What makes the heart grow fonder again?

Went a few weeks without seeing my aries and when we finally did, we had sex on the steps before getting the key in the door

There were a lot of dates in the beginning, but now work is picking up and he's "paying so much attention to himself lately" (his words to me)

I believe it's manageable for me. He sticks his head in with me and I don't trip on his needed free time

I like the balance

I read an article once that said women date men in hopes of him one day changing and becoming a certain way and men date women in hopes that they won't change

Arians, do tell me. Is it good to respect his freedom or will it silently make the feelings fade away if we continuously spend time apart?



Should I cling on a little?

I think that, even if you cling to a relationship, if it is fading then there's nothing much that can be done. Not saying that's the case here, specially if you guys had sex before even getting inside the house, haha!

But every person needs some space, despite their sun sign, man or woman.

I say let him have his time. Do your thing and don't fret about it. This way, you'll have news to surprise him when you meet again.

You can tease him via text or whatever, as long as it is not too frequent. Keep it a fresh thing.

If he's more of a typical aries, he'll like that you're not too easy to grasp.

LOL, he told you "he's been paying too much attention to himself lately"

He's a clown.

The wording of "im paying so much attention to myself lately" makes me think he wants to change it?

It's not the same as "I want to pay more attention to myself right now"

If ya know what I mean.

Its also new days with my Aries and he contacts me allllll the time lol throughout the day. I'm not quite as intense as I want to feel missed and also miss But I let him know i'm around, if I haven't heard from him in a while (which isnt often) ill just send a kiss and he'll send one back and thats enough for me. It wasn't like this in the beginning, there was alot of establishing what we were etc to and fro, back and forth, leaving me kinda clueless haha! I'm actually kinda expecting that again anyday-or maybe just prepared for it shall I say.

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absinthe

hahaha! Hennessy's my poison 🙂