Story Time about an Aries I met

Posted by blvckphvse

I read it, we have the same Sun / Moon. You just met her recently? Beginning of September?

You're already in too deep. I can't tell you about Aries women, but I can tell you that you'll have to be more direct about your feelings if you don't want this to eat away at you.

So far she has only referenced you as a friend. From what you have said she trusts to share a lot of personal information, that's great. But does she take interest in you and your personal life as much as she talks about her own? It sounds like you are only communicating with one another for you to support her while she tries to build her dream.. Correct me if I am wrong, but that is how it sounds at this point. She becomes distant, you confront, her reply of not being good enough was sneaky.. You immediately forgot that she had just been ignoring you and started to offer words of encouragement. (you are so like me this is sad, lmao) Things change when / if people get famous.. if she is being distant now, what do you think will happen if she makes a break? I know you don't wanna be the one building her up to be left in the dust. So just be honest with yourself.. Is she taking real interest in you as a person, or is the main focus of your interactions on her? If you still need to give this a shot, I recommend talking to her about it sooner rather than later because it's just gonna keep eating at you if you don't..

Posted by bkbella86

What do you want from her?

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Posted by Anotherlonleyperson22

Posted by blvckphvse

I read it, we have the same Sun / Moon. You just met her recently? Beginning of September?

You're already in too deep. I can't tell you about Aries women, but I can tell you that you'll have to be more direct about your feelings if you don't want this to eat away at you.

So far she has only referenced you as a friend. From what you have said she trusts to share a lot of personal information, that's great. But does she take interest in you and your personal life as much as she talks about her own? It sounds like you are only communicating with one another for you to support her while she tries to build her dream.. Correct me if I am wrong, but that is how it sounds at this point. She becomes distant, you confront, her reply of not being good enough was sneaky.. You immediately forgot that she had just been ignoring you and started to offer words of encouragement. (you are so like me this is sad, lmao) Things change when / if people get famous.. if she is being distant now, what do you think will happen if she makes a break? I know you don't wanna be the one building her up to be left in the dust. So just be honest with yourself.. Is she taking real interest in you as a person, or is the main focus of your interactions on her? If you still need to give this a shot, I recommend talking to her about it sooner rather than later because it's just gonna keep eating at you if you don't..

To some degree, i agree lol. The thing is, i never was looking to “build her”. She has invited me to assist her help her dream by being a part of it. She has given me a role and she has been putting this off for a year

I dont expect anything from her lol. Its odd because she is the one that mentions our click. She does talk alot when she isn’t writing that stupid 10 page essay we get assigned.

The thing i agree is that it does eat at me lol. But at the same time i expect nothing.

I do understand.. expecting no outcome but it still eats at you. I'll tell you firsthand though, it can go on for a long time if you let it and it's no fun. I'm still not sure of the time frame here though.. What has she been putting off for a year?

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Posted by Anotherlonleyperson22

Posted by blvckphvse

I read it, we have the same Sun / Moon. You just met her recently? Beginning of September?

You're already in too deep. I can't tell you about Aries women, but I can tell you that you'll have to be more direct about your feelings if you don't want this to eat away at you.

So far she has only referenced you as a friend. From what you have said she trusts to share a lot of personal information, that's great. But does she take interest in you and your personal life as much as she talks about her own? It sounds like you are only communicating with one another for you to support her while she tries to build her dream.. Correct me if I am wrong, but that is how it sounds at this point. She becomes distant, you confront, her reply of not being good enough was sneaky.. You immediately forgot that she had just been ignoring you and started to offer words of encouragement. (you are so like me this is sad, lmao) Things change when / if people get famous.. if she is being distant now, what do you think will happen if she makes a break? I know you don't wanna be the one building her up to be left in the dust. So just be honest with yourself.. Is she taking real interest in you as a person, or is the main focus of your interactions on her? If you still need to give this a shot, I recommend talking to her about it sooner rather than later because it's just gonna keep eating at you if you don't..

To some degree, i agree lol. The thing is, i never was looking to “build her”. She has invited me to assist her help her dream by being a part of it. She has given me a role and she has been putting this off for a year

I dont expect anything from her lol. Its odd because she is the one that mentions our click. She does talk alot when she isn’t writing that stupid 10 page essay we get assigned.

The thing i agree is that it does eat at me lol. But at the same time i expect nothing.

I do understand.. expecting no outcome but it still eats at you. I'll tell you firsthand though, it can go on for a long time if you let it and it's no fun. I'm still not sure of the time frame here though.. What has she been putting off for a year?

It runs through my mind yes.

The time frame of our contact has been a more or less a month. She has been putting off her dream for a year. She said she has been thinking of asking me if i was interesting in being a part of her dream. She calls it, being a part of her team.

She knows we have duties to do, like our own lives. She is kinda full of herself lol. But she isn’t self centered. She has a dream and made me a part of it. I didnt ask, i didnt beg. She just asked me if i could help. She likes what i have to offer but subconsciously i feel like she’s just excited.

