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Do Capricorns guys just go M.I.A?! Why?
Posted by Gobshite
Whenever I go MIA, which is rare, it's because I need some time-out. And, more often than not, it's usually because the woman has said or done something to either annoy me or cast some doubts on the relationship.
I can't speak for other Cappies but, if I go MIA, it's usually for a good reason and not because I can.
Really?! Hmm, okay. As long as he comes back to at least let me know the verdict! Does that happen? I mean, when you guys are done processing or whatever it is that happens? lol I've never been with a Capricorn before nor have I been kinda blind-sighted like this. I thought he was really comfortable - more than comfortable - sharing his feelings with me. Thanks so much for your insight btw! Oh & Sag Venus with Gemini moon, that makes them flighty or something? Just curious about your thoughts. 🙂
Posted by DonnaElvira77
Cappie guys generally say what they mean. They don't overstate their feelings. So with everything he has told you I would say he is really into you. Just being thoughtless or busy right now is my guess.
Just tell him it's affecting you and you are not enjoying waiting around etc. He is maybe just having a bit of a bad boyfriend week because of stuff. If there is not a turn around soon then yeah chew him out and something is up.
But definitely talk it out with him.
Definitely what I'm hopings happening. Sucks to get so attached to someone & they just pull away. Thank you! I'll definitely be calm while discussing this... Well try to be when he gets back to me. lol *crosses fingers* & great suggestion! I would have made a FB of my own but I was thinking that may be too radical, just to talk to him... I don't know. I don't want him to know I'm AS annoyed or bothered as I am by now hearing from him. Lol playing it cool may be my down fall but he doesn't seem too concerned right now.
Posted by GobshiteHEY! Cap sun and merc, gem moon and sag venus is the friggin epitome of perfect. Whatcha talkin about?😉
Gemini moon and Sagittarius Venus... Do some reading up on these placements.
Personally, I would avoid any woman with them...
@OP
Cap sun and merc, gem moon and sag venus, here.
I can go M.I.A, but if I'm truly into you, there is no way in hell I would not contact you for a week without a previous heads-up. I would probably not contact you often(maybe even just once) when on such a trip, but you would definitely get a hi and him not having a phone is really no excuse as I'm pretty sure there are other phones where he is that he could use once for at least a text.
I can get bored in a flash and can feel smothered and it's possible that he just wanted some space without you, but I still think a text would be appropriate. Also, if I'm not deeply in love, a person could easily go "out of sight out of mind". Sorry if I scare you - just being honest.
But, that being said, telling someone that I love them without it being true is really nowhere on the map for me. I have never in my life stopped loving someone. It may have gone from lovers to friends, but I still love them. I would not have told you that fast, though(mars in aries?)
What I have said is ofc just how I function, but we're different people, so who knows, really. And I'm a girl, btw.
Good luck to you! Hope you work it out.🙂
Posted by DonnaElvira77Placing myself in his position, I can tell you that honesty is way up my list. But I would probably not react well to be put against a wall with all this unless I'm committed and really in love. The red flag I'm seeing is his huge words about love and kids and marriage after a couple of months of knowing each other. Fall in love fast - fall out of love fast. I'd probably be careful with this one. Again, sorry - just being honest.Posted by raebe2009Be totally open and honest with him about how it's making you feel. Be honest or he is not going to know. Tell him your feelings.Posted by DonnaElvira77
Cappie guys generally say what they mean. They don't overstate their feelings. So with everything he has told you I would say he is really into you. Just being thoughtless or busy right now is my guess.
Just tell him it's affecting you and you are not enjoying waiting around etc. He is maybe just having a bit of a bad boyfriend week because of stuff. If there is not a turn around soon then yeah chew him out and something is up.
But definitely talk it out with him.
Definitely what I'm hopings happening. Sucks to get so attached to someone & they just pull away. Thank you! I'll definitely be calm while discussing this... Well try to be when he gets back to me. lol *crosses fingers* & great suggestion! I would have made a FB of my own but I was thinking that may be too radical, just to talk to him... I don't know. I don't want him to know I'm AS annoyed or bothered as I am by now hearing from him. Lol playing it cool may be my down fall but he doesn't seem too concerned right now.
