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How Aries Men Prefer Women to Approach Them
Aries men appreciate directness and confidence in how women approach them. They are attracted to assertive communication and clear intentions rather than subtlety. Showing genuine interest and being straightforward can create a strong connection with an Aries man.
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From my experience, if they want you, you’ll know it. You can approach them too, but it won’t be the same feeling. It’s so much more fun when a ram chases you!
@alexscaries
The only Aries man left standing on dxp 🤣
From my experience, if they want you, you’ll know it. You can approach them too, but it won’t be the same feeling. It’s so much more fun when a ram chases you!
I think he does but he was a client so not sure he thinks he can cross that boundary
Lol my ex Aries just needed a jumpstart. Actually a mutual friend told him I was interested after asking me.. then he asked me out & then we were together 20 years… meaning one date and he took the reins.
By insulting him. J/k 😂 But seriously, nothing gets an aries more worked up like rolling your eyes at him and dissing him. Sometimes they annoy the hell out of me but the more jabs I throw at them the more fun they think it is. 🙄
By insulting him. J/k 😂 But seriously, nothing gets an aries more worked up like rolling your eyes at him and dissing him. Sometimes they annoy the hell out of me but the more jabs I throw at them the more fun they think it is. 🙄
He said ‘I am throwing my hat into the ring’ or something like that. Because I wasn’t shy and desperate. I was all pissed off and ‘challenged’ 😂😂😂
Zero interest in game playing. If someone came up to me and said "I want to fuck you" I would assume it is someone who isn't genuine and is looking for an ego boost. If we talked for a few minutes and a woman said "I like your company do you want to swap numbers and meet up another time?" I probably wouldn't say no.
With chasing I might do it if I thought someone was the ultimate, but if it takes too long or I see problems like she has a boyfriend or is genuinely too busy there's always someone else. I think the chasing thing is more a half truth, I won't waste time on uncertainties. It's up there with all Aries men like sports, I would rather play boardgames.
You would refuse to be an ego booster? 🤔😂
Zero interest in game playing. If someone came up to me and said "I want to fuck you" I would assume it is someone who isn't genuine and is looking for an ego boost. If we talked for a few minutes and a woman said "I like your company do you want to swap numbers and meet up another time?" I probably wouldn't say no.
With chasing I might do it if I thought someone was the ultimate, but if it takes too long or I see problems like she has a boyfriend or is genuinely too busy there's always someone else. I think the chasing thing is more a half truth, I won't waste time on uncertainties. It's up there with all Aries men like sports, I would rather play boardgames.
You would refuse to be an ego booster? 🤔😂
I wouldn't believe it to be a genuine request. Would ignore.
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I would never come up and say ‘I want to fuck you’ because some conversation must confirm my attraction BUT why would I say it if I didn’t mean it genuinely? Unless hammered out of my mind…🙄
Zero interest in game playing. If someone came up to me and said "I want to fuck you" I would assume it is someone who isn't genuine and is looking for an ego boost. If we talked for a few minutes and a woman said "I like your company do you want to swap numbers and meet up another time?" I probably wouldn't say no.
With chasing I might do it if I thought someone was the ultimate, but if it takes too long or I see problems like she has a boyfriend or is genuinely too busy there's always someone else. I think the chasing thing is more a half truth, I won't waste time on uncertainties. It's up there with all Aries men like sports, I would rather play boardgames.
You would refuse to be an ego booster? 🤔😂
I wouldn't believe it to be a genuine request. Would ignore.
I would never come up and say ‘I want to fuck you’ because some conversation must confirm my attraction BUT why would I say it if I didn’t mean it genuinely? Unless hammered out of my mind…🙄
To tease, to wind men up, for an ego boost, to see how desperate the man was. I don't know. Bit like men who text women "can you take a 12" cock?" - you'll never meet him in real life.
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You said bar. Not text. So she sees you. And come up to you. And offering herself to you.
It could be ANYTHING!
From being mad at her bf to wanting you to become her the one…and many things in between. I don’t see how her offering boosting her ego unless she was rejected her whole life…😂😂😂😂
Zero interest in game playing. If someone came up to me and said "I want to fuck you" I would assume it is someone who isn't genuine and is looking for an ego boost. If we talked for a few minutes and a woman said "I like your company do you want to swap numbers and meet up another time?" I probably wouldn't say no.
With chasing I might do it if I thought someone was the ultimate, but if it takes too long or I see problems like she has a boyfriend or is genuinely too busy there's always someone else. I think the chasing thing is more a half truth, I won't waste time on uncertainties. It's up there with all Aries men like sports, I would rather play boardgames.
