I don't like my descendant...

I mean, it's just a terrible match in my opinion. My descendant is Capricorn, and descendant predicts romance, right? But I was reading a thing about cap partners... I'm not that ambitious in terms of business, as long as it's fun and comfortable and ethical-- bad? but I'm ambitious in other things, like WHERE I LIVE AND HOW MUCH I TRAVEL. Let's just say bustling business hub cities are not my to-go places. Tropical paradises, nearby wildlife refuges, coral reefs...

Anyway, I don't think I'd be compatible with anyone who wanted me to move based on their business opportunities, and I'm a very relaxed person. They'd have to be some sort of environmentally conscious resort tycoon who splits the housework or something, I don't even know. If they asked me to sacrifice something important to me, I'd just break up with them or switch to LDR. Somebody please explain to me how this is a good match?? (Aquarius sun in 8th house, Aries moon in 10th house, Cancer rising, Venus in Pisces in the 10th house)

Posted by SagiScorp
My descendant is Taurus. I've never been attracted to them. Ever. Not even Taurus celebrities.

Now virgos/capricorns, that's a different story.

I'm a Cancer rising and I have yet to meet one Sun sign Taurus male or female. Trust me sometimes I do be like when's your birthday if I get interested in someone. So far. Nope no Taurus. Haha. I do meet my Capricorn people though in the mix with fire signs.

My descendant is Aquarius, I havent gotten along with one in years..

Im a cap descendant as well and while capricorns are wayyyy too uptight and business minded for me but I want a man thats capricorn-esque.

Strong, loyal, reliable, blah blah blah

Typical.

Posted by Algeiba
I mean, it's just a terrible match in my opinion. My descendant is Capricorn, and descendant predicts romance, right? But I was reading a thing about cap partners... I'm not that ambitious in terms of business, as long as it's fun and comfortable and ethical-- bad? but I'm ambitious in other things, like WHERE I LIVE AND HOW MUCH I TRAVEL. Let's just say bustling business hub cities are not my to-go places. Tropical paradises, nearby wildlife refuges, coral reefs...

Anyway, I don't think I'd be compatible with anyone who wanted me to move based on their business opportunities, and I'm a very relaxed person. They'd have to be some sort of environmentally conscious resort tycoon who splits the housework or something, I don't even know. If they asked me to sacrifice something important to me, I'd just break up with them or switch to LDR. Somebody please explain to me how this is a good match?? (Aquarius sun in 8th house, Aries moon in 10th house, Cancer rising, Venus in Pisces in the 10th house)

Maybe your Aries Moon and Pisces venus in the 10th? Although Capricorn rules the 10th house and Aries is a cardinal sign and should work with Cappie. Not all successful Cap men are going to make you move to places you don't want to go. Most achieve financial security and settle down right where there are or not far from, so you're getting ahead of yourself with worry here. This just conjecture. Nobody is forcing you to make a decision you don't feel comfortable with.

My descendant is Scorpio. I can live with this. Sometimes in my mind, I build the perfect Scorpio, sprinkling all the perfect placements in all the right places until I end up with someone that I could actually have a longterm relationship with.

What's typical?

Ah, and, true. But while I may not mind settling down... At some point or another, I can also see myself getting stir crazy? I think it would be fine with a successful cap because there's be enough travel money, though, come to think of it... Maybe a Capricorn with a lot of placements in Sagittarius and/or Libra?

So you sat there and read everyone's input and you decide to comment on the basic needs on must have in their blood. It's strong, loyalty, and reliable bit.

Are you posses those qualities ?

Oh. Uh, I'm not the one who wrote that.

Do you posses those qualities? Are there other qualities you have that differs. I do have Capricorn descendent btw.

I mean I have no idea if she means physically strong but I'm not (physically). I'll be loyal if I settle down (unless it's an open/poly relationship or something) since honesty is important to me. I can be reliable if I actually care about doing something, I guess, but not so much with obligatory stuff.

Also, I try to be verbally open with my emotions and deal with interpersonal issues quickly. I'm not sure if I even CAN let them simmer for very long in most cases. Mind you, that means I expect the same in other people as I believe it should be considered common courtesy, which can cause problems.

Posted by Algeiba
I mean I have no idea if she means physically strong but I'm not (physically). I'll be loyal if I settle down (unless it's an open/poly relationship or something) since honesty is important to me. I can be reliable if I actually care about doing something, I guess, but not so much with obligatory stuff.

Also, I try to be verbally open with my emotions and deal with interpersonal issues quickly. I'm not sure if I even CAN let them simmer for very long in most cases. Mind you, that means I expect the same in other people as I believe it should be considered common courtesy, which can cause problems.

Yeah honesty is good and it's appreciated by most people unfortunately there are ones who say things now and later it changes. I need someone who is capable of bending as well as I. It's not hard to ask for common courtesy it's also appreciated to a cap descendent.

What kind of problems have you endured the most?

My own personal.

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Posted by Algeiba
I mean I have no idea if she means physically strong but I'm not (physically). I'll be loyal if I settle down (unless it's an open/poly relationship or something) since honesty is important to me. I can be reliable if I actually care about doing something, I guess, but not so much with obligatory stuff.

Also, I try to be verbally open with my emotions and deal with interpersonal issues quickly. I'm not sure if I even CAN let them simmer for very long in most cases. Mind you, that means I expect the same in other people as I believe it should be considered common courtesy, which can cause problems.

Yeah honesty is good and it's appreciated by most people unfortunately there are ones who say things now and later it changes. I need someone who is capable of bending as well as I. It's not hard to ask for common courtesy it's also appreciated to a cap descendent.

