Aries admitted to pushing me away...

God knows what he thinks i'm going to do to him but i'm up for this challenge. Slowly slowly catch an Aries. Hehehe!

Posted by Libramiss

Posted by LibraLovesHim
God knows what he thinks i'm going to do to him but i'm up for this challenge. Slowly slowly catch an Aries. Hehehe!

Did he say why?

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He really likes me and is afraid. His last relationship ended just less than a year ago, from what he tells me it was a bit crazy. She lied about where she was from, her studies etc and was just an extremely negative and accusatory person. The relationship failed and from what I feel I think maybe he doubts his judgement of character. He's also a little insecure.

Feels like some air has been majorly cleared since this. I've said to him I don't know what's meant to happen but to trust me. I also don't want anything too heavy or with too many expectations. I just want to take it easy and let things flow at their own pace although I do need respect to be key, no matter what we are/end up.

My last relationship left me mentally and physically exhausted way too much drama and toxic as hell. I stayed alone a very long time after him. It was what a desperately needed. Now I need peace as much as possb now.

I met an Aries three months ago and he was so interested and caring but suddenly we stopped talking. It's weird from my part to just give up on someone I like , but I didn't have any feelings left after what I've been through and waiting for someone to try harder than me but the good thing is I discovered that Aries / Libra can be a good match. My long relationships were with Aquarius and Gemini supposedly the best partners for Libra but hell nooo

Posted by dolluxe
Really now.. I'm getting more and more curious about Aries-Libra pairings. Aries is, after all, our opposite sign.

Aries has what Libra doesn't and vice versa so in a sense they can complete one another...obv not every pairing. I've already noticed where I can be his strength and his mine. Definitely interesting pairing. I feel very calm with him also. He says he feels i'm so easy to talk to/be around. It's just nice.

I've never known an Aries to be "scared" of a woman

Posted by dolluxe
Really now.. I'm getting more and more curious about Aries-Libra pairings. Aries is, after all, our opposite sign.

And there is also our ability to adore our partner. Aries needs this 😉

Posted by Ssuperman
I've never known an Aries to be "scared" of a woman

I don't know if its ME per se he's afraid from...I don't recall him saying me and I havent given him any reason to be anyway, its too early i'd say. I get the impression he's been asking around alot, work acquintances etc about relationships stuff. He was on phone to his boss this morn and he said "yes she's here now" after he got off he told me he'd told his boss about me.

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Posted by Ssuperman
I've never known an Aries to be "scared" of a woman

I don't know if its ME per se he's afraid from...I don't recall him saying me and I havent given him any reason to be anyway, its too early i'd say. I get the impression he's been asking around alot, work acquintances etc about relationships stuff. He was on phone to his boss this morn and he said "yes she's here now" after he got off he told me he'd told his boss about me.

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So how is he pushing you away exactly?

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Posted by Ssuperman
I've never known an Aries to be "scared" of a woman

I don't know if its ME per se he's afraid from...I don't recall him saying me and I havent given him any reason to be anyway, its too early i'd say. I get the impression he's been asking around alot, work acquintances etc about relationships stuff. He was on phone to his boss this morn and he said "yes she's here now" after he got off he told me he'd told his boss about me.

So how is he pushing you away exactly?

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I'm used to being pursued. He just came across as always having something better to do. Like really how dare you!? LOL! Jk. Not really prioritising-not that I should be a priority that early on I suppose. Maybe I just have a different perspective of when a guy is interested. Im used to proper aggression haha! He'd be slower to respond to invites if i'm out somewhere, but then he would actually show up albeit kind of late but i'd be under the impression he wouldnt actually show. I guess its been kind of refreshing anyway. I like being left guessing a little. Not all upfront and in my face/phone all the time and uber predictable.

Posted by quixotica
I don't really get this. Why bother pursuing someone who pushes you away? Do you really want to potentially initiate a relationship with this as a predisposed dynamic?

Because I know theres more to it. Its not the pushing me away in a "get away from me crazy girl" type of way.

