Pisces-Virgo help!

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Posted by Feistypisces777
Guys, it's fcking happening again. I don't want this. I'm so mad with myself right now. How do I stop my feelings from forming? I'm falling for a Virgo...



HAHAHAHA first, let me laugh this out!! HAHAHAHA 😆 😆 😆 😆 😆 😆 😆 😆 😆 oooh boy! Been there, done that. They're a good match if you can handle their slight clingyness. It's cute but it gets DAMN annoying. They do have an asshole inside of them, so really keep yourself detached, you never know when they might turn completely insensitive, not because they're insensitive, but because they aren't in tune with other people's feelings, they don't realize what they do hurts you. And they may do things not to hurt you and end up hurting you worst then they tried to prevent. It's all about staying detached in this one hun!
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Enjoy it! Why would you want to stop this?


Because virgos are evil!
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AMEN!! I dated a Virgo and he was so freaking clingy that I would sometimes not call him (it ended up long distance) for a day or two...well one day he decided he didn't 'feel' it anymore...wanna kno what he did? He completely ignored me. Never answered, and when he did, he would be silent...just stay silent....it wasn't until a half year later he apologized. He said he didn't want to hurt my feelings, and didn't want me to kill myself or something (hahha kill myself over him?) and he was too scared to break up with me. Virgo men are fucking cowards. I hate them with a HUGE passion. I meet a hot guy who flirts with me, find out he's a Virgo, buh, bye. HUGE turn off.
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You are a Pisces. Aren't you suppose to be above this kind of fear? Just enjoy it. No matter what happen, the experience will only add to your illumination self.


Above? Pisces are probably the most fearful when it comes down to relationship stuff. We don't have pinchers. Nor a stinger. We're defenseless, so we go into one completely vulnerable. Ouch. We get hurt, we run away, but the lucky of us do have a defensive side...maybe some scorpio or cancer, maybe sine leo or Aries. But the rest. Nahhh we scared as hell.
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Enjoy it! Why would you want to stop this?


Because virgos are evil!


AMEN!! I dated a Virgo and he was so freaking clingy that I would sometimes not call him (it ended up long distance) for a day or two...well one day he decided he didn't 'feel' it anymore...wanna kno what he did? He completely ignored me. Never answered, and when he did, he would be silent...just stay silent....it wasn't until a half year later he apologized. He said he didn't want to hurt my feelings, and didn't want me to kill myself or something (hahha kill myself over him?) and he was too scared to break up with me. Virgo men are fucking cowards. I hate them with a HUGE passion. I meet a hot guy who flirts with me, find out he's a Virgo, buh, bye. HUGE turn off.
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oh so you think its CLINGY to want a call or text in a 2 DAY PERIOD? *facefukingpalm*. Earth signs like to keep things tight and this is why he dumped you, the unreliable wishy-washy bullshyt that cant be counted on. We need a ROCK! Ughh i love picses, i want to marry one for God sakes but this same shyt broke up my last relationship with a picses too. It's NOT clingy to want communication! This is my ONLY pet peave with picses but it's huge.
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Enjoy it! Why would you want to stop this?


Because virgos are evil!


AMEN!! I dated a Virgo and he was so freaking clingy that I would sometimes not call him (it ended up long distance) for a day or two...well one day he decided he didn't 'feel' it anymore...wanna kno what he did? He completely ignored me. Never answered, and when he did, he would be silent...just stay silent....it wasn't until a half year later he apologized. He said he didn't want to hurt my feelings, and didn't want me to kill myself or something (hahha kill myself over him?) and he was too scared to break up with me. Virgo men are fucking cowards. I hate them with a HUGE passion. I meet a hot guy who flirts with me, find out he's a Virgo, buh, bye. HUGE turn off.



