Bsmurray
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Couples Chart Interp Please
Yeah ones very much air and earth with air and earth. Well you are probably similar in alot of ways.
Not sure about the sex life though Gemini would want consistent with changing the bed room scene often. Never boredom. While the other might just be too tired, or exhausted but can be freaks in the bedroom.
The moon toward Taurus will not sit well too much because one or both want the control, is stubborn, is more power vs ego trip, more critical than the other.
Mercury in Taurus when set in their own mind set depending on what Capricorn approaches are must be able to compromise together and adapt.
Well rising is how you are viewed as individual and if it's an air rising compared to Taurus it also sings a different tune.
Not sure about the sex life though Gemini would want consistent with changing the bed room scene often. Never boredom. While the other might just be too tired, or exhausted but can be freaks in the bedroom.
The moon toward Taurus will not sit well too much because one or both want the control, is stubborn, is more power vs ego trip, more critical than the other.
Mercury in Taurus when set in their own mind set depending on what Capricorn approaches are must be able to compromise together and adapt.
Well rising is how you are viewed as individual and if it's an air rising compared to Taurus it also sings a different tune.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Her rising is Libra.
Yeah ones very much air and earth with air and earth. Well you are probably similar in alot of ways.
Not sure about the sex life though Gemini would want consistent with changing the bed room scene often. Never boredom. While the other might just be too tired, or exhausted but can be freaks in the bedroom.
The moon toward Taurus will not sit well too much because one or both want the control, is stubborn, is more power vs ego trip, more critical than the other.
Mercury in Taurus when set in their own mind set depending on what Capricorn approaches are must be able to compromise together and adapt.
Well rising is how you are viewed as individual and if it's an air rising compared to Taurus it also sings a different tune.
Interesting you brought up sex life. Lately, we've been sexually frustrated as a couple. That's really the best way to describe it. We are simply not communicating enough and working together to achieve a uniform outcome- sex, and good sex at that.
Which is more likely to be the bedroom freak? I know the answer to this, I want to hear outside analysis though. I am definitely the overly critical one, as she has pointed this out to me before, and I admit I should tone it back.
But we just had a discussion on our sex life today. Please talk to me more about this and let me know if you need me to post other placement or house info. We are such a great couple in my opinion, and I'd hate to keep maintaining our current sex life, which has been very dry at the moment.
Hmm someone has to bring excitement into this it may be her though and it may dampen her mood then yours.
If you can figure a way to spice up things then do it. Gemini don't really know how to express but they do know what they like and most likely it might even be a dominant over submissive. Got to combine the two.
If you can figure a way to spice up things then do it. Gemini don't really know how to express but they do know what they like and most likely it might even be a dominant over submissive. Got to combine the two.
Ok... The thing is that I am open to much more than she is. Maybe I'm not pressing the right buttons? Or I've forgotten how. Either way, it's frustrating because it been a slow and steady decline in terms of satisfaction and frequency since we started dating, three years back.
AriesLove says "perfect." Does this mean I can't match up to a more compatible sign? If I could, what would those sign placements be?
AriesLove says "perfect." Does this mean I can't match up to a more compatible sign? If I could, what would those sign placements be?
Don't not use astrology a mean to break up. Before you got on here you had some problems and we can only help so much on here. Lol
I hope I've been some help though.
Stay on top of things or its only 3 years to know how to communicate, be honest, and talk.
I hope I've been some help though.
Stay on top of things or its only 3 years to know how to communicate, be honest, and talk.
You could try earth and air. But stay around the area of ones that are okay with good sex and still compatible. People miss out on good people just because their sex drives is more than yours. In the end it's push and pull.
So good sex= hardly fights, and able to get past it for ever. Life's hard and we have to learn and live.
So good sex= hardly fights, and able to get past it for ever. Life's hard and we have to learn and live.
Posted by Bsmurrayher Cancer Mars might be causing some issues.... lots of oppositions. though that's not always a bad thing. personally, I have some friends with Cancer Mars and it is not always easy to mesh with them. for you, I wonder how those oppositions effect things. obviously it was positive for a long time, but the way she asserts herself might annoy you. obviously I don't know this as a fact. it's just hypothetical.
Ok... The thing is that I am open to much more than she is. Maybe I'm not pressing the right buttons? Or I've forgotten how. Either way, it's frustrating because it been a slow and steady decline in terms of satisfaction and frequency since we started dating, three years back.