What kind of problems have you endured the most?

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Death of father and a psycho violent sibling. More mundanely, lack of motivation and short term planning, which is a fancy way to say I procrastinate.

I just realized that this may not be what you meant.

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Posted by Algeiba
I mean I have no idea if she means physically strong but I'm not (physically). I'll be loyal if I settle down (unless it's an open/poly relationship or something) since honesty is important to me. I can be reliable if I actually care about doing something, I guess, but not so much with obligatory stuff.

Also, I try to be verbally open with my emotions and deal with interpersonal issues quickly. I'm not sure if I even CAN let them simmer for very long in most cases. Mind you, that means I expect the same in other people as I believe it should be considered common courtesy, which can cause problems.

Yeah honesty is good and it's appreciated by most people unfortunately there are ones who say things now and later it changes. I need someone who is capable of bending as well as I. It's not hard to ask for common courtesy it's also appreciated to a cap descendent.

What kind of problems have you endured the most?

Death of father and a psycho violent sibling. More mundanely, lack of motivation and short term planning, which is a fancy way to say I procrastinate.

I just realized that this may not be what you meant.

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I'm sorry you went through that, are able or capable of long term relationship potential? I mean when stuff grad tough you still work it out, or do you leave and not say anything either?

Any thing that stands out to you the most about a person and their qualities? Is there some deal breakers for you? What are they?

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Posted by Algeiba
I mean I have no idea if she means physically strong but I'm not (physically). I'll be loyal if I settle down (unless it's an open/poly relationship or something) since honesty is important to me. I can be reliable if I actually care about doing something, I guess, but not so much with obligatory stuff.

Also, I try to be verbally open with my emotions and deal with interpersonal issues quickly. I'm not sure if I even CAN let them simmer for very long in most cases. Mind you, that means I expect the same in other people as I believe it should be considered common courtesy, which can cause problems.

Yeah honesty is good and it's appreciated by most people unfortunately there are ones who say things now and later it changes. I need someone who is capable of bending as well as I. It's not hard to ask for common courtesy it's also appreciated to a cap descendent.

What kind of problems have you endured the most?

Death of father and a psycho violent sibling. More mundanely, lack of motivation and short term planning, which is a fancy way to say I procrastinate.

I just realized that this may not be what you meant.

I'm sorry you went through that, are able or capable of long term relationship potential? I mean when stuff grad tough you still work it out, or do you leave and not say anything either?

Any thing that stands out to you the most about a person and their qualities? Is there some deal breakers for you? What are they?

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Well, I've never been in a long term relationship because of reasons, but not because of that. I'd say yeah, as long as the person didn't take out their anger on me/act violent/make me feel like crap. Then I'd drop my partner like a hot coal. I WOULD probably dump someone who became stressful to be around for an extremely long period of time, though, especially if we hadn't been together for years.

Deal breakers:

Being an angry person in general

Dislike of animals or severe allergies to animals

Having or really wanting kids (I won't do it. Nope.)

Nicotine smoking indoors

Disagreement about what kind of place to live in, obviously

Homophobia

Posted by Algeiba
What's typical?

Ah, and, true. But while I may not mind settling down... At some point or another, I can also see myself getting stir crazy? I think it would be fine with a successful cap because there's be enough travel money, though, come to think of it... Maybe a Capricorn with a lot of placements in Sagittarius and/or Libra?

Ah, materialism wins in the end for the enterprising

Cardinal Sun!

I cannot imagine a better descendant than Capricorn! I cannot imagine any other sign as my descendant

Posted by Explicit
My descendant is Taurus. I'm definitely attracted to Taurus people. But could I imagine myself in a relationship with one? Never.



I thought about this the other day and it's like... There's just no way a Taurus could ever fulfill me in a love relationship. No matter how much I continue to change, no matter how much anxiety I get, no matter how anti-social I've become... I still crave the relationships and friendships I had with the people compatible to my Sun sign. I know I'm not the fun, exciting, crazy person I once was... But I still crave people like that around me. I need spontaneous people in my life, I need to be able to make eye contact with someone and just laugh at eachother or make crazy faces that no one around us understands or decide to get smashed at 3 in the morning when we have work the next day. I NEED that. I don't think a Taurus could ever give me that.

But would I want to seduce one? Fuck yes. Every fucking night.

Could be all the fire in your chart (:

But the way you say you want passion etc is also very Taurus desc type...

It's weird because I'd never imagine seducing a Capricorn 😱 ..my feelings towards them are not that type :p ..it's more like I want to grow old with one !!

Posted by hollyhock
I have Saturn in my 7th house which is supposed to make me gravitate towards Cap like men. I have never dated a Cap man (that I know of) and I hardly meet any Cap men either. I think I would like them but they don't give me the time of day.

I have leo on DSC and I have never dated a Leo man either, but I like men who have leo like qualities or leo placements like venus in leo. I like Leos in general, not sure if it is a love match though.

I ALWAYS have cancer men interested in me, or men with cancer moon, so maybe with the Saturn in 7th *I* am coming off as Capricorn like and therefore the Cancer men are attracted to me for that.

OP - do you have a lot of cancer people interested in you?

Again, I haven't dated a lot-- started later in life than most and haven't found anyone to go steady with yet. I also don't ask people's signs most of the time. HOWEVER, I can say that friendship-wise I tend to draw/be drawn to people who are somewhat motherly. I've also had some friends in the past encourage me to get stuff done quite a bit. I think the most universal thing with me for any relationship is that I become instantly turned off by anyone who I think gets angry too quickly, especially at me! I guess that's cancerian/libran behavior?