Most likely to be walked all over?

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by SeeingRed on Sunday, November 7, 2010 and has 26 replies.

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@SeeingRed
15 Years

Which sign do you all think would be the most likely candidate to be walked all over by people, either by friends or lovers. So, don't take into account acquaintances, boss, or strangers. I'm talking about which sign would be more prone to getting taken advantage of by their inner circle relationships.

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19 Years5,000+ Posts

pisces, libra, virgo.. all of them.

for the signs who are afraid to show weakness.. they get walked over but suck it up..

on a side note, those who manipulate are the easiest to manipulate..

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Posted by ellessque
any sun sign with a lot of libra in their chart.

You'd be surprised.. Libra stelliums aren't pushovers. But they aren't bossy, pushy or manipulative either..
Those with Libra strive for perfection and are kind souls.. but walked all over? Nah, anyone like that in my life and they won't even get my friendship.

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@SeeingRed
15 Years

Libra is a surprising response... I've never thought of them as push-overs at all. You guys give a lot to those you love and care for but it's all calculated. Even if you give more than you get in return-- you still get the return you anticipated from the get go. ::shrug::

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@U`C`ME
18 Years500+ Posts

I have never been walked over, PROUD LIBRA!!!!!!!! Maybe you walk over people with low self-esteem. & if you do walk over people then what does that say about you?!

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LIBRA...It's not that their push-overs. It's moreso that it takes them a longer time than usual to finally start putting their OWN needs 1st again vs. always thinking of the other person 1st. They are servers & can't stand to be hated, which is why they'll sometimes give in or continue allowing others to take advantage of them; they figure that it's worth it as long as the other person doesn't hate them or doesn't abandon them. Eventually, they always end up getting with the program & being true to themselves, but it can sometimes take a LONNNG time before they start realizing, "WAIT A MIN! I deserve better!"

PISCES...Sometimes they get so caught up in & involved in the role as someone's companion, best friend, etc. Sometimes they are more in love with the concept of love moreso than the actual person & their loyalty to the concept of love sometimes prevents them from being able to clearly see that the actual person they are with isn't right for them. If they can still keep the title or the relationship with someone, they may feel like crap inside b/c they know they're settling, BUT in their minds, they'll rationalize that hey, atleast they still have someone, even if that person isn't worth a shxt

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15 Years

Posted by TasteOfChaos
Posted by SeeingRed
Libra is a surprising response... I've never thought of them as push-overs at all. You guys give a lot to those you love and care for but it's all calculated. Even if you give more than you get in return-- you still get the return you anticipated from the get go. ::shrug::

You only see it that way because you probably walk all over Libras...

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ToC. I don't think I do. The ones I have gotten close to usually know where they're at with me. And the relationship is 50/50. If at any time the Libra has to give more than I can give on a certain thing; I would most definitely give as much as they gave me or even more without much in return.

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@LibraSid
16 Years1,000+ PostsLibra

Only talking about "inner circle" people, yeah I can be taken advantage of. Very few people get to that inner circle but once there I'd do anything for them and never "keep score". I have been burned before and it may happen again but these close friendships/relationships are worth the risk. If/when it happens you just remove that person from your life and move on.

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@zjv
15 YearsLibra

Posted by LibraSid
Only talking about "inner circle" people, yeah I can be taken advantage of. Very few people get to that inner circle but once there I'd do anything for them and never "keep score". I have been burned before and it may happen again but these close friendships/relationships are worth the risk. If/when it happens you just remove that person from your life and move on.

^ Word. ^

IMO it's a toss up between cappys and aquas, to my experiences at least.

Also Gems seem to be an even split between one extreme or another with very little gray area. I know several gems. Some show not even the most remote sign of a backbone... where as others are so aggressive and self-assured, it's comical.

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@zjv
15 YearsLibra

I feel like it's a drastic split with Libras too. True, lots of Libras are seriously a step away from being welcome mat in front of a door... Then there's the other Libs, myself included, who are fast to serve up a spanking for those who unjustly tread. The latter may be attributed to cause and effect or a learned behavior.

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@Scubafish
15 Years500+ Posts

Hell yes on Libra.

Sheesh, what a strange group the males are.

Never before have I seen such a disgusting sychophant until I started working next to this one Libra guy.

He was SICK.

My asshole leo boss shaved his head, so what did Libra bootlick do? Shave his head too, of course.

Then the loser would kiss the boss' ass every single moment of every day.

Erstwhile, I would continuously say "I disagree" to just about everything the imbecile Leo did to our section.

I could go on and on about these two sordid losers, but I needn't bother based on the consensus of this board.

Bottom line is that Libra males are really horrific to work with if the boss is a total asshole.

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@playswitfire83
16 YearsLibra

Lol...so many votes for Libras! I'm soooo f**kin embarassed. But I agree with a couple of the post. I think we can be alittle too mellow sometimes and later many of us have to learn the hard way. The generic descriptions of libras is better fitted for the younger libra. I have noticed that the older we get the shorter our tolerance gets. Many that I know that have hit quarter life crisis and older are fiesty as hell...guess they got tired of people "walking all over them!" Lol