I think that my pastor's wife is Jealous of me!

Every Sunday at church, she stares at me with a look that is not so friendly.I have to admit, that maybe she caught me staring at her husband, a little too long, because he is very handsome, but I would never do anything to jeopardize someone's marriage...This Sunday during Communion, I walked up to the altar, and she shot me a dirty look,then quickly looked over at her husband, to see if he was looking at me. And yes, I dress appropriately for church...

smh

I think that my pastor's wife is Jealous of me!

Pffft.

I doubt it.

Posted by Easha23000us
Every Sunday at church, she stares at me with a look that is not so friendly.I have to admit, that maybe she caught me staring at her husband, a little too long, because he is very handsome, but I would never do anything to jeopardize someone's marriage...This Sunday during Communion, I walked up to the altar, and she shot me a dirty look,then quickly looked over at her husband, to see if he was looking at me. And yes, I dress appropriately for church...

Hypocrisy at its very best hahaha.Ask her bout her take on James 3:16, she'll get the point...lol.

LOL at your comments! But seriously, This woman does not like me for no reason. Therefore, I assume that she is jealous. And now for the fun part....@Montgomery, What do you doubt. That she is jealous...Suppose that I am right? That is my initial gut feeling anyway, but for you to say that you doubt it, leads me to believe that one, you do not like what I represent( LIKE I GIVE A BUTTER!!!)Two,you would go against any and everything that I post, again(LIKE I GIVE A BUTTER!) And lastly,This is where my women's intuition kicks in about you.Maybe, you are JEALOUS of me as well, (BUTTER HAPPENS!) I am noticing a lot of men becoming increasingly jealous of women nowadays, Do you fit that discription MONTGOMERY? and yes, I do not Doubt that...LOL! I am going to kill three birds with one stone,using my archer skills...@Arietteheart2, she could be jealous of a number of things...as I have said, I have never done anything personally to her, But I do look better... Last but certainly is least, Rabbit...No squirrels, Just dead rabid rabbits, that I slayed with my archer skills..I put them on top of my head,as to warn the others,to proceed with caution...Because I play Dirty!!!!!

Thank you Enoch...You are the only one who is taking my post serious, and not blaming me for what I had witnessed.

Maybe she just wanted to readjust your jaw.

Thanks Auriqua!!! Wow.. I have never felt so honored!!!(In my sarcastic voice....)And Jizz, I wish that she or anybody else, would grow some testosterone, and come at me like that, I would mop the pulpit with that a@@!!! Yup I said it!!!! Leo moon activated!!!!

LMAO.

@TwirlingStrawberry...I did not post this, to appear to be bragging. I did it, to see if anyone had similar experiences, and to get advice. I will not apologize for anything that I post,because my intentions are not to hurt anybody.I can post about anything, but certain people would try to use it against me. I already heard about what is being said about me on here. One of my friends on here told me everything, because someone sent her a message, to ignore anything that I post, and she came back and told me... This is how some people on DXP net operate, but that is not going to deter me from posting any and everything that I want to...With that being said......

Okie dokie artichokie

Posted by Easha23000us
LOL at your comments! But seriously, This woman does not like me for no reason. Therefore, I assume that she is jealous. And now for the fun part....@Montgomery, What do you doubt. That she is jealous...Suppose that I am right? That is my initial gut feeling anyway, but for you to say that you doubt it, leads me to believe that one, you do not like what I represent( LIKE I GIVE A BUTTER!!!)Two,you would go against any and everything that I post, again(LIKE I GIVE A BUTTER!) And lastly,This is where my women's intuition kicks in about you.Maybe, you are JEALOUS of me as well, (BUTTER HAPPENS!) I am noticing a lot of men becoming increasingly jealous of women nowadays, Do you fit that discription MONTGOMERY? and yes, I do not Doubt that...LOL! I am going to kill three birds with one stone,using my archer skills...@Arietteheart2, she could be jealous of a number of things...as I have said, I have never done anything personally to her, But I do look better... Last but certainly is least, Rabbit...No squirrels, Just dead rabid rabbits, that I slayed with my archer skills..I put them on top of my head,as to warn the others,to proceed with caution...Because I play Dirty!!!!!

