard of some women blacking out tho from orgasming
Posted by happykitsunePosted by lotuslily
Random funniness: My bestie is a Scorp and she feints during her orgasms..... lol! Anyone else do that??
I heard of some people doing that. I know I tear up sometimes...like I cry..but because it feels so good.
I have heard of some women blacking out tho from orgasmingclick to expand
I recorded myself just to see what sort of ridiculousness comes into play when I orgasm.... I just look like I'm in agony! But it's not! It's epic ecstacy! So weird! Also... I go a bit cross eyed and my eyes roll back at the moment of explosion! hahaha.... have made mental notes to close eyes when cumming around dudes in future!
Lmao at this thread. I have alomst fainted and sometimes get a sharp pain in my head at the same time im am cumming. I had to slow down and try to control it because i got very worried about that pain in the head. I have a scorp friend who has never had an orgasm and she is the same age as me, she hasn't even gotten herself to cum. She thinks its her fault, same thing I thought till i found a guy who could really satisfy me. Although i have always known how to satisfy myself. Thank god for that because my sex life has been rather dry for the last two years, theses dudes out here are a waste of time in that dept. Hopefully the Taurus im seeing wont be.
Is fwb successfully possible? Can't seem to make one work Ive tried 2 times both with Pisces and they became controlling assholes.
Posted by lotuslily
I wanted to post a thread (which is now this one) asking my fellow Aries lasses about the reactions you get from guys in bed, but felt a bit bashful about it since I've not really read anything designated to sex in our thread board before.... But fucking hell.... I don't feel bashful anymore having seen what some of the other signs are posting about in their hoods! The pisces are currently debating squirting (I shit you not) and there has been talk of threesomes in the Sag board. I have noticed the sag board to be very sexually orientated at times. So how is it that Aries -- which is ruled by Mars and is famous for our insanely high sex drives and rollercoaster sex rides -- has such a tame thread vibe going on?
Is it because we don't feel the need to compensate for anything in the sack by speaking about it? Or do you think we like to keep our sexy antics a mystery which will be revealed only to those who get a frenzied rollercoaster ride in our pants? Or do you think it's because we like to gauge the situation before we unleash the sex fiend within.
Having said that brings me to the point of my next question, because I know from personal experience that my sex is waaaaaaaayyyyyyyy to hot for some guys to handle and so if they are timid in bed then I will follow suit so that I don't give them a heart attack by unleashing the sex cracken! It amazes and saddens me that there have probably only been about seven or eight guys I've slept with who have been man enough to handle the filthy pirate whore within! They have without a doubt only been fire signs, a scorp and one freaky Aquarius who made me blush with the stuff he was doing to me (craziest night of my life with sex... )The two Leos rocked my world over and over again (one still is... Going on three years next week!) love their skill and their adventurous and aggressive approach to sex. And the Aries dude also made it into the top five.
And even if I do play it down and hold back because they seem conventional or traditional.... They still look like a deer in the headlights!
I may well start doing sex by signs because all the other guys have all turned out to be total girls in bed. Some of the earth signs even sound like chicks when they orgasm! Haha.
In other semi-related news... Last night's Taurus had to prematurely evacuate and go to hospital. He dislocated his shoulder during! Don't get too happy
ugghh my comment didnt post..anyway..AGAIN: I don't see where there is a problem talking about sex at all. I mean, if others are prudish, that's their problem...they can deal with that on their own time...instead of putting others down because they are not afraid to speak their mind.
And oh yes, I have scared quite a few guys with my inner succubi. "YOU WANNA DO WHAT—" Yes, that's right bitch LOL
But you're right, Leos/Aries/Sag can take it and Earth signs really do sound/are like wusses in bed...BORING!
But it's funny...everyone has the general idea of me that i am sooo quiet and sweet, yeah well...guess what? Don't let me get you into bed. Haha, great topic btw
And oh yes, I have scared quite a few guys with my inner succubi. "YOU WANNA DO WHAT—" Yes, that's right bitch LOL
But you're right, Leos/Aries/Sag can take it and Earth signs really do sound/are like wusses in bed...BORING!
But it's funny...everyone has the general idea of me that i am sooo quiet and sweet, yeah well...guess what? Don't let me get you into bed. Haha, great topic btw
Hee hee... Do you girls have a 'signature' move in bed? If so, what is it?
Posted by lotuslilyPosted by happykitsunePosted by lotuslily
Random funniness: My bestie is a Scorp and she feints during her orgasms..... lol! Anyone else do that??
I heard of some people doing that. I know I tear up sometimes...like I cry..but because it feels so good.
I have heard of some women blacking out tho from orgasming
I recorded myself just to see what sort of ridiculousness comes into play when I orgasm.... I just look like I'm in agony! But it's not! It's epic ecstacy! So weird! Also... I go a bit cross eyed and my eyes roll back at the moment of explosion! hahaha.... have made mental notes to close eyes when cumming around dudes in future!click to expand
....lol when I was married I begged husband (boring Taurus male) to make home movie and i was so embarrassed the way I was looking when I orgasm I deleted it..lol he looked stupid too his was funny I laughed at him..lol
I asked my Cappy lover and he said he never made one... Although married twice. I teased him and said he was married to stones..lol
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