I hope it all works out.click to expand
Posted by HappyCapperPlacing myself in his position, I can tell you that honesty is way up my list. But I would probably not react well to be put against a wall with all this unless I'm committed and really in love. The red flag I'm seeing is his huge words about love and kids and marriage after a couple of months of knowing each other. Fall in love fast - fall out of love fast. I'd probably be careful with this one. Again, sorry - just being honest.No, you're so right! I appreciate your honesty! I've considered this... while being neglected lol... You're kinda forced to analyze & over analyze some more. Maybe I'm seeing everything through rose colored glasses, he really does bring out my dreamy side - with the talks of the future & all. The thing that throws me is how much I feel I can trust him, I've never felt this for anyone - not this soon. So for him to pull away is a bit devastating & a little red flag in itself. Depending on his explanation & how he handles this whole thing, will further tell me all I need to know. Definitely proceeding with caution! Lol Noted.click to expand
May I ask, how many times have you met`in person?
Posted by raebe2009From this, I am going to assume you've been blast-posting this same query on multiple forums. Specifically yahoo answers.
I'm a Scorpio (sun, Mercury, Venus & Gemini moon/Mars, Sagittarius rising) who's confused over a Capricorn (sun/Mercury, Gemini moon & Sagittarius Venus, Aries Mars & Pisces Rising).
Gonna try to keep this short & sweet. We met in the middle of October. Everything for us seemed to click, instantly! Though we are states away, the distance is kind of ideal for both of us right now.
Anyway, feelings developed very fast! We talked every (to every other) day since we've met, never running out things to say or do with each other or NEEDING to run & hide for space or to recharge. Very rare for us both to do, which we talk about all time lol. He's very spiritual, sarcastic, charming, sexy, ugh... FUN! I can go on forever. He very quickly turned into someone I would consider to be one of my very BEST friends! His honesty helped me learn to trust him. I never have to really guess what he's feeling, thinking or doing. He tells me without me having to ask anything and I absolutely LOVE that! He's passed my tests with flying colors... And I'm assuming I've passed his or some of them? He's recently given me his credit card to purchase really cute shoes I wanted online. I mean, I think that counts for SOMETHING with a Capricorn! lol But more importantly, he told me he was falling for me... Then finally, end of November, just told me flat out that he loves me. I'm falling for him too. I mean, I can really see myself with him! We've written letters to each other, poems, sexy skype dates, all that good mushy stuff...
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Is this normal Cap behavior?
If you don't believe in astrology or have some negative shit to say, please go away! lol I'm not in the mood.
But in answer to your question - yes. IME, this is normal behavior.
Posted by HappyCapperOnly 3... I'm a little ashamed to say. I know it isn't many... I wanted him to fly down for Christmas, not sure that's gonna happen now. 😢
May I ask, how many times have you met`in person?
Posted by Andalusia😏 why, yes... I cannot stop laughing because I am guilty! LOL but thank you so much. Can you tell me how long it took them to get back to you? Just curious.
From this, I am going to assume you've been blast-posting this same query on multiple forums. Specifically yahoo answers.
But in answer to your question - yes. IME, this is normal behavior.click to expand
Oh shit, icing on the cake. YOU have only met 3 times I'm dealing with someone and I don't want to go into to much dept but I have been having different thoughts whether or not I would go further. LOVE is not a priority for male CAPS.I am 24 not to old kinda young. I really don't need to be in a relationship like most male caps. My position in the world and success it what drives me innately. I honestly don't even care about family. I'm just super independent and all Caps arem . He might have meant what he said but people change their minds you haven't known each other well and YOU LIVE IN DIFFERENT STATES!!!! Let's use logic here.
Lot's of typos sorry
I do feel bad for you if you expected something more especially the whole Christmas thing. Honestly you don't even need to use astrology read my main post. Use logic think logically not all the blah blah. You are long distance and only met 3 times shot happens it's 2015. Their are just too many options. That's why I don't sweat relationships.
