Appreciation for my aries friend

As someone who has always had a fucked up relationship to physical touch and sex and love, I just want to say a thanks to aries friend for kinda teaching me, that we can dance in a flirting way or be physical, but it doesn't mean he is trying to bang me, nor I him. Physical touch is okay and not something to always fear and not be able to figure out and something to say no to always.

I'll never be super touchy feely (I think only if I have kids), but it's nice to get more in touch with that side, since it has always caused me problems.

Some of my best friends through out my life have been aries. You guys keep it real most times. Like.

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You're a Scorpio aren't you Starlord? I also don't like being touched, the exception being if I am in a relationship or having sex with someone then I can't take my hands off them. Even being kissed by family weirds me out.

Is this you?

They know you want to linger in bed and cuddle, and being the generous sign they are, they might just oblige you.

But inside, they're thinking that it's hot, they're hungry, and they want to get up and make a sandwich and check their work email.

It's not that they don't enjoy spending time with you. It's that they can't sit (or lay) still that long.

Don't worry, they will want to do it again in a few hours.

Think of it as tapas- style sex vs. gorge once-a-week make out sessions.

They may try to high-five you. Just go with it.

LMAO! It’s SO true...but not knowing this about Aries can send a woman in a mental spin or break up. Just have to laugh and go with it if we can...

😳

Posted by alexscaries

You're a Scorpio aren't you Starlord? I also don't like being touched, the exception being if I am in a relationship or having sex with someone then I can't take my hands off them. Even being kissed by family weirds me out.

Am cusper between scorpio and Sag, but I am scorpio venus amongst other things, and I think that shibes through a lot.

I don't mind being touched per say, but many times I get uncomfortable and confused about what it means. Like are someone trying something, what is the situation, what does this mean. It's always attached to some meaning to me. But I know it's not for others.

So it's very freeing to have this kind of sexual or flirting kind of dance with a friend, where I know it doesn't mean anything else than we are having a good time, it doesn't mean he wants to try and sleep with me.

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Posted by alexscaries

You're a Scorpio aren't you Starlord? I also don't like being touched, the exception being if I am in a relationship or having sex with someone then I can't take my hands off them. Even being kissed by family weirds me out.

Is this you?

They know you want to linger in bed and cuddle, and being the generous sign they are, they might just oblige you.

But inside, they're thinking that it's hot, they're hungry, and they want to get up and make a sandwich and check their work email.

It's not that they don't enjoy spending time with you. It's that they can't sit (or lay) still that long.

Don't worry, they will want to do it again in a few hours.

Think of it as tapas- style sex vs. gorge once-a-week make out sessions.

They may try to high-five you. Just go with it.

LMAO! It’s SO true...but not knowing this about Aries can send a woman in a mental spin or break up. Just have to laugh and go with it if we can...

😳

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Are you talking about scorpio or aries?

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Posted by alexscaries

You're a Scorpio aren't you Starlord? I also don't like being touched, the exception being if I am in a relationship or having sex with someone then I can't take my hands off them. Even being kissed by family weirds me out.

Is this you?

They know you want to linger in bed and cuddle, and being the generous sign they are, they might just oblige you.

But inside, they're thinking that it's hot, they're hungry, and they want to get up and make a sandwich and check their work email.

It's not that they don't enjoy spending time with you. It's that they can't sit (or lay) still that long.

Don't worry, they will want to do it again in a few hours.

Think of it as tapas- style sex vs. gorge once-a-week make out sessions.

They may try to high-five you. Just go with it.

LMAO! It’s SO true...but not knowing this about Aries can send a woman in a mental spin or break up. Just have to laugh and go with it if we can...

😳

Are you talking about scorpio or aries?

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Aries!

@alexcaries

High five?

😂😂😂

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You're a Scorpio aren't you Starlord? I also don't like being touched, the exception being if I am in a relationship or having sex with someone then I can't take my hands off them. Even being kissed by family weirds me out.

Am cusper between scorpio and Sag, but I am scorpio venus amongst other things, and I think that shibes through a lot.

I don't mind being touched per say, but many times I get uncomfortable and confused about what it means. Like are someone trying something, what is the situation, what does this mean. It's always attached to some meaning to me. But I know it's not for others.

