Do virgo men come back?

been talking to a venus in Virgo man for 6 months, and its been intense.

im in love with him and so he is (told me so).

yet want us to be friends because we live 8 hours drive apart

i"ts unrealistic for it to work out" he used those same exact words, even though i can afford to fly and see him or fly him to many as much as we like.

he says, he doesnt want to take the risk of being with me and we both end up hurting eachother and losing eachother.



anyways, i refuted to be friendzoned because i dont feel i was giving a fair try. (he didnt try, jumped to conclusion fast)

anyways, now his hurt because i told him i dont want to be his friend due to that reason and because its not the reason we met, (to me being friends is unrealistic lol)

now when i text him, i always get a reply in 10 hours which it annoying. so i stopped texting him and he hasnt contacted me.



will he come back and contact me? how the hell someone says he loves me and do this? wtf lol

Because he wants you by him all the time. Long distance sucks. I don't blame him. I couldn't do a ldr with Jed unless one of us have gone away temporarily and we'd be coming back sooner than later. But if we met on holiday 100s of miles away from both our homes, couldn't do it.

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will he come back and contact me? how the hell someone says he loves me and do this? wtf lol

Venus in virgos are always afraid of delusions and wasting time, he has figured out the entire relationship in his head and has come to a conclusion that it won't last. We know how to control our feelings and move with practicality, so no matter how much he loves you if he has decided, then nothing will happen in future. He may come back for sometime when he feels guilty but not for too long.

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Because he wants you by him all the time. Long distance sucks. I don't blame him. I couldn't do a ldr with Jed unless one of us have gone away temporarily and we'd be coming back sooner than later. But if we met on holiday 100s of miles away from both our homes, couldn't do it.

thanks for sharing this,

we met online. and drove half way to meet eachother here and there.

for 6 months.

i know his slow and cautious but i wanted at least reassurance and he didnt give it to me, he said even if we end up dating other people we will always stay in eachother lives and be amazing friends.

i told him to F himself and walked away...and now his feelings are hurt lol.

i give it two to three weeks till he contacts me after realizing he lost me

No and he is not in love with you. You need to gradually reconcile yourself to that.

The way you are talking I think you have half realized that too. The waiting for three weeks is the transitional period your subconscious knows you need for full acceptance.

This is not the one.

Unless i am totally wrong. But that is my read.

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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Because he wants you by him all the time. Long distance sucks. I don't blame him. I couldn't do a ldr with Jed unless one of us have gone away temporarily and we'd be coming back sooner than later. But if we met on holiday 100s of miles away from both our homes, couldn't do it.

thanks for sharing this,

we met online. and drove half way to meet eachother here and there.

for 6 months.

i know his slow and cautious but i wanted at least reassurance and he didnt give it to me, he said even if we end up dating other people we will always stay in eachother lives and be amazing friends.

i told him to F himself and walked away...and now his feelings are hurt lol.

i give it two to three weeks till he contacts me after realizing he lost me

telling him to go fuck himself was a bad move...bc he could have been having thoughts about atleast trying.

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Think about it ..if he wanted her ...he would tell her to go fuck herself ...rather than the distance. He didn't ..he was able to be friends.

He is not emotionally invested. He knows he won't be hurt.

Obv telling anyone to fuck themselves is not good ..it's better to be friends.

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Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShow
Because he wants you by him all the time. Long distance sucks. I don't blame him. I couldn't do a ldr with Jed unless one of us have gone away temporarily and we'd be coming back sooner than later. But if we met on holiday 100s of miles away from both our homes, couldn't do it.

thanks for sharing this,

we met online. and drove half way to meet eachother here and there.

for 6 months.

i know his slow and cautious but i wanted at least reassurance and he didnt give it to me, he said even if we end up dating other people we will always stay in eachother lives and be amazing friends.

i told him to F himself and walked away...and now his feelings are hurt lol.

i give it two to three weeks till he contacts me after realizing he lost me

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Ask him what he would do if you were willing to move?

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Because he wants you by him all the time. Long distance sucks. I don't blame him. I couldn't do a ldr with Jed unless one of us have gone away temporarily and we'd be coming back sooner than later. But if we met on holiday 100s of miles away from both our homes, couldn't do it.

thanks for sharing this,

we met online. and drove half way to meet eachother here and there.

for 6 months.

i know his slow and cautious but i wanted at least reassurance and he didnt give it to me, he said even if we end up dating other people we will always stay in eachother lives and be amazing friends.

i told him to F himself and walked away...and now his feelings are hurt lol.

i give it two to three weeks till he contacts me after realizing he lost me

Ask him what he would do if you were willing to move?

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i told him im willing to move, im willing to do anything for him and he knows it.

he told me his in love with me but is scared to try it out and us end up hurting eachother and losing eachother due to distance.

also we are both gay and his not out yet. his family is very religious and his scared of them.

i told him im willing to work with him no matter what, no presure. all i wanted is reinsurance of my investment (loyalty)

but rather giving me that even tho i was willing to do EVERYTHING he tried to friendzone me and keep me around, which i dont mind if he actually tried out the relationship first, but we didnt.

so it was an insult, i felt like i wasted 6 months of my life on him.

i know he loves me, or i wouldnt be wasting my time and just walked away... his puppy eyes, hurts red like a tomato when his around me. and all.

but he came into my life knowing where i lived and so did i....