Posted by raebe2009You don't have to inform us if you don't want to, ofc, but did you sleep with him? I'm sure you know where I'm going with this...Posted by HappyCapperOnly 3... I'm a little ashamed to say. I know it isn't many... I wanted him to fly down for Christmas, not sure that's gonna happen now. 😢
May I ask, how many times have you met`in person?click to expand
But, then again, I may be wrong about him! Talk to him when he contacts you, but I'd personally suggest a non accusative approach at first - get him to talk - just nudge until he hooks. Again, I may be wrong, and you know him so much better than I do, so just do what your guts tells you to do. 🙂
So, what does your guts tell you to do?
Same this chick wants to be in a relationship with me. Doesn't know me well...we had sex earlier than I expected or wanted now there is even a slimmer chance of us being together. She's an hour and a half away but I have better options if wanted. Is ma also a Cap. Similar situation that is why the sex thing is important. Sex can't keep a man especially early.
Yeah but even I have not went MIA I would have contacted her at least
Donna Elivra is spot on case closed
3 times is not enough. The thing is I don't know either of them bit this guy has money. He gave her his credit card. O would be hard for me to even give my wife my credit card or Facebook. Here is the kicker I assume this guy is older around 30 or more and he is established financially. I like to buy things for the sign I can't other. When I do it means something BC I'm a struggling college graduate. This guy has REAL MONEY. When you have money. Money is no item. It was Tiger Woods (Cap) he said I felt "entitled" tobspeep with those women. I don't agree with that but I understand his position. I feel like we are burying the Cappy but we don't know much about him.It all goes back to you all don't know each other either. And that is the cold truth.
Posted by DonnaElvira77Well yeah, thank Gawd I didn't sleep with him. lol We're extremely sexual though & our chemistry is out of this world but we've agreed to wait until he's here permanently and have gotten to truly know each other better (that & religious beliefs). He has family that lives here also, that he visits... He's very much into family, I love that! He's even met some of mine. I know it may seem extremely fast to others but I honestly feel as if we've met before! We're really comfortable together, when we are together. All the more reason why him not calling bothers me. I may decide to reach out this weekend via FB, if he doesn't contact me & just leave it at that. Pretty sure he'll contact me at some point, even if it's to let me know he's changed his mind.Posted by frostey91That's cuz you're a gent...😉
Yeah but even I have not went MIA I would have contacted her at least
I would still just tel him how you feel totally honestly and see if his behavior alters. If it doesn't then you move on. But there is really no point in speculating. That's all you can do just tell him. If you still get avoidance just end it. Long distance is a nightmare.
You are not going to know unless you tell him etc. If you can't get hold of him. That's the answer and he isn't worth worrying about.click to expand
It would... Facebook password.... Significant... To sleep lol
Stupid Android
Stupid Android
Posted by frostey91LOL This really made me laugh! Well I'm 25, he's 28. He'll be 29 January 11th. He does work but he isn't rich but he is well off. He doesn't really use his FB, unless it's business related, which surprised me he wanted me to have his password. He said "here, I don't want any excuses or anything about you not fully trusting me".. I thought it was so cute & thoughtful. I think he knows I can be kind of suspicious. Lol and every time I show the slightest bit of hesitation or skepticism, he does something to put my mind at ease. I've never had that before, without giving a little help or suggesting...
3 times is not enough. The thing is I don't know either of them bit this guy has money. He gave her his credit card. O would be hard for me to even give my wife my credit card or Facebook. Here is the kicker I assume this guy is older around 30 or more and he is established financially. I like to buy things for the sign I can't other. When I do it means something BC I'm a struggling college graduate. This guy has REAL MONEY. When you have money. Money is no item. It was Tiger Woods (Cap) he said I felt "entitled" tobspeep with those women. I don't agree with that but I understand his position. I feel like we are burying the Cappy but we don't know much about him.It all goes back to you all don't know each other either. And that is the cold truth.