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Posted by Ssuperman
I've never known an Aries to be "scared" of a woman

I don't know if its ME per se he's afraid from...I don't recall him saying me and I havent given him any reason to be anyway, its too early i'd say. I get the impression he's been asking around alot, work acquintances etc about relationships stuff. He was on phone to his boss this morn and he said "yes she's here now" after he got off he told me he'd told his boss about me.

So how is he pushing you away exactly?

I'm used to being pursued. He just came across as always having something better to do. Like really how dare you!? LOL! Jk. Not really prioritising-not that I should be a priority that early on I suppose. Maybe I just have a different perspective of when a guy is interested. Im used to proper aggression haha! He'd be slower to respond to invites if i'm out somewhere, but then he would actually show up albeit kind of late but i'd be under the impression he wouldnt actually show. I guess its been kind of refreshing anyway. I like being left guessing a little. Not all upfront and in my face/phone all the time and uber predictable.

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You sound kinda arrogant and high maintenance. Used to guys kissing your ass. That Aries ain't gonna do it

Posted by Libramiss

Posted by Ssuperman
I've never known an Aries to be "scared" of a woman

If they truly like you they will be scared of rejection. But we all are to some extent.

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Doubt it

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And I have been with a number of aries men, as well as men with venus in aries. They ALWAYS pursued, heavily. Maybe he's pushing you away for a good reason.

Yes like relentlessly too. This could be a more emotional thing than physical though. Physically they are tenacious but emotionally it can be trying to get in there.

Yes I was engaged to one for years. Left upon mutual decision, he came back year later and fully disclosed all of the emotional crap he'd been hiding. Honestly... They will chase HARD if they want you badly enough. You really don't need to do any of the work in my experience.

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No no by no means am I doing or going to do any work or chasing lol. Never have and not about to. I just plan on keeping his focus, enough. If thats work then so be it 🙂

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Posted by Ssuperman
I've never known an Aries to be "scared" of a woman

If they truly like you they will be scared of rejection. But we all are to some extent.

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He had a friend coming to the event we went to and he was saying to me "I hope you don't leave me for him" like about 3x. He's a good looking guy granted, well built, foreign looks etc.But it got me wondering for a bit if he actually wanted me to leave me for him. LOL!

I don't work like this. There has to be something more to a person. And i'm not interested in entertaining anyone else, in that respect right now. When 1 guy has my attention it's for him only. The guys all went off to do a few rounds I told him please go, enjoy his time. (I had other friends there and was fine) but he didn't want to leave me.

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Posted by Ssuperman
I've never known an Aries to be "scared" of a woman

I don't know if its ME per se he's afraid from...I don't recall him saying me and I havent given him any reason to be anyway, its too early i'd say. I get the impression he's been asking around alot, work acquintances etc about relationships stuff. He was on phone to his boss this morn and he said "yes she's here now" after he got off he told me he'd told his boss about me.

So how is he pushing you away exactly?

I'm used to being pursued. He just came across as always having something better to do. Like really how dare you!? LOL! Jk. Not really prioritising-not that I should be a priority that early on I suppose. Maybe I just have a different perspective of when a guy is interested. Im used to proper aggression haha! He'd be slower to respond to invites if i'm out somewhere, but then he would actually show up albeit kind of late but i'd be under the impression he wouldnt actually show. I guess its been kind of refreshing anyway. I like being left guessing a little. Not all upfront and in my face/phone all the time and uber predictable.

You sound kinda arrogant and high maintenance. Used to guys kissing your ass. That Aries ain't gonna do it

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Not arrogant or high maintenance whatsoever. I say what I see/feel/experience only 🙂 The current life I live, supporting myself leads me not to need a man in respect of being high maintenance. If you mean personality wise, I am neither that also-which is WHY I am interested in him. An easy time of it would be great. I can't be assed with games etc It'd just be nice to have a partner in crime. I think everyone would like that at the end of the day.

It's not uncommon for new relationships to start off slowly. No need to stressed. He seems interested.

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Posted by Libramiss

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I've never known an Aries to be "scared" of a woman

If they truly like you they will be scared of rejection. But we all are to some extent.

