Virgo male Broke up with very heart broken Aries Female

I have two brothers that are virgos and they are in their mid twenties. OMG I feel sorry for who ever gets to date them. They know nothing about dating or taking care of a girlfriend. They are sooooooo inept when it comes to women. So, rude and so eeewwww. If you want to date a young Virgo guy, you will basically do all the work in a relationship. You have to wait for them to get to mid thirties at least in order for them to become decent partners. You got your feelings hurt, but don’t let that bruise your ego, especially not your heart. Go and find a boyfriend that will give you pretty balloons, flowers, chocolates, jewelry and all the others things that you want for your bday. Virgo will stay in a relationship they not fulfilled with bc the girl is around, doing all the work. Btw, one of my brothers looooovesnto go out every week like 2-3 times, talk to every possible chick while the other now is non stop in the house chasing no girls.

Posted by PurplePassion38

I read the whole thing for what it's worth. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but if he isn't invested in the relationship then he did you a favor by letting you go. Take the time you need to heal. Honestly, sometimes friends are not the right people to turn to with relationship matters. Try journaling or other outlets.

Thanks for the reply.

Posted by nousername

I have two brothers that are virgos and they are in their mid twenties. OMG I feel sorry for who ever gets to date them. They know nothing about dating or taking care of a girlfriend. They are sooooooo inept when it comes to women. So, rude and so eeewwww. If you want to date a young Virgo guy, you will basically do all the work in a relationship. You have to wait for them to get to mid thirties at least in order for them to become decent partners. You got your feelings hurt, but don’t let that bruise your ego, especially not your heart. Go and find a boyfriend that will give you pretty balloons, flowers, chocolates, jewelry and all the others things that you want for your bday. Virgo will stay in a relationship they not fulfilled with bc the girl is around, doing all the work. Btw, one of my brothers looooovesnto go out every week like 2-3 times, talk to every possible chick while the other now is non stop in the house chasing no girls.

Thanks for the reply

Posted by Ixion

Its about showing up... and he hasn't showed up in the relationship. It hurts it hurts tons but honestly a partner who isn't invested is a person who is using you and doting on your kindness. I speak from kindness and sadly lived experience.

Thanks for the reply

Hugs hunny he doesn’t deserve such a open, loving and kind person. Only give yourself to those who give themselves to you. You’re too kind.

Posted by dilettante

does he have leo placements? like venus?

they luuuuuv telling their partners about the attn they get from other ppl.

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You're not wrong though 😂.

He's a douche and deserves to get smacked in the dick! (Jk...dont smack anyone in the dick)

You dodged a bullet here...it may not seem like it now but you will realize it soon enough. I'm sorry you're are having to go thru this though...I know it hurts 🤗🤗🤗.

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Posted by dilettante

does he have leo placements? like venus?

they luuuuuv telling their partners about the attn they get from other ppl.

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You're not wrong though 😂.

yo i cant make a fuss, i have a libra moon so i do it too lololol

i just make fun of him when he does it “oooooo you are tooooo cuuuuuuuteeee everyone luuuuuuuvs youuuuuuu precious babbbyyyyyy”

making a virgo blush is my new kink 😈

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That's honestly the best way to be with it. We don't mean any harm or trying to hurt your feelings...we like the attention it brings from you the one we truly want the attention from.

I do the same thing to the leo sun, libra mars and rising I deal with. Telling me all about the beautiful women he hung out with a new year's (when in reality he was probably by himself...texting me and wishing me a happy new year lol). I'm like I'm so happy you got to be surrounded in pure beauty etc...I bet you just love it so much 🙄😂. Then he hit me with a sarcastic remark and the back and forth commenced. 😂

Posted by bkbella86

Hugs hunny he doesn’t deserve such a open, loving and kind person. Only give yourself to those who give themselves to you. You’re too kind.

Thank you for your kind words

Posted by aPiscesPrincess2

So sorry you're going through that. ☹️ It seems you needed to vent more than anything. I know it's hard too because you gave your virginity to him, so you gave him more of yourself than anyone else. I think you know he's not good for you, he didn't appreciate you like you deserved. It's hard now because the breakup is still so fresh. But it will get better with time, and you will find someone new and much better.

Thank you I notice that now.

Posted by bmoon8

I think that it's a blessing in disguise that he broke up with you. Burn the bridge with him and move on. He's not worth it.

Should I try and be his friend or just leave it completely I feel like I went from talking to someone morning and night everyday for 17 months to NC.

Posted by dilettante

does he have leo placements? like venus?

they luuuuuv telling their partners about the attn they get from other ppl.

I'm not 100% sure I think he has 1 Leo placement in his chart like Mercury or something. I stopped reading about zodiac signs after we were together for a couple of months since I thought they say Virgo and Aries are a bad match but I convinced myself that they can work.

I was so very wrong. Now I need to find myself a good Leo or Sag maybe even a Libra or Aqua

Posted by LostinmyMind11

He's a douche and deserves to get smacked in the dick! (Jk...dont smack anyone in the dick)

You dodged a bullet here...it may not seem like it now but you will realize it soon enough. I'm sorry you're are having to go thru this though...I know it hurts 🤗🤗🤗.

True

Also during sex he liked my smacking his dick haha

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Posted by bkbella86

Hugs hunny he doesn’t deserve such a open, loving and kind person. Only give yourself to those who give themselves to you. You’re too kind.

Thank you for your kind words

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My pleasure 😇

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Posted by bmoon8

I think that it's a blessing in disguise that he broke up with you. Burn the bridge with him and move on. He's not worth it.