Posted by frostey91You don't know if he has money - maybe he just wanted to make that impression. There may have been 100 dollars on that account. And tbh, one of my tricks of testing if a guy is trustworthy is to lend them money...then let's see how they handle that. The loss of cash is totally worth it to know early on if they are trustworthy or not...well at least in that specific case.
3 times is not enough. The thing is I don't know either of them bit this guy has money. He gave her his credit card. O would be hard for me to even give my wife my credit card or Facebook. Here is the kicker I assume this guy is older around 30 or more and he is established financially. I like to buy things for the sign I can't other. When I do it means something BC I'm a struggling college graduate. This guy has REAL MONEY. When you have money. Money is no item. It was Tiger Woods (Cap) he said I felt "entitled" tobspeep with those women. I don't agree with that but I understand his position. I feel like we are burying the Cappy but we don't know much about him.It all goes back to you all don't know each other either. And that is the cold truth.
Ouch, I sound really paranoid in this thread.
I mentioned that we didn't know much about him in the same paragraph you quoted. I always hedge my bets. I said he is probably 30 or older. Look he's going to be 29 in a month. Hedged my bets and still mostly right. The more the original poster puts the more hope I believe there is. The key thing, he said is about trust. I feel like you can't like about wanting to have a significant other trust you. If he is lying about that and is really MIA he is a douche.
What do you mean lend them money like them asking you for money? Is that a common thing for you?
Posted by HappyCapperYou don't know if he has money - maybe he just wanted to make that impression. There may have been 100 dollars on that account. And tbh, one of my tricks of testing if a guy is trustworthy is to lend them money...then let's see how they handle that. The loss of cash is totally worth it to know early on if they are trustworthy or not...well at least in that specific case.LOL I don't think so! That makes complete sense. And that's actually something I've done, though not intentionally to test... That's part of the reason why I feel I can trust him so much. We've loaned each other money before & he's paid me back, plus interest.
Ouch, I sound really paranoid in this thread.click to expand
Posted by frostey91I don't volonteer out of the blue, but if they tell me of some financial short commings(oh no, I left my wallet at home, or whatever), I may just ask them if they want to borrow some. Not huge sums ofc and nothing I can't afford, but just a little. The sum I would allow may also depend on how important the person is to me.
What do you mean lend them money like them asking you for money? Is that a common thing for you?
Posted by raebe2009Posted by HappyCapperGood boy! 🙂You don't know if he has money - maybe he just wanted to make that impression. There may have been 100 dollars on that account. And tbh, one of my tricks of testing if a guy is trustworthy is to lend them money...then let's see how they handle that. The loss of cash is totally worth it to know early on if they are trustworthy or not...well at least in that specific case.LOL I don't think so! That makes complete sense. And that's actually something I've done, though not intentionally to test... That's part of the reason why I feel I can trust him so much. We've loaned each other money before & he's paid me back, plus interest.
Ouch, I sound really paranoid in this thread.click to expand
Posted by littlemegabyteOh, man! 😢
I was involved with a cap for about a year who had cap sun and Gemini moon and my answer is a thousand times YES he disappeared a lot. I agree with the other caps saying that if they really care, then they wouldn't disappear though.
How long would he disappear for, if you don't mind me asking? Ugh, what a learning experience! I truly hope he isn't toying with my heart.
O fuck the key... It' s the Gem Moon not the Cap energy. Think about it Gem energy is about communication and the ability to move and have freedom similar to Aquarius. I have Gem in 7th house and I attract Gem people who don't want to settle down. I have really never had a relationship, it always stops early.
2 points:
1. Fuck yes I'm glad some one else is shocked a Cap would give someone access to their Facrbook , even one they don't really use. So early too omg.
2. Cap will respond if you text him even if you beg he will respond. You might not get together but he will tell the truth.
I'm a little different Cap with Virgo Moon and Sag Mercury all that combines into truth telling. You never know what his Gem or Pisces energy will do though.
