It's weird, I get along way more with Scorpio women and feel a deeper connection with them but they take steps back and disappear. Aries women, I struggle with at first, but they're brutally open and honest and a joy to be around, but lacking in that connection front though they last way longer relationship wise and are more direct.
Saturn - Leo Jupiter - Cancer Uranus - Scorpio Mid-heaven - Aries
I am definitely attracted to: Brash, Harsh, cookiemonstery, Arrogant. The bigger the cookiemonster the more I like it, because I sense something soft inside.
Well, in reference to the "something soft inside" bit...that's human nature. At least a handful of chicks are gonna be this way, not because of their sign...but that's just how the cookie crumbles sometimes, we're human.
Talking astro in regards to that statement now tho, In my opinion Aries women are more likely to display that "brash, harsh, cookiemonstery, arrogant" persona only to be more sensitive on the inside. Scorpio women seem to be a bit of the opposite - they seem mad sensitive on the outside, and they can be...but in their core they are a more sturdy bunch. They tend to be resilient, passionate and able to stand up on their own two feet. Not that Aries women can't be that way, they definitely can be...it's just a little nuanced thing I've noticed...idk. Just my two cents
With a Scorpio the walls go up on both sides, and I feel like I will never see the vulnerable side. I don't know why? Maybe the reward is that great.
With an Aries, I get soft from the start almost. I can't impress her, I can't make her smile. I'm vulnerable, but she likes me. And I like it. Weird.
Yeah that makes sense. Scorpio needs a little bit of time to let the guard down. Aries normally doesn’t, unless they’re Taurus heavy.
That Leo energy is hard for scorps to trust. It comes across as charming and popular. Makes the Scorpio feel less special and like you treat everyone like that. Aries don’t give a treetrunk about that type of thing tho lol. Makes them more warm from the start.
The way you present yourself, you seem to be at a good spot, right on the cusp of romance. I’d reckon you run into romance in one (to two years tops) as long as you maintain a curious and positive mindset.
Maybe the universe will laugh at all this talk and send you a Taurus with an Aries Rising and Scorpio moon too.
Posted by Ellygant A Scorpio would be suspicious of his leo openness. Probably wouldn’t provide as much intital comfort and reassurance as what he needs.
Exactly that. I noticed Scorpios are suspicious of my Leo ways. They don't provide what you're saying and in turn, it scares me. It makes me feel there is nothing behind that woman. Coldness only.
I was with a Moon Aries that squares my Moon for 15 years. I kind of like the tension.
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Yah I’ve noticed moon contacts are softer than sun. More workable. The Sun being ego, when it’s consistently challenged it takes a lot more maturity and conscientiousness to work through those squares. Squares to the moon aren’t easy, but being in the territory of vulnerability and emotion, they’re a little more forgiving than sun squares.
The boost to your midheaven helps that. Though I find with the midheaven if you don’t have strong mars contacts, the sexual aspect fades over time and you feel more like business partners and friends than lovers. Which is fine honestly. I know quite a few political or business based marriages that Work and thrive for decades or till death. It’s just a different deal than the whole all in one soulmate kind of marriage. You accommodate certain sacrifices.
Ascendant in Clumsy, Sun/Mercury/Venus in Scary, Moon in Comfort, Mars in Giddy
Posted by OneKnight I'll be honest. I'm DemiSexual. I can't just go out there and test it out. I basically have one shot. In my teens maybe I was with them, but I can't remember as I was engaged by 19, so I did not have a lot of women.
After talking to both Aries and Scorpio I came to a conclusion they are a mirror, and I would be equally happy with either at the end of the day. I researched and I found this:
Scorpio: Domination - Pluto Co-domination - Mars Exaltation - Uranus Co-exaltation - Sun
Aries: Domination - Mars Co-domination - Pluto Exaltation - Sun Co-exaltation - Uranus
Aries - "Fight for the sake of superiority and aspiration to be in the center of public events." Scorpio - "Superiority for the sake of struggle and implication in public events". "Scorpio and Aries have mirror symmetry."
Guess where I found the above data? In the Book of Changes (I Ching). Ancient Chinese Book.
Some of the comments above were good, but some were too harsh. I think every woman that really loves you, is going to be loyal, and I won't see the flaws. And if she is cheating, she does not love you, so she may as well cheat. I don't care. She is cheating on herself at that point.
Saturn - Leo Jupiter - Cancer Uranus - Scorpio Mid-heaven - Aries
I am deferentially attracted to: Brash, Harsh, cookiemonstery, Arrogant. The bigger the cookiemonster the more I like it, because I sense something soft inside.
Yeah I meant honestly with those placements you could work with either. Both would be supportive to you. I might lean slight towards Scorpio because a Scorp with libra and/or sag bits would give you that light like masculine feeling slightly more than an Aries. Even a watery or earthy Aries that’s more grounded and slower moving.
You’re a cancer tho. I can tell you which would be a preferential for all day long, but at the end of the day, the woman that move you to total romantic abandon will win out without a thought or analysis. Especially since you’re not a baby anymore. Scorpio and Aries women are both pretty up and down and prone to being volatile when young. But in your age range and with your vibe, no matter what you attract, she’d probably have worked or a lot of that raw energy and karma and be much more chill.
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