Aries and Taurus go travelling...

My Taurus friend and I are going travelling together. I cannot wait! Really really excited. but we're running in to a few problems already and we haven't even left yet. Luckily, we resolve them fairly quickly but they're still there!

For example, we were meant to leave in April, he changed it to June, then he changed it to July and now he's trying to change it to August. I've been very understanding and patient (which i'm very proud of) because I realise that I jump in to things too quickly, and taking his advice on planning ahead seemed like a good idea. BUT COME ON! I've put my foot down about going in July but now he keeps pleading with me to wait.

Should I be more patient or should I push him to get out of here and leave already!?

Personally, I think I should push him to get out of here, but I'm wondering am I being too inpatient. :/
I'm also worried we're going to kill each other hahaha what do you think? nice travelling holiday or a horrific blood bath?

I think you should try to Invite a couple more people so there's no tension.

And your friend is being totally unfair. You have already compromised about June and now July. He's not the only person going on vacation, you are too and you have a say in making the plans. If you don't want to go in August and he's been typically stubborn and a little bit selfish, then tell him I'll go just withh someone else. That's so rude like you agreed on April and then he said June and then he July and NOW August?! What if you had other plans in August!

How annoying and self centered.

Posted by Reincarnation
Terrible travel companions.

Taurus will want to sleep in everyday and take it slow. True procrastinators.

Aries wants to wake up early and jump in with both feet to experience life.

Yes, that's another thing i'm worried about. Although luckily he is an early riser and needs something to do all the time, due to his ADHD 😛

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
I think you should try to Invite a couple more people so there's no tension.

And your friend is being totally unfair. You have already compromised about June and now July. He's not the only person going on vacation, you are too and you have a say in making the plans. If you don't want to go in August and he's been typically stubborn and a little bit selfish, then tell him I'll go just withh someone else. That's so rude like you agreed on April and then he said June and then he July and NOW August?! What if you had other plans in August!

How annoying and self centered.

Yes! I keep suggesting we invite other people but unfortunately nobody is in a situation at the moment where they can go travelling.

He is deffo being unfair right? I can see where he is coming from though. I just think I've taken his advice a little and now he should take some of mine. He's been trying to go travelling for 2 years and hasn't got round to it hahaha, I was like it's no wonder you haven't. I'm not gonna sit back and let him watch another year go by and not go travelling.

Posted by Hotbeefy
If that person placed the dates, then it's best for not having this person to be with. Like MysteriousTaurus said, it's rude & unfair.
I even had feeling it's actually about his finances troubles, but what important thing is to go out traveling with you what you have planned. For some odd reason he's doesn't sounds like Taurus at all (perhaps he has mutables placement). 😐

As Taurus with Aries moon and venus in 9th house, I DO love traveling and definitely keep it planned the way it should be instead of replacing it.

It is totally to do with finances! He wants to save more before we go, but he has more than enough, I mean he has more than me. I think he's scared of running out of money, but as long as we have enough for a flight home, to me it doesn't really matter.

I'll try get some more of his placements.

omg thats ridiculous, where are you going that its going to cost him $ 100,000 to go? lmao he has more than enough time, unless he has lots of bills to pay or something

Posted by wecarealot
Sounds like he's waiting unnecessarily. It takes time to plan a trip, but it doesn't take THAT much time. Once you've booked your flights and hotels, the rest is just organizing your individual days unless you're planning on doing something like a guided tour (which should actually REDUCE planning time) or something off the beaten track.

Where are you guys going? And how long are you going to be away?

One way ticket at the moment, we are on workaways, don't know if you've heard of it? But basically you work for a room and food. So it's not like we'll be paying for that. I'd say we will be gone for about 6 months.

I get where he's at though, we do need to plan but as far as I'm concerned we've planned enough as it is, and because our plans are going to be changing constantly, I don't see the point in over planning.

Plus we've lost quite a few of our workaways because he wanted to wait.