Our astrology seems great, but... hmmm—

Hi everyone... I met a guy in June and we hit it off right away, I'll call him "S". It's like we became best friends in the matter of an hour... He lives on the west coast and I live back east, although I am out there often. It's been completely platonic so far, even when we've slept in the same bed. We've talked about how we are both gunshy about starting a new relationship but we've been developing a really awesome friendship. Friends constantly ask: is that your girlfriend? is that your boyfriend? Our connection seems obvious to me and to other people who have commented, and I'm pretty sure to him as well. We just have this "thing", deeply connected where we have so much fun together, then talk about deep heavy stuff, then back to laughing... We have a ton in common, more than I've expected to find in a man.

I'm a Virgo sun on the cusp of Leo, with a Cancer moon and Aquarius rising, Mars in Taurus and Venus in Libra. He is a Libra sun, Pisces moon with Mars in Libra and Venus in Virgo. When I read our charts I almost fell over: His Venus in my sun and my Venus in his sun, plus our water moons...

I'm not stressing this at all... I care about him very much and would rather see this friendship through forever than risk losing him through a failed relationship. I'm wondering if you see anything in our charts that should stop us from moving forward with a relationship, or if we have enough good stuff going on to take the leap of faith... when we're ready.

I'm just looking for insight on this... should I keep on keeping on like it is? Reminding myself that we're just friends and that's cool, or I don't know? Do something to get him to step up? I'm reading about how both Libra and Pisces are indecisive signs.

Thanks for your thoughts...

S Aspect k Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Venus 0.11 314
Sun Conjunction Pluto 4.09 85
Moon Square Saturn 2.38 -100
Moon Opposition Pluto 3.24 -46
Mercury Sextile Sun 1.19 161
Mercury Opposition Mars 1.47 -93
Mercury Square Jupiter 1.13 -141
Mercury Trine Saturn 0.38 86
Mars Conjunction Venus 4.41 95
Mars Trine Ascendant 0.23 82
Saturn Conjunction Moon 0.23 171
Saturn Square Uranus 2.21 -65
Neptune Sextile Venus 0.18 68
Neptune Conjunction Neptune 2.39 65
Pluto Conjunction Venus 0.18 111
Pluto Trine Jupiter 2.35 34
Pluto Conjunction Pluto 3.40 51
Ascendant Opposition Moon 3.52 -62
1323 -507 816