AriesLove says "perfect." Does this mean I can't match up to a more compatible sign? If I could, what would those sign placements be?
I agree with FirstTau on the fact you shouldn't give up. not that you have. but you get the point. there's always trials and tribulations to face in every couples lives. it'll probably pass. three years is a long time. obviously it just needs to be rekindled.
I think your charts are quite compatible overall as others have expressed. I'm trying to picture her Gem Venus and Cancer Mars here though. with her Libra ascendant.....
I am currently talking to a guy w a chart similar to yours. the spark is already leaving. I'm kind of like "eh" while at the same time being quite disappointed. he has a few oppositions himself though
Aqua Sun/Merc/Saturn
Cancer moon
Capricorn Mars/Venus/Uranus/Neptune
Virgo Jupiter
Scorpio Pluto
Leo ascendant
my Venus squares his Venus and his Mars since it's almost 29 deg Libra. my Libra ascendant is also square his Venus and Mars.
if her ascendant is square your Venus and Mars too, this could be part of the disconnect. her personality may not be helpful to the way you love and the way you assert yourself. but it's not a deal breaker considering all of your other POSITIVE aspects.
speaking from experience, I'm guessing it's that Libra ascendant causing some chaos rn. especially if it squares your Cap planets. her Venus could be square your Virgo moon. there's really a lot that could be at play here.
if you were to date someone else, I'd say someone with an earth Venus/Mars may be helpful. since it won't afflict your moon/Venus/Mars. of course you also wouldn't want it to hit your Saturn either (be conjunct). that would also cause disconnect. Virgo Venus...Taurus Venus....or Mars.
for a long lasting relationship you want positive Saturn aspects. not hard Saturn aspects. that's the key. Venus/Mars hard aspects aren't a deal breaker. you'll want nice moon aspects too. especially to the others moon or Venus. (Mars too for what it's worth). it'll fulfill your emotional needs. Saturn just stabilizes everything for the long-term. seems like you already have that with her, which in my eyes is good.
Yes both earth mercury signs will get frustrated with each other after 3 years or before 1 year mark.
I got to ask you how did you met? Who insisted on being together? Because well it felt right and was something wrong in the beginning of this friendship/relationship? How long before jumping into bed?
Have you asked her turn ons and off? This are critical to know too btw.
I got to ask you how did you met? Who insisted on being together? Because well it felt right and was something wrong in the beginning of this friendship/relationship? How long before jumping into bed?
Have you asked her turn ons and off? This are critical to know too btw.
Posted by tizianiThis might be easier:
Are you sure you don't see her as the overly critical one? Your charts suggests it can come across as the other way around.
Separately, with your Cap stellium energy potentially in her 4th house (wouldn't know for sure without houses or chart wheel) it suggests she can tend to bury your habits under the carpet until it boils over to frustration point for her.
At what times do you most often misunderstand each other?
Hers:
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php
Mine:
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/natal.php
Tiziani- Yes! What you say about her burying her qualms with me until they boil over are true! It's like she waits for me to bring up the issue, and then she uses these against or to support he reason for acting or feeling a certain way, and I want to be like, why can't you tell me that as I am doing it?? If I don't like something, I am upfront and I air it out in the open, so it doesn't bottle up inside me and so she knows my true feelings or thoughts.
Misunderstandings?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Yeah but we're not having good sex at the moment, and that's the issue.
You could try earth and air. But stay around the area of ones that are okay with good sex and still compatible. People miss out on good people just because their sex drives is more than yours. In the end it's push and pull.
So good sex= hardly fights, and able to get past it for ever. Life's hard and we have to learn and live.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Good kissing is a turn on. Her turnoffs are when I point out that she has something in her eye or something along those lines. I always do it in a nice way but she takes it too serious.
Yes both earth mercury signs will get frustrated with each other after 3 years or before 1 year mark.
I got to ask you how did you met? Who insisted on being together? Because well it felt right and was something wrong in the beginning of this friendship/relationship? How long before jumping into bed?
Have you asked her turn ons and off? This are critical to know too btw.
Degenerate,
I wish I could spend more time learning about the conjuncts and square aspects but I simply don't have the time to sit down and figure that all out. I pasted a link to our charts, can you gather anything additional from those links?
