Aries & Gemini ...oh what a time!

This topic was created in the Aries forum by ToxicSituation on Monday, October 24, 2016 and has 12 replies.

Understanding Aries and Gemini Relationship Dynamics

Aries and Gemini often experience a mix of excitement and unpredictability. Geminis can appear aloof or distant due to their love of mental stimulation and need for independence, which can confuse passionate Aries. Open communication and patience help clarify intentions and strengthen the connection between these signs.

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@ToxicSituation
9 Years

Aries girl here, and I'm in love with a very peculiar Gemini guy. I just can't figure him out...usually the guys I tangle up with are easy prey. Not to brag but I can rope them in. However he is such a mystery and usually I pull them in closer when we begin dating yet...he pulls back. He says he thinks I'm beautiful and is in "awestruck" with my mind...so why be so distant?? And the constant riddles...I'm not 8.. I don't live in the Gray like him I need concrete yes or no. Are you in or out Mr. Gemini...Can some Geminis and Aries chime in to this mysterious aloof and distant behavior??

thanks,

XOXO

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@gemittarius
9 Years

Your gemini just does his regular "me time". It's okay, if he likes you, he likes you, he just needs time alone sometimes, just to think about things.

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@Moonbutter
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by ToxicSituation
Aries girl here, and I'm in love with a very peculiar Gemini guy. I just can't figure him out...usually the guys I tangle up with are easy prey. Not to brag but I can rope them in. However he is such a mystery and usually I pull them in closer when we begin dating yet...he pulls back. He says he thinks I'm beautiful and is in "awestruck" with my mind...so why be so distant?? And the constant riddles...I'm not 8.. I don't live in the Gray like him I need concrete yes or no. Are you in or out Mr. Gemini...Can some Geminis and Aries chime in to this mysterious aloof and distant behavior??

thanks,

XOXO

Enjoy the roller coaster ?

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@AriesJo
11 Years500+ Posts

Geminis are unpredictable because they have two brains, but I always find not in a good way, because they can have double standards (if they are doing something, do not assume it's ok for you to do the same). I think Geminis are great, but they usually end up as friends, the air sign is good to get our fire going. I would watch out for when they hold a grudge though, they can brood on a feeling and let it out in some sort of random attack which doesn't make sense, or it might make sense but the Aries has forgot by the time they've had a brood and said something.

Overall though I think it's a good match. And although they have two brains, they are actually quite decisive, my guess is you are a typical Aries woman being bossy, and I would take a step back and try to read him before jumping in. And if he says you are beautiful, then this could be what he thinks, but (I don't think this is actually what it is, I think there's just a possibility it could be this which should be considered) it could be a cushioning for his action/thoughts. The point always with being an Aries, and I know this myself, is look for actions not words, because we are positive people and can focus purely on positive signs and miss the other, so make sure your view is balanced with what his actions are.

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@Arian_Kisses
9 Years

Posted by ToxicSituation
Aries girl here, and I'm in love with a very peculiar Gemini guy. I just can't figure him out...usually the guys I tangle up with are easy prey. Not to brag but I can rope them in. However he is such a mystery and usually I pull them in closer when we begin dating yet...he pulls back. He says he thinks I'm beautiful and is in "awestruck" with my mind...so why be so distant?? And the constant riddles...I'm not 8.. I don't live in the Gray like him I need concrete yes or no. Are you in or out Mr. Gemini...Can some Geminis and Aries chime in to this mysterious aloof and distant behavior??

thanks,

XOXO

lol, he's the guy.

Slow down, if you really like him and get to know him.

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@nousername
7 Years

Why do Aries have a need to instantly have Yes or No answer? Some people need time in order to decide for themselves if the relationship is good for them or not. Because emotions are elusive.

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@nousername
7 Years

Posted by ToxicSituation

Aries girl here, and I'm in love with a very peculiar Gemini guy. I just can't figure him out...usually the guys I tangle up with are easy prey. Not to brag but I can rope them in. However he is such a mystery and usually I pull them in closer when we begin dating yet...he pulls back. He says he thinks I'm beautiful and is in "awestruck" with my mind...so why be so distant?? And the constant riddles...I'm not 8.. I don't live in the Gray like him I need concrete yes or no. Are you in or out Mr. Gemini...Can some Geminis and Aries chime in to this mysterious aloof and distant behavior??

thanks,

XOXO

I think Gemini doesn’t like to suddenly fall in love and suddenly be wrapped in a relationship. Love is elusive. One moment you love, and the next you’re confused. Generally for Gemini men, they like to have a friend thats there, that can listen, be a companion in activities, that challenges his mind, and is reliable, trustworthy. Just be friend and be there. Hang out. Do stuff together. Suggest activités where you can just be free to be yourselves, without pressure for something emotional and/or sexual to happen.

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@Moonbutter
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by nousername

Posted by ToxicSituation

Aries girl here, and I'm in love with a very peculiar Gemini guy. I just can't figure him out...usually the guys I tangle up with are easy prey. Not to brag but I can rope them in. However he is such a mystery and usually I pull them in closer when we begin dating yet...he pulls back. He says he thinks I'm beautiful and is in "awestruck" with my mind...so why be so distant?? And the constant riddles...I'm not 8.. I don't live in the Gray like him I need concrete yes or no. Are you in or out Mr. Gemini...Can some Geminis and Aries chime in to this mysterious aloof and distant behavior??

thanks,

XOXO

I think Gemini doesn’t like to suddenly fall in love and suddenly be wrapped in a relationship. Love is elusive. One moment you love, and the next you’re confused. Generally for Gemini men, they like to have a friend thats there, that can listen, be a companion in activities, that challenges his mind, and is reliable, trustworthy. Just be friend and be there. Hang out. Do stuff together. Suggest activités where you can just be free to be yourselves, without pressure for something emotional and/or sexual to happen.

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This right here ☝️ Gemini likes to live in the moment and if they happen to fall for you, then they will make it known and claim you. If you try to force the Gemini he will resist and run away. It takes subtle manipulation, ahem persuasion to nab the elusive Gemini 😉

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

If he's interested he'll lock you down within the first few months.

And gems get bored easily. Don't be all in at the beginning. Be like shrek. Channel the onion. You got layers, let him meander his way through.

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@nousername
7 Years

Posted by Moonbutter

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Posted by ToxicSituation

Aries girl here, and I'm in love with a very peculiar Gemini guy. I just can't figure him out...usually the guys I tangle up with are easy prey. Not to brag but I can rope them in. However he is such a mystery and usually I pull them in closer when we begin dating yet...he pulls back. He says he thinks I'm beautiful and is in "awestruck" with my mind...so why be so distant?? And the constant riddles...I'm not 8.. I don't live in the Gray like him I need concrete yes or no. Are you in or out Mr. Gemini...Can some Geminis and Aries chime in to this mysterious aloof and distant behavior??

thanks,

XOXO

I think Gemini doesn’t like to suddenly fall in love and suddenly be wrapped in a relationship. Love is elusive. One moment you love, and the next you’re confused. Generally for Gemini men, they like to have a friend thats there, that can listen, be a companion in activities, that challenges his mind, and is reliable, trustworthy. Just be friend and be there. Hang out. Do stuff together. Suggest activités where you can just be free to be yourselves, without pressure for something emotional and/or sexual to happen.

This right here ☝️ Gemini likes to live in the moment and if they happen to fall for you, then they will make it known and claim you. If you try to force the Gemini he will resist and run away. It takes subtle manipulation, ahem persuasion to nab the elusive Gemini 😉

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I’d agree.