Yes and they say it on your face... The point is you are not supposed to follow that if you keep changing according to them they loose interest.. if you stand your ground they will complain but at the end love you.
Saggs are always absorbed in many things at once.. I mean there is always something they are up to. Everyone has a different way of caring.... She may be caring in her own way ? Talk about it and DONT pin her down for anything.