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starlord
joined March 10, 2018
  • But the problem here seems that you get no clear answers from him?! So you don't know wether to move on or not, correct? Not cool. If the communication is aΓ¦ready that bad, you probably wouldn't be good together anyways, so just treat it as fun flirting until you meet somebody else. Like a little hobby you're not really passionate about.
  • Realize now that a fwb would also mean never being asked: what do you want? What do you want in your future? Am I in it?

    All those serious questions I have no answers for. I think that's a major part of why I am not attracted to the guys looking for relstionships. Suddenly you are responsible for another persons life and their happiness.
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    There is a cap guy, much younger than me, who wants to be my fwb.
    He has already said to me himself, that he can't give me what I want (a relationship with somebody who's basically mildly obsessed with meπŸ˜„). He knows, no guy has ever given me an orgasm. And he has plenty of other opportunities.
    Why does he want me as his fwb? What does it say about him?
    Not anything like he secretly loves me, but how he is as a person? Why go for somebody, he knows will in at least one way be dissatiafied? Would it be a turn on, to know this and then still have the woman have sex with him? Like extreme ego boosting?


    He JUST wants to have sex with you. It's not any more complicated than that.


    He doesn't want a relationship with you.
    The reason he's asking you is because you're there and he can. It's all opportunistic.

    He maybe senses that you like him and as you told him you've never had an orgasm with a guy... He thinks it would be fun to try.

    DON'T DO IT.
    WHATEVER YOU DO. DON'T.



    Your first points: I am well aware. I am not an idiot, nor afraid, so I have talked to him about this. He has no feelings for me, I am not gf material to him, so on and so forth.

    I don't blaim a guy for wanting to try and be the one to succeed with the orgasm thing. I just don't believe he can do it.


    I'm not saying you're an idiot at all. I think you're cool 😊


    I was just answering all the questions you seem to be asking here in this thread. So your response to me is confusing. Why ask/tell us the following if you two have talked and already know the answers to your questions and are clear ?:
    These are a few of ur questions.


    - "Why does he want me as his fwb? What does it say about him?
    -" But how he is as a person?"
    - "Why go for somebody, he knows will in at least one way be dissatiafied? "
    - "Would it be a turn on, to know this and then still have the woman have sex with him? Like extreme ego boosting?"
    - "He's got options, why chose to go after the hard one"
    - "why chose to go for fwb with someone, who wants more, when he can just go for somebody who wants the same? "
    - "Why chose the hazzle? And chose the option, where there is more risc of hurting the other person?"
    - " Maybe he gets off on stuff like that?"



    You should know the answer to your questions because you guys have already talked about it...I'm confused.

    I don't understand what more you need to know with this one. You've answered all your own questions.


    My advice to you though is really not to give him the satisfaction of using you like an achievement calendar that he can go βœ…βœ”οΈ after he's done making you cum. But something tells me that you're not going to listen anyway :p

    Typical fellow stubborn Scorp.

    😘😘😘 Much love.
    You deserve MUCH better. He sounds a bit like a tool. You need someone who SHOWS you that he really wants to be WITH you not just on top of you.




    Aaaaaaw thanks boo😘😘😘 I really appreciate that!
    I took your reply as you trying to tell me, that he has no feelings for me and there is no future in this. And this I already know.
    Guess I just don't see the "he's not into you" as an answer to why he choses to engage in such hardship. I would think that easy sex it should be exactly that; easy. Not all the hazzle I give himπŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„ 'Cause I do. I'm being way too dramatic now for what he wants. He was bullbutterting me so I bullbutter him back. I'm borred, what can I say. Hoping something else will take my interest any day now🀞🀞🀞🀞🀞
    All good with you and yours?


    You are so cute 😍😍😍

    He will come along. Don't worry. Just have fun. Relax. You're beautiful.


    Haha yeah he offered me a present yesterday. What a cutie.


    Yes let's hope a quality guy will come along and think I'm quality too. A woman can dream 😊

    Sounds cute❀ Can't imagine what it must feel like to be somebodys girlfriend and be official. Weird!!!! That's how I imagine it.


    No.
    You KNOW it WILL happen.

    It feels like pressure. It reminds me how stressful it was. AGAIN
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    Oh lord the PREASSURE!!!! I'm not even close to a relationship, but I know exactly what you mean. Nobody else talks about this. But maaan the preassure!!! It's real!
  • I remember a cancer guy I was involved with, who also told me, that he had had to fake it sometimes. With me he didn't though, 'cause it always ended with a bj. Unless he knew how to fake those. But damn I wish he would have faked it once or twice and focused on me instead. 😲
  • Posted by GemCurio
    Posted by starlord
    Posted by GemCurio
    I doubt I'm the only one, so I think we should all get a kick out of this. Have you ever had to fake it just to get her the hell off of you?? Don't forget to share your sign, the woman at the time's sign, and the story...