So it's very freeing to have this kind of sexual or flirting kind of dance with a friend, where I know it doesn't mean anything else than we are having a good time, it doesn't mean he wants to try and sleep with me.

It's difficult to explain, but I don't like being hugged by non-lovers. My mind can't draw the difference between that and friendship touching, I know the difference physically and the intent, but I am so intense with stuff like that I don't like doing things like kissing unless I mean it.

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Can you give a loooong hugs and pretend that you enjoying it? Lmao

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I think that Aries girls are underappreciated

This is a guy aries, and the aries girls I know are very valued 😊

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Posted by alexscaries

You're a Scorpio aren't you Starlord? I also don't like being touched, the exception being if I am in a relationship or having sex with someone then I can't take my hands off them. Even being kissed by family weirds me out.

Am cusper between scorpio and Sag, but I am scorpio venus amongst other things, and I think that shibes through a lot.

I don't mind being touched per say, but many times I get uncomfortable and confused about what it means. Like are someone trying something, what is the situation, what does this mean. It's always attached to some meaning to me. But I know it's not for others.

So it's very freeing to have this kind of sexual or flirting kind of dance with a friend, where I know it doesn't mean anything else than we are having a good time, it doesn't mean he wants to try and sleep with me.

It's difficult to explain, but I don't like being hugged by non-lovers. My mind can't draw the difference between that and friendship touching, I know the difference physically and the intent, but I am so intense with stuff like that I don't like doing things like kissing unless I mean it.

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Okay you're more intense than me. Which is nice to hear for once 😂😂

But I get it. I can kiss with someone and not have it mean anything shortly, but it gets boring and feels wrong quickly.

Last guy I had sex with wanted to kiss way too much, it was too intimate because I was not into him emotionally.

This is scorpio to a tee I feel. That passion and intensity is just... Well life 🤷🏼‍♀️

I did meet someone yesterday though, who was VERY intense, like wayyyy too much. You can't be intense without anything behind it. He was like opposite scorpio. No secret desire and that kind of mental connection, but just very intense. Bye 😂

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Posted by alexscaries

You're a Scorpio aren't you Starlord? I also don't like being touched, the exception being if I am in a relationship or having sex with someone then I can't take my hands off them. Even being kissed by family weirds me out.

Am cusper between scorpio and Sag, but I am scorpio venus amongst other things, and I think that shibes through a lot.

I don't mind being touched per say, but many times I get uncomfortable and confused about what it means. Like are someone trying something, what is the situation, what does this mean. It's always attached to some meaning to me. But I know it's not for others.

So it's very freeing to have this kind of sexual or flirting kind of dance with a friend, where I know it doesn't mean anything else than we are having a good time, it doesn't mean he wants to try and sleep with me.

It's difficult to explain, but I don't like being hugged by non-lovers. My mind can't draw the difference between that and friendship touching, I know the difference physically and the intent, but I am so intense with stuff like that I don't like doing things like kissing unless I mean it.

Okay you're more intense than me. Which is nice to hear for once 😂😂

But I get it. I can kiss with someone and not have it mean anything shortly, but it gets boring and feels wrong quickly.

Last guy I had sex with wanted to kiss way too much, it was too intimate because I was not into him emotionally.

This is scorpio to a tee I feel. That passion and intensity is just... Well life 🤷🏼‍♀️

I did meet someone yesterday though, who was VERY intense, like wayyyy too much. You can't be intense without anything behind it. He was like opposite scorpio. No secret desire and that kind of mental connection, but just very intense. Bye 😂

I mainly only do deep french kissing or maybe an Italian kiss in private. 😽

I'm not really sure what people who don't know me think. I'm not sure if I come across as intense, probably more standoffish. The thing you mention sounds like aggression not intensity.

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What about an Irish kiss?

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Posted by alexscaries

You're a Scorpio aren't you Starlord? I also don't like being touched, the exception being if I am in a relationship or having sex with someone then I can't take my hands off them. Even being kissed by family weirds me out.

Am cusper between scorpio and Sag, but I am scorpio venus amongst other things, and I think that shibes through a lot.