1. Fuck yes I'm glad some one else is shocked a Cap would give someone access to their Facrbook , even one they don't really use. So early too omg.
2. Cap will respond if you text him even if you beg he will respond. You might not get together but he will tell the truth.
I'm a little different Cap with Virgo Moon and Sag Mercury all that combines into truth telling. You never know what his Gem or Pisces energy will do though.
Posted by littlemegabyteWell I'm glad someone feels my pain! 😭 LOL it really shouldn't be that hard to text me!!! I'm trying SO hard not to message his sister via FB like a psycho Scorpio gf. Or posting a really cheesy pic on his wall that says "missing you!" Talking about it really helps me off of that crazy ledge. LOL 😏
I just read all the comments. I'm fairly certain that he does care about you. Interested to see his excuse for not texting you back once 😛
Seriously ! What is up with these guys?
"Hey I got a new phone, I'm here with my family, going to be really busy the next few days/weeks/whatever. Just checking in and hope you're doing well!"
Like how fucking hard is that for a person 😆
Btw- my own personal experiences are like, begging you, to not text him like a psycho (eventually you might want to stoop so low), but don't do it! Cappy won't like it 😛 trust me 😄
I'm hoping this will be the first & last time! and you've endured months?! Idk if I could ever do that! lol I'm going mad after a week! And it's funny everyone's so shocked abt the FB thing... I think he may have been just as shocked. He's never done that before, well so he says. Idk but thank you so much for the tip! lol noted.
Posted by frostey91Well I was a little shocked too. Lol and I wish I could text him.. I'd feel a whole lot better. That's really my whole dilemma! He hasn't given me his new number. 😢
2 points:
1. Fuck yes I'm glad some one else is shocked a Cap would give someone access to their Facrbook , even one they don't really use. So early too omg.
2. Cap will respond if you text him even if you beg he will respond. You might not get together but he will tell the truth.
I'm a little different Cap with Virgo Moon and Sag Mercury all that combines into truth telling. You never know what his Gem or Pisces energy will do though.
Sounds more like he's emotionally immature to me. These people are always lovey dovey for a while and then when shit gets too much for them and they can't handle it anymore they run away.
Anyway, it doesn't really matter. He will keep doing that shit and the real question is: can you handle it? Do you love him enough to accept that he does this? He deserves to be loved like anyone else, but can you? You can't change his behaviour, only he can (if ever). If you think he cares about you call him out on it and maybe he'll realize what he's doing. Be prepared for him to not accept it and getting angry at you though.
Anyway, it doesn't really matter. He will keep doing that shit and the real question is: can you handle it? Do you love him enough to accept that he does this? He deserves to be loved like anyone else, but can you? You can't change his behaviour, only he can (if ever). If you think he cares about you call him out on it and maybe he'll realize what he's doing. Be prepared for him to not accept it and getting angry at you though.
For the record, I must say I also was pretty darn surprised at him giving you his FB password. I wouldn't give mine to my best friend whom I really trust and whom I've known for over twenty years. The reason why I didn't say that before is that you might have asked me the reason why I thought he did give it to you anyway and I had already sounded pretty darn paranoid in this thread and afraid that I was overdoing it. But now that others have mentioned it, I'll inform you that I have two aquaintences who are super players and they do that when they want to hook someone they feel they could play for a while. And they can, because they have several FB accounts... Again, I'm sorry.
This may not apply to your cap, but...just saying. Very convenient he hasn't given you his new number yet either. Don't count on hearing from him again.
Again, I hope I'm wrong!
This may not apply to your cap, but...just saying. Very convenient he hasn't given you his new number yet either. Don't count on hearing from him again.
Again, I hope I'm wrong!
Posted by VirtualInsanityVery interesting! Same exact thing my mother keeps telling me. She's met him & she warned me of his emotional immaturity... Come to think of it, she also mentioned his ability to kind of be unavailable, even when around me. I figured she just didn't like that he's usually on business calls. But I didn't mind stuff like that too much because he really makes up for it in affection.