I wish I could spend more time learning about the conjuncts and square aspects but I simply don't have the time to sit down and figure that all out. I pasted a link to our charts, can you gather anything additional from those links?
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428You have been of help. No one said anything about break up or using astrology to break up. I come to see if I can have an additional perspective. Thanks.
Don't not use astrology a mean to break up. Before you got on here you had some problems and we can only help so much on here. Lol
I hope I've been some help though.
Stay on top of things or its only 3 years to know how to communicate, be honest, and talk.
Sun Gemini 12°18'
Ascendant Libra 10°10'
Moon Taurus 29°40'
II Scorpio 8°01'
Mercury Taurus 28°22' R
III Sagittarius 8°41'
Venus Gemini 27°46'
IV Capricorn 11°02'
Mars Cancer 21°30'
V Aquarius 13°21'
Jupiter Gemini 17°01'
VI Pisces 13°33'
Saturn Capricorn 12°39' R
VII Aries 10°10'
Uranus Capricorn 4°12' R
VIII Taurus 8°01'
Neptune Capricorn 11°46' R
IX Gemini 8°41'
Pluto Scorpio 13°01' R
Midheaven Cancer 11°02'
Lilith Libra 12°49'
XI Leo 13°21'
Asc node Aquarius 29°05'
Ascendant Libra 10°10'
Moon Taurus 29°40'
II Scorpio 8°01'
Mercury Taurus 28°22' R
III Sagittarius 8°41'
Venus Gemini 27°46'
IV Capricorn 11°02'
Mars Cancer 21°30'
V Aquarius 13°21'
Jupiter Gemini 17°01'
VI Pisces 13°33'
Saturn Capricorn 12°39' R
VII Aries 10°10'
Uranus Capricorn 4°12' R
VIII Taurus 8°01'
Neptune Capricorn 11°46' R
IX Gemini 8°41'
Pluto Scorpio 13°01' R
Midheaven Cancer 11°02'
Lilith Libra 12°49'
XI Leo 13°21'
Asc node Aquarius 29°05'
Sun Aquarius 21°46'
Ascendant Taurus 18°57'
Moon Virgo 3°20'
II Gemini 16°19'
Mercury Capricorn 28°17'
III Cancer 9°07'
Venus Capricorn 21°02'
IV Leo 2°14'
Mars Capricorn 8°48'
V Leo 29°50'
Jupiter Cancer 1°08' R
VI Libra 6°03'
Saturn Capricorn 20°18'
VII Scorpio 18°57'
Uranus Capricorn 8°01'
VIII Sagittarius 16°19'
Neptune Capricorn 13°30'
IX Capricorn 9°07'
Pluto Scorpio 17°47'
Midheaven Aquarius 2°14'
Lilith Scorpio 10°59'
XI Aquarius 29°50'
Asc node Aquarius 16°31'
Ascendant Taurus 18°57'
Moon Virgo 3°20'
II Gemini 16°19'
Mercury Capricorn 28°17'
III Cancer 9°07'
Venus Capricorn 21°02'
IV Leo 2°14'
Mars Capricorn 8°48'
V Leo 29°50'
Jupiter Cancer 1°08' R
VI Libra 6°03'
Saturn Capricorn 20°18'
VII Scorpio 18°57'
Uranus Capricorn 8°01'
VIII Sagittarius 16°19'
Neptune Capricorn 13°30'
IX Capricorn 9°07'
Pluto Scorpio 17°47'
Midheaven Aquarius 2°14'
Lilith Scorpio 10°59'
XI Aquarius 29°50'
Asc node Aquarius 16°31'
Posted by BsmurrayOkay are you not even compromising the needs of each other then there is an issue and communicate at its finest. We all need good sex, some need great sex.Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Yeah but we're not having good sex at the moment, and that's the issue.
You could try earth and air. But stay around the area of ones that are okay with good sex and still compatible. People miss out on good people just because their sex drives is more than yours. In the end it's push and pull.
So good sex= hardly fights, and able to get past it for ever. Life's hard and we have to learn and live.
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The Roman numerals are houses. I don't know what the "R"s mean, they were next to some of the planets.
Posted by AriesLoveI do that. She knows what I am doing though.Posted by BsmurrayThat definitely kills the mood. LolPosted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Good kissing is a turn on. Her turnoffs are when I point out that she has something in her eye or something along those lines. I always do it in a nice way but she takes it too serious.
