Muatbles...question for you all...

How appealing do you find a person who's the following:
-A Do-er, instigator, a person who starts things, protects, etc..
or
A predictable, yet stable person who can be stubborn yet loyal.

Posted by Imarollin
I like both.

I'm a mutable sun yet cardinal dominate. But now by much. I'm equal across the board.

I prefer a doer.

How attractive are fixed signs (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius) to you?

Posted by Vixen2

Posted by SirHorns
How appealing do you find a person who's the following:
-A Do-er, instigator, a person who starts things, protects, etc..
or
A predictable, yet stable person who can be stubborn yet loyal.

Ӣ a leader, provider, determined, predictable, stable, stubborn, loyal

highly desireable

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Leo vs Taurus, which in your experience have you've found more appealing to you?
(If you've run into any...if not, please feel free to share which if any, signs attract you in general.)

Posted by wecarealot
I'm cardinal and mutable dominant and drawn to people with fixed energy--most likely because I only have one fixed planet (Pluto) so it's my least integrated energy.

Pluto in Scorpio?

Hmm, are Scorpios the most attractive or repulsive fixed sign to you, in your own personal experience?

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Posted by Imarollin
I like both.

I'm a mutable sun yet cardinal dominate. But now by much. I'm equal across the board.

I prefer a doer.

How attractive are fixed signs (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius) to you?

I fell almost for a Taurus sun, moon, merc, mars and Venus 7th house man. What turned me off was his obsession with money and status. I had to end it.

Aquas? No idea.

Scorpios? No idea. But my Venus is Scorpio 4th house conjunct Pluto - no afflictions. It could work. But I haven't met one I like but I'm also a homebody.

I'd be more inclined to caps, libras.

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If you don't mind me asking and feel comfortable sharing, could you tell us what you find appealing about the Leebs and Goats (Libras and Capricorns) you've run into/seen?

Posted by Vanish
The better choice is fixed, but I always go for cardinal. Never going to learn.

What is it about the cardinal folk that keeps pulling you back in?

Posted by PV&Jellay

Posted by SirHorns
How appealing do you find a person who's the following:
-A Do-er, instigator, a person who starts things, protects, etc..
or
A predictable, yet stable person who can be stubborn yet loyal.

Why can't I have both? 😢

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*Is both*

Well if I said a Cardinal/Fixed hybrid, it'd look like I'm hunting for mutable women~
I am genuinely curious which traits mutable-dominate people find appealing/attractive.

Posted by Imarollin

Of course.

Caps?

Their diligence. Their steadfast knowing of who they are and what they are about. They seem to find a niche and go with it. That's beautiful to me.

Leebs... They are another species to me. They appreciate what is good and what is pleasurable. They can make any situation okay. Fun and comfort are their middle name. I've never met a Libra I didn't like. Behind their self conscious behaviors there is a beauty of all. I relate to it on a soul level. It's emotional.

I see. Thank you for sharing. I can see what you mean, Libras just seem to use that Venusian energy to great effect. I find it admirable about them.
Don't tell them though. They might think I'm flirting with them~ 😏

Posted by MlleFisk

Posted by SirHorns
How attractive are fixed signs (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius) to you?

On a scale of 1 (least desirable) - 10 (most desirable)...

Taurus... 6
Leo... 8
Scorpio... -25
Aquarius... 9

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You have a personal planet in Aqua? Venus?

...did Rein turn you off that much? *Snickers*

Posted by Vixen2

between Leo and Taurus...I would pick Taurus.
I've been attracted to Scorpio, Capricorn and Virgo men

Virgo? Care to indulge me a bit more and share what about Virgo appeals to you over the other mutable signs?

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Posted by PV&Jellay
Fixed- I find comfort in predictability. I'm security focused. I'm more at ease with a person who is stable and consistent because believe it or not, I can be a firecracker. I laugh at stubborness, you just gotta use reverse psycology with stubborn people. They need to feel like everything they do is there decision. I won't give up my secrets, but I can alwayd make them do what i want. 😉

Damn that's cold

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She's Venusian~
Don't let that agreeableness and kindness fool you, she'll direct to where she wants you to go and you'd love every minute of it.

Posted by Imarollin

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by Imarollin

Of course.

Caps?

Their diligence. Their steadfast knowing of who they are and what they are about. They seem to find a niche and go with it. That's beautiful to me.