Sounds more like he's emotionally immature to me. These people are always lovey dovey for a while and then when shit gets too much for them and they can't handle it anymore they run away.
Anyway, it doesn't really matter. He will keep doing that shit and the real question is: can you handle it? Do you love him enough to accept that he does this? He deserves to be loved like anyone else, but can you? You can't change his behaviour, only he can (if ever). If you think he cares about you call him out on it and maybe he'll realize what he's doing. Be prepared for him to not accept it and getting angry at you though.
Tough to hear but you're right. It's mainly about me & if this is something I want to put up with or not. Gosh, I dunno. I do care about him but if someone's showing me signs so early that they may not be on the same page, it's really a gamble. If the opportunity FINALLY arises (still hoping it does), I'm definitely calling him out on it, no matter the outcome. Thanks so much for responding! 🙂
Posted by DonnaElvira77Posted by raebe2009It's only been a week but still... Yeah. He could have contacted me by now. I guess it is pretty clear... Though I am still hoping for the best or at least closure? An explanation? I dunno. Just really curious what he has to say... I hate being left in the dark because then my Scorpio obsessive tendencies completely takes over lol and I have to know WHY! But then my Gemini parts reminds me it ain't that serious... Then I'm all over the place with anxiety. I just hope I didn't do anything to hurt, confuse, annoy him or something! Ugh, I just like to KNOW, dammit! 😭 LOLThat's not a good sign..it's like he is planned that conveniently...hmm how long has he had the new no..
Well I was a little shocked too. Lol and I wish I could text him.. I'd feel a whole lot better. That's really my whole dilemma! He hasn't given me his new number. 😢
Yeah that is not a good sign..very very odd to be honest. If he pulls away all ways of contacting you that is a pretty clear sign..
I dunno but no one here has the answers.
You do what you think you know him.click to expand
Posted by HappyCapperYou know I've thought abt this!!! I mean, having nothing better to do than obsess over him... lol all kind of possibilities have run through my mind. I can be very paranoid myself. I've definitely done some investigation. He's had his FB for a few years. Even though he uses it mainly for business, like damn near all of his family's' on here. His parents, sisters, aunts... Etc. And he's tagged in a lot of posts! Actually that's the only way I was able to see him while he's been away with family. I mean, of course he hasn't accepted/approved them all on his page for the whole world to see... lol but yeah, his FB really checks out to be legit. Now, he may very well have a few others... Can't rule that out completely because he certainly surprised me with this whole "disappearing act". So, who knows? Everything's up in the air.
For the record, I must say I also was pretty darn surprised at him giving you his FB password. I wouldn't give mine to my best friend whom I really trust and whom I've known for over twenty years. The reason why I didn't say that before is that you might have asked me the reason why I thought he did give it to you anyway and I had already sounded pretty darn paranoid in this thread and afraid that I was overdoing it. But now that others have mentioned it, I'll inform you that I have two aquaintences who are super players and they do that when they want to hook someone they feel they could play for a while. And they can, because they have several FB accounts... Again, I'm sorry.
This may not apply to your cap, but...just saying. Very convenient he hasn't given you his new number yet either. Don't count on hearing from him again.
Again, I hope I'm wrong!
I dunno, the more time passes, the less anxious I am and the less I expect, so... I guess that's a good thing. How life works, I'll hear from him when he's nowhere on my mind! lol
@OP
"I dunno, the more time passes, the less anxious I am and the less I expect, so... I guess that's a good thing. How life works, I'll hear from him when he's nowhere on my mind! lol"
That's great! If he contacts you...and in a good way, that's a nice surprise, right?
Super good luck! I really hope he's the real deal and that it works out for the two of you! 🙂
"I dunno, the more time passes, the less anxious I am and the less I expect, so... I guess that's a good thing. How life works, I'll hear from him when he's nowhere on my mind! lol"
That's great! If he contacts you...and in a good way, that's a nice surprise, right?
Super good luck! I really hope he's the real deal and that it works out for the two of you! 🙂
If you want to be sure about the facebook thing just reverse image search his pictures and see where they pop up.