Yes both earth mercury signs will get frustrated with each other after 3 years or before 1 year mark.
I got to ask you how did you met? Who insisted on being together? Because well it felt right and was something wrong in the beginning of this friendship/relationship? How long before jumping into bed?
Have you asked her turn ons and off? This are critical to know too btw.
How about just remove it from her eye?!?
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Posted by GC01We have handcuffs. I bought those. (Actually were left from a previous fling).
I agree with fdtw maybe she just needs a little spice, tie her hands together with her shirt or something wild like that. Sex is very important in relationships, idk how people stay together with out it.
We have "blow job candy" like pop rocks, cherry flavor, I bought that.
We have nontoxic, scented, lube. I bought that.
We have KY his and hers, I bought that.
And you don't use it enough haha God damn.
Posted by AriesLoveRight, I should probably stop doing that. But, in all fairness, she points out and even seeks out zits on my face/back/sometimes butt that she can pop. Does that make me feel good? No. Do I complain when she does that? Sometimes. It's two way street.Posted by BsmurrayPosted by AriesLoveI do that. She knows what I am doing though.Posted by BsmurrayThat definitely kills the mood. LolPosted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428Good kissing is a turn on. Her turnoffs are when I point out that she has something in her eye or something along those lines. I always do it in a nice way but she takes it too serious.
Yes both earth mercury signs will get frustrated with each other after 3 years or before 1 year mark.
I got to ask you how did you met? Who insisted on being together? Because well it felt right and was something wrong in the beginning of this friendship/relationship? How long before jumping into bed?
Have you asked her turn ons and off? This are critical to know too btw.
How about just remove it from her eye?!?
So why is that important? Does it bother you?
You are probably making her feel insecure after that. She's thinking you are noticing every little thing.
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Posted by AriesLoveRight, sex has been great without that stuff. I just wanted to prove that we have the necessary items to spice things up if need be.Posted by BsmurrayYou really don't even need all that to have good sex. I always thought too many toys kill the animalistic nature of sex.Posted by GC01We have handcuffs. I bought those. (Actually were left from a previous fling).
I agree with fdtw maybe she just needs a little spice, tie her hands together with her shirt or something wild like that. Sex is very important in relationships, idk how people stay together with out it.
We have "blow job candy" like pop rocks, cherry flavor, I bought that.
We have nontoxic, scented, lube. I bought that.
We have KY his and hers, I bought that.
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Ok. I'll start wearing a zorro mask when I'm around her.
Lol cha cha cha.
Posted by InstantkarmaDirty talks... Heard.Posted by BsmurrayPosted by AriesLoveRight, sex has been great without that stuff. I just wanted to prove that we have the necessary items to spice things up if need be.Posted by BsmurrayYou really don't even need all that to have good sex. I always thought too many toys kill the animalistic nature of sex.Posted by GC01We have handcuffs. I bought those. (Actually were left from a previous fling).
I agree with fdtw maybe she just needs a little spice, tie her hands together with her shirt or something wild like that. Sex is very important in relationships, idk how people stay together with out it.
We have "blow job candy" like pop rocks, cherry flavor, I bought that.
We have nontoxic, scented, lube. I bought that.
We have KY his and hers, I bought that.
all those are Cool but use the Element Of surprise. Like pull out your handcuffs or a silk tie without it looking planned in advance. And indulge in some dirty talks.
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I think I need to be more free wheelin with that go get it attitude that I used to have when we started. Back then, I was less concerned about having a good image and hanging around afterwards because she met me when I was in my wild bachelor years. Now, it's like with age has come this sense of hesitation when my natural impulses tell me to let go of my inhibitions and go out and take it. It appears the challenge is to find that balance of when to act like an animal and when to act like a refined human...
Posted by AriesLoveExcept for her favorite drink is beer and she usually wants to do the opposite of have sex after drinking a few of those...
Just get drunk. My sister is a Gemini she loves to drink always puts her in the mood.
Plus that's when the gas comes...
Posted by AriesLoveRight. I definitely had more of a I don't give a F, either I'm going to rock your world right now, or I'm going to go find someone else's world to rock. Now, three years after, it's like I need to raise those primal instincts again...Posted by BsmurrayAgreed, some people stop doing what they did in the beginning of a relationship and this can cause the other person to loose interest. I think it's one of the major causes of relationships to fail.
