Furious with Sag man

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by MissM on Tuesday, May 3, 2016 and has 9 replies.

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So I'm a Gemini and was casually seeing a sag. I realized I was getting feelings and it was obvious he didn't want anything more. He kept saying he was so busy at work didn't have time to see me ect. I said I thought we should be friends as I didn't want to become to emotionally involved. He drunk txtd me while I was drunk and hence weak came over we fooled around a bit then he tells blatantly I don't want to date you, I asked how many other ppl he had been sleeping with. He said a few ppl a month. He then left his stuff at my house. I txtd him the next day like the sooner you get your stuff the better. I'm pretty much over dealing with you.
He leaves his stuff at my house for 2 months!!! Txting me every second wknd like are you home.. Last min on a fri or sat night, no I have a life.
So he finally comes to get his stuff. Goes to me are you still angry at me, yes! Oh okay I'll leave. Then he goes I don't know why your so angry. Maybe because you've been stringing me on for months! Then I have a go at him how he's clearly full of it and isn't that busy if he's been sleeping with a few ppl a month. He then denies saying that. Leaves my house by going well should I txt you. I was like do whatever the f you want. He txts 2 mins later apologizing, he didn't mean to string me along, hurt my feelings whatever. He then sends me all these in his defence txts... Why bother... You don't want to date me so why do you care, just leave me alone!!!

Okay rant over!

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He then said stuff like I got the feeling you wanted something casual... Well sorry I don't show my feelings to a guy who keeps ditching me and is too busy to see me!
Ahh soo angry!!

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I understand the wanting freedom. I'm a Gemini with Aquarius moon. What I don't understand is how someone can be so slow and not understand why the other person is pissed off at them. Also he clearly left his stuff at my house hoping by the time he came to collect it I would no longer be pissed. I usually only stay angry for around 5mins...

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Posted by CocoKat
Im sorry for you it sounds awful, good thing he has his stuff back, you are free to move on to Bigger & Better!

Yes lucky, no longer have to deal with him. I was going to throw the stuff out he left it so long.

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This is the second sag I've dealt with. The first I was in a long term relo but they all seem to just want what they can't have. When you want them they run away. As soon as you are sick of them are their bs they quickly come running back!

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By the second sentence of yours "I was catching feelings and it was obvious he didnt want anything more" I knew the outcome.. why did you keep going if you knew he didnt want anything more? Really cant even be mad.