...I think the only men likely to touch you are men in white coats.

Posted by Easha23000us
Thanks Auriqua!!! Wow.. I have never felt so honored!!!(In my sarcastic voice....)And Jizz, I wish that she or anybody else, would grow some testosterone, and come at me like that, I would mop the pulpit with that a@@!!! Yup I said it!!!! Leo moon activated!!!!

^ some more delusions

1st it was scorpios & now it's some church lady? You seriously need to get over yourself. The ego on this one. Wow.

Delusional people are very interesting to watch. I knew this one girl, unfortunately I didn't get to know her sun sign...the friendship was short lived. Anyway, she thought that some guy that owned a bookshop was inlove with her. Mind you, she was married. She told me all these stories about this guy, but the message I got from them was totally different from hers. Example, the bookshop moved to a new location & it's logical for the owner to leave his new address at the window for his customers. Now this girl was convinced that he left it ONLY for her. She even went there to surprise him & returned broken hearted. She refused to tell me what took place over there & I didn't push because she was starting to scare me as well. Very mentally unsound this girl was. It made zero sense to me until I came across an article about a disorder called Erotomania. I'm convinced that's what she had. 100%

@Easha:

Coming from a fellow Sag/w a Leo moon...turn the situation away from yourself for a second and think about it logically.

Put yourself in her shoes for a moment. She is the wife of an attractive man who has the power to persuade many people and is in a position of authority. There are many women who would do anything...and I mean anything to get that. Then, a wife knows her husband...or at least what will cause him to stray. That is the part you don't know. What he has put her through. It may not be jealousy, but simply her being cautious because she's seen how women approach him. See it from her side. She is human like any of us and has to manage the situation the best she can. I'm not excusing any bad behavior on her part, but you shouldn't be so critical...not until you've been in her place...in a similar situation

Posted by beautifulsoul74
@Easha:

Coming from a fellow Sag/w a Leo moon...turn the situation away from yourself for a second and think about it logically.

Put yourself in her shoes for a moment. She is the wife of an attractive man who has the power to persuade many people and is in a position of authority. There are many women who would do anything...and I mean anything to get that. Then, a wife knows her husband...or at least what will cause him to stray. That is the part you don't know. What he has put her through. It may not be jealousy, but simply her being cautious because she's seen how women approach him. See it from her side. She is human like any of us and has to manage the situation the best she can. I'm not excusing any bad behavior on her part, but you shouldn't be so critical...not until you've been in her place...in a similar situation

This was all refreshingly true. In alot of churches I've been to, women indeed tend to idealize, if not idolize, the pastors. The patriarchal and hierarchical structure of most church communities almost guarantees it. And their flaws are seldom on display unless they are the humble/self-deprecating sort. Further, alot of the male pastors move with a type of freedom not afforded their spouse, which can arouse suspicion in itself. Some counsel women on a one-on-one basis for instance, while their wives OTOH are seldom alone with men in the congregation.

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
@Easha:

Coming from a fellow Sag/w a Leo moon...turn the situation away from yourself for a second and think about it logically.

Put yourself in her shoes for a moment. She is the wife of an attractive man who has the power to persuade many people and is in a position of authority. There are many women who would do anything...and I mean anything to get that. Then, a wife knows her husband...or at least what will cause him to stray. That is the part you don't know. What he has put her through. It may not be jealousy, but simply her being cautious because she's seen how women approach him. See it from her side. She is human like any of us and has to manage the situation the best she can. I'm not excusing any bad behavior on her part, but you shouldn't be so critical...not until you've been in her place...in a similar situation

This was all refreshingly true. In alot of churches I've been to, women indeed tend to idealize, if not idolize, the pastors. The patriarchal and hierarchical structure of most church communities almost guarantees it. And their flaws are seldom on display unless they are the humble/self-deprecating sort. Further, alot of the male pastors move with a type of freedom not afforded their spouse, which can arouse suspicion in itself. Some counsel women on a one-on-one basis for instance, while their wives OTOH are seldom alone with men in the congregation.