You would refuse to be an ego booster? 🤔😂
I wouldn't believe it to be a genuine request. Would ignore.
I would never come up and say ‘I want to fuck you’ because some conversation must confirm my attraction BUT why would I say it if I didn’t mean it genuinely? Unless hammered out of my mind…🙄
To tease, to wind men up, for an ego boost, to see how desperate the man was. I don't know. Bit like men who text women "can you take a 12" cock?" - you'll never meet him in real life.
You said bar. Not text. So she sees you. And come up to you. And offering herself to you.
It could be ANYTHING!
From being mad at her bf to wanting you to become her the one…and many things in between. I don’t see how her offering boosting her ego unless she was rejected her whole life…😂😂😂😂
I don't think I said bar. I don't drink alcohol so not really in bars these days. Most people don't talk like that which is why I would assume it's fake. If I miss out, I miss out.
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You right. You didn’t say ‘bar’. You said if anybody came up to me - and I thought ‘bar’ because thinking ‘street’ or a ‘supermarket’ or ‘doctors office’ would be…weird. 🤔😂
I’m only talking jump starting like puzzlepieces says, I’m not into games but do think the man should take the reins in the beginning.
Aries move quick once you catch their eye. Within about 2 months they could be ready to risk it all for love.
Way too much pressure
Hide your undies in his house before you handover
Dammit! You could have suggested that yesterday before I handed the keys over!
I’ll leave them there on my first visit 😉
Aries move quick once you catch their eye. Within about 2 months they could be ready to risk it all for love.
Way too much pressure
I wish there was like a Leo-Aries hybrid type of a guy…
I’m only talking jump starting like puzzlepieces says, I’m not into games but do think the man should take the reins in the beginning.
From my experience, I jumpstart it with bantering. They love a woman who can keep up with their BS talk. You don't have to be direct or anything, the back and forth BS should be enough to light his fire and pursue.
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Most of the talk we’ve had was business, bar a little small talk but everytime we were interrupted by the seller who’s husband had cheated on her and she took over the conversation (so it was awkward)
I’m sure we’d have no problems chatting on a personal level, once I work out how to let him know there’s an interest there.
I sent a birthday message a few weeks ago, that’s part of my keeping in touch business schedule anyway, but it was just received with a thanks and no opening up a conversation. I probably should have asked what he was doing for it :/
Aries move quick once you catch their eye. Within about 2 months they could be ready to risk it all for love.
Way too much pressure
I wish there was like a Leo-Aries hybrid type of a guy…
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That's a Sag, once you get to know them! 😉
Having trouble with the cross over between business and personal. He’s just being polite with his answers and not leaving any opening to keep talking
Left him with a question which went unanswered :/
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Having trouble with the cross over between business and personal. He’s just being polite with his answers and not leaving any opening to keep talking
Left him with a question which went unanswered :/
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You have to ask him on a date or it'll never happen.
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Really ffs.. not really my style !
Having trouble with the cross over between business and personal. He’s just being polite with his answers and not leaving any opening to keep talking
Left him with a question which went unanswered :/
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Rams are SO straightforward - you don’t have to wonder with them which makes it good in terms of no time waste.
You need to get the hint.
I was actually asking my Aries after your message if he ever had a problem with asking woman out or what would prevent him from doing so. He was driving and I looked at his face and he was ACTUALLY thinking. 😂😂😂
I asked soooo? He said I am not really getting what you asking. I said don’t be retarded. Have you ever been shy and haven’t asked woman you like out? There he went again…driving…
I couldn’t really get it out of him. So I was bugging him because we had an hour to drive and he said she got to be totally repulsive.
I said NO SHE IS PRETTY! He said I don’t understand…
They are normally very intelligent but they aren’t witty and manipulative that’s for sure. So with them asses it’s simple yes or no and nothing in between. 🤔
I’m only talking jump starting like puzzlepieces says, I’m not into games but do think the man should take the reins in the beginning.
From my experience, I jumpstart it with bantering. They love a woman who can keep up with their BS talk. You don't have to be direct or anything, the back and forth BS should be enough to light his fire and pursue.
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That’s sooo true! 😂😂😂
Thanks Hypno and Gem.
I don’t know what holds me back bar the fact that I’m old skool and believe the man should make the moves because rejection is a part of my everyday job so I’m not afraid of that.
I’m going to go for it, wish me luck.
Is over text ok or do you think a phone call is better?
Thanks Hypno and Gem.
I don’t know what holds me back bar the fact that I’m old skool and believe the man should make the moves because rejection is a part of my everyday job.
