Damnata
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Modalities..
FIXED
Here, just in case you want to make your dictionary a little bigger, are four new words for stubborn. "Taurus", "Leo", "Scorpio" and "Aquarius".
These are what astrologers call the Fixed signs. All four of them have the capacity to dig in their heels and wait for what they want... no matter how long it takes. Their memories are as long as their hearts are passionate. They are, between them, the zodiac's most unashamedly sexiest signs.
What? Even the Aquarians, who are allegedly just walking computers? Yup. Especially them. They may dwell in the realm of the mind but they think, a lot, about the pleasures of the body. And this is one area where thought alone most definitely does not satisfy them.
And as for the other three... well, I'm sorry but this space is too small to waste in a description of the obvious. Besides which, this is a website for all the family. One word is all we need bother with. And that word is 'appetite'. As in voracious, relentless and insatiable.
You disagree? Well maybe that's because you happen to know one who is currently on a fast. Sometimes, ravenous people get past the point of hunger. Once they do, they can abstain for ages. Especially if they happen to be born under one of the fixed, unyielding sign. Sooner or later though, the desire to get physical will resurface... with a vengeance. But in their time, not anyone else's.
And here endeth the first lesson about how to win the heart of one of these people. You give them time. Lots of it. Months if need be. Years if you really care. And you also give them that time if you want the relationship to last. You think of the long term. You make it abundantly clear that you mean business - and you prove it, by offering your trust. You don't use words - for words are cheap, as every Taurean, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarian knows.
You don't make dramatic gestures. Indeed, you keep drama to a minimum. For even if they appear to thrive on it, they secretly find it threatening. What they want is stability, plain and simple. For while some people consider continuity to be just a little boring, these deeply loyal people crave it like a drug. And rightly so, for they deserve it.
Here, just in case you want to make your dictionary a little bigger, are four new words for stubborn. "Taurus", "Leo", "Scorpio" and "Aquarius".
These are what astrologers call the Fixed signs. All four of them have the capacity to dig in their heels and wait for what they want... no matter how long it takes. Their memories are as long as their hearts are passionate. They are, between them, the zodiac's most unashamedly sexiest signs.
What? Even the Aquarians, who are allegedly just walking computers? Yup. Especially them. They may dwell in the realm of the mind but they think, a lot, about the pleasures of the body. And this is one area where thought alone most definitely does not satisfy them.
And as for the other three... well, I'm sorry but this space is too small to waste in a description of the obvious. Besides which, this is a website for all the family. One word is all we need bother with. And that word is 'appetite'. As in voracious, relentless and insatiable.
You disagree? Well maybe that's because you happen to know one who is currently on a fast. Sometimes, ravenous people get past the point of hunger. Once they do, they can abstain for ages. Especially if they happen to be born under one of the fixed, unyielding sign. Sooner or later though, the desire to get physical will resurface... with a vengeance. But in their time, not anyone else's.
And here endeth the first lesson about how to win the heart of one of these people. You give them time. Lots of it. Months if need be. Years if you really care. And you also give them that time if you want the relationship to last. You think of the long term. You make it abundantly clear that you mean business - and you prove it, by offering your trust. You don't use words - for words are cheap, as every Taurean, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarian knows.
You don't make dramatic gestures. Indeed, you keep drama to a minimum. For even if they appear to thrive on it, they secretly find it threatening. What they want is stability, plain and simple. For while some people consider continuity to be just a little boring, these deeply loyal people crave it like a drug. And rightly so, for they deserve it.
MUTABLE
Roll up, roll up. The show is about to start.
The Circus of Mutable Miracles presents the incredible juggling Geminis. There is nothing on earth that they cannot throw... and catch.
Don't miss the great Piscean Escapologists. No matter how you try to tie them up or pin them down, they will wriggle free in moments.
Hurry, ladies and gentlemen, to see the fearless Sagittarians, leaping bravely from the flying trapeze.
Plus, of course, our amazing team of Virgo high wire walkers.
All four belong to an ancient astrological category known as 'the mutable signs.' All four, different though they may be in many ways, share a love of challenge... and change. It has to be difficult or they don't want to do it. It must be different or they'd really rather not bother. That goes for all aspects of life... but especially for the way they behave in relationships.
They are looking for tricks that are hard to learn. They hate to feel that they know all there is to know about anything or anyone. And, they hate arguments. Yes, even the Geminis. Debates, they love. Heated discussions too. But conflict? No thank you. For all four of these signs, life is just too short to be wasted in a test of strength. It's far more fun to co-operate. Which also explains why mutable signs find it hard to be alone for long.
They don't necessarily have to be in partnership. Indeed, most find the notion of conventional marriage rather intimidating. To make it attractive, it needs to involve someone who doesn't make them feel too needed or hemmed in.