Doubt it

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Btw are you Aries? Please feel free to give advice also as opposed to just denouncing others'

Your input would be most welcome 🙂

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Posted by Ssuperman
I've never known an Aries to be "scared" of a woman

I don't know if its ME per se he's afraid from...I don't recall him saying me and I havent given him any reason to be anyway, its too early i'd say. I get the impression he's been asking around alot, work acquintances etc about relationships stuff. He was on phone to his boss this morn and he said "yes she's here now" after he got off he told me he'd told his boss about me.

Give him space 🙂

Don't worry...if he likes you...and i think he does...he will go back to you ^^

Sometimes we (well i guess we all, right ?) need some time to process whats going on 😉

Specially since he came out of a rship ^^

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It appears his life is a cycle of work, eat, sleep. He actually goes into work on weekends also 😕 it feels difficult to pull him out of this a little...do Aries men live to work??

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Posted by Ssuperman
I've never known an Aries to be "scared" of a woman

I don't know if its ME per se he's afraid from...I don't recall him saying me and I havent given him any reason to be anyway, its too early i'd say. I get the impression he's been asking around alot, work acquintances etc about relationships stuff. He was on phone to his boss this morn and he said "yes she's here now" after he got off he told me he'd told his boss about me.

Give him space 🙂

Don't worry...if he likes you...and i think he does...he will go back to you ^^

Sometimes we (well i guess we all, right ?) need some time to process whats going on 😉

Specially since he came out of a rship ^^

It appears his life is a cycle of work, eat, sleep. He actually goes into work on weekends also 😕 it feels difficult to pull him out of this a little...do Aries men live to work??

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The one I was seeing was a work and studyaholic. He used to compartmentalize his life....switch off and switch on to different aspects. He didn't seem able to merge things together. It reminded me of a child with a toy,only being able to focus on that and not anything else

It kind of irritated me....I told him I didn't wish to be put away in a drawer and be brought out when he had finished all is other chores

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Posted by Ssuperman
I've never known an Aries to be "scared" of a woman

If they truly like you they will be scared of rejection. But we all are to some extent.

No Aries type I've known. They know perseverance until the enth degree.

Well yes pursue but won't show their emotional side, their vulnerable side.

I am warning you...lool

And we are not big babies.....see...

Now i bet you are scared to the bone !!

Muahahaha xD

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Oh and also ImTheRam, he does not appear to be as crazy sex driven as i'm reading everywhere. I don't know if my sex drive is ridiculous and actually he is or what the deal is LOL! Last night eg we hugged/kissed (kept under control) and slept till morning then went for breakfast together before he went off to work...he seemed kind of shy actually. He gets bashful now and then, as do I. Its soo endearing haha! He's like a combination of everything.

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Posted by Ssuperman
I've never known an Aries to be "scared" of a woman

I don't know if its ME per se he's afraid from...I don't recall him saying me and I havent given him any reason to be anyway, its too early i'd say. I get the impression he's been asking around alot, work acquintances etc about relationships stuff. He was on phone to his boss this morn and he said "yes she's here now" after he got off he told me he'd told his boss about me.

Give him space 🙂

Don't worry...if he likes you...and i think he does...he will go back to you ^^

Sometimes we (well i guess we all, right ?) need some time to process whats going on 😉

Specially since he came out of a rship ^^

It appears his life is a cycle of work, eat, sleep. He actually goes into work on weekends also 😕 it feels difficult to pull him out of this a little...do Aries men live to work??

The one I was seeing was a work and studyaholic. He used to compartmentalize his life....switch off and switch on to different aspects. He didn't seem able to merge things together. It reminded me of a child with a toy,only being able to focus on that and not anything else

It kind of irritated me....I told him I didn't wish to be put away in a drawer and be brought out when he had finished all is other chores

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Wow! This is a great description...makes alot of sense. He will check in with me throughout the day right enough but its like...geez! Live a little! lol!

Posted by leowww
Chasing men.... No Bueno.

Chasing Aries men? Lol.

They live for that stuff.

Ahhhh I cannot. Well I guess we can say i've put more effort in than i've ever had to with a guy. Eh I don't usually have to ask a guy what he's doing tonight if its the weekend-norm they have asked me already 3 days prior lol. Do you have good experience with an Aries? I read Aries-Leo match are perfect!