I don't mind being touched per say, but many times I get uncomfortable and confused about what it means. Like are someone trying something, what is the situation, what does this mean. It's always attached to some meaning to me. But I know it's not for others.

So it's very freeing to have this kind of sexual or flirting kind of dance with a friend, where I know it doesn't mean anything else than we are having a good time, it doesn't mean he wants to try and sleep with me.

It's difficult to explain, but I don't like being hugged by non-lovers. My mind can't draw the difference between that and friendship touching, I know the difference physically and the intent, but I am so intense with stuff like that I don't like doing things like kissing unless I mean it.

Okay you're more intense than me. Which is nice to hear for once 😂😂

But I get it. I can kiss with someone and not have it mean anything shortly, but it gets boring and feels wrong quickly.

Last guy I had sex with wanted to kiss way too much, it was too intimate because I was not into him emotionally.

This is scorpio to a tee I feel. That passion and intensity is just... Well life 🤷🏼‍♀️

I did meet someone yesterday though, who was VERY intense, like wayyyy too much. You can't be intense without anything behind it. He was like opposite scorpio. No secret desire and that kind of mental connection, but just very intense. Bye 😂

I mainly only do deep french kissing or maybe an Italian kiss in private. 😽

I'm not really sure what people who don't know me think. I'm not sure if I come across as intense, probably more standoffish. The thing you mention sounds like aggression not intensity.

What about an Irish kiss?

I'm more familiar with the Glasgow kiss, can't say I've ever had one or given one.

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No head butting with the Irish one....just a left hook 💪🏼

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Posted by alexscaries

You're a Scorpio aren't you Starlord? I also don't like being touched, the exception being if I am in a relationship or having sex with someone then I can't take my hands off them. Even being kissed by family weirds me out.

Am cusper between scorpio and Sag, but I am scorpio venus amongst other things, and I think that shibes through a lot.

I don't mind being touched per say, but many times I get uncomfortable and confused about what it means. Like are someone trying something, what is the situation, what does this mean. It's always attached to some meaning to me. But I know it's not for others.

So it's very freeing to have this kind of sexual or flirting kind of dance with a friend, where I know it doesn't mean anything else than we are having a good time, it doesn't mean he wants to try and sleep with me.

It's difficult to explain, but I don't like being hugged by non-lovers. My mind can't draw the difference between that and friendship touching, I know the difference physically and the intent, but I am so intense with stuff like that I don't like doing things like kissing unless I mean it.

Okay you're more intense than me. Which is nice to hear for once 😂😂

But I get it. I can kiss with someone and not have it mean anything shortly, but it gets boring and feels wrong quickly.

Last guy I had sex with wanted to kiss way too much, it was too intimate because I was not into him emotionally.

This is scorpio to a tee I feel. That passion and intensity is just... Well life 🤷🏼‍♀️

I did meet someone yesterday though, who was VERY intense, like wayyyy too much. You can't be intense without anything behind it. He was like opposite scorpio. No secret desire and that kind of mental connection, but just very intense. Bye 😂

I mainly only do deep french kissing or maybe an Italian kiss in private. 😽

I'm not really sure what people who don't know me think. I'm not sure if I come across as intense, probably more standoffish. The thing you mention sounds like aggression not intensity.

What about an Irish kiss?

I'm more familiar with the Glasgow kiss, can't say I've ever had one or given one.

No head butting with the Irish one....just a left hook 💪🏼

Got you. I thought it was the same thing as the Glasgow one.

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Ireland is a whole new world 🤓

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You're a Scorpio aren't you Starlord? I also don't like being touched, the exception being if I am in a relationship or having sex with someone then I can't take my hands off them. Even being kissed by family weirds me out.

Am cusper between scorpio and Sag, but I am scorpio venus amongst other things, and I think that shibes through a lot.

I don't mind being touched per say, but many times I get uncomfortable and confused about what it means. Like are someone trying something, what is the situation, what does this mean. It's always attached to some meaning to me. But I know it's not for others.

So it's very freeing to have this kind of sexual or flirting kind of dance with a friend, where I know it doesn't mean anything else than we are having a good time, it doesn't mean he wants to try and sleep with me.