Should I try and be his friend or just leave it completely I feel like I went from talking to someone morning and night everyday for 17 months to NC.

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No friendship is there. He’s an ass, leave him behind.

Oh and don’t let anyone break up with you. Recognize the signs and cut them off. It feels much better trust me.

you deserve someone who will treat you more equally - just cold turkey his ass and move on to a better life partner

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Posted by bmoon8

I think that it's a blessing in disguise that he broke up with you. Burn the bridge with him and move on. He's not worth it.

Should I try and be his friend or just leave it completely I feel like I went from talking to someone morning and night everyday for 17 months to NC.

No friendship is there. He’s an ass, leave him behind.

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Okay then 😭

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you deserve someone who will treat you more equally - just cold turkey his ass and move on to a better life partner

True.

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Posted by bmoon8

I think that it's a blessing in disguise that he broke up with you. Burn the bridge with him and move on. He's not worth it.

Should I try and be his friend or just leave it completely I feel like I went from talking to someone morning and night everyday for 17 months to NC.

No friendship is there. He’s an ass, leave him behind.

Okay then 😭

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Remember, there was nothing there to really love. It's time to actually think about what you want in a romantic relationship; so you don't stumble into one.

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Posted by bmoon8

I think that it's a blessing in disguise that he broke up with you. Burn the bridge with him and move on. He's not worth it.

Should I try and be his friend or just leave it completely I feel like I went from talking to someone morning and night everyday for 17 months to NC.

Leave it completely.

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Okay

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Posted by bmoon8

I think that it's a blessing in disguise that he broke up with you. Burn the bridge with him and move on. He's not worth it.

Should I try and be his friend or just leave it completely I feel like I went from talking to someone morning and night everyday for 17 months to NC.

No friendship is there. He’s an ass, leave him behind.

Okay then 😭

Remember, there was nothing there to really love. It's time to actually think about what you want in a romantic relationship; so you don't stumble into one.

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I just want someone who cares about my feelings and not telling me how I feel.

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Posted by Ixion

Its about showing up... and he hasn't showed up in the relationship. It hurts, it hurts tons but honestly a partner who isn't invested is a person who is using you and doting on your kindness. I speak from my own sadly lived in experience.

Virgo, did you read the whole thing? I, actually, did. 😆

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True and I'm not making excuses for his behaviour because I wasn't that great of a gf either.

I worried so much about things and sometimes had a short temper. But I would never hurt him not intentionally. I just have a bad way of communicating.

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Posted by bmoon8

I think that it's a blessing in disguise that he broke up with you. Burn the bridge with him and move on. He's not worth it.

Should I try and be his friend or just leave it completely I feel like I went from talking to someone morning and night everyday for 17 months to NC.

No friendship is there. He’s an ass, leave him behind.

Okay then 😭

Remember, there was nothing there to really love. It's time to actually think about what you want in a romantic relationship; so you don't stumble into one.

I just want someone who cares about my feelings and not telling me how I feel.

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Yeah, you got alotta thinking to do. "I just want?" Really, that's all you want. If you don't get your head right, you're gonna learn some unnecessary lessons.

I'm gonna assume you just in your feelings right now.

You're better off. Virgo men are worse assholes. Worse bitches than women. Every single one I've ever known was divorced. Telling.

Posted by 81gems

You're better off. Virgo men are worse assholes. Worse bitches than women. Every single one I've ever known was divorced. Telling.

Really everyone makes out that virgo/libra cusp guys make good husbands.

I'll just find a nice Leo guy.

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Posted by 81gems

You're better off. Virgo men are worse assholes. Worse bitches than women. Every single one I've ever known was divorced. Telling.

Really everyone makes out that virgo/libra cusp guys make good husbands.

I'll just find a nice Leo guy.

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You're an Aries. Go for the air signs. I wonder how well Aries goes with Leo, seeing as how Aries WANTS to be first, and the BEST, while Leo thinks they are the best, and you're "blessed" to know them, and they're all a bunch of braggarts anyway. Also, Leo has the potential to have Virgo placements. Two Leo's I've known both have mercury in Virgo. They never shut up. I'm a Gemini and I say that! But I love em'.

Stay away from Sag. The tendency Aries has to barge through life without thinking is only outdone by Sag's stupidity when it comes to EVERYTHING; "I'll do this and it'll work because I know it'll work and I don't care what anyone says and everyone else has to think like me because I say so!" The emotional maturity of an adolescent 12 year old.

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Posted by 81gems

You're better off. Virgo men are worse assholes. Worse bitches than women. Every single one I've ever known was divorced. Telling.

Really everyone makes out that virgo/libra cusp guys make good husbands.

I'll just find a nice Leo guy.

You're an Aries. Go for the air signs. I wonder how well Aries goes with Leo, seeing as how Aries WANTS to be first, and the BEST, while Leo thinks they are the best, and you're "blessed" to know them, and they're all a bunch of braggarts anyway. Also, Leo has the potential to have Virgo placements. Two Leo's I've known both have mercury in Virgo. They never shut up. I'm a Gemini and I say that! But I love em'.

Stay away from Sag. The tendency Aries has to barge through life without thinking is only outdone by Sag's stupidity when it comes to EVERYTHING; "I'll do this and it'll work because I know it'll work and I don't care what anyone says and everyone else has to think like me because I say so!" The emotional maturity of an adolescent 12 year old.

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If I was to be with an air sign it would be Libra only because I'm always drawn to them it's annoying even though we are opposites.