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Completely agree as I've been privileged to witness those events behind closed door. I have a family member who has always been in leadership in the few churches we have attended in the past. Some pastors took advantage, others didn't but the temptation is always there and its because the pastor sincerely(or other motives) tries to help.

@EAsha2300us did you just create a forum declaring scorpio women are jealous of you? Really? Trolling is on high.

http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/validation.asp
^^^^

Easha,

I remember It was Saggitarius Lady says Scorpio women are jealous of her. lol .



I think you dressed up more revealing.. lol. That's why this Pastor wife in your church staring at you

madly..

Posted by Easha23000us
LOL at your comments! But seriously, This woman does not like me for no reason. Therefore, I assume that she is jealous. And now for the fun part....@Montgomery, What do you doubt. That she is jealous...Suppose that I am right? That is my initial gut feeling anyway, but for you to say that you doubt it, leads me to believe that one, you do not like what I represent( LIKE I GIVE A BUTTER!!!)Two,you would go against any and everything that I post, again(LIKE I GIVE A BUTTER!) And lastly,This is where my women's intuition kicks in about you.Maybe, you are JEALOUS of me as well, (BUTTER HAPPENS!) I am noticing a lot of men becoming increasingly jealous of women nowadays, Do you fit that discription MONTGOMERY? and yes, I do not Doubt that...LOL! I am going to kill three birds with one stone,using my archer skills...@Arietteheart2, she could be jealous of a number of things...as I have said, I have never done anything personally to her, But I do look better... Last but certainly is least, Rabbit...No squirrels, Just dead rabid rabbits, that I slayed with my archer skills..I put them on top of my head,as to warn the others,to proceed with caution...Because I play Dirty!!!!!

You already told us it was your fault.

Posted by Easha23000us
I have to admit, that maybe she caught me staring at her husband, a little too long, because he is very handsome...

Posted by Easha23000us
But I do look better...

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lol

You think that's power, but it's childish.

Thank you, to all who commented....Those who enlightened me,and to those who entertained me...All are appreciated.....Montgomery, I have to target you first, since day one, you have always offered up negativity, even though, I was just posting for humor...You thought that by you trolling my posts, that I was going to fold? You thought wrong...I actually enjoy the verbal sparring. Thanks.But to answer your post, Yes, I do admit to looking at her husband, but it was not to the extent of disrespect, and it only happened once. But I do notice him watching me alot...And even if I was the type to disrespect, she should behave with such a decorum, that it should not bother her, because they have a church and a reputation to uphold....And for humor, Maybe she is a Scorpio!!!LOL!

@Munchkin, Who told you to think....It hurts when you try right? Sorry, some people is just not cut out for that type of thing..Anyhoo, you can always kick rocks...

@Watercup....What can I say. on one hand, you seem to be offering sound advice, on the other, you are throwing shade.I am going to take it for what it is really worth, and comment anyway. You are telling me to get over myself, because I witnessed the pastor's wife, giving me dirty looks. Now let me tell you, there are other women there too. So why single me out. Is it my Ego? I don't think so...I am sure that she has seen her husband checking me out, probably other women as well, but why do I only feel her scorn? And for all whom seem to find my posts ridiculously delusional, why bother to comment?Or better yet, Why even come in here? I do appreciate each and every posts that I receive, even if it is directed at me in a negative fashion. but, I am just saying that if something is so ridiculous to you, then why would you want to be a part of it? Trick question I know.......

Posted by Easha23000us
@Munchkin, Who told you to think....It hurts when you try right? Sorry, some people is just not cut out for that type of thing..Anyhoo, you can always kick rocks...

speaking from experience?

just curious, are you sure you were singled out? Did you observe her behavior towards other girls/women there? Are you certain this is all not part of your imagination?

