Deal Breakers (by the sign)

List your SUN sigh & list all the things you consider DEAL BREAKERS in terms of PERSONALITY TRAITS when it comes to relationships and/or friendships! It's interesting to see how different signs perceive the same things differently.

Sun sign: Aqua

Deal breakers in friendships:
1. Someone cussing me out and/or flipping out on me all b/c I didn't call them back (I understand the importance of being reliable & consistent BUT assuming I don't have a life is the WORST thing you can do)

2. Someone constantly criticizing my other friends or starting drama all b/c they want me all to themselves. (I don't expect for all my friends to get along/hang out BUT I do expect for them to all respect eachother. I can't handle selfish friends who want me all to themselves)

Deal breakers in relationships:
1. Someone whose too clingy/possessive (I don't mind being up under you BUT if me being under you 24-7 is the only way to reassure you that I'm here to stay in your life, it won't work! Hell, even dogs hate cages!)

2. Someone who has a history of serial cheating. (Yes, some people can change, BUT I'm not arrogant enough to believe that you'll magically change just b/c I showed up at your doorstep)

Friendships:

1. Taking advantage of me or another friend of mine.
2. Cheating with someone else's man or mine.

Relationships:
1. If he has no friends or no social life. A variation of this is if he has a lot of friends and no close friends.
2. Controlling behavior of any kind. I do not like even a hint of it.

Sun: Gemini

- Openness. If you're a close-minded, I drop ya off at your gates. I prefer to interact with those that are fluid and open to spontaneity, a more creative side to living...someone that can 'roll with the punches' per se.

- Trust. Everyone manipulates. It's kind of hard to paraphrase this subject, but my eyes cut through a lot of bullshit. I gauge whether or not you are trustworthy and categorize you in the friends or acquaintance dept.

- Love. People that can love others and don't work only for themselves. This goes for both friendships & relationships.

Same for both friends and relationships:

Taking me for granted
Not being straight with me
No sense of humor/sense of playfulness
Poor work ethic

sun sign:cap
friendship:
-Any form of self-destructive behaviour. If you wont care about yourself,who will you care about?
-A lack of morals. E.g flirting or cheating with a married man.
-emotionally manipulative.
-When someone likes gossiping. Cant trust them.
-dull personality. A predictable persn with no inner strength,not passionate about anything. No ambition,no courage.
-someone who views themselves as superior. I actually get disgusted.

Relationshps:
-when a guy just doesn't see the bigger picture of life. When he doesn't see beyond the present. Beyond the physical. When he just doesnt get it.
-if im dating a guy and i find out he 'used' to be a player. That just spells RUN FAST for me.
-being a flirt.
-being possessive. Not giving me space to be me.
-not listening to me.
-arrogance.
-no respect for others.
-a lack of morals
-a lack of compassion.

Posted by a muse a libra
Friendships:
2. Cheating with someone else's man or mine.

I 100% AGREE! I believe it's possible & totally OK to judge someone's character by how they treat OTHER people! Sometimes you don't have to wait for them to actually betray you personally. Sometimes, watching how they ruin/build trust with other people tells me all that I need to know. If I could see that someone is willing to betray their own friend's trust over some dick, trust me I WON'T wait around for her to try to get in bed with my man! I don't estimate slxts!