Leebs... They are another species to me. They appreciate what is good and what is pleasurable. They can make any situation okay. Fun and comfort are their middle name. I've never met a Libra I didn't like. Behind their self conscious behaviors there is a beauty of all. I relate to it on a soul level. It's emotional.

I see. Thank you for sharing. I can see what you mean, Libras just seem to use that Venusian energy to great effect. I find it admirable about them.
Don't tell them though. They might think I'm flirting with them~ 😏

Ha-ha. They would appreciate it none the less I suppose.

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They would...but think of how it'd look to the other boards.
DXP NEWS: Random Cap tries to sweet talk his way into the Libra board's boudoir~ More at 11!

Posted by LadyOfRebirth
I prefer mutable men (Virgo and Pisces) the most.

Something about their kindness just does it for me.

Is it their humility as well? I'd appreciate it if you shared what about those two mutable signs makes them more appealing.

You already said kindness, is that the major thing?

Posted by Sc4rl3t

Posted by SirHorns
How appealing do you find a person who's the following:
-A Do-er, instigator, a person who starts things, protects, etc..
or
A predictable, yet stable person who can be stubborn yet loyal.

A combo of both, but no overbearing features.

Example if too stubborn, and I'll have to be the one always adjusting, my patience will tire out and it won't be enjoyable anymore.
If too much of an instigator, I will feel my space and privacy is being taken from me.

Like that~

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So a hybrid basically?

Your moon is either Leo or Aries, since both those signs get paired off with Diamonds.
Though your Sun...*thinks*

Posted by Sc4rl3t

Posted by SirHorns

Posted by Sc4rl3t

Posted by SirHorns
How appealing do you find a person who's the following:
-A Do-er, instigator, a person who starts things, protects, etc..
or
A predictable, yet stable person who can be stubborn yet loyal.

A combo of both, but no overbearing features.

Example if too stubborn, and I'll have to be the one always adjusting, my patience will tire out and it won't be enjoyable anymore.
If too much of an instigator, I will feel my space and privacy is being taken from me.

Like that~

So a hybrid basically?

Your moon is either Leo or Aries, since both those signs get paired off with Diamonds.
Though your Sun...*thinks*

YUSH a hybrid.

And my Moon is an Aries~

*Waits for you to guess the Sun*

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Really, Scorpio?
...do you have a Sagittarius Venus?

When I read your question, I wanted to say the first one. Maybe because my Jupiter is in Aries and I am Mars dominant. I love actions and I dream of a Gemini who finally takes my hand and go around the world with me.

But in reality: my friends are mostly Aquas. two Scorpios. one Leo. one Libra. several mutables.
The Aquas are all a good mixed of elments and signs.

I'm really balanced with Cardnial, Mutable, Fixed in My chart.

Mutable is a little less prominent.

The idea of Cardnial is hot. A woman who is a go getter. ( I don't like the word instigate though)

If things can be done practically I am all ears but if it's just hopes and wishes leave that for someone else.

I hate the idea of fixed energy but I'm more attracted to fixed BC my Venus and Mars are fixed.

Leos ,Tauruses, and Scorps are sexy I don't care about their diva personalities.

Fixed signs present a challlenge--a wall and I enjoy the challenge

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Posted by Imarollin
I like both.

I'm a mutable sun yet cardinal dominate. But now by much. I'm equal across the board.

I prefer a doer.

How attractive are fixed signs (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius) to you?

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+1 and that's how mutables approach it...we seek both. Lol no such things as one or the other to us

I'm not sure I particularly like either.
First option sounds like there will be lots of arguments and second option sounds boring + could be arguments.
Now, a do-er who is not argumentative would be alright.

I actually have only had long-term relationships with fixed signs (dominant fixed, at that). They didn't really fit in to either of those categories.

I like a doer. I have the least amount of cardinal energy in my chart so a doer will get things done. I like the ambition.

Id rather date another mutable sign.

Omg both cardinal and fixed signs give me acid reflux.

If i had to pick, im staying single

I'd take an Aqua or Leo as a Fixed

Aries and maybe a Capricorn as a Cardinal

Fellow Sagittarians and Gemini as Mutables.

If the question is between cardinal and fixed people..

*looks at her dating past*

It would seem it's cardinal ftw.

Posted by MlleFisk

Posted by SirHorns
How attractive are fixed signs (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius) to you?

On a scale of 1 (least desirable) - 10 (most desirable)...

Taurus... 6
Leo... 8
Scorpio... -25
Aquarius... 9

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Agreed