Posted by Librasetting
Has never worked out for me..I think my Aries rising usually clashes with the Aries females and just something inside me says I scare/intimidate them..even tho they would never admit it lol..I'm waiting to ask this Leo woman out I'm certainly sure she has a libra rising as well funny thing is she asked me out in middle school and I said no lol

Hahaha you said no because she asked you and not vice versa? :-P

Aries here, with a socially conscientious Libra rising.. and a Capricorn moon that resists emotional changes.. and a Taurus Venus that has to grow slowly in love with the crush (which, with life, is hard to do)... and an overactive Aries Mars mind that looks deeply into every possible outcome.

Do you know your Aries' chart? Because each one is different. He sounds a little like me.

Do I chase? Not often. Aries like me need to be absolutely, positively sure we can get the catch before we make our move. I'm on the better side of 25, and I've only asked two women out in my entire life. They both ended up being long term relationships. What if the girl I crush on rejects? What will other people think? What will she tell her friends? What if she's not responsible? Do I want to spend my time with someone who I don't know that I can trust? Maybe I should figure out more about her. Maybe I should spend more time around her. Will that come off too much? Will I seem needy or attached? I really want to know. Geeze, I have so much to do, though. I can't obsess over nonchalantly morphing into their social group like an Aquarius seems to do with ease.

I would LOVE it if a girl pursued me. I've been waiting 10 years for that. I mean, okay, I've been pursued a couple of times, and I wasn't interested, but I really appreciated it. But we can't chase if we don't know what we're chasing, and some of us Aries have a much higher standard of what's worth chasing, because when we chase we run away from all of our projects. The only way we can know is if the object of our desire is around us long enough to begin to value. If I had a woman approach me, and I fell for her, I would surely chase her back.

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Posted by ImTheRam
All that @Arieslove said is true 🙂

That was a very very good insight on the Aries man 🙂

As for the sexual thing..it just might be what AriesLove said...

Remembrer you 2 had that flirting "accident"..

By not wanting to *just* have sex with you...i guess he his trying to show you....that infact he likes you alot...and it is not just sex...he his just happy to be with you 🙂

I think he maybe trying to compensate for that...rember that we show it in our actions...try to understand it 🙂

As for the work thing...lol really not my thing..lool i did all my University degree...without atenting a *single* class...i just studied for the exams..and passed lol

I lost a year because i didnt do the lab things...and i had the highest grade of the class on the exam xD true story ^^

I am more into fun ^^ but when i work...i take it very seriously..hence why i dont like it..at all haha

Either way...i think he likes you 🙂

Well school has never been aries men's thing. My man was a terrible student before he pulled his act together right before university. I also know several aries men that are really intelligent and ambitious but they didn't have the patience to finish University. Aries men doing homework and sitting still in a class...they don't have much patience for that. 😄

Well unless there is something that really really interest them. 😛

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I loved school, I loved proving myself more than capable. But, you're right, it has to interest me. I kept a 4.0 GPA throughout college because it was all relevant to me. I had a 2.5 in high school because I couldn't care less.

Posted by Librasetting
Has never worked out for me..I think my Aries rising usually clashes with the Aries females and just something inside me says I scare/intimidate them..even tho they would never admit it lol..I'm waiting to ask this Leo woman out I'm certainly sure she has a libra rising as well funny thing is she asked me out in middle school and I said no lol

So you said you are "waiting" to ask her out, what are you waiting for?

Posted by mission
Aries here, with a socially conscientious Libra rising.. and a Capricorn moon that resists emotional changes.. and a Taurus Venus that has to grow slowly in love with the crush (which, with life, is hard to do)... and an overactive Aries Mars mind that looks deeply into every possible outcome.

Do you know your Aries' chart? Because each one is different. He sounds a little like me.