Yes...I am sure I was singled out...Everyone else who was with me received smiles, Me,not so much...Even my brother noticed it too.@Cakereshkigal,Both LOL!!!And I donot need to tell my fellow DXP netters that, It is common sense, Dontcha think;0

Posted by Easha23000us
Thank you, to all who commented....Those who enlightened me,and to those who entertained me...All are appreciated.....Montgomery, I have to target you first, since day one, you have always offered up negativity, even though, I was just posting for humor...You thought that by you trolling my posts, that I was going to fold? You thought wrong...I actually enjoy the verbal sparring. Thanks.But to answer your post, Yes, I do admit to looking at her husband, but it was not to the extent of disrespect, and it only happened once. But I do notice him watching me alot...And even if I was the type to disrespect, she should behave with such a decorum, that it should not bother her, because they have a church and a reputation to uphold....And for humor, Maybe she is a Scorpio!!!LOL!

You think she should tolerate your disrespect (and everyone else's), and be a doormat because she is the pastor's wife?

Like I said-- childish.

@Montgomery, did you eat too many paint chips as a child? Because clearly something is not right with your thinking....How is it disrespectful to look at someone? Clearly she is not secure within her persons, to the extent that she has to silently warn me to keep away from her husband...Not my problem.Seems pretty childish on her part......@Cakereshkigal,Some people do it by hand, some people do it by mouth....Does that satisfy your perverted mind? Now,run along and use your imagination...LOL!!!Don't forget to wash your hands afterwards!!!BWAHAHAHAHA!!!!

Posted by Easha23000us
@Montgomery, did you eat too many paint chips as a child? Because clearly something is not right with your thinking....How is it disrespectful to look at someone? Clearly she is not secure within her persons, to the extent that she has to silently warn me to keep away from her husband...Not my problem....

No one's buying that.

It isn't your problem-- but you're still crying about it five pages later.

Why don't you try out dxpnet's Butthurt-Validation Forum.

Right up your alley.

@Munchkin....Of course I am speaking from experience...I was once young,but, I grew up and learned alot in the process...You on the other hand, Not so much..Now run along,...Your rocks are waiting for you...

Posted by Easha23000us
@Montgomery, did you eat too many paint chips as a child? Because clearly something is not right with your thinking....How is it disrespectful to look at someone? Clearly she is not secure within her persons, to the extent that she has to silently warn me to keep away from her husband...Not my problem.Seems pretty childish on her part......@Cakereshkigal,Some people do it by hand, some people do it by mouth....Does that satisfy your perverted mind? Now,run along and use your imagination...LOL!!!Don't forget to wash your hands afterwards!!!BWAHAHAHAHA!!!!

It's entirely possible that she is simply praying for you. You need Jesus.

@Munchkin...You state that she maybe praying for me, all the while giving me dirty looks...You sound real stupid....SMH.

@ Montgomery, Who cares what you or any one else on here is or is not buying...It is not my perogative to make you understand where I am coming from...You damn right if I post something, about what has happened to me, and markers such as yourself come and try to point their fingers in my direction, I have a right to defend myself...You don't like it, who gives a butter!!I will rant 100 pages in if I want to..So, do yourself a favor, and block me, or just stop responding to my posts, that seems to be so much beneath you nowadays...Lol!

lol

Look:

Posted by Easha23000us
... I did not post this, to appear to be bragging. I did it, to see if anyone had similar experiences, and to get advice.

Stop staring at other women's husbands.

The dirty looks will go away... *snaps fingers*

Like that.

Posted by Montgomery
lol

Look:

Posted by Easha23000us
... I did not post this, to appear to be bragging. I did it, to see if anyone had similar experiences, and to get advice.

Stop staring at other women's husbands.

The dirty looks will go away... *snaps fingers*

Like that.

