So, me and my aries have been together 6 years in October . It wasn't until this past October that we actually moved in together. It was a huge adjustment for us both. Mine for living single almost 10 years and him for never having a "gf" much less living with one. We seemed to be making it work though. He had become close to my kids and even told his mother that he may be a grandpa from my son's daughter. Anyway, my son come home for 10 days before deployment. The last few days he was here my guy disappeared. When he got home he was wasted and it was late so I went to bed. Next thing I know he is standing over me trying to argue. I just tried to ignore him. Suddenly he is packing his things, yelling at men calling me names. I told him when he moved in that my door wasn't going to be a revolving door. So when he left I continued on with my life as I would have if he hadn't left. I did not try to stop him. I did not contact him except the last day my son was home to go to dinner with us. My kids did not know anything at the time. It's been 5 weeks. Last week he sends me a text, "I miss you" I didn't respond. As of today he has asked several times to come by and said he misses me. I'm so confused. What do I do? Do I reciprocate? Is he wanting to try again or just being curious? Last nite he asked me if I was seeing someon . He left me, so why is he doing this?
anybody else wanna be a hero? Sag Sun Scorpio Moon Scorpio Merc
38 years old
Where has he been living for the last 5 weeks? In his car?
Have you always been together over 6 years? Or off and on? Hes never done this shyt before?
Youre response of doing nothing is surprising to me. On one hand you have kids that need your attention on the other hand this is a man youve spent 6 years of your life with. You have to.be in love right?
I absolutely do love him. He has been staying with his best friend. But I am a grown woman and I don't have time for these back and forth games. Our relationship was not all fun and games. No relationship is. Or at least not that I've seen. My kids are all on their own. My so was home visiting before he deploys. I don't know if my guy is jealous. As far as I knew when I went to work things were fine. We had a great visit with my son. I came home to his being gone and didn't return until two days later. I just wanna know why he suddenly misses me, wants to see me, you contact me. He left in an angry rage.
Aries lady, I am not likely to respond. Upon moving in together we agreed that it would not be a back and forth thing. Apparently he was unhappy, but it's the way he chose to exit, now suddenly trying to contact me. There is no one else for me right now. I have to get passed our relationship before I can move on. I do not know why he started the argument. I have alot of unanswered questions. Why ask if I'm seeing someone else?
And that's my point aries lady. He disappeared for two days before starting this argument. Well, his argument. Lol. I didn't feed into it. I feel like he knew what he was doing from the beginning when he decided to disappear first. Then he comes home thinking that im going to give him an argument thus giving him "reason to leave" bc I'm the psycho one. I didn't argue tho. I was getting things ready for a cook out with my son and some friends of ours. The last thing on my mind was wasting my last day with my son on arguing with his drunk ass. Dmv and bella, I could care less where he is staying. He left not and in my book now that means we are done. He could be with someone else. I don't care. So really, I'm not sure why where he has been or who he is with is an issue. It's not for me. The issue I have here, is why keep trying to contact me now?
What is the reason he keeps trying to get my attention now? That's the question. Genuine curiosity, does he have this illusion now that we can work it out, who cares if I'm seeing someone else.... HE LEFT! Why ask? The grass is greener on the otherside for him. I thought once an aries is done that's it. I assumed he was done when he left. I give him what he wanted. I let him go. Helpful advice wanted. Bc even if i did entertain the thought of a reconciliation, I wouldn't rehash this. If I chose to go back we can't live in the past. Doesn't work that way.1111