Posted by HappyCapperThank you so much!!! 🙂 😄
@OP
"I dunno, the more time passes, the less anxious I am and the less I expect, so... I guess that's a good thing. How life works, I'll hear from him when he's nowhere on my mind! lol"
That's great! If he contacts you...and in a good way, that's a nice surprise, right?
Super good luck! I really hope he's the real deal and that it works out for the two of you! 🙂
Posted by TigerCap
If you want to be sure about the facebook thing just reverse image search his pictures and see where they pop up.
LOL great idea! Similar to what they do on catfish? Thanks!
Posted by raebe2009My Cap handed me his cell phone after like 3 weeks and said if I wanted to go through it I could after some dating app alert popped up and I teased him about it (I didn't care cus I still had a dating app on my phone too), but I was like "woah that's bold of him!"Posted by frostey91Well I was a little shocked too. Lol and I wish I could text him.. I'd feel a whole lot better. That's really my whole dilemma! He hasn't given me his new number. 😢
2 points:
1. Fuck yes I'm glad some one else is shocked a Cap would give someone access to their Facrbook , even one they don't really use. So early too omg.
2. Cap will respond if you text him even if you beg he will respond. You might not get together but he will tell the truth.
I'm a little different Cap with Virgo Moon and Sag Mercury all that combines into truth telling. You never know what his Gem or Pisces energy will do though.click to expand
I of course didn't care to look through his phone, but I was totally smiling inside.
Posted by ashley1734My Cap handed me his cell phone after like 3 weeks and said if I wanted to go through it I could after some dating app alert popped up and I teased him about it (I didn't care cus I still had a dating app on my phone too), but I was like "woah that's bold of him!"Sounds a lot like me! Lol I don't care for all the snoopage but the fact that I could if I WANTED is so freaking schweeeeet! 😄
I of course didn't care to look through his phone, but I was totally smiling inside.click to expand
I think people are a lil jelly their Cappys weren't as open! jk 😛 LOL I'm in a better mood, now that I've heard from him!
Yep! Finally heard from him. Well, actually his mom called. He's in the hospital with food poisoning. My poor baby! 😢
Her & I had a nice long chat about him, family and the holidays... She's super sweet! So I'm happy I'm better acquainted & that we're okay! All is right with the world! 😄 Yay!!!
Her & I had a nice long chat about him, family and the holidays... She's super sweet! So I'm happy I'm better acquainted & that we're okay! All is right with the world! 😄 Yay!!!
Great to hear! So happy for you! 🙂
*Ehrm...not great about the food poisoning, ofc, just that you're in contact again.
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Do caps chase when you don't respond to them much or avoid them, I've noticed that. That if you don't spend enough time with them & you're out doing your own thing that's when they want to give you attention. But when you want to give them attention, they
Its been almost one year to my breakup and still now I can't just simply kick that person out of my mind . He is on my mind 24/7. Let me know what you caps do to deal with these kinda situations and do you think rebound relationships work for that ? I
I'm curious to see some new faces around here. So I've decided do something to encourage you all to post a bit more. In this thread, introduce yourself and share something about yourself. Like a hobby you enjoy, favorite genre of books, music, movies..