Do I chase? Not often. Aries like me need to be absolutely, positively sure we can get the catch before we make our move. I'm on the better side of 25, and I've only asked two women out in my entire life. They both ended up being long term relationships. What if the girl I crush on rejects? What will other people think? What will she tell her friends? What if she's not responsible? Do I want to spend my time with someone who I don't know that I can trust? Maybe I should figure out more about her. Maybe I should spend more time around her. Will that come off too much? Will I seem needy or attached? I really want to know. Geeze, I have so much to do, though. I can't obsess over nonchalantly morphing into their social group like an Aquarius seems to do with ease.

I would LOVE it if a girl pursued me. I've been waiting 10 years for that. I mean, okay, I've been pursued a couple of times, and I wasn't interested, but I really appreciated it. But we can't chase if we don't know what we're chasing, and some of us Aries have a much higher standard of what's worth chasing, because when we chase we run away from all of our projects. The only way we can know is if the object of our desire is around us long enough to begin to value. If I had a woman approach me, and I fell for her, I would surely chase her back.

Me:

Sun 26°55' Libra

Moon 20°56' Capricorn

Mercury 14°28' Scorpio

Venus 04°46' Libra

Mars 25°27' Virgo

Jupiter 07°38' Aquarius

Saturn 26°48' Scorpio

Uranus 15°21' Sagittarius

Neptune 01°14' Capricorn

Pluto 04°16' Scorpio

Him:

Sun 00°52' Aries

Moon 01°19' Aries

Mercury 17°58' Aries

Venus 21°04' Aries

Mars 04°37' Taurus

Jupiter 09°06' Aquarius

Saturn 27°55' Scorpio

Uranus 17°58' Sagittarius

Neptune 03°33' Capricorn

Pluto 04°06' Scorpio

SO.MUCH.ARIES.

Posted by mission
Aries here, with a socially conscientious Libra rising.. and a Capricorn moon that resists emotional changes.. and a Taurus Venus that has to grow slowly in love with the crush (which, with life, is hard to do)... and an overactive Aries Mars mind that looks deeply into every possible outcome.

Do you know your Aries' chart? Because each one is different. He sounds a little like me.

Do I chase? Not often. Aries like me need to be absolutely, positively sure we can get the catch before we make our move. I'm on the better side of 25, and I've only asked two women out in my entire life. They both ended up being long term relationships. What if the girl I crush on rejects? What will other people think? What will she tell her friends? What if she's not responsible? Do I want to spend my time with someone who I don't know that I can trust? Maybe I should figure out more about her. Maybe I should spend more time around her. Will that come off too much? Will I seem needy or attached? I really want to know. Geeze, I have so much to do, though. I can't obsess over nonchalantly morphing into their social group like an Aquarius seems to do with ease.

I would LOVE it if a girl pursued me. I've been waiting 10 years for that. I mean, okay, I've been pursued a couple of times, and I wasn't interested, but I really appreciated it. But we can't chase if we don't know what we're chasing, and some of us Aries have a much higher standard of what's worth chasing, because when we chase we run away from all of our projects. The only way we can know is if the object of our desire is around us long enough to begin to value. If I had a woman approach me, and I fell for her, I would surely chase her back.

Sorry I dont know much about chart reading but I noticed these last 5 planets we are the exact same if you see above...? Is that common?

Posted by tiziani
It's relatively common as long as you're both born within the same generation. Otherwise it'd mean one of you is dating an immortal or vampire.

LOL! I like the sound of the latter! Thanks, that clears that up.

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Posted by Ssuperman
I've never known an Aries to be "scared" of a woman

I don't know if its ME per se he's afraid from...I don't recall him saying me and I havent given him any reason to be anyway, its too early i'd say. I get the impression he's been asking around alot, work acquintances etc about relationships stuff. He was on phone to his boss this morn and he said "yes she's here now" after he got off he told me he'd told his boss about me.

Give him space 🙂

Don't worry...if he likes you...and i think he does...he will go back to you ^^

Sometimes we (well i guess we all, right ?) need some time to process whats going on 😉

Specially since he came out of a rship ^^

It appears his life is a cycle of work, eat, sleep. He actually goes into work on weekends also 😕 it feels difficult to pull him out of this a little...do Aries men live to work??

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damn I hope we are not seeing the same guy.!