@ Pandora, unfortunately I don't want him to miss me. He obviously left for a reason and it needs to stay that way. I've even told him I'm seeing someone else in hopes that would make him give up. I'm not bc I haven't fully mourned our relationship, nor figured a good answer out in my head why this even happened out of nowhere. In our whole relationship he has never told me he missed me until he text it a few weeks ago. I don't miss him now. I have deleted him from social media as well as his friends. I can't change my number bc my number is the only one my grandparents know and the military has it incase something g happens to my son during his deployment. I've tried to disappear with not going to our local stores, gas stations, or hangouts. I just can't change my number. His calls are blocked but I can't block the messages. I've ask him kindly to stop contacting me. Even though he knows all about my grandparents and my son, I have explained it to him again. I just want him to move on. I DO NOT WANT A FUTURE WITH HIM..... Thank you Estelle.
What is the reason he keeps trying to get my attention now? That's the question. Genuine curiosity, does he have this illusion now that we can work it out, who cares if I'm seeing someone else.... HE LEFT! Why ask? The grass is greener on the otherside for him. I thought once an aries is done that's it. I assumed he was done when he left. I give him what he wanted. I let him go. Helpful advice wanted. Bc even if i did entertain the thought of a reconciliation, I wouldn't rehash this. If I chose to go back we can't live in the past. Doesn't work that way.1111
And that's my point aries lady. He disappeared for two days before starting this argument. Well, his argument. Lol. I didn't feed into it. I feel like he knew what he was doing from the beginning when he decided to disappear first. Then he comes home thinking that im going to give him an argument thus giving him "reason to leave" bc I'm the psycho one. I didn't argue tho. I was getting things ready for a cook out with my son and some friends of ours. The last thing on my mind was wasting my last day with my son on arguing with his drunk ass. Dmv and bella, I could care less where he is staying. He left not and in my book now that means we are done. He could be with someone else. I don't care. So really, I'm not sure why where he has been or who he is with is an issue. It's not for me. The issue I have here, is why keep trying to contact me now?
Aries lady, I am not likely to respond. Upon moving in together we agreed that it would not be a back and forth thing. Apparently he was unhappy, but it's the way he chose to exit, now suddenly trying to contact me. There is no one else for me right now. I have to get passed our relationship before I can move on. I do not know why he started the argument. I have alot of unanswered questions. Why ask if I'm seeing someone else?
I absolutely do love him. He has been staying with his best friend. But I am a grown woman and I don't have time for these back and forth games. Our relationship was not all fun and games. No relationship is. Or at least not that I've seen. My kids are all on their own. My so was home visiting before he deploys. I don't know if my guy is jealous. As far as I knew when I went to work things were fine. We had a great visit with my son. I came home to his being gone and didn't return until two days later. I just wanna know why he suddenly misses me, wants to see me, you contact me. He left in an angry rage.