    Virgo guy met this Aqua girl who became obsessed with me for a while. I asked her to be friends but she refused. So she wears me down and eventually we become intimate and I realize she was clueless in this department. So, she would always get hers but she just sort of laid there and took orders like a dead fish. I felt bad for her because all the guys she met before me were just as clueless as she was. So, it became routine for me after she o'ed twice, I'd fake it so I could get me another adult beverage out the fridge and go to sleep. Eventually, because Aquas are highly aware she caught on and demanded to see it... "Where's the stuff?" So, I had to tell her... Talk about a nutty conversation...


    I know it shouldn't but this topic kind of comforts me. Sorry notsorry.


    Thank you @starlord for your elevated mentality towards this topic.. Most women are pissed!!! lol
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    What?! Why??
    I feel like it equals the playung field a little. I would love to be the ine to get off one time and the guy didn't.

    Also live with a gay guy who doesn't orgasm on the regular when having sex and has just explained a lot of stuff to me.
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    Posted by Metatron
    Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
    How do you fake no cum?


    Into a towel....have done it....I dont cum all the time...maybe like 60% and an ex really used to take it personally....really wasnt her fault at all....

    do you grab a towel and pretend that you are cumming? lol


    yes lol...its just a few grunts....not like I have to lay there with my legs shaking....
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    Even a fake orgasm is harder for womenπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­πŸ˜­
  • Posted by GemCurio
    I doubt I'm the only one, so I think we should all get a kick out of this. Have you ever had to fake it just to get her the hell off of you?? Don't forget to share your sign, the woman at the time's sign, and the story...

    Virgo guy met this Aqua girl who became obsessed with me for a while. I asked her to be friends but she refused. So she wears me down and eventually we become intimate and I realize she was clueless in this department. So, she would always get hers but she just sort of laid there and took orders like a dead fish. I felt bad for her because all the guys she met before me were just as clueless as she was. So, it became routine for me after she o'ed twice, I'd fake it so I could get me another adult beverage out the fridge and go to sleep. Eventually, because Aquas are highly aware she caught on and demanded to see it... "Where's the stuff?" So, I had to tell her... Talk about a nutty conversation...


    I know it shouldn't but this topic kind of comforts me. Sorry notsorry.
  • Posted by stillstillwater
    Doing It Wrong confession:

    I told myself NO flirting. Gave in but saved face with "i'm kidding"... wheww close one....

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    But treetrunk i feel like that energy is out there again...retreat...retreat...



    Flirt your way out of it! It can be done. Like cross some boundaries and feel how wrong it feels and what you truly feel.
    And also come here and vent and hear what ecerybody has to say. That has really really really helped me. Odly enough.
  • Posted by hihello
    Posted by DeadInside
    there is a girl i want to treat her bad

    You want revenge.
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    I feel this. Did. Felt.
  • Posted by Ariqua
    It says he thinks you’re the easiest prey


    Yeah that too. Ripe for the picking!
    Easy prey, not easy lay though. There I'm 100 % challenge. Maybe the combo is a turn on.
  • Posted by Lala1393
    Posted by starlord
    Posted by Lala1393
    Posted by starlord
    Posted by Lala1393
    Posted by starlord
    There is a cap guy, much younger than me, who wants to be my fwb.
    He has already said to me himself, that he can't give me what I want (a relationship with somebody who's basically mildly obsessed with meπŸ˜„). He knows, no guy has ever given me an orgasm. And he has plenty of other opportunities.
    Why does he want me as his fwb? What does it say about him?
    Not anything like he secretly loves me, but how he is as a person? Why go for somebody, he knows will in at least one way be dissatiafied? Would it be a turn on, to know this and then still have the woman have sex with him? Like extreme ego boosting?


    He JUST wants to have sex with you. It's not any more complicated than that.


    He doesn't want a relationship with you.
    The reason he's asking you is because you're there and he can. It's all opportunistic.

    He maybe senses that you like him and as you told him you've never had an orgasm with a guy... He thinks it would be fun to try.

    DON'T DO IT.
    WHATEVER YOU DO. DON'T.



    Your first points: I am well aware. I am not an idiot, nor afraid, so I have talked to him about this. He has no feelings for me, I am not gf material to him, so on and so forth.

    I don't blaim a guy for wanting to try and be the one to succeed with the orgasm thing. I just don't believe he can do it.


    I'm not saying you're an idiot at all. I think you're cool 😊


    I was just answering all the questions you seem to be asking here in this thread. So your response to me is confusing. Why ask/tell us the following if you two have talked and already know the answers to your questions and are clear ?:
    These are a few of ur questions.