Thus, if you want a mutable person to fall for you, you should never let them know that you have fallen for them. And, if you want to stay with a Gemini, a Virgo, a Sagittarian or a Piscean for life... you should focus on your own love of life, not of them. Put fun first. Be light, be nimble and above all, be adaptable.
That applies especially in the department that some might coyly call 'horizontal and nocturnal'. Don't ever let it be just either of these two things. Be adventurous and spontaneous (but still, somewhat sensitive) in your choice of time and place. And don't ever let your love life fall into a routine. And remember, the way to awaken their heart (plus most other parts of their anatomy) is through their sense of humour.
Roll up, roll up. The show is about to start.
The Circus of Mutable Miracles presents the incredible juggling Geminis. There is nothing on earth that they cannot throw... and catch.
Don't miss the great Piscean Escapologists. No matter how you try to tie them up or pin them down, they will wriggle free in moments.
Hurry, ladies and gentlemen, to see the fearless Sagittarians, leaping bravely from the flying trapeze.
Plus, of course, our amazing team of Virgo high wire walkers.
All four belong to an ancient astrological category known as 'the mutable signs.' All four, different though they may be in many ways, share a love of challenge... and change. It has to be difficult or they don't want to do it. It must be different or they'd really rather not bother. That goes for all aspects of life... but especially for the way they behave in relationships.
They are looking for tricks that are hard to learn. They hate to feel that they know all there is to know about anything or anyone. And, they hate arguments. Yes, even the Geminis. Debates, they love. Heated discussions too. But conflict? No thank you. For all four of these signs, life is just too short to be wasted in a test of strength. It's far more fun to co-operate. Which also explains why mutable signs find it hard to be alone for long.
They don't necessarily have to be in partnership. Indeed, most find the notion of conventional marriage rather intimidating. To make it attractive, it needs to involve someone who doesn't make them feel too needed or hemmed in.
Thus, if you want a mutable person to fall for you, you should never let them know that you have fallen for them. And, if you want to stay with a Gemini, a Virgo, a Sagittarian or a Piscean for life... you should focus on your own love of life, not of them. Put fun first. Be light, be nimble and above all, be adaptable.
That applies especially in the department that some might coyly call 'horizontal and nocturnal'. Don't ever let it be just either of these two things. Be adventurous and spontaneous (but still, somewhat sensitive) in your choice of time and place. And don't ever let your love life fall into a routine. And remember, the way to awaken their heart (plus most other parts of their anatomy) is through their sense of humour.
Nicely put! what's your source, virgal?
Cardinals ftw
The site doesn't look like much, I found it randomly
Source: http://www.cainer.com/yearahead/love.html
Source: http://www.cainer.com/yearahead/love.html
Posted by tizianiPosted by DamnataPosted by tiziani
All three in one.
Stop being a Libra about it.
I'm being serious though. These values are so general. I can get all of them out of life on my own for starters.
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I see what you're doing. "I can get all of them out of life on my own". Yes, Cardinal one 😛
I loled like crazy at the Mutable Circus 🙂)
Give them a run for their money. ~Yes, in a healthy and friendly way of course! Someone who can match me or is better than me is a huge turn on. 😄
Other good ways to keep a Cardinal lover happy involve changing your mind, several times a day, about what you are intending to do. ~NO! This will annoy me tremendously!
And daring them to stick to a commitment. ~That merits a free pass to the door.
Other good ways to keep a Cardinal lover happy involve changing your mind, several times a day, about what you are intending to do. ~NO! This will annoy me tremendously!
And daring them to stick to a commitment. ~That merits a free pass to the door.
We are, Clyde..we are. 😄
Wait, you're the venusian, I'm the martian.
I rephrase "We are, Bonnie..we are"
I rephrase "We are, Bonnie..we are"
Posted by AesmaDaeva
Other good ways to keep a Cardinal lover happy involve changing your mind, several times a day, about what you are intending to do. ~NO! This will annoy me tremendously!
See you say this, and all the Cardinals I dated said it also. But they found my mutable ways refreshing. The key is not to flake when they have a bad day or do it constantly.
Posted by AesmaDaeva
And daring them to stick to a commitment. ~That merits a free pass to the door.
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I am in agreement here
I find it funny because with me they are off the bat instantly.
"I AM CARDINAL HEAR ME ROAR"
"They should make pills for your delusion"
Instant love
"I AM CARDINAL HEAR ME ROAR"
"They should make pills for your delusion"
Instant love
Whenever a Cardinal uses "annoying" to describe me I know they like me lol.
If they go "OMG YOU'RE SO ANNOYING", I almost take it as a marriage proposal.