I’m going to go for it, wish me luck.
Is over text ok or do you think a phone call is better?
If Gem is me - I say DONT!
And if you do - good luck but keep your cool.
Yes Gem is you… why do you say don’t??
Please explain
Yes Gem is you… why do you say don’t??
Please explain
You know what? I had just erased my long message I was about to send to you when it hit me - what am I - guru of Rams? I do have bunch of people of this sign and I date one BUT DO I KNOW?
I wish you luck. From the bottom of my heart.
Them people are great fun. Big challenge but a lot of benefits as well. Keep us posted on your progress! ❤️
Having trouble with the cross over between business and personal. He’s just being polite with his answers and not leaving any opening to keep talking
Left him with a question which went unanswered :/
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You have to ask him on a date or it'll never happen.
Really ffs.. not really my style !
I think you got to move it out of the professional environment. Gives him the chance to see if this can become more than just business. Because that's probably how he sees the exchanges with you right now...work...all business.
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Yes totally agree… just having difficulty getting from A to B. I’ll just have to bite the bullet 🫣
Why would he appear weak? Yes I guided him throughout the process but that’s because that’s my job and what I get paid for.
Do I have to appear weak to get his attention?? Do I need to get help with something?
What do you suggest I do @alexscaries in this situation. Blindside him by asking him out? Because I’m sure he won’t expect it! Or throw myself down and cry for help?
Oh and fyi I’m not the needy type normally
Oh and fyi I’m not the needy type normally
How is your ego and pride? If he refuses, can you handle the rejection?
Why would he appear weak? Yes I guided him throughout the process but that’s because that’s my job and what I get paid for.
Do I have to appear weak to get his attention?? Do I need to get help with something?
What do you suggest I do @alexscaries in this situation. Blindside him by asking him out? Because I’m sure he won’t expect it! Or throw myself down and cry for help?
It perceived perception. Aries men don't like to Appear weak, doesn't mean they are weak. So that's things like downplaying illness. It was more a reply to GemiMays car question I can see why it was confusing.
Swapping numbers is sort of a non committal way of asking someone out. Personally I would respond if you or someone else said "I'm bored do you want to meet up with me for coffee?"
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Very true. My dad was an Aries and just like that.
Oh and fyi I’m not the needy type normally
How is your ego and pride? If he refuses, can you handle the rejection?
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I won’t lie, of course it’ll hurt but I am getting use to it… this job has subjected me to it on a regular basis… different but same, rejection is rejection.
In saying that, I’m not full of myself I just know my worth because I’ve been working on me for near 20 years.
It’s still a scary step putting yourself out there, I really feel for men doing it all the time!
Oh and fyi I’m not the needy type normally
How is your ego and pride? If he refuses, can you handle the rejection?
I won’t lie, of course it’ll hurt but I am getting use to it… this job has subjected me to it on a regular basis… different but same, rejection is rejection.
In saying that, I’m not full of myself I just know my worth because I’ve been working on me for near 20 years.
It’s still a scary step putting yourself out there, I really feel for men doing it all the time!
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How old is the guy? Mature age?
Did you get any hints from him, any vibe, any banter or chemistry? I personally would only approach if I think there is something there and it’s mutual.
You can certainly ask him for coffee or drink or whatever. And feel it out in person. If he agrees. If he doesn’t, life still goes on.
Text or call? A phone call is more authentic and it avoids him leaving you on “seen” or “read”. Put him on a spot, right there and then through direct voice contact.
Why would he appear weak? Yes I guided him throughout the process but that’s because that’s my job and what I get paid for.
Do I have to appear weak to get his attention?? Do I need to get help with something?
What do you suggest I do @alexscaries in this situation. Blindside him by asking him out? Because I’m sure he won’t expect it! Or throw myself down and cry for help?
It perceived perception. Aries men don't like to Appear weak, doesn't mean they are weak. So that's things like downplaying illness. It was more a reply to GemiMays car question I can see why it was confusing.
Swapping numbers is sort of a non committal way of asking someone out. Personally I would respond if you or someone else said "I'm bored do you want to meet up with me for coffee?"
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I’ve had his number from the get go. If he texts (RE: business) I ring him and answer. Looking back at our text line, it’s me telling him what to do next how to do things etc etc and him saying thank you G***
This morning I texted to ask how the shift went and he elaborated a little more but only that he’s settling in.
I now need him… I need for him to write a review on my service. He’s had emails from a site requesting this and he’s opened them but hasn’t yet put up a review. I was thinking, I’d could say something like..
Could you write a review for me on rate my agent, I rely heavily on these reviews… if you give me 5 stars I’ll take you out for lunch, anything less and you’ll be taking me..