    - "Why does he want me as his fwb? What does it say about him?
    -" But how he is as a person?"
    - "Why go for somebody, he knows will in at least one way be dissatiafied? "
    - "Would it be a turn on, to know this and then still have the woman have sex with him? Like extreme ego boosting?"
    - "He's got options, why chose to go after the hard one"
    - "why chose to go for fwb with someone, who wants more, when he can just go for somebody who wants the same? "
    - "Why chose the hazzle? And chose the option, where there is more risc of hurting the other person?"
    - " Maybe he gets off on stuff like that?"



    You should know the answer to your questions because you guys have already talked about it...I'm confused.

    I don't understand what more you need to know with this one. You've answered all your own questions.


    My advice to you though is really not to give him the satisfaction of using you like an achievement calendar that he can go βœ…βœ”οΈ after he's done making you cum. But something tells me that you're not going to listen anyway :p

    Typical fellow stubborn Scorp.

    😘😘😘 Much love.
    You deserve MUCH better. He sounds a bit like a tool. You need someone who SHOWS you that he really wants to be WITH you not just on top of you.




    Aaaaaaw thanks boo😘😘😘 I really appreciate that!
    I took your reply as you trying to tell me, that he has no feelings for me and there is no future in this. And this I already know.
    Guess I just don't see the "he's not into you" as an answer to why he choses to engage in such hardship. I would think that easy sex it should be exactly that; easy. Not all the hazzle I give himπŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„ 'Cause I do. I'm being way too dramatic now for what he wants. He was bullbutterting me so I bullbutter him back. I'm borred, what can I say. Hoping something else will take my interest any day now🀞🀞🀞🀞🀞
    All good with you and yours?


    You are so cute 😍😍😍

    He will come along. Don't worry. Just have fun. Relax. You're beautiful.


    Haha yeah he offered me a present yesterday. What a cutie.
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    Yes let's hope a quality guy will come along and think I'm quality too. A woman can dream 😊

    Sounds cute❀ Can't imagine what it must feel like to be somebodys girlfriend and be official. Weird!!!! That's how I imagine it.
  • Posted by Apis
    It says he's honest and he likes a challenge.

    You've made yourself a carnival game to him. He wants to swing his hammer and try to ring your bell.



    Yeah that's what most people say. Complete opposite effect of what I would have thought.
  • Posted by Squishy
    Posted by starlord
    There is a cap guy, much younger than me, who wants to be my fwb.
    He has already said to me himself, that he can't give me what I want (a relationship with somebody who's basically mildly obsessed with meπŸ˜„). He knows, no guy has ever given me an orgasm. And he has plenty of other opportunities.
    Why does he want me as his fwb? What does it say about him?
    Not anything like he secretly loves me, but how he is as a person? Why go for somebody, he knows will in at least one way be dissatiafied? Would it be a turn on, to know this and then still have the woman have sex with him? Like extreme ego boosting?


    It means he is ready to make sweet sweet love to you. Maybe not.


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    Not. πŸ˜„
  • Posted by Wanderlustcancerian24
    I’m not a Capricorn, but I’ll say this... he stated what he wanted. If he wanted more, he would’ve stated that. If you don’t want a FWB relationship then walk away. If you can handle it with any expectations then proceed. It’s not complicated...... I don’t think he has any other intentions, as he has stated what he’s looking for and it’s nothing more than FWB.


    Posted by starlord
    Posted by nanobot
    What kind of answer would you like to hear

    That he picks you because he's attracted to you?

    Doesn't matter, means nothing. You will only be left with a void you already experience, based on your other threads. It would not serve you really in any way.


    An answer that has got nothing to do with me. That's what I'm asking: what does this say about him?

    Doing plenty if soulsearching on what it says about me, but it must say something about him as well.
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    In relation to me, there are no other intentions than treetrunking. But since he can have other fwb's without the hazzle, I wondered what made him want to pursue this. Pride, extreme ego boost, the knowledge of me wanting love but still doing it with him could be some kind of sado kick?! Could be lots to things.
  • Posted by FantamRooster
    How many people know that no man has ever given you an orgasm? Is this like some kind of badge of pride...why share that with folks? lol


    He was my friend, and I like to talk real talk with my friends.
  • Posted by LadyNeptune
    Posted by starlord
    There is a cap guy, much younger than me, who wants to be my fwb.
    He has already said to me himself, that he can't give me what I want (a relationship with somebody who's basically mildly obsessed with meπŸ˜„). He knows, no guy has ever given me an orgasm. And he has plenty of other opportunities.
    Why does he want me as his fwb? What does it say about him?
    Not anything like he secretly loves me, but how he is as a person? Why go for somebody, he knows will in at least one way be dissatiafied? Would it be a turn on, to know this and then still have the woman have sex with him? Like extreme ego boosting?


    Why does he know that? If you talk about sex and lead with that your sending the message that that’s all your interested in.