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*adds a neck roll* THIS! And it's NOT about jealousy, you're at church for God's sake. Stare at the picture of Jesus or something, but not at men you find handsome...do that at the club. The pastor's wife must have sensed that you're not there for the sermon but to give googly eyes to her good looking hubby. Again, not jealousy but maybe shock at your nerve. You're NOT that special that everybody is going to have pangs of jealousy at your presence. You wish! You may have SOME assets that you believe are the cause of all this envy, but so do millions of other people. Shocked? I say it's all in your head, the jealousy, or your attitude is causing all of it & because you have grandiose thinking, you believe they must be jealous of you. Really now? Well, I doubt it!

Posted by size zero superhero

WWJD?

LMAO. I'm sure her Jesus, the one in her head, is telling her all kinds of things. Like the pastor fancies her, etc. Highly delusional this one is.

Posted by Whatu
3way.

The father, the son & the holly spirit?

@ Watercup....Stare at a picture, as I am walking towards the altar? WoW! Where does DXP find these imbeciles....I noticed her husband, wearing a nice robe, and I thought that he looked very handsome in it..It was not a look of I want to treetrunk him,but a look of he looks really nice in that robe. But umm the very first time that I went to that church, the pastor kept staring at me...So what, that is my fault? I do not think so...Now for the neck roll...Don't hate on me because I command attention, everywhere that I go...LOL!!!You want to join in on the insults, Come on..Otherwise, Don't come for me unless I send for you!

@Montgomery....No. I do not need to stop looking at any one, I can look anywhere that I please. Churches are full of women who look at men, that do not mean that they are having lusty thoughts. You can say whatever about me,but the fact remains that you were not there to witness the whole debacle, so you are only offering your opinion, and not a fact....And FYI, When I was married, women looked at my ex, but I was confident in myself not to become angry at them. I actually considered it a compliment...

@ Sizezero superhero...Please go back and reread my post in it's entirety....Do not pick and choose my statements, and add your own twists to it....I was walking up to the altar, during communion..Of course I am going to be looking at the pastor..Not sitting and listening to the sermon...Gosh, some people are functioning on empty......

@Size zero superhero...You went back to reread my post, therefore realizing the errors of your stupid comments, said nothing else about it.I guess you could not find any loop holes, and decided to go the ignorant route once again....Oh,and believe me, once I need a refill in that department, I know exactly where to go and get it. Church is not even an option...Thirsty Churchie??Is that the best that you can do!!LOL!!!!

Also, Size hero super zero....You are a Sag moon...So what does that say about you?

@Superzero...Umm No...I won't ever get over myself, cause I am that chick....Don't hate me, congratulate me...You did reread my post...That is why you are not commenting on it anymore, because I shut your butter down...LOL.And you say that everyone is over me, everyone, with the exception of you..Wait a minute...You are a zero...ok nevermind....

Super zero, If Iam borderline braindead, what does that makes you? Clearly Iam the smarter of the two, and you just can't handle it...Typing these ghetto colloquialism to spite the fact that you have nothing logical to say, hence getting off topic, which is why we are here in the first place...But I cannot expect a peabrained moron such as your self, to comprehend the logic of the fabulousness which is me....

lol, look what I just stumbled across this morning .... I was in the mood for a good laugh.


I'm particularly amused at how the OP thinks she's outsmarted people .... just too funny

Posted by Easha23000us
Super zero, If Iam borderline braindead, what does that makes you? Clearly Iam the smarter of the two, and you just can't handle it...Typing these ghetto colloquialism to spite the fact that you have nothing logical to say, hence getting off topic, which is why we are here in the first place...But I cannot expect a peabrained moron such as your self, to comprehend the logic of the fabulousness which is me....

LOL

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@Munchkin...You state that she maybe praying for me, all the while giving me dirty looks...You sound real stupid....SMH.

how is that mutually exclusive? maybe she was praying for u to go away

Well all I wanna know is...since it's most befitting

Are you a DonumDei too?