I'm an Aquarius who is head over heels for this Capricorn. I've had a crush on him for a long time. We ended up running into eachother at a concert and hung out for a while then he invited me back to his place which I gladly accepted. We hooked up and exc
☺ï¸ I never meet caps I mean never ! So a couple weeks ago there's this new guy at work. Totally chill laid back dry humor and we have esp I swear . Anyways today I find out he's a cap . I'm excited! Never had a cap friend before .yay
I read something that I believe applies: "Capricorn prefers to plan sexual encounters and then proceed according to plan. A seduction feels like cooperation, foreplay like a warm-up, and intercourse like work. It should take time, and it should have a
One of the biggest complaints I see about Caps is that we don't open up to people. People say that's the way to really get to know one another and they have a hard time getting to know us because we don't open up. Yes, we are definitely selective with who
Hello to all, thanks for taking the time to read. I'm strongly attracted to this Capricorn, but don't know if I should proceed. I believe I already may have pushed him away with my emotional and being bipolar and what not we started talking on face
So I met this Capricorn a week ago. He gave me his number the Friday so I messaged him the Saturday afternoon. Every thing seemed great lots of chat getting to know each other we have a few things in common which is good. We were speaking for the whole we
This is a pretty good article on cappy, especially the men. Capricorn Capricorn, like Virgo, gets a bad rap. Cap may not have the pizazz of a Gemini or the downright sultriness of a Scorpio.However, Cap is the real deal. Gemini can be here today and
We went for a drive yesterday. Cap says " i'm hungry". Stops at a bakkery. Asks what i want. I say " 2 croissants". He came back 10 minutes later with 3 pastries. I say " where are the croissants" He says " didn't ask for them", " those pastries did lo
I have a regular normal question: Why do I feel that Capricorn people are the most egoistic people ever? Or it just appears that they are egoistic but inside they are a sweetener? If you guys are really very very sweet, then why do you like to appear
Met a male cap in December went out twice in January & ever since then all he's done is make plans & cancel . I admit I might have come off a little too strong but stopped after I noticed. The last 3 times he asked to go out I said I was busy & maybe anot
Hey caps. I know it's a trait for us to be condescending at times, especially when we have tried other means to communicate with someone and they just aren't getting it. How do you guys feel about this? Do you try to prevent it? How do you go about avoidi
Ok so my Cap and I are obviously very different. He's the type that isn't emotional in day to day life. Ie. asking about my day, or how I am feeling etc. He'll do it once in a blue moon, but not often at all. Instead, he's all about doing practical things
Really sucks sometimes... always struggling and working hard while others breeze by or are just naturally lucky. ''
Gonna try to keep this short & sweet. We met in the middle of October. Everything for us seemed to click, instantly! Though we are states away, the distance is kind of ideal for both of us right now.
Anyway, feelings developed very fast! We talked every (to every other) day since we've met, never running out things to say or do with each other or NEEDING to run & hide for space or to recharge. Very rare for us both to do, which we talk about all time lol. He's very spiritual, sarcastic, charming, sexy, ugh... FUN! I can go on forever. He very quickly turned into someone I would consider to be one of my very BEST friends! His honesty helped me learn to trust him. I never have to really guess what he's feeling, thinking or doing. He tells me without me having to ask anything and I absolutely LOVE that! He's passed my tests with flying colors... And I'm assuming I've passed his or some of them? He's recently given me his credit card to purchase really cute shoes I wanted online. I mean, I think that counts for SOMETHING with a Capricorn! lol But more importantly, he told me he was falling for me... Then finally, end of November, just told me flat out that he loves me. I'm falling for him too. I mean, I can really see myself with him! We've written letters to each other, poems, sexy skype dates, all that good mushy stuff...
Fast forward, he's told me he's going to visit family for the holidays or whatever & that he's been having trouble with his cellphone (which I know to be true), he's getting another one, so he'll call me soon. Well, I haven't heard from him. It's been a week or so and I am going kind of mad! Mainly because I also have his Facebook password (which he gave me 2 weeks ago, I don't have a FB but he wanted me to have it? I dunno why but I thought it was cute lol) I go on there & I see him in family photos with a new cellphone in his hand, just having a good ol' time! I feel like he could've at least texted me, you know? I feel like he's put me on the back burner. If he needed "space", we're pretty open and free with each other for him to just tell me...
Since he's been away though, I received another letter from him, talking about building a future, kids, love, marriage, all this stuff - which is all great & a bit surprising but if you can't even text me that you're okay? How does that match?! Like... I have no way of contacting him! I have to wait like a sitting duck & it's maddening! I know I should have patience & I do... I'm just a little confused.
Is this normal Cap behavior?
If you don't believe in astrology or have some negative shit to say, please go away! lol I'm not in the mood.