I think I need to be more free wheelin with that go get it attitude that I used to have when we started. Back then, I was less concerned about having a good image and hanging around afterwards because she met me when I was in my wild bachelor years. Now, it's like with age has come this sense of hesitation when my natural impulses tell me to let go of my inhibitions and go out and take it. It appears the challenge is to find that balance of when to act like an animal and when to act like a refined human...
Getting comfortable in a relationship is good but it also has its disadvantages.click to expand
I didn't mean for this thread to turn against me, but is it the guy who is always at fault in these situations? What about when she farts around me, and it reeks? How is that not a mood killer?
If you can stay around during farts he/she is a keeper. Ijs.
It's okay to go if both mutually argee. Have a chat with her and then let us know how it went.
It's okay to go if both mutually argee. Have a chat with her and then let us know how it went.
Sorry I never got your response!
It's better I saw it now though, because I'm on a computer anyways. Here are the biggest aspects I noticed. I am more of a wheel chart reader. Those links you sent did not work unfortunately for whatever reason. It just sent me to the page where you insert birth info.
I will send multiple posts now. Here is Venus opposite Mars. Her Mars opposes your Venus.
Venus opposite Mars
If opposites attract, you are in for some sexual fireworks. Your attraction is undeniable but you have differences that you will need to overcome in the ways you choose to express love and desire to receive your partners affection. It can turn into a struggle for dominance as each of you try to convert the other to your way of seeing and doing things. When the Venus person is in opposition to the Mars person, you may feel that you always seem to be the giving partner and this may stimulate your urge to have your way. A little creativity is needed and practice taking turns if you want this love to be anything more than a competition.
Here is Mars square Ascendant. Your Mars is square her ascendant.
Mars Square Ascendant
You will difficulty in getting along well in marriage or other partnerships. The Ascendant person is likely to consider the Mars person as selfish, inconsiderate and domineering. The Mars person may feel impatient with the personal actions of the Ascendant person. Generally you can both be annoyed and impatient with each other. There needs to be a definite understanding of each others wants and needs in order for this relationship to last.
It's better I saw it now though, because I'm on a computer anyways. Here are the biggest aspects I noticed. I am more of a wheel chart reader. Those links you sent did not work unfortunately for whatever reason. It just sent me to the page where you insert birth info.
I will send multiple posts now. Here is Venus opposite Mars. Her Mars opposes your Venus.
Venus opposite Mars
If opposites attract, you are in for some sexual fireworks. Your attraction is undeniable but you have differences that you will need to overcome in the ways you choose to express love and desire to receive your partners affection. It can turn into a struggle for dominance as each of you try to convert the other to your way of seeing and doing things. When the Venus person is in opposition to the Mars person, you may feel that you always seem to be the giving partner and this may stimulate your urge to have your way. A little creativity is needed and practice taking turns if you want this love to be anything more than a competition.
Here is Mars square Ascendant. Your Mars is square her ascendant.
Mars Square Ascendant
You will difficulty in getting along well in marriage or other partnerships. The Ascendant person is likely to consider the Mars person as selfish, inconsiderate and domineering. The Mars person may feel impatient with the personal actions of the Ascendant person. Generally you can both be annoyed and impatient with each other. There needs to be a definite understanding of each others wants and needs in order for this relationship to last.
Saturn opposite Mars. You are Saturn. She is Mars. This is very long, so I'm sorry. I took it all off cafe astrology. They made it quite long.
Mars and Saturn hard aspects
When Mars in one personâs chart forms an aspect to their partnerâs Saturn, special handling is required. The hard aspects in particular can be very problematic. The conjunction of Mars and Saturn in synastry is best understood when you consider the individual energies of these two planets. The qualities of the sign that Saturn occupies points to expressions that do not come naturally to Saturn. Saturn feels awkward or inhibited expressing the energies of the sign, and often will try to compensate by trying to exercise control over these characteristics in his or her personality. In contrast, the characteristics of the sign that Mars occupies are expressed fully, naturally, and with enthusiasm! You can only imagine what this means in a relationship. If both individuals are considerate of each other, and are growth-oriented, the relationship can be a great learning experience. For example, if the conjunction occurs in Aries, the Mars individual will take action, and express his or her âme-firstâ tendency freely and unabashedly. Aries, quite simply, comes naturally to Mars! Saturn, on the other hand, feels unnatural expressing these traits. Perhaps Saturn feels guilty when taking the lead. Where Mars rushes right in, Saturn carefully appraises the situation before he goes into it, if he doesnât withdraw from it altogether. Mars can have much to learn from SaturnMars can learn how to think a little before acting, and tone down his or her aggressiveness and impatience. As well, Saturn has much to learn from Mars. Saturn may secretly long to be just like Mars, going after what it wants without fear of failure.
