I don’t feel like Aries

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Lilitje on Thursday, August 1, 2019 and has 13 replies.

Why You Might Not Feel Like an Aries

Having Aries Sun and Moon does not always mean high energy or assertiveness. Personalities vary based on planetary positions and aspects. Inner calm and love for peace can coexist with Aries traits. Understanding your entire natal chart reveals why you feel differently from typical Aries stereotypes and highlights your unique personality.

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@Lilitje
7 Years

Hey,

So I’m Aries Sun and Moon, and Leo Rising. You would think I’m energetic and always attention seeking but I’m not. I love peace more then fighting and I’m always calm. I like comfort and money a lot as well and looking good, and I always try to be level headed and collected.

Sun in Aries

Moon in Aries

Mercury in Aries

Venus in Taurus

Mars in Gemini

Jupiter in Virgo

Saturn in Cancer

Uranus in Pisces

Neptune in Aquarius

Pluto in Sagittarius

Lilith in Gemini

North Node in Taurus

Some major aspects:

Sun Square Saturn

Sun Sextile Mars

Moon, Mercury and Pluto Trine Ascendant

Venus Square Neptune

Venus Square Ascendant

Please help me understand myself better, because I don’t understand anymore.

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@Firesign21
7 Years

This sounds a lot like me, I’m an Aries but can’t say I’m as aggressive or dominant especially in a relationship setting, I’m actually quite submissive in that sense. I realised I’m a Pisces and Aries cusp so I have a bit of both which helps me understand my super sensitive emotional side and my fiery side. When’s your birthday?

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@Lilitje
7 Years

Posted by Firesign21

This sounds a lot like me, I’m an Aries but can’t say I’m as aggressive or dominant especially in a relationship setting, I’m actually quite submissive in that sense. I realised I’m a Pisces and Aries cusp so I have a bit of both which helps me understand my super sensitive emotional side and my fiery side. When’s your birthday?

My birthday is 22 March, what about you? It’s annoying right? Seeing Aries are agressive and loud and childish when you’re mature and polite..

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@Firesign21
7 Years

Posted by Lilitje

Posted by Firesign21

This sounds a lot like me, I’m an Aries but can’t say I’m as aggressive or dominant especially in a relationship setting, I’m actually quite submissive in that sense. I realised I’m a Pisces and Aries cusp so I have a bit of both which helps me understand my super sensitive emotional side and my fiery side. When’s your birthday?

My birthday is 22 March, what about you? It’s annoying right? Seeing Aries are agressive and loud and childish when you’re mature and polite..

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I’m on March 21st so depending on the location and time you could have a fair bit of Pisces in you, take a look at some Pisces traits and you’ll find you could tick off half at least!

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

What is your dominant house?

If you go to Astro.com....extended chart....natal chart and post it here, I'll take a look

I was with a very quiet Aries, even though he had Sun, Venus and Mercury in Aries. He was Scorpio dominant.

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

What is your dominant house?

If you go to Astro.com....extended chart....natal chart and post it here, I'll take a look

I was with a very quiet Aries, even though he had Sun, Venus and Mercury in Aries. He was Scorpio dominant.

Wasn't me I have Mercury in Taurus.

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.....it was in a past life and there was no need to leave me tied up in that dungeon 😳😬

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@DMV
15 Years25,000+ PostsSagittarius

I've seen that most aries arent really capable of seeing themselves from the inside out. Introspection is kinda lost on you guys.

I would ask your friends how you come off to them.

That will be eye opening.

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by MyStarsShine

What is your dominant house?

If you go to Astro.com....extended chart....natal chart and post it here, I'll take a look

I was with a very quiet Aries, even though he had Sun, Venus and Mercury in Aries. He was Scorpio dominant.

Wasn't me I have Mercury in Taurus.

.....it was in a past life and there was no need to leave me tied up in that dungeon 😳😬

But the rope was so soft. I couldn't let it go to waste.

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Soft or not, hanging upside down for 200 years ain’t no fun 😮

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@Earthyfire
7 YearsAries

Hi fellow Aries with sun moon and mercury in Aries but Sagittarius rising. I feel that I do come off as an Aries when I do certain thing or talk to certain people but since I have Capricorn in my chart Saturn Uranus and Neptune and they they all In my first house, I usually show that I’m more .so feel bad for not feeling like a Aries.

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@Jumpin_Jupiter
7 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Lilitje

Hey,

So I’m Aries Sun and Moon, and Leo Rising. You would think I’m energetic and always attention seeking but I’m not. I love peace more then fighting and I’m always calm. I like comfort and money a lot as well and looking good, and I always try to be level headed and collected.

Sun in Aries

Moon in Aries

Mercury in Aries

Venus in Taurus

Mars in Gemini

Jupiter in Virgo

Saturn in Cancer

Uranus in Pisces

Neptune in Aquarius

Pluto in Sagittarius

Lilith in Gemini

North Node in Taurus

Some major aspects:

Sun Square Saturn

Sun Sextile Mars

Moon, Mercury and Pluto Trine Ascendant

Venus Square Neptune

Venus Square Ascendant

Please help me understand myself better, because I don’t understand anymore.

I see here you have Venus Square ascendant like me. That alone would make you a quiet type no matter what sign you were born under. So there's your answer.

Also nevermind what I said about the age thing. You will NEVER feel like an Aries. You can forget that.

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@besarlalluvia
12 Years500+ Posts

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by Lilitje

Posted by Firesign21

This sounds a lot like me, I’m an Aries but can’t say I’m as aggressive or dominant especially in a relationship setting, I’m actually quite submissive in that sense. I realised I’m a Pisces and Aries cusp so I have a bit of both which helps me understand my super sensitive emotional side and my fiery side. When’s your birthday?

My birthday is 22 March, what about you? It’s annoying right? Seeing Aries are agressive and loud and childish when you’re mature and polite..

Do you back down from a challenge. I mentioned aries aggression and it isn't necessarily fighting or shouting at people, it can be determination, leadership or wanting to win.

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just like how pisces isnt about drugs and addiction. the bigger picture is escapism. violence is just the common connotation for aries, but mars energy is more about winning