If they go "OMG YOU'RE SO ANNOYING", I almost take it as a marriage proposal.
Posted by Damnata
Whenever a Cardinal uses "annoying" to describe me I know they like me lol.
If they go "OMG YOU'RE SO ANNOYING", I almost take it as a marriage proposal.
OMG! That is top secret! WHY————??
I love mutables! They're awesome partners in crime! 😄 This makes me miss my virgo friend. 😢
Posted by AesmaDaevaPosted by Damnata
Whenever a Cardinal uses "annoying" to describe me I know they like me lol.
If they go "OMG YOU'RE SO ANNOYING", I almost take it as a marriage proposal.
OMG! That is top secret! WHY————??click to expand
"I'm not a playa, I just crush on Cardinals a lot"
lol
"You are BEYOND annoying" = "Til death do us part"
Ssshhh! I won't say more! They will know! That's not good! 😛
ahahaha, yes.
that works like crazy with fixed Tiz. Or Virgos.
"I'm not controlling, I'm just leaving you enough rope to strangle yourself with"
that works like crazy with fixed Tiz. Or Virgos.
"I'm not controlling, I'm just leaving you enough rope to strangle yourself with"
Posted by Damnata
Wait, you're the venusian, I'm the martian.
I rephrase "We are, Bonnie..we are"
Nice 😆
Posted by MissFisk
Libras don't pursue shit... maybe a designer sample sale.
What do you mean Taurus and Libra Men don't pursue? They do..by standing there..and there..and there.
They pursue with double entendres for you to be ROAR! and go get them.
I had a Libra Guy tell me once out of the blue "You have amazing charisma". I was sure in his mind that would've followed up with me jumping on him and dragging him to the city hall for a marriage certificate. It didn't play like that, though.
I am shy, demure and submissive.
Posted by MissFisk
Too subtle for my taste. Half the time I don't know if they're actually interested or just being friendly because they treat everyone else (romantic interests and female friends) pretty much the same. My ass is too lazy to decipher which category I fall in. Meh.
It's that exact attitude that gets Libra Men hot and bothered for Pisces chicks.
As a Cardinal with strong mutable placements, there is great conflict in getting the things I want.
Wait or chase, wait, chase or move one.
Wait or chase, wait, chase or move one.
Thank God for my Cardinal Mars!!!!
Posted by LunarMaiden
As a Cardinal with strong mutable placements, there is great conflict in getting the things I want.
Wait or chase, wait, chase or move one.
I'm mutable with cardinal moon, venus, mars.
Life ain't easy.
Posted by scorchedearth
the fixed description sucked. 😐
Really? I found it to be the most even balanced one. 😐
Posted by scorchedearth
i have more cardinal in my chart than both of you, and i'm a fixed sign. a taurus at that.
though i will say i'd trade my aries stellium today for something else. it gets tiring chasing all the time.
What's your cardinal percentage in Pullen?
moon in aries, venus in aries, mars in aries, neptune in capricorn.
43%
the sag stellium is in the 1st house so all my sag planets turn more aries => i think that's why i rank so much as a cardinal in pullen because in my mind i am WAY more mutable.
43%
the sag stellium is in the 1st house so all my sag planets turn more aries => i think that's why i rank so much as a cardinal in pullen because in my mind i am WAY more mutable.
venus in cancer*
Posted by scorchedearth
stubborn and sexually insatiable. YAWN. that was like the whole description. 😐
I didn't read it like that at all.
I read the appetite part as hedonistic, not necessarily about sex.
Yes, I know. It just annoys me that I have only one planet in a fixed sign 😐
Yeah, the Venus in Aries typo..*imagining myself with moon/venus/mars in aries*
*shudders*
Yeah, the Venus in Aries typo..*imagining myself with moon/venus/mars in aries*
*shudders*
Posted by scorchedearthPosted by Damnata
Yes, I know. It just annoys me that I have only one planet in a fixed sign 😐
Yeah, the Venus in Aries typo..*imagining myself with moon/venus/mars in aries*
*shudders*
what's wrong with having an aries stellium? 😐 😭
and being fixed heavy isn't so great. it annoys mutable signs a lot. they just run around you in circles and try to get you to change everything about you.click to expand
It's annoying to me because I already have the Aries energy with the moon/mars. Didn't need the stellium to go Aries also 😐
Posted by PVandJelleh
I agree with description for mutable except this part:
"Thus, if you want a mutable person to fall for you, you should never let them know that you have fallen for them."
I don't agree with this either. I read it in a different way though..as being more important in the manner you approach us.
You can't tell me someone would come at you on the first date and propose and you wouldn't run a mile PVAF
😆
But yeah, I don't agree with it.