On the other hand, if Mars is not sensitive to Saturnâs feelings of inadequacy, he or she may simply assert independence, tease Saturn for being inept or withdrawn, and run roughshod over Saturnâs feelings. Similarly, if Saturn doesnât want to face up to his or her own feelings of inadequacy, Saturn may do everything in their power to bring Mars down, control Mars, and limit Marsâ expression.
When Mars squares, quincunxes, or opposes Saturn in synastry, this second scenario is quite likely. At the beginning of the relationship, Saturn is often unfettered by Marsâ energy, and may even find it attractive. With time, Saturn becomes annoyed with Marsâ seeming lack of discipline and âchildishnessâ. How Saturn handles this will be very important. Unfortunately, very often the Saturn native uses subtle ways to undermine the Mars nativeâs confidence. Saturn attempts to control Mars by limiting, blocking, and undermining Mars. Mars feels like he or she is always in the wrong in Saturnâs eyes. When Mars laughs naturally and freely, Saturn stares at Mars with a superior look, as if Mars is being foolish.
Mars and Saturn hard aspects
When Mars in one personâs chart forms an aspect to their partnerâs Saturn, special handling is required. The hard aspects in particular can be very problematic. The conjunction of Mars and Saturn in synastry is best understood when you consider the individual energies of these two planets. The qualities of the sign that Saturn occupies points to expressions that do not come naturally to Saturn. Saturn feels awkward or inhibited expressing the energies of the sign, and often will try to compensate by trying to exercise control over these characteristics in his or her personality. In contrast, the characteristics of the sign that Mars occupies are expressed fully, naturally, and with enthusiasm! You can only imagine what this means in a relationship. If both individuals are considerate of each other, and are growth-oriented, the relationship can be a great learning experience. For example, if the conjunction occurs in Aries, the Mars individual will take action, and express his or her âme-firstâ tendency freely and unabashedly. Aries, quite simply, comes naturally to Mars! Saturn, on the other hand, feels unnatural expressing these traits. Perhaps Saturn feels guilty when taking the lead. Where Mars rushes right in, Saturn carefully appraises the situation before he goes into it, if he doesnât withdraw from it altogether. Mars can have much to learn from SaturnMars can learn how to think a little before acting, and tone down his or her aggressiveness and impatience. As well, Saturn has much to learn from Mars. Saturn may secretly long to be just like Mars, going after what it wants without fear of failure.
On the other hand, if Mars is not sensitive to Saturnâs feelings of inadequacy, he or she may simply assert independence, tease Saturn for being inept or withdrawn, and run roughshod over Saturnâs feelings. Similarly, if Saturn doesnât want to face up to his or her own feelings of inadequacy, Saturn may do everything in their power to bring Mars down, control Mars, and limit Marsâ expression.
When Mars squares, quincunxes, or opposes Saturn in synastry, this second scenario is quite likely. At the beginning of the relationship, Saturn is often unfettered by Marsâ energy, and may even find it attractive. With time, Saturn becomes annoyed with Marsâ seeming lack of discipline and âchildishnessâ. How Saturn handles this will be very important. Unfortunately, very often the Saturn native uses subtle ways to undermine the Mars nativeâs confidence. Saturn attempts to control Mars by limiting, blocking, and undermining Mars. Mars feels like he or she is always in the wrong in Saturnâs eyes. When Mars laughs naturally and freely, Saturn stares at Mars with a superior look, as if Mars is being foolish.