oh so you think its CLINGY to want a call or text in a 2 DAY PERIOD? *facefukingpalm*. Earth signs like to keep things tight and this is why he dumped you, the unreliable wishy-washy bullshyt that cant be counted on. We need a ROCK! Ughh i love picses, i want to marry one for God sakes but this same shyt broke up my last relationship with a picses too. It's NOT clingy to want communication! This is my ONLY pet peave with picses but it's huge.
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No, calling isn't clingy. I was the one who called. He was CONSTANTLY texting me "I love you" every five freaking minutes. Then he'd ask if I still like him, and blah blah blah..TOOO MUCH!!! I couldn't stand it. He couldn't call, so I did. If I chose once or twice every two days once and a while, so be it, he was annoying, I still had feelings for him, but what he did was much worst than what I did.
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I can't fall for a Virgo. Seriously I thought he was a Taurus. I was fine. Now that I know he's a Virgo... I don't want anything to do with him. He will never match me emotionally. There is so much sexual tension when I'm around him and everyone at my work knows and even teases us about it. Seriously can't tell you how mad at myself I am... I need to shut my feelings down and ignore him.
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To supermissman^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

Ok here is an earth sign 101 education for you. We are very insecure at the beginning of a relationship, ESPECIALLY if we REALLY like someone. we need A LOT of reassurance and once we feel secure then we chill out. Whatever you were doing was obviously not making him feel secure about the relationship so he had to constantly seek it out from you. He got tired or trying to get blood from a turnip so he bounced. Its too bad you couldn't budge too because virgos are wonderful lovers. Its your loss.
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Posted by Feistypisces777
I can't fall for a Virgo. Seriously I thought he was a Taurus. I was fine. Now that I know he's a Virgo... I don't want anything to do with him. He will never match me emotionally. There is so much sexual tension when I'm around him and everyone at my work knows and even teases us about it. Seriously can't tell you how mad at myself I am... I need to shut my feelings down and ignore him.




. Now that I know he's a Virgo... I don't want anything to do with him.

^^^ wtf? there's a lot more to someone than their sun sign.
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@everyone
Here's my situation with Virgo:
-when we are on the same page, everything is great. But Virgo dances from one end to another, constantly emitting this nervous energy that makes me go crazy. You can't be happy with the way things are for like 2 minutes? Everything is all about change. I do change, I go with the vibe that I feel, but your change goes with your "sense of logic" and sometimes I appreciate it. But sometimes things aren't about logic, or getting things right. It's about the way things *feel.* and sometimes the way things feel will not affect your conscious and make you stay up at night- like half the Virgo I know...
-I know that sometimes the way Virgo acts comes off as insensitive, but when I try and subtly tell you that you are acting cold/harsh I don't want you to tell me that I'm too sensitive or that I'm "dumb" for feeling a certain way. All that does is break down my self esteem and close off to you and mirror your behaviour to the point that I don't want to talk to you for a few hours or days.
-Virgo/pisces is hard man. I don't want to be in the same predicament once again.

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I investigate anything I put my beliefs into. I started wondering why some people seem to have the same characteristics when they are born at certain times of the year, like birthdays and stuff. This is even before I knew about astrology bc wher I grew up, I wasn't allowed to talk about those things. I do think that some things in life revolve around some cycle. Cat lady astrology? Maybe. But from my observances? I feel like it has some truth to it and I could go on and on about it for days, but the real deal is... This relationship is going to suck the life out of me. I can't deal with it. And I don't want to affect work by dying in a corner bc of a broken heart. I should just quit now before I get too ahead of myself and end up making a really bad mistake.
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I can't fall for a Virgo. Seriously I thought he was a Taurus. I was fine. Now that I know he's a Virgo... I don't want anything to do with him. He will never match me emotionally. There is so much sexual tension when I'm around him and everyone at my work knows and even teases us about it. Seriously can't tell you how mad at myself I am... I need to shut my feelings down and ignore him.


