I don't quite understand...

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The whole "I'll never date/deal with/talk to" a person with (insert any of the 12 signs here)" mentality.

I mean it's like avoiding every Taurus cause Hilter was one.
Or since ONE sign acted like a spoiled brat, all of the ones sharing the same sign with them must pay the price for their behavior.

Now I can understand logic like:

I'm not looking to date water signs, since I'm not very emotional or emotive, so since they thrive off that, a relationship would likely be difficult and might not last.
OR
I can't date cardinal signs, since they're too restless and have a habit of being controlling one way or another.

While there are water suns that aren't emotionally expressive and dominant in relationships and Cardinals that don't boss anyone around, the general trend for their groups is stated above, so that's why they'll treat people falling into those categories like that.

It's still prejudiced, but honestly since humans are flawed, I'll let it slid. Since they would be stopping possibly great relationships and friends with people that happen to fall into the sign or mode the person doesn't like.

Can someone help me see this in any other ways?
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Posted by ellle
pretty much.

that and it's a lost cause.

you start talking a few layers deep, beyond the sun sign and some people can't absorb what you are saying nor are they that bothered to contribute.

so.....entertainment. *shrugs*
...is sad to the point my Pisces Venus want's to just leave an apology letter on every sign's board for all the sun-sign related bullshit they have to read on a daily basis.
Now THATS sad.
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It's humour.
Yeah...just cause it's funny to watch someone hate on sign so much that they live on their board, cause a sign they dated and broke up with, doesn't actually make much sense.
I honestly dgaf about other people's habits.
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Smart move. I only got interested when I noticed I couldn't see myself ever getting into that mindset.
It's like a mystery to me.
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Posted by busyeyes88
It's not just a sign .. It's the different energies of the signs !! For ex I could not date an aqua as a sun or a moon sign or a Venus in Aquarius . I don't and can't understand the energy! It's too cold an energy ?? !!! So I believe it can make sense to avoid certain signs! Air will not go well with the element of earth it becomes sand!!
Even if the Aqua Sun had a Cancer Rising and a Mars/Venus in Pisces?
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Posted by SirHorns
The whole "I'll never date/deal with/talk to" a person with (insert any of the 12 signs here)" mentality.

I mean it's like avoiding every Taurus cause Hilter was one.
Or since ONE sign acted like a spoiled brat, all of the ones sharing the same sign with them must pay the price for their behavior.

Now I can understand logic like:

I'm not looking to date water signs, since I'm not very emotional or emotive, so since they thrive off that, a relationship would likely be difficult and might not last.
OR
I can't date cardinal signs, since they're too restless and have a habit of being controlling one way or another.

While there are water suns that aren't emotionally expressive and dominant in relationships and Cardinals that don't boss anyone around, the general trend for their groups is stated above, so that's why they'll treat people falling into those categories like that.

It's still prejudiced, but honestly since humans are flawed, I'll let it slid. Since they would be stopping possibly great relationships and friends with people that happen to fall into the sign or mode the person doesn't like.

Can someone help me see this in any other ways?
It's hurt talking. I think that people seek easy solutions to complex problems. So, saying or relegating yourself to avoiding people with similar traits in general seems like a logical solution to a hurt heart that is seeking "never to be hurt again". Like, in the midst of a broken heart or love life disappointment says to self, "My oh my...I can't wait to do THIS again. Weeee". No one. Hence the "I'm never going to date a _______ again".
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Posted by SirHorns
The whole "I'll never date/deal with/talk to" a person with (insert any of the 12 signs here)" mentality.

I mean it's like avoiding every Taurus cause Hilter was one.
Or since ONE sign acted like a spoiled brat, all of the ones sharing the same sign with them must pay the price for their behavior.

Now I can understand logic like:

I'm not looking to date water signs, since I'm not very emotional or emotive, so since they thrive off that, a relationship would likely be difficult and might not last.
OR
I can't date cardinal signs, since they're too restless and have a habit of being controlling one way or another.

While there are water suns that aren't emotionally expressive and dominant in relationships and Cardinals that don't boss anyone around, the general trend for their groups is stated above, so that's why they'll treat people falling into those categories like that.

It's still prejudiced, but honestly since humans are flawed, I'll let it slid. Since they would be stopping possibly great relationships and friends with people that happen to fall into the sign or mode the person doesn't like.

Can someone help me see this in any other ways?
It's hurt talking. I think that people seek easy solutions to complex problems. So, saying or relegating yourself to avoiding people with similar traits in general seems like a logical solution to a hurt heart that is seeking "never to be hurt again". Like, in the midst of a broken heart or love life disappointment says to self, "My oh my...I can't wait to do THIS again. Weeee". No one. Hence the "I'm never going to date a _______ again".
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I was tying to say that NO ONE says the statement above to self during romantic disappointment. So sorry...I'm like, multi-tasking to the fullest. lol
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Posted by Hemispheres
I don't quite understand why adults insist on watching Anime then getting butthurt when someones like "You still watch cartoon?".

Meh, to each their own.
Taste. It's a matter of taste and then ignorance on the person comparing western cartoons to anime.
Different cultures. Plus adults aren't supposed to watch cartoons for some reason.
I say fuck everyone's opinion and watch what you like.
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Ive always said this is the bad thing about astrology .
Your subconscious plays a part when you meet someobody with the same sign as another ex - someone who mightve betrayed yoi etc. Its not intentionally done, but Im guilty lf doing this for sure.
For example, I wouldnt want to date another Aries cause my crazy controling ex was one. On the other hand, i had a crush on an Aqua and since then every Aqua person seems to amaze/ intrigue me . Literally running out of options here lol
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Posted by Hemispheres
I don't quite understand why adults insist on watching Anime then getting butthurt when someones like "You still watch cartoon?".

Meh, to each their own.
Taste. It's a matter of taste and then ignorance on the person comparing western cartoons to anime. I say fuck everyone's opinion and watch what you like.
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Proved me right, lmao.
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I don't quite understand why adults insist on watching Anime then getting butthurt when someones like "You still watch cartoon?".

Meh, to each their own.
Taste. It's a matter of taste and then ignorance on the person comparing western cartoons to anime. I say fuck everyone's opinion and watch what you like.
Proved me right, lmao.
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Had to give it to you. You're welcome.
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Posted by theDomino
It amazes me how easily offended most people are. You'd think people be able to self evaluate themselves. "Sags are such cheaters," should have the person question themselves. If it doesn't apply to them, don't get your panties in a knot. Most people on here feel like they have something to prove, and it is disgusting.
I say it's like defending a friend or family member. Logic matters less and bonds and emotions rule.