    He probably sees you as a challenge now. He wants to be β€˜the one’ to make you cum.
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    Because we were friends first and talked about dating and relationships and sex. When I met him initially I felt he was attracted to me. I asked him, and he denied it, but then admitted it 6 months later - after we had talked a bunch about all sorts of stuff, including other guys and girls.
  • Posted by Lala1393
    Posted by starlord
    Posted by Lala1393
    Posted by starlord
    There is a cap guy, much younger than me, who wants to be my fwb.
    He has already said to me himself, that he can't give me what I want (a relationship with somebody who's basically mildly obsessed with meπŸ˜„). He knows, no guy has ever given me an orgasm. And he has plenty of other opportunities.
    Why does he want me as his fwb? What does it say about him?
    Not anything like he secretly loves me, but how he is as a person? Why go for somebody, he knows will in at least one way be dissatiafied? Would it be a turn on, to know this and then still have the woman have sex with him? Like extreme ego boosting?


    He JUST wants to have sex with you. It's not any more complicated than that.


    He doesn't want a relationship with you.
    The reason he's asking you is because you're there and he can. It's all opportunistic.

    He maybe senses that you like him and as you told him you've never had an orgasm with a guy... He thinks it would be fun to try.

    DON'T DO IT.
    WHATEVER YOU DO. DON'T.



    Your first points: I am well aware. I am not an idiot, nor afraid, so I have talked to him about this. He has no feelings for me, I am not gf material to him, so on and so forth.

    I don't blaim a guy for wanting to try and be the one to succeed with the orgasm thing. I just don't believe he can do it.


    I'm not saying you're an idiot at all. I think you're cool 😊


    I was just answering all the questions you seem to be asking here in this thread. So your response to me is confusing. Why ask/tell us the following if you two have talked and already know the answers to your questions and are clear ?:
    These are a few of ur questions.


    - "Why does he want me as his fwb? What does it say about him?
    -" But how he is as a person?"
    - "Why go for somebody, he knows will in at least one way be dissatiafied? "
    - "Would it be a turn on, to know this and then still have the woman have sex with him? Like extreme ego boosting?"
    - "He's got options, why chose to go after the hard one"
    - "why chose to go for fwb with someone, who wants more, when he can just go for somebody who wants the same? "
    - "Why chose the hazzle? And chose the option, where there is more risc of hurting the other person?"
    - " Maybe he gets off on stuff like that?"



    You should know the answer to your questions because you guys have already talked about it...I'm confused.

    I don't understand what more you need to know with this one. You've answered all your own questions.


    My advice to you though is really not to give him the satisfaction of using you like an achievement calendar that he can go βœ…βœ”οΈ after he's done making you cum. But something tells me that you're not going to listen anyway :p

    Typical fellow stubborn Scorp.

    😘😘😘 Much love.
    You deserve MUCH better. He sounds a bit like a tool. You need someone who SHOWS you that he really wants to be WITH you not just on top of you.


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    Aaaaaaw thanks boo😘😘😘 I really appreciate that!
    I took your reply as you trying to tell me, that he has no feelings for me and there is no future in this. And this I already know.
    Guess I just don't see the "he's not into you" as an answer to why he choses to engage in such hardship. I would think that easy sex it should be exactly that; easy. Not all the hazzle I give himπŸ˜„πŸ˜„πŸ˜„ 'Cause I do. I'm being way too dramatic now for what he wants. He was bullbutterting me so I bullbutter him back. I'm borred, what can I say. Hoping something else will take my interest any day now🀞🀞🀞🀞🀞
    All good with you and yours?
  • Posted by kitten_
    He seems like an experienced/evolved Capricorn, similar like me. Because he know to not take a Scorpio woman seriously. Proud ❀

    But I agree, no one can reject a Scorpio kitty, so fat so yummy.



    He doesn't give a butter about astrologyπŸ˜„ He has no clue when my birthday is.

    He takes me too serious in fact.
  • Posted by Waterbearerwearer
    If he’s insecure and you’re engaging him.., that makes you doubly insecure.

    Water finds it’s level.


    I am super insecure.
  • Posted by Sagicorn
    Posted by starlord
    Posted by Sagicorn
    Cap guys are attracted to bigger age difference, be it much younger or older...and sex is just sex. He just wants a trophy for making you orgasm for first time cause he believes he can do it


    He must have been really succesful other times then to have such high thoughts of himself! Or *think he was succesful.

    Well yes and no. Telling a guy you never had orgasm is like a direct invite to a challenge. They'll want to try and make it happen. Be it they were good at it before or not,they just want to succeed
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    Ha didn't think of it like that at all. Thought it would scare a guy off!
    Told him as a friend, when all of this wasn't on the table, so did not intend for it to be any sort of invite.