This Guy At Work Is Intelligent, Charming, Socisticated, Fun, and Most Of All HOT! 😉
The Problem Is, How Do I Get His Attention?! Sure We Talk (When He Isn't Flirting With Another Girl...) But When Others Are Around I Feel Invisable!!!...
Libra Males, Please, Please I Need Some Insight Into The Male Libran Mind!
Welcome!!!! lostlilgirl 🙂 You are gonna love it here....so many wonderful people filled with so much wisdom to help when needed and then of coarse we do have the "jokesters" who keep us coming back for more...ya never know what is going to happen on these here boards.
I found this info. for you and I hope it helps give you more understanding with your Libra Male friend....good luck and please....keep us posted!!!! I always love hearing how these stories unfold...
The LIBRA Man "In my youth," said his Father, "I took to the law. And argued each case with my wife;
And the muscular strength, which it gave to my jaw, Has lasted the rest of my life."
You'll get plenty of free advice from this man. Hell have the perfect solution to all your problems and an answer for every question you ask. But there's no use expecting him to be the answer to all your girlish dreams. He'll change some of them and argue with others. A Libra male can be as cranky as a crocodile with poison ivy, and his habit of rationalizing everything, including love, will drive you to frenzy-or leave you limp with defeat.
Still, I must warn you that once you're caught and en_meshed in the Libran charm, it won't be easy to break away. Trying to escape from a bear trap is a cinch, com_pared to liberating yourself from a Libran man. If you try to run, he'll persuade you to stay with such logical, intelli_gent arguments you couldn't hope to top them unless you graduated from Harvard Law School. In addition to using his unmatched reasoning powers on you, he'll turn so sweet and gentle you'll forget the frustrating inconsistencies of his nature that upset you before. Then he'll smile at you and something will happen inside. Your heart will turn over.
From that moment on, the battle will be lost. His dreams will be your dreams, and nothing will matter so much as making him happy. You'll seek that smile and need it to survive the way a thirsty traveler needs water. Only a really hard-hearted Hannah could resist a Libran smile, and she'd have to summon all her determination to avoid being magnetized by its purity. The Libran charm is not like the hypnotic persuasion of the Scorpio. The attraction of Libra is logicul and real, not supernatural in any sense. There's no black magic about it, just common sense submission to his heavenly aura.
On the other hand, to use his favorite catch phrase, there will be times when those Libra scales dip back and forth with crazy contradiction. You'll have to shout at him, push him into the lake, or stand on your head to get his atten_tion and force him to make a move. Don't be so naive as to think love will be smooth and eternally tranquil, even if he is ruled by Venus. If you're up on your Roman mythology, you're aware that Venus had her off days. Still, when the scales balance, life with Libra can be as intoxicat_ing as a goblet of golden ambrosia, with lots of laughs and a casual freedom known only to the gods who cavort on Olympus.
Making up his mind is a chore no less strenuous to the average Libran male than taming a wild buffalo, and once he's made it up, he's liable to change it with no warning if he suspects he's made a mistake. There's a woman I know Who hoped to go into a business partnership with a Libran, and she learned the hard way about this legendary Libra idiosyncrasy. They had a breakfast appointment together one summer morning, and both of them were full of en_thusiastic, optimistic plans for the future. After he dropped her off on the way to his office, she began to worry. His promises were almost too good to be true, so she phoned him, just to make sure she hadn't been dreaming. He was still excited, he repeated all his promises and ambitious plans, and they made a date to get together again the fol_lowing week. Before they hung up, he guessed what was on her mind and reassured her. "By the way," he re_marked, "I want to say
Wow Freebird! Where did you find it? It's wonderful! Thank you for posting here.. PS. I'm glad you're here too~ If it's from a website, would you please let me know where I can go to find it too? Thanks Freebird.. Jaya.
Yes Freebird that was a wonderful answer you shared. I enjoyed reading it myself. And Lostlilgirl75 buck up little one, I know how frustrating it must be to feel the attraction you do. And not be sure if you are reading the situation right from him. There are things you can do like pay a little extra attention to him in little ways that are subtle but stand out. He will soon enough get the feeling that more is going on with you and him. He will at least react one way or another. First it will get his attention, second if he is not interested back in the same way he will find a way to let you know. Even if it is to avoid extended contact with you. First show interest in the things he talks about, and ask his opinion on things (Libra's like that, male and female alike). Let him see that he has your complete attention when around him. Look for oportunities to offer to do little things for him. Like noticing that he may need something on his desk that is work related, then offer to provide it. It can be about anything that is appropriate. If you take a break at a different time, go by his desk to just say hello, then maybe offer to bring him something back from the break room. Maybe a cup of coffee or whatever. By being friendly with a little extra effort, he will soon figure out that you may like him a little more than a friend. If nothing else he will suspect and his curiosity will do the rest. If you don't try you will never know, and someone else will take the opportunity to get closer to him. Think about it. And Freebird was right Libra's do flirt, but they don't mean it seriously. He is most likely trying to show you that he is friendly and has many friends. That he can have close friendships with other women but not cross any lines he should not. I dont know why Libras do this but some do, I have seen it many times. Think about it ok. Sounds like you are maybe a little shy am I right? Message me back and let me know what you think ok. Bye for now \
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Could any give some positive advise. I've heard that Libras & Aquarians are a good match. But every Aquarius girl that I have been out with were not faithfull. The funny thing is that, I still like Aquarian women!
The Problem Is, How Do I Get His Attention?! Sure We Talk (When He Isn't Flirting With Another Girl...) But When Others Are Around I Feel Invisable!!!...
Libra Males, Please, Please I Need Some Insight Into The Male Libran Mind!