Please critic it 🙂
Oh and fyi I’m not the needy type normally
How is your ego and pride? If he refuses, can you handle the rejection?
I won’t lie, of course it’ll hurt but I am getting use to it… this job has subjected me to it on a regular basis… different but same, rejection is rejection.
In saying that, I’m not full of myself I just know my worth because I’ve been working on me for near 20 years.
It’s still a scary step putting yourself out there, I really feel for men doing it all the time!
How old is the guy? Mature age?
Did you get any hints from him, any vibe, any banter or chemistry? I personally would only approach if I think there is something there and it’s mutual.
You can certainly ask him for coffee or drink or whatever. And feel it out in person. If he agrees. If he doesn’t, life still goes on.
Text or call? A phone call is more authentic and it avoids him leaving you on “seen” or “read”. Put him on a spot, right there and then through direct voice contact.
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Just turned 43, 2 young kids and a marriage split around about a year ago.
Yes a little I think 🤔 nothing full on but as previously said, everytime we were just talking in person there was someone else in the room.
Having trouble with the cross over between business and personal. He’s just being polite with his answers and not leaving any opening to keep talking
Left him with a question which went unanswered :/
Help
Rams are SO straightforward - you don’t have to wonder with them which makes it good in terms of no time waste.
You need to get the hint.
I was actually asking my Aries after your message if he ever had a problem with asking woman out or what would prevent him from doing so. He was driving and I looked at his face and he was ACTUALLY thinking. 😂😂😂
I asked soooo? He said I am not really getting what you asking. I said don’t be retarded. Have you ever been shy and haven’t asked woman you like out? There he went again…driving…
I couldn’t really get it out of him. So I was bugging him because we had an hour to drive and he said she got to be totally repulsive.
I said NO SHE IS PRETTY! He said I don’t understand…
They are normally very intelligent but they aren’t witty and manipulative that’s for sure. So with them asses it’s simple yes or no and nothing in between. 🤔
Aries don't like to appear weak. Ask an Aries if he is ill.
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You know what strange? He does. I don’t remember when it started but ‘my allergies…do you have allergies?’ And I say I don’t.
Later ‘maybe you have allergies?’ Me - no I don’t.
Him - but I think you might…🙄🫦
I’ll fart and he will be asking if I have allergies…so I don’t…fart…🤦♀️
Why would he appear weak? Yes I guided him throughout the process but that’s because that’s my job and what I get paid for.
Do I have to appear weak to get his attention?? Do I need to get help with something?
What do you suggest I do @alexscaries in this situation. Blindside him by asking him out? Because I’m sure he won’t expect it! Or throw myself down and cry for help?
It perceived perception. Aries men don't like to Appear weak, doesn't mean they are weak. So that's things like downplaying illness. It was more a reply to GemiMays car question I can see why it was confusing.
Swapping numbers is sort of a non committal way of asking someone out. Personally I would respond if you or someone else said "I'm bored do you want to meet up with me for coffee?"
I’ve had his number from the get go. If he texts (RE: business) I ring him and answer. Looking back at our text line, it’s me telling him what to do next how to do things etc etc and him saying thank you G***
This morning I texted to ask how the shift went and he elaborated a little more but only that he’s settling in.
I now need him… I need for him to write a review on my service. He’s had emails from a site requesting this and he’s opened them but hasn’t yet put up a review. I was thinking, I’d could say something like..
Could you write a review for me on rate my agent, I rely heavily on these reviews… if you give me 5 stars I’ll take you out for lunch, anything less and you’ll be taking me..
Please critic it 🙂
So you're not done with the bussiness part. You should absolutlty not ask him out untill he's given the reveiw, and don't write that lmfao. Put your career first.
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But I’m horny hahaha
And isn’t that said “banter” lol
Why would he appear weak? Yes I guided him throughout the process but that’s because that’s my job and what I get paid for.
Do I have to appear weak to get his attention?? Do I need to get help with something?
What do you suggest I do @alexscaries in this situation. Blindside him by asking him out? Because I’m sure he won’t expect it! Or throw myself down and cry for help?
It perceived perception. Aries men don't like to Appear weak, doesn't mean they are weak. So that's things like downplaying illness. It was more a reply to GemiMays car question I can see why it was confusing.
Swapping numbers is sort of a non committal way of asking someone out. Personally I would respond if you or someone else said "I'm bored do you want to meet up with me for coffee?"
I’ve had his number from the get go. If he texts (RE: business) I ring him and answer. Looking back at our text line, it’s me telling him what to do next how to do things etc etc and him saying thank you G***
This morning I texted to ask how the shift went and he elaborated a little more but only that he’s settling in.