This is really about a virgo who hurt you/let you down. If you tar all other virgos with the same brush, you are letting the man who hurt you, continue to hurt you. And until you move beyond the pain & fear over being hurt again, you will be weighted down by the baggage that may well drag down any relationship.
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@Este Not one "guy." Several people who all happen to be Virgo have affected me negatively. Physical and emotional abuse is definitely an excuse to run in the opposite direction. But I think I understand your point. Thank you.
@tiziani thank you ~ I know what you are saying. I know that it's something I'll regret. I know I can control my emotions and I'm going to try to ignore it... In the end it will just hurt me. Thank you for your analogy I know you can relate and I appreciate it.
@damnata whatever
@curiousram I love you aries people~ I'm happy to see you on one of my posts(:
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Posted by Feistypisces777
I can't fall for a Virgo. Seriously I thought he was a Taurus. I was fine. Now that I know he's a Virgo... I don't want anything to do with him. He will never match me emotionally. There is so much sexual tension when I'm around him and everyone at my work knows and even teases us about it. Seriously can't tell you how mad at myself I am... I need to shut my feelings down and ignore him.



Learn to do it automatically. The second I hear the words "I'm a virgo" BAM goodbye emotions, I get COMPLELTEY turned off. And I may still be somewhat interested in them ,but u have to let it go. They're no good for us pisces. They make wonderful friends, but beyond that is a big NO NO!
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Posted by Feistypisces777
I can't fall for a Virgo. Seriously I thought he was a Taurus. I was fine. Now that I know he's a Virgo... I don't want anything to do with him. He will never match me emotionally. There is so much sexual tension when I'm around him and everyone at my work knows and even teases us about it. Seriously can't tell you how mad at myself I am... I need to shut my feelings down and ignore him.



So if he didn't tell you his sign ,you will fall for him? i MEAN LOL hahahaah
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@supermissgirl ahh I know ): thank you fellow fish ~
@ virgodragirl thank you. What you say is so true! If you guys can do that, so can we!
@loveseeker "lol" such WOW - his moon and Venus could be different? But at the end of the day his sun is still Virgo- his general make up. I don't end up well with Virgo. I'm trying to prevent myself from getting emotionally involved in something that's no bueno.
@konichua- I know if can work, but I don't want to be a martyr ):
@damnata looks like none of your business? What exactly do you want to know?
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@Damnata: You have a way to make me curious. So why is it impossible for her to have her Venus in Virgo? All I know about this Virgo Venus is that I have it which makes me very calculated in love. Also, I think it would be a good placement for a Pisces sun who doesn't have any defense mechanism in love (based on what someone said in this topic).



Venus placement can be no more than 45 degrees away from Sun placement.
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In more common terms..to avoid Tiz turning into a Virgo with all this degree talk 😛..

You can have your Venus in your own sign or 2 signs before your sign and 2 signs after

For Virgos: Venus in cancer, leo, virgo, libra, scorpio. Nothing else.

In her case: Venus in capricorn, aquarius, pisces, aries, taurus
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You are a Pisces. Aren't you suppose to be above this kind of fear? Just enjoy it. No matter what happen, the experience will only add to your illumination self.


Above? Pisces are probably the most fearful when it comes down to relationship stuff. We don't have pinchers. Nor a stinger. We're defenseless, so we go into one completely vulnerable. Ouch. We get hurt, we run away, but the lucky of us do have a defensive side...maybe some scorpio or cancer, maybe sine leo or Aries. But the rest. Nahhh we scared as hell.



Speak for yourself.
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Her response might only apply to those underage Pisces. Once mature, Pisces' illumination/shine can overshadow any of the dark horses of the zodiac. Can't you tell I just have a first encounter with a Pisces girl? 😄
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Well for all those curious, my Venus is not Virgo- my moon is Virgo. And my rising is cap. That's the only placements I've given on this site...

- I've decided to leave it alone. He already decided to start playing games and I don't need that above everything else I have in my life going on, including my second job. He had a chance and he pretty much blew it away the past two days.
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@CC exactly my point.
@HeartofaLion - I never turned him down. We haven't addressed any formalities. Which is why this is all confusing. Idk why he treats me like I belong to him if he doesn't address anything? I'm not going to force it out of him. And he shouldn't get mad out of thin air instead of talking to me about what's on his mind. It's so frustrating.!!!..!.