It's difficult to explain, but I don't like being hugged by non-lovers. My mind can't draw the difference between that and friendship touching, I know the difference physically and the intent, but I am so intense with stuff like that I don't like doing things like kissing unless I mean it.

Okay you're more intense than me. Which is nice to hear for once 😂😂

But I get it. I can kiss with someone and not have it mean anything shortly, but it gets boring and feels wrong quickly.

Last guy I had sex with wanted to kiss way too much, it was too intimate because I was not into him emotionally.

This is scorpio to a tee I feel. That passion and intensity is just... Well life 🤷🏼‍♀️

I did meet someone yesterday though, who was VERY intense, like wayyyy too much. You can't be intense without anything behind it. He was like opposite scorpio. No secret desire and that kind of mental connection, but just very intense. Bye 😂

I mainly only do deep french kissing or maybe an Italian kiss in private. 😽

I'm not really sure what people who don't know me think. I'm not sure if I come across as intense, probably more standoffish. The thing you mention sounds like aggression not intensity.

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I don't think other people see me as intense either, not really, but I need to feel intense feelings. Or I do, and that's a big part of who I am, and it's also a part of who I want to be around and hug and Kiss and bang and all that 😎

And more appreciation for aries, although a very lowkey unemotional one. But maybe a month ago I apparently made out with my aries friends aries coworker.

The guy was younger, than I thought (had gotten him mixed up with another guy), and I am sure I am older, than what he had thought me to be. Not sure if he knows. I can't remember how we left it that night, as I was drunk.

All I know is the guy was awkward next time I saw him. Not that he was a close friend or there is any emotional attachment, but he was a fun guy. One of the last times I got involved with a guy, the guy was also very weird and awkward and rude after, which hurt my feelings very much. I thought 'oh this shit again!', but now things are getting back to normal where everyone can be friendly and laugh and joke together again, and it doesn't seem like the coworker aries is keeping a distance to try and prove a point to me pr himself. He is almost back to being how he was before, and that's exactly how it should be. Good job aries! Not so much bullshit all over the place. I appreciate that.

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You're a Scorpio aren't you Starlord? I also don't like being touched, the exception being if I am in a relationship or having sex with someone then I can't take my hands off them. Even being kissed by family weirds me out.

Am cusper between scorpio and Sag, but I am scorpio venus amongst other things, and I think that shibes through a lot.

I don't mind being touched per say, but many times I get uncomfortable and confused about what it means. Like are someone trying something, what is the situation, what does this mean. It's always attached to some meaning to me. But I know it's not for others.

So it's very freeing to have this kind of sexual or flirting kind of dance with a friend, where I know it doesn't mean anything else than we are having a good time, it doesn't mean he wants to try and sleep with me.

It's difficult to explain, but I don't like being hugged by non-lovers. My mind can't draw the difference between that and friendship touching, I know the difference physically and the intent, but I am so intense with stuff like that I don't like doing things like kissing unless I mean it.

Okay you're more intense than me. Which is nice to hear for once 😂😂

But I get it. I can kiss with someone and not have it mean anything shortly, but it gets boring and feels wrong quickly.

Last guy I had sex with wanted to kiss way too much, it was too intimate because I was not into him emotionally.

This is scorpio to a tee I feel. That passion and intensity is just... Well life 🤷🏼‍♀️

I did meet someone yesterday though, who was VERY intense, like wayyyy too much. You can't be intense without anything behind it. He was like opposite scorpio. No secret desire and that kind of mental connection, but just very intense. Bye 😂

I mainly only do deep french kissing or maybe an Italian kiss in private. 😽

I'm not really sure what people who don't know me think. I'm not sure if I come across as intense, probably more standoffish. The thing you mention sounds like aggression not intensity.

What about an Irish kiss?

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What’s Italian and Irish kisses? 🤔

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Posted by alexscaries

You're a Scorpio aren't you Starlord? I also don't like being touched, the exception being if I am in a relationship or having sex with someone then I can't take my hands off them. Even being kissed by family weirds me out.

Am cusper between scorpio and Sag, but I am scorpio venus amongst other things, and I think that shibes through a lot.

I don't mind being touched per say, but many times I get uncomfortable and confused about what it means. Like are someone trying something, what is the situation, what does this mean. It's always attached to some meaning to me. But I know it's not for others.