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Saturn may criticize Mars for everything from the way Mars dresses to how he or she behaves with others. Saturn perceives Mars as over-confident and frivolous, gets annoyed at the drop of a hat, and lets Mars know, either with direct criticism or a general air of disapproval. For a while, Mars tries to win back Saturnâs favor. After all, the very traits that Saturn seemed to love about Mars at the beginning of the relationship have turned into things to criticize. The nature of Mars is rather aggressive, however, so this period will likely be short-lived. Mars will then become angry at Saturn for all of Saturnâs overly-serious behavior and disapproval. Mars may rebel and flaunt themselves before Saturn, which in turn makes Saturn feel all the more need to inhibit and restrict Mars. Can you see where this is going? The relationship has turned into living hell. Any latent aggressive tendencies in either individual become larger than life. At the very least, verbal abusiveness can result. Physical aggression is sometimes the next step if these discordant energies get out of hand. Eventually, Mars will want to leave, which can anger Saturn even more. These aspects require special handling, and both parties should be growth-oriented in order to manage the discordant energies.
Saturn may criticize Mars for everything from the way Mars dresses to how he or she behaves with others. Saturn perceives Mars as over-confident and frivolous, gets annoyed at the drop of a hat, and lets Mars know, either with direct criticism or a general air of disapproval. For a while, Mars tries to win back Saturnâs favor. After all, the very traits that Saturn seemed to love about Mars at the beginning of the relationship have turned into things to criticize. The nature of Mars is rather aggressive, however, so this period will likely be short-lived. Mars will then become angry at Saturn for all of Saturnâs overly-serious behavior and disapproval. Mars may rebel and flaunt themselves before Saturn, which in turn makes Saturn feel all the more need to inhibit and restrict Mars. Can you see where this is going? The relationship has turned into living hell. Any latent aggressive tendencies in either individual become larger than life. At the very least, verbal abusiveness can result. Physical aggression is sometimes the next step if these discordant energies get out of hand. Eventually, Mars will want to leave, which can anger Saturn even more. These aspects require special handling, and both parties should be growth-oriented in order to manage the discordant energies.
Now my disclaimer is this. You ultimately have very GOOD things going on in your chart.
These are just roadblocks. They are not meant to break anything, so do not take it as "wow we are doomed" at all. Just something to overcome.
You're looking at someone (not literally looking at me but still) who is ALWAYS the Saturn person. I tend to attract third dean Aquarians. Their Sun conjunct my Saturn. Never fails. I'm not much of a negative nancy, but I know how it goes...being the Saturn person.
You have a lot of Saturn influence in your chart. Hopefully you bear it will. Good luck! đ
I have a strong Saturn too. I don't find myself that overbearing.
These are just roadblocks. They are not meant to break anything, so do not take it as "wow we are doomed" at all. Just something to overcome.
You're looking at someone (not literally looking at me but still) who is ALWAYS the Saturn person. I tend to attract third dean Aquarians. Their Sun conjunct my Saturn. Never fails. I'm not much of a negative nancy, but I know how it goes...being the Saturn person.
You have a lot of Saturn influence in your chart. Hopefully you bear it will. Good luck! đ
I have a strong Saturn too. I don't find myself that overbearing.
Posted by BsmurrayYou have a great chart :-)
Mine:
Sun- Aquarius
Moon- Virgo
Ascendant- Taurus
Mercury- Capricorn
Venus- Capricorn
Mars- Capricorn
Jupiter- Cancer
Saturn- Capricorn
Uranus- Capricorn
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio
Lilith- Scorpio
Ascendant Node- Aquarius
Hers:
Sun- Gemini
Moon- Taurus
Mercury- Taurus
Venus- Gemini
Mars- Cancer
Jupiter- Gemini
Saturn- Capricorn
Uranus- Capricorn
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio
Lilith- Libra
Ascendant Node- Aquarius
Ascendant- Libra
Any other pertinent information just let me know and I'll post it. Thanks. We've been together going on year three now, and I've never had our charts interpreted before.
It's nice she has NN in Aquarius..both have NN in Aquarius. It means both are ultimately looking for similar things in life...will learn from similar things to develop and grow.. And what is even nicer is that you are Aquarius sun. She probably has a feeling(may even feel subconsciously) that you are the person who can do her a lot of good.. That will help her develop personally!
Your moons and suns are compatible.
Her mars to your mars and Venus is compatible.
Her Venus to your sun.. Your Venus to her moon.
It's a great synastry IMO. Best wishes! đ
Thanks everyone!
wow you both have a lot of Capricorn between you. to me, one personal planet is enough.
so much Capricorn means slow-mo-fo movements. how's the houses thing going? are you two lined up in houses??
so much Capricorn means slow-mo-fo movements. how's the houses thing going? are you two lined up in houses??
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