But i do wanna be friends with her i suppose because i like growth with someone. But I Don’t Know if she’s being overly friendly or is actually interested in someone like me.

But don't you have dreams of your own? You've only known her a month, is your dream to be part of her team?

I know you want to be friends with her, but your feelings are already deeper than friendship.. be honest with yourself.

I know you don't want to be the one to expose yourself / feelings first, but you might have to. The answers to all your questions are with her.

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Posted by Anotherlonleyperson22

Okay. Some of you may already know what i did over the summer in terms of romance. I dont have high expectations but, life always like introducing people into my life. I dont think much of it, but sometimes they get interesting to the point where i think “Is this normally how they should act?”

Anyways, I am a Gemini Male, just wanting to live a normal life. Not having a single worry, just want to live working and going to school. Boring I Know lol.

I recently started going to the University with a mindset of just getting my shit done lol. The first weeks i spent my time grinding like how i wanted. It was relaxing, but that was short lived....

We were Placed into groups for one of my classes. The Name of the Class had the name “Group” in it. So i did expect to be placed in a group, randomly i chose a group. I had the fully liberty to pick.

I worked and worked and worked, it was great! However, one of the Group members and I somehow instantly clicked. (Doesnt mean we romantically clicked, unless the signs show otherwise)

She is an Aries, optimistic, full of energy and shines in every moment. I paid no attention to her at first, just regarded her a group member who i needed to work with and nothing more. About three weeks later, we were talking in the group chat as a group, and me and her somehow clicked.

We separated from the group chat and went to have our own conversation which lasted over 5 hours. We talked from 11PM-4AM. To my surprise she kept the ball rolling with several interesting topics.

Regardless, the following day we just kept in touch. Nothing much out of the ordinary. She’s a busy woman, balancing 15 Units and helping with a family business. She lives her own life, and that life is where it hets interesting.

Weeks pass and we exchange conversation here and there. Never dull, always full of energy.

At some point, she began to “ignore” me. Her responses had different energy. They had little interest. I did confront her about it and asked what was wrong. Her excuse was someone else made her upset. Then like of nothing happened, full of energy! Very Random In My Opinion, but i thought nothing of it.

I did notice something unique in her, i saw her as a movie star or am actress. She gave off that energy from day one and even told her since day one, she has the energy to perform. She never gave feedback until we clicked , in terms of friends, and she said that she did do theater and enjoy the stage. She wants to be this well-known actress and receive fame from her talent. That is her ultimate wish.

She did slowly open up to me. She tells me her future plans and openly too. I listen and respond when appropriate. To my Surprise...

She asks me if i am interested in the glamour life. Being in Movies, Short Films, Youtube Videos.

I was confused to why she asked if i ever have done movies or anything. But she tells me “It’s hard to find people who seem interesting.” At first this made no sense to what she meant 😂 and i still dont.

She tells me things Like “I want to see you succeed!” Or “you’re a great friend, no one has ever said these nice things to me”. Keep in mind im not looking for a relationship if she isn’t. I dont like being the only one devoted. Anyways...

I do give her feedback on her work. She says she admires my feedback. She likes it when i see her work and give my honest opinions about it. She wants me to be bold and blunt, which i am. To my surprise, if she thinks something looked a little off. She wants to hear a way to fix any problems she had and she rolls with it.

A while ago, she was silent again. Which made me wonder what happened. Again, i confronted her and told her “What’s wrong? I dont want you to stop giving me updates on your work. Keep me in the loop.” AGAIN, to my Surprise she says “I’m Scared.... of Not being good enough...” and i harshly react telling her that all actors and actresses started somewhere, nobody is instantly a star!

She seemed to cheer up because she said “Can you talk on the phone?“ and stumbling i said “YES CALL ME”. She did call me and we spent about three hours, in the middle of the day, talking. Sharing ideas and thoughts. Unfortunately i had work that day, so we had to stop talking and she had to go back to do her own things.

She sends me Voice messages instead of texting. I tell her i enjoy the voice recordings more and she does spam me sometimes. I assume when she has the time because she is a busy woman. She does live her own life. But in the end, she always does get back to me even if its for a moment and then she goes and does her duties.

She does call me when she is going from class to class SOMETIMES. But i dont expect it to be consistent always. She’s always excited to share what her short film ideas are and never stop bombarding my brain with ideas. She includes me in her short stories and hopes i can act with her. She lives her OWN LIFE and i acknowledge that completely.

She started sharing more personal things, such as finances and health. I Don’t Mind listening but my mind thinks that she trusts me enough to share with me all this.

The best part about it, she isn’t my girlfriend but, the friendship with her seems to be a lot better than my actual love relationships. She sends me random funny videos, food she is eating and other random things lol.

Sometimes she could be talking to me in person and we laugh about something together. If she laughs, i laugh. If I Laugh, she laughs. Almost like it’s contagious. We stray away from our group to have our own conversations but ultimately have to be brought back.

Now, What Does this all Mean? Are all Aries women this friendly? Am i dumber than a sack of potatoes? I have another Aries friend but SHES NOWHERE as interesting as her. What are your thoughts?