So it's very freeing to have this kind of sexual or flirting kind of dance with a friend, where I know it doesn't mean anything else than we are having a good time, it doesn't mean he wants to try and sleep with me.

It's difficult to explain, but I don't like being hugged by non-lovers. My mind can't draw the difference between that and friendship touching, I know the difference physically and the intent, but I am so intense with stuff like that I don't like doing things like kissing unless I mean it.

Okay you're more intense than me. Which is nice to hear for once 😂😂

But I get it. I can kiss with someone and not have it mean anything shortly, but it gets boring and feels wrong quickly.

Last guy I had sex with wanted to kiss way too much, it was too intimate because I was not into him emotionally.

This is scorpio to a tee I feel. That passion and intensity is just... Well life 🤷🏼‍♀️

I did meet someone yesterday though, who was VERY intense, like wayyyy too much. You can't be intense without anything behind it. He was like opposite scorpio. No secret desire and that kind of mental connection, but just very intense. Bye 😂

I mainly only do deep french kissing or maybe an Italian kiss in private. 😽

I'm not really sure what people who don't know me think. I'm not sure if I come across as intense, probably more standoffish. The thing you mention sounds like aggression not intensity.

What about an Irish kiss?

What’s Italian and Irish kisses? 🤔

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Irish = a left hook/throwing a punch

Italian = French kissing + putting your hands in her knickers to grope around

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Posted by alexscaries

You're a Scorpio aren't you Starlord? I also don't like being touched, the exception being if I am in a relationship or having sex with someone then I can't take my hands off them. Even being kissed by family weirds me out.

Am cusper between scorpio and Sag, but I am scorpio venus amongst other things, and I think that shibes through a lot.

I don't mind being touched per say, but many times I get uncomfortable and confused about what it means. Like are someone trying something, what is the situation, what does this mean. It's always attached to some meaning to me. But I know it's not for others.

So it's very freeing to have this kind of sexual or flirting kind of dance with a friend, where I know it doesn't mean anything else than we are having a good time, it doesn't mean he wants to try and sleep with me.

It's difficult to explain, but I don't like being hugged by non-lovers. My mind can't draw the difference between that and friendship touching, I know the difference physically and the intent, but I am so intense with stuff like that I don't like doing things like kissing unless I mean it.

Okay you're more intense than me. Which is nice to hear for once 😂😂

But I get it. I can kiss with someone and not have it mean anything shortly, but it gets boring and feels wrong quickly.

Last guy I had sex with wanted to kiss way too much, it was too intimate because I was not into him emotionally.

This is scorpio to a tee I feel. That passion and intensity is just... Well life 🤷🏼‍♀️

I did meet someone yesterday though, who was VERY intense, like wayyyy too much. You can't be intense without anything behind it. He was like opposite scorpio. No secret desire and that kind of mental connection, but just very intense. Bye 😂

I mainly only do deep french kissing or maybe an Italian kiss in private. 😽

I'm not really sure what people who don't know me think. I'm not sure if I come across as intense, probably more standoffish. The thing you mention sounds like aggression not intensity.

What about an Irish kiss?

What’s Italian and Irish kisses? 🤔

Irish = a left hook/throwing a punch

Italian = French kissing + putting your hands in her knickers to grope around

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Hmmmm...I am still enforcing a HUG! 😇

😂😂😂

Again appreciation. Just for the fact that finally I can habg out and become sort of close with a guy, where he is not trying to bang me. Talk about sex, which I haven't really done with any guy, if he wasn't either gay or someone I was having sex with.

But there is absolutely no sexual attraction there, so it is safe. Was asked if I liked having my ass slapped during sex😂😂😂 why that paeticular question was on his mind, I don't know. He says, he is gonna keep digging and open me up 😂😂😂😂

And it's also good to have a guy without all those intentions tell me to not get with young party guys. Like he is just looking out for me. But it's different for me to hear from a guy than a girl I guess.

It all goes to show me, that really things are so much about how we feel ourselves. If I was attracted to him, I could take many things as him flirting and actually really liking me. But there is not, and it's very nice to have that safespace. 🙇🏼‍♀️