Do aries women make you work for them?

I know they are typically the "chasers" but if they know youre into them do they make you chase them?

I don't chase anything. And I don't want to be chased either. Relationships of any kind should be mutual.

But agreeing with the above post work must be put in with building a foundation.

Nope

If I am not interested in a guy, him attempting to "work" for me would turn me off further. If I like a guy, and he likes me, I'm his. Thing is, I'm a "hard catch" in that I rarely like a man romantically. That lack of interest makes it very hard for men to get close to me. I'm not bragging, it's just how I am. One crush in grade school (that I soon got over), two men in my adult life - second of whom I'm with.

Posted by LuckyLibra979
The Aries I was crushing on in my younger days didn't have to do much by respond to my pressure

That's what I've experienced. The men do all of the work and the ball is perpetually "in my court." It may be howmit is with most women, but I find that it's usually up to me to choose to play or not even step on the court. #GotStuckInThatCornyMetaphorAnd CouldNotFindMyWayOut

Posted by Loop07
I know they are typically the "chasers" but if they know youre into them do they make you chase them?

No

I like to be chased.

I do enjoy the chase. But I would leave no room for uncertainty if I'm interested in someone, I would definitely make that as clear as possible early on so that when we do go through the whole chase and flirtation routine, it's obvious it's leading somewhere and not just harmless flirting for the sake of it.

I didn't chase, didn’t initiate, didn't flirt.

I can't help myself, I did the opposite of all of the above... ran, slapped people. Still wound up in some really sticky situations.

Could never get over the good girl/bad girl dichotomy.

Why I attract men with madonna/whore complex aka Moon square/opposition Venus. I am a waliking paradox.

Guilt... Pressure valve release... Dusts off skirt and straightens pearls.

I don't chase, I just state what I want when I realize it. If I get a no, I try to accept it with as much grace in defeat as I can, and resume a friend mode (if applicable in the situation). I try my damnest not to waste my or the other person's time with any unneeded steps (such as games, push pull, etc).

Posted by AriesLove

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
I never chase.



If a guy wants me, he can come get me.

I agree no chasing, speaks desperation.

But if you are 6'3 high cheek bones, baby face, low cut, athletic, ambitious, articulate and sexy as hell I'm eyeballing you in.

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I'm an Aries female and it depends if we really like you we will chase you but if we're iffy about you then yes we will make you chase us . It's a reason why though and the best way I can explain it is if I like a guy he's my prey and I'm going to catch him because I want him he's like a prize in my eyes and if I don't like a guy and he's eyeing me I will not give him the time of day until he impresses me .