I now need him… I need for him to write a review on my service. He’s had emails from a site requesting this and he’s opened them but hasn’t yet put up a review. I was thinking, I’d could say something like..
Could you write a review for me on rate my agent, I rely heavily on these reviews… if you give me 5 stars I’ll take you out for lunch, anything less and you’ll be taking me..
Please critic it 🙂
So you're not done with the bussiness part. You should absolutlty not ask him out untill he's given the reveiw, and don't write that lmfao. Put your career first.
But I’m horny hahaha
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If it doesn’t work out with this Aries, you can always go out with hypnofrog.
I am sensing some chemistry there *coughs*
Why would he appear weak? Yes I guided him throughout the process but that’s because that’s my job and what I get paid for.
Do I have to appear weak to get his attention?? Do I need to get help with something?
What do you suggest I do @alexscaries in this situation. Blindside him by asking him out? Because I’m sure he won’t expect it! Or throw myself down and cry for help?
It perceived perception. Aries men don't like to Appear weak, doesn't mean they are weak. So that's things like downplaying illness. It was more a reply to GemiMays car question I can see why it was confusing.
Swapping numbers is sort of a non committal way of asking someone out. Personally I would respond if you or someone else said "I'm bored do you want to meet up with me for coffee?"
I’ve had his number from the get go. If he texts (RE: business) I ring him and answer. Looking back at our text line, it’s me telling him what to do next how to do things etc etc and him saying thank you G***
This morning I texted to ask how the shift went and he elaborated a little more but only that he’s settling in.
I now need him… I need for him to write a review on my service. He’s had emails from a site requesting this and he’s opened them but hasn’t yet put up a review. I was thinking, I’d could say something like..
Could you write a review for me on rate my agent, I rely heavily on these reviews… if you give me 5 stars I’ll take you out for lunch, anything less and you’ll be taking me..
Please critic it 🙂
So you're not done with the bussiness part. You should absolutlty not ask him out untill he's given the reveiw, and don't write that lmfao. Put your career first.
But I’m horny hahaha
If it doesn’t work out with this Aries, you can always go out with hypnofrog.
I am sensing some chemistry there *coughs*
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It’s kiwi banter.. we understand each other and he’s old enough to be my son 🙂
I could probably fix him up with my friends daughters though 😉
Why would he appear weak? Yes I guided him throughout the process but that’s because that’s my job and what I get paid for.
Do I have to appear weak to get his attention?? Do I need to get help with something?
What do you suggest I do @alexscaries in this situation. Blindside him by asking him out? Because I’m sure he won’t expect it! Or throw myself down and cry for help?
It perceived perception. Aries men don't like to Appear weak, doesn't mean they are weak. So that's things like downplaying illness. It was more a reply to GemiMays car question I can see why it was confusing.
Swapping numbers is sort of a non committal way of asking someone out. Personally I would respond if you or someone else said "I'm bored do you want to meet up with me for coffee?"
I’ve had his number from the get go. If he texts (RE: business) I ring him and answer. Looking back at our text line, it’s me telling him what to do next how to do things etc etc and him saying thank you G***
This morning I texted to ask how the shift went and he elaborated a little more but only that he’s settling in.
I now need him… I need for him to write a review on my service. He’s had emails from a site requesting this and he’s opened them but hasn’t yet put up a review. I was thinking, I’d could say something like..
Could you write a review for me on rate my agent, I rely heavily on these reviews… if you give me 5 stars I’ll take you out for lunch, anything less and you’ll be taking me..
Please critic it 🙂
So you're not done with the bussiness part. You should absolutlty not ask him out untill he's given the reveiw, and don't write that lmfao. Put your career first.
But I’m horny hahaha
If it doesn’t work out with this Aries, you can always go out with hypnofrog.
I am sensing some chemistry there *coughs*
It’s kiwi banter.. we understand each other and he’s old enough to be my son 🙂
I could probably fix him up with my friends daughters though 😉
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You should definitely fix him up with someone 😉
So what do you like about this Aries guy? 2 young children doesn’t sound good to me. What would you want from him? Casual fun?
Well he’s got the kids week on week off
And I’ve got a very busy social life with my gf’s and work.
Honestly, I’d have it all. One week for me to enjoy my life style the next to enjoy a partner and if it get serious, I’d welcome his kids. I’d just not want to meet them unless it’s serious.
On top of all that, regular sex would be the ultimate 😉
Why would he appear weak? Yes I guided him throughout the process but that’s because that’s my job and what I get paid for.
Do I have to appear weak to get his attention?? Do I need to get help with something?
What do you suggest I do @alexscaries in this situation. Blindside him by asking him out? Because I’m sure he won’t expect it! Or throw myself down and cry for help?
It perceived perception. Aries men don't like to Appear weak, doesn't mean they are weak. So that's things like downplaying illness. It was more a reply to GemiMays car question I can see why it was confusing.
Swapping numbers is sort of a non committal way of asking someone out. Personally I would respond if you or someone else said "I'm bored do you want to meet up with me for coffee?"
I’ve had his number from the get go. If he texts (RE: business) I ring him and answer. Looking back at our text line, it’s me telling him what to do next how to do things etc etc and him saying thank you G***
This morning I texted to ask how the shift went and he elaborated a little more but only that he’s settling in.
I now need him… I need for him to write a review on my service. He’s had emails from a site requesting this and he’s opened them but hasn’t yet put up a review. I was thinking, I’d could say something like..
Could you write a review for me on rate my agent, I rely heavily on these reviews… if you give me 5 stars I’ll take you out for lunch, anything less and you’ll be taking me..
Please critic it 🙂
So you're not done with the bussiness part. You should absolutlty not ask him out untill he's given the reveiw, and don't write that lmfao. Put your career first.
But I’m horny hahaha
If it doesn’t work out with this Aries, you can always go out with hypnofrog.
I am sensing some chemistry there *coughs*
It’s kiwi banter.. we understand each other and he’s old enough to be my son 🙂
I could probably fix him up with my friends daughters though 😉
Fix me up with a job on aussie wages yes please.
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Keep in touch 🙂 there’s plenty of work here especially if you’re a tradie. Look on seek. Harder to find a rental atm do you have Cousie’s here at all?
Well he’s got the kids week on week off
And I’ve got a very busy social life with my gf’s and work.
Honestly, I’d have it all. One week for me to enjoy my life style the next to enjoy a partner and if it get serious, I’d welcome his kids. I’d just not want to meet them unless it’s serious.
On top of all that, regular sex would be the ultimate 😉
Fine. Go ahead and ask him. Report back.
The suspense is killing me, lol. How long will you wait?!?
Well he’s got the kids week on week off
And I’ve got a very busy social life with my gf’s and work.
Honestly, I’d have it all. One week for me to enjoy my life style the next to enjoy a partner and if it get serious, I’d welcome his kids. I’d just not want to meet them unless it’s serious.
On top of all that, regular sex would be the ultimate 😉
Fine. Go ahead and ask him. Report back.
The suspense is killing me, lol. How long will you wait?!?
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I want the answer now but I have my hesitation on trying to find the right time. I thought this morning I was opening the door but I was wrong :/
Why would he appear weak? Yes I guided him throughout the process but that’s because that’s my job and what I get paid for.
Do I have to appear weak to get his attention?? Do I need to get help with something?
What do you suggest I do @alexscaries in this situation. Blindside him by asking him out? Because I’m sure he won’t expect it! Or throw myself down and cry for help?
It perceived perception. Aries men don't like to Appear weak, doesn't mean they are weak. So that's things like downplaying illness. It was more a reply to GemiMays car question I can see why it was confusing.
Swapping numbers is sort of a non committal way of asking someone out. Personally I would respond if you or someone else said "I'm bored do you want to meet up with me for coffee?"
I’ve had his number from the get go. If he texts (RE: business) I ring him and answer. Looking back at our text line, it’s me telling him what to do next how to do things etc etc and him saying thank you G***
This morning I texted to ask how the shift went and he elaborated a little more but only that he’s settling in.
I now need him… I need for him to write a review on my service. He’s had emails from a site requesting this and he’s opened them but hasn’t yet put up a review. I was thinking, I’d could say something like..
Could you write a review for me on rate my agent, I rely heavily on these reviews… if you give me 5 stars I’ll take you out for lunch, anything less and you’ll be taking me..
Please critic it 🙂
So you're not done with the bussiness part. You should absolutlty not ask him out untill he's given the reveiw, and don't write that lmfao. Put your career first.
But I’m horny hahaha
If it doesn’t work out with this Aries, you can always go out with hypnofrog.
I am sensing some chemistry there *coughs*
It’s kiwi banter.. we understand each other and he’s old enough to be my son 🙂
I could probably fix him up with my friends daughters though 😉
Fix me up with a job on aussie wages yes please.
Keep in touch 🙂 there’s plenty of work here especially if you’re a tradie. Look on seek. Harder to find a rental atm do you have Cousie’s here at all?
Nah no relatives there, family friends on the sunshine coast is all I know. I like the look of malbourne.
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Melbourne is Wellington
Well he’s got the kids week on week off
And I’ve got a very busy social life with my gf’s and work.
Honestly, I’d have it all. One week for me to enjoy my life style the next to enjoy a partner and if it get serious, I’d welcome his kids. I’d just not want to meet them unless it’s serious.
On top of all that, regular sex would be the ultimate 😉
Fine. Go ahead and ask him. Report back.
The suspense is killing me, lol. How long will you wait?!?
I want the answer now but I have my hesitation on trying to find the right time. I thought this morning I was opening the door but I was wrong :/
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You will never get the confirmation you are looking for. Nobody can make that decision for you.
Of course, do it when you feel the time is right but sometimes the time is right at any time.
Why would he appear weak? Yes I guided him throughout the process but that’s because that’s my job and what I get paid for.
Do I have to appear weak to get his attention?? Do I need to get help with something?
What do you suggest I do @alexscaries in this situation. Blindside him by asking him out? Because I’m sure he won’t expect it! Or throw myself down and cry for help?
It perceived perception. Aries men don't like to Appear weak, doesn't mean they are weak. So that's things like downplaying illness. It was more a reply to GemiMays car question I can see why it was confusing.
Swapping numbers is sort of a non committal way of asking someone out. Personally I would respond if you or someone else said "I'm bored do you want to meet up with me for coffee?"
I’ve had his number from the get go. If he texts (RE: business) I ring him and answer. Looking back at our text line, it’s me telling him what to do next how to do things etc etc and him saying thank you G***
This morning I texted to ask how the shift went and he elaborated a little more but only that he’s settling in.
I now need him… I need for him to write a review on my service. He’s had emails from a site requesting this and he’s opened them but hasn’t yet put up a review. I was thinking, I’d could say something like..
Could you write a review for me on rate my agent, I rely heavily on these reviews… if you give me 5 stars I’ll take you out for lunch, anything less and you’ll be taking me..
Please critic it 🙂
So you're not done with the bussiness part. You should absolutlty not ask him out untill he's given the reveiw, and don't write that lmfao. Put your career first.
This.
Afterwards personally I don't like uncertainty I know it is a fact of life, but he probably won't say no to the most direct approach "we've known each other for a while, come round to mine and I'll rip your clothes off" or the subtler, but no ambiguity "how about meeting for a great coffee, my treat and let's see well we can get on without work distractions" - the wording is messy, but you get the idea.
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Ok.. I’ll keep you posted… I’ll probably mess it up lol whenever I actually like someone I mess it up 🙄
Why would he appear weak? Yes I guided him throughout the process but that’s because that’s my job and what I get paid for.
Do I have to appear weak to get his attention?? Do I need to get help with something?
What do you suggest I do @alexscaries in this situation. Blindside him by asking him out? Because I’m sure he won’t expect it! Or throw myself down and cry for help?
It perceived perception. Aries men don't like to Appear weak, doesn't mean they are weak. So that's things like downplaying illness. It was more a reply to GemiMays car question I can see why it was confusing.
Swapping numbers is sort of a non committal way of asking someone out. Personally I would respond if you or someone else said "I'm bored do you want to meet up with me for coffee?"
I’ve had his number from the get go. If he texts (RE: business) I ring him and answer. Looking back at our text line, it’s me telling him what to do next how to do things etc etc and him saying thank you G***
This morning I texted to ask how the shift went and he elaborated a little more but only that he’s settling in.
I now need him… I need for him to write a review on my service. He’s had emails from a site requesting this and he’s opened them but hasn’t yet put up a review. I was thinking, I’d could say something like..
Could you write a review for me on rate my agent, I rely heavily on these reviews… if you give me 5 stars I’ll take you out for lunch, anything less and you’ll be taking me..
Please critic it 🙂
So you're not done with the bussiness part. You should absolutlty not ask him out untill he's given the reveiw, and don't write that lmfao. Put your career first.
But I’m horny hahaha
If it doesn’t work out with this Aries, you can always go out with hypnofrog.
I am sensing some chemistry there *coughs*
It’s kiwi banter.. we understand each other and he’s old enough to be my son 🙂
I could probably fix him up with my friends daughters though 😉
Fix me up with a job on aussie wages yes please.
Keep in touch 🙂 there’s plenty of work here especially if you’re a tradie. Look on seek. Harder to find a rental atm do you have Cousie’s here at all?
Nah no relatives there, family friends on the sunshine coast is all I know. I like the look of malbourne.
Melbourne is Wellington
Is it windy? I don't want it too hot...
Im into the idea, NZ is too slow. I remember being over in Vancouver and loving the city, and Japan. I was on a job in town the other day that had an inner city feel and It reminded me of being in the big city. Auckland is a joke though.
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The heat you get use to because we have the facilities here for it unlike back home.
Melbourne is beautiful and the food culture is on Point!!! I only like it to party in but love the GC for the life style
Why would he appear weak? Yes I guided him throughout the process but that’s because that’s my job and what I get paid for.
Do I have to appear weak to get his attention?? Do I need to get help with something?
What do you suggest I do @alexscaries in this situation. Blindside him by asking him out? Because I’m sure he won’t expect it! Or throw myself down and cry for help?
It perceived perception. Aries men don't like to Appear weak, doesn't mean they are weak. So that's things like downplaying illness. It was more a reply to GemiMays car question I can see why it was confusing.
Swapping numbers is sort of a non committal way of asking someone out. Personally I would respond if you or someone else said "I'm bored do you want to meet up with me for coffee?"
I’ve had his number from the get go. If he texts (RE: business) I ring him and answer. Looking back at our text line, it’s me telling him what to do next how to do things etc etc and him saying thank you G***
This morning I texted to ask how the shift went and he elaborated a little more but only that he’s settling in.
I now need him… I need for him to write a review on my service. He’s had emails from a site requesting this and he’s opened them but hasn’t yet put up a review. I was thinking, I’d could say something like..
Could you write a review for me on rate my agent, I rely heavily on these reviews… if you give me 5 stars I’ll take you out for lunch, anything less and you’ll be taking me..
Please critic it 🙂
So you're not done with the bussiness part. You should absolutlty not ask him out untill he's given the reveiw, and don't write that lmfao. Put your career first.
This.
Afterwards personally I don't like uncertainty I know it is a fact of life, but he probably won't say no to the most direct approach "we've known each other for a while, come round to mine and I'll rip your clothes off" or the subtler, but no ambiguity "how about meeting for a great coffee, my treat and let's see well we can get on without work distractions" - the wording is messy, but you get the idea.
Ok.. I’ll keep you posted… I’ll probably mess it up lol whenever I actually like someone I mess it up 🙄
It's all experience and a learning curve, nobody is good at this stuff without practise and experience.
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Do you ever go out on a limb and ask someone out directly? One must have their ego and pride in check and for me, that’s the biggest problem 😐
Why would he appear weak? Yes I guided him throughout the process but that’s because that’s my job and what I get paid for.
Do I have to appear weak to get his attention?? Do I need to get help with something?
What do you suggest I do @alexscaries in this situation. Blindside him by asking him out? Because I’m sure he won’t expect it! Or throw myself down and cry for help?
It perceived perception. Aries men don't like to Appear weak, doesn't mean they are weak. So that's things like downplaying illness. It was more a reply to GemiMays car question I can see why it was confusing.
Swapping numbers is sort of a non committal way of asking someone out. Personally I would respond if you or someone else said "I'm bored do you want to meet up with me for coffee?"
I’ve had his number from the get go. If he texts (RE: business) I ring him and answer. Looking back at our text line, it’s me telling him what to do next how to do things etc etc and him saying thank you G***
This morning I texted to ask how the shift went and he elaborated a little more but only that he’s settling in.
I now need him… I need for him to write a review on my service. He’s had emails from a site requesting this and he’s opened them but hasn’t yet put up a review. I was thinking, I’d could say something like..
Could you write a review for me on rate my agent, I rely heavily on these reviews… if you give me 5 stars I’ll take you out for lunch, anything less and you’ll be taking me..
Please critic it 🙂
So you're not done with the bussiness part. You should absolutlty not ask him out untill he's given the reveiw, and don't write that lmfao. Put your career first.
This.
Afterwards personally I don't like uncertainty I know it is a fact of life, but he probably won't say no to the most direct approach "we've known each other for a while, come round to mine and I'll rip your clothes off" or the subtler, but no ambiguity "how about meeting for a great coffee, my treat and let's see well we can get on without work distractions" - the wording is messy, but you get the idea.
Ok.. I’ll keep you posted… I’ll probably mess it up lol whenever I actually like someone I mess it up 🙄
It's all experience and a learning curve, nobody is good at this stuff without practise and experience.
Do you ever go out on a limb and ask someone out directly? One must have their ego and pride in check and for me, that’s the biggest problem 😐
Rarely I move very slowly. If someone shows interest and it's viable I might.
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Is your chart more water than fire? You are definitely an Aries but a very mellow one.
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