Posted by PVandJellehPosted by LunarMaiden
Thank God for my Cardinal Mars!!!!
Meh. I don't know. Mine is just okay. 😢 I think Libra Mars makes me way to diplomatic. Kind of wish I had a more aggressive mars.
And my cardinal stellium doesn't make me chase. But then again it is in Libra, so I just drop the bait and wait patiently for my prey to come to me.click to expand
this made me think of spiders. lol
Posted by strudel
fixed should just be with fixed!
Depends. I'm with an Aqua lady right now - never dull moment with this one, lol! Our relations are good. For now.
Posted by scorchedearth
if you ever go into the part of the internet that has taurus sun descriptions you'll see a bunch that say "stubborn" "hedonistic" "insatiable" etc in them. so reading another description that didn't add anything new wasn't exactly the highlight of my day.
though i find it odd AQUARIUS is listed as those things. stubborn? a bit. but not to the same degree as taurus. and describing aquas as hedonistic or insatiable is head tilt worthy at best.
i found the mutable one amusing though. 😛
jesus christ, you are a stubborn mofo when it comes to astrology even if it's right smack in your face. what IF aqua has a dominant earth, no strong air 11th house? In the next line....you go and put, what is wrong with aries stellium?? so of course we have to pay attention to your Aries stellium because naturally they are important to you too! right? i have taurus in my chart as well, and i'm a stubborn mofo too. You, are UNLIKE other taurus, as other taurus are UNLIKE you.
jus' saying.... stubborn mofo? yup. Check. Stubborn mofo. The only thing i dont like is INDULGING in food. I hate that cause it makes me gain weight and lose weight fast. it's so bad!! i have a sweet tooth like no other.
besides, you're probably more stubborn than any of us put together, because you have stellium scorpio on top of that!! so you win.
Posted by scorchedearth
yes i do have a scorpio stellium. aqua rising. also 7 planets in fixed houses. 😄
i didn't mean to offend you by saying aquas were less stubborn than taureans. lol
lol
well when you say it like that....
it's hard not to be all sweet to a stellium aries/scorpio w/ fixed houses who is a stubborn mofo 😆
Posted by LadyOfRebirth
According to Pullen I'm more cardinal/fixed (34.5/34% ) than mutable (31.5% )😆
The cardinal energy in me is strong though.
Hey there my twin from the other side of the pond 😆
lol @ the aqua and the taurus bitching over stubborness, as if that's a good trait 😆
Posted by scorchedearthPosted by Damnata
lol @ the aqua and the taurus bitching over stubborness, as if that's a good trait 😆
it's the thing that taurus is most known for. that's our trait like scorpios are "intense." of course i'm going to defend that shit. it's all we've got! 😆click to expand
Actually when I think stubborn, I think about all the fixed signs.
Taurus I associate with "Sensual" since for me they literally draw on the essence of the Earth and the senses.
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CARDINAL
What do the signs of Aries, Libra, Cancer and Capricorn have in common?
Cheek. And plenty of it. An ability to be absolutely outrageous. A sense of daring that takes some people's breath away.
Really. It's true. Although they don't of course, all make this instantly visible. Shy Cancerians, for example, only tend to show you this side of their personality when they are feeling very at home in your company.
Reserved, responsible Capricorns will insist that such remarks are wrong. Until, that is, they think that nobody is looking. And then, they will break every one of those barriers that they are allegedly so keen to put up.
Librans don't even try to pretend that they are sensible. They glow with pride when they are accused of acting naughtily, provocatively or even somewhat dangerously.
And people born under Aries? Well, we all know that will say anything, do anything or try anything - provided it has an edge of electric excitement to offer.
Behind the veil, all these four signs are driven by one basic impulse; the urge to conquer! They may do it actively (like hunters, pursuing their quarry) or they may do it passively (like anglers, baiting a hook) but they all thrive on the thrill of victory and they seek this, day and night!
In answer then, to the question 'How do you seduce someone born under a cardinal sign?' the answer is, you don't! You smile encouragingly, you play a little hard to get... and you let them set out to get you.
There is though, another question to which the answer may not be so obvious. How do you keep the attentive interest of such a person? You challenge them to a battle, that's how. Not a physical fight of course (or at least not unless it is a gentle, friendly one, entered into by mutual prior agreement). But a mental struggle or an emotional wrestling match. Give them a run for their money. Let them know that you intend to challenge their authority. Wind them up - at least to a point. And don't feel that this is bad. It is what turns them on... at least in moderation.
Other good ways to keep a Cardinal lover happy involve changing your mind, several times a day, about what you are intending to do. And daring them to stick to a commitment. And forgiving them when they bite off more than they can chew... time and time again!