trying to win me over

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ThaLioness
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9 Years

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A week ago i had my aries ex trying to win me back over that he's a changed person. Well he has a baby on the way but doesn't make me think he has changed. He says the same things when we were dealing with each other. I did love him at one part of time. I don't see why he's trying to come back when he just wants to use me for a rebound. Him and his bm broke up he says he doesn't live with her. I thought bout it hard to hear him out or let him go. No lie im still in love with my libra man. I was talking to a cancer man. My aries ex hurt me so much it was hard to let go of how he treated me. We talked but i don't think things will ever be the same.
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Posted by Tharealher
A week ago i had my aries ex trying to win me back over that he's a changed person. Well he has a baby on the way but doesn't make me think he has changed. He says the same things when we were dealing with each other. I did love him at one part of time. I don't see why he's trying to come back when he just wants to use me for a rebound. Him and his bm broke up he says he doesn't live with her. I thought bout it hard to hear him out or let him go. No lie im still in love with my libra man. I was talking to a cancer man. My aries ex hurt me so much it was hard to let go of how he treated me. We talked but i don't think things will ever be the same.
IME, whenever an ex spouts off about being a changed person and actively tries to "come back", it's more about them than it is about you. I dare say you factored into his words / actions/ decisions very little, if at all, other than as a peripheral prop.

I'd say leave him and his possible motives in the past. Trying to figure either of them out would probably be like running in quicksand. It'll just cause you to become ensnared further.
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ThaLioness
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9 Years

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I am. I think it just hit me how bad he treated me so it gotme in mixed emotions for a minute. I was going to have a baby with him and i miscarried so i thought bout it for a second how much my life changed because i would. Dealt with him the rest of my life i came a long way from that situation and i don't want to go back. I just don't understand why would someone come back after all the